A CALL TO BELOVEDNESS
“You are My
Beloved”
RECOLLECTION
RECOLLECTION
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-past experiences,
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-relationships with
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3 Rs in Order to Have a Fruitful
Recollection
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- Their impact/effects in us
- The insights, realizations &
lessons that we gained from
those experiences
eflect
- set new direction ,
- define our personal vision;
- what we intend to achieve
in life
- commit ourselves to the
needed shift in orientation,
lifestyle, attitudes, values
that we think had not been
helpful in our journey
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Expectation Check
OBJECTIVES
The Grade 9 students of Xavier Academy will be able to:
• to recall and experience God's
belovedness
• like Mary, model of prayer and
discipleship,y we identify waht God is
calling us to do in building the
Kingdom of God.
P R A Y E R
• OPENING SONG : LEAD ME LORD
• OPENING PRAYER : FACILITATOR
• GOSPEL READING : JOHN 15:4-9
• REFLECTION
• CLOSING SONG : YOU ARE MINE
...Our Father...
...Hail Mary...
...Glory be...
Reflection...
PLENARY SHARING
SESSION 1
SESSION 1
Activity #1:
“PHOTO LANGUAGE”
SESSION 1 (Journal Writing)
1. What picture did you pick?
2. Why did you pick/choose that
picture?
3. What is it in the picture that
speaks to you about yourself or
your current situation in life?
• 1. CHOOSE A LEADER AND A
SECRETARY.
• 2. START AND END YOUR
SHARING WITH A PRAYER.
• 3. 10 MINUTES FOR
SHARING
BIG GROUP SHARING
2 MINUTES PER GROUP
“This is my own dear Son, with whom I am
pleased”
Matthew 3:17, 4:1
“You are my own dear Son. I am pleased with
you”
Mark 1:11
“This is my own dear Son - Listen to Him”
Mark 9:7
Let God's voice reverberate in your heart,
“YOU ARE MY
BELOVED”
When was the time somebody told you:
• GOD is offering us a relationship.
You are my beloved, allow me to
love you and make you my
beloved.
• Our relationships are all about
that, giving each other the gift of
our belovedness.
YOU ARE NOT GOOD
ENOUGH
YOU ARE UGLY
YOU ARE IMPOSSIBLE
YOU ARE DESPICABLE
YOU ARE NOBODY
“The greatest trap in our
life is not success,
populaity, or power, but
SELF-REJECTION.”
LIFE OF THE BELOVED
Henri Nouwen
SELF-REJECTION
• greatest enemy of spiritual life
• despises the sacred voice that
calls us the “BELOVED”.
“My soul is restless until it rests in you”
St. Augustine
TAKEN
BLESSED
BROKEN
GIVEN
TAKEN
We have to acknowledge that
we are so loved by God.
Another word for “take” is
“choose”.
As Children of God, we are
God's chosen ones.
BLESSED
As God's beloved, we are
blessed.
If God is blessing us, then God
speaks well, feels well, thinks
well of us.
We need to affirm one another,
thus bless one another.
BLESSED
We can bless one another in two
ways:
•PRAYER
•CULTIVATION OF
PRESENCE
BROKEN
All of us has an experience of
brokeness.
Our brokeness is ours.
HOwever, our brokenness
touch our uniqueness and our
most intimate individuality.
BROKEN
How can we respond to our
brokenness?
•FACE IT SQUARELY AND
BEFRIEND IT.
•PUT OUR BROKENNESS
UNDER THE BLESSING.
We are blessed and broken so as
to be given.
Our chosen, blessed, and
broken have their fulfillment in
being given.
How can we be a Given
Beloved?
•OUR LIFE IS THE GREATEST
GIFT WE CAN GIVE
•WE ARE CALLED TO OFFER
OURSELVES NOT ONLY
LIFE BUT IN DEATH AS
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SESSION 2
SESSION 2
Activity #1:
“ROADMAP OF FAITH”
• 1. CHOOSE A LEADER AND A
SECRETARY.
• 2. START AND END YOUR
SHARING WITH A PRAYER.
• 3. 10 MINUTES FOR
SHARING
BIG GROUP SHARING
2 MINUTES PER GROUP
MY MOTHER ONLY
HAD ONE EYE
My mom only had one eye. I hated her…
She was such an embarrassment. She
cooked for students and teachers to support
the family.
There was this one day during elementary
school where my mom came to say hello to
me. I was so embarrassed.
How could she do this to me? I ignored her,
threw her a hateful look and ran out. The
next day at school one of my classmates
said, “EEEE, your mom only has one eye!”
I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my
mom to just disappear. I confronted her that
day and said, “If you’re only gonna make me
a laughing stock, why don’t you just die?”
My mom did not respond… I didn’t even
stop to think for a second about what I had
said, because I was full of anger. I was
oblivious to her feelings.
I wanted out of that house, and have nothing
to do with her. So I studied real hard, got a
chance to go abroad to study.
Then, I got married. I bought a house of my
own. I had kids of my own. I was happy with
my life, my kids and the comforts. Then one
day, my Mother came to visit me. She hadn’t
seen me in years and she didn’t even meet
her grandchildren.
When she stood by the door, my children
laughed at her, and I yelled at her for coming
over uninvited. I screamed at her, “How dare
you come to my house and scare my
children! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!”
And to this, my mother quietly answered,
“Oh, I’m so sorry. I may have gotten the
wrong address.” – and she disappeared out
of sight.
One day, a letter regarding a school reunion
came to my house. So I lied to my wife that I
was going on a business trip. After the
reunion, I went to the old shack just out of
curiosity.
My neighbors said that she died. I did not
shed a single tear. They handed me a letter
that she had wanted me to have.
“My dearest son,
I think of you all the time. I’m sorry that I
came to your house and scared your
children.
I was so glad when I heard you were coming
for the reunion. But I may not be able to
even get out of bed to see you. I’m sorry that
I was a constant embarrassment to you
when you were growing up.
You see……..when you were very little, you
got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a
mother, I couldn’t stand watching you having
to grow up with one eye. So I gave you
mine.
I was so proud of my son who was seeing a
whole new world for me, in my place, with
that eye.
With all my love to you,
Your mother.”
MARY AS...
1. God's Beloved
• Chosen - Lk. 1:35-37
• Blessed - Lk. 1:31-33
• Broken - Lk. 1:34-35
• Given - Lk. 1:38-40
Like Mary, you are chosen for “something”.
In saying “YES”, Mary risks her whole self.
Have you somehow identified what God is
caling you to do in building the Kingdom of
God?
MARY AS...
2. Living as God's Beloved
Mary by loving Jesus lived a
daily life of being God's beloved.
• How are you called to live your being
God's beloved everyday?
• How do you love Jesus in your daily
life?
• Does your life speaks of God's love
for you and for others?
G10 Recollection
G10 Recollection