Body Language
Territory
Intimate Social
Touching Close 4-7 feet
6-18” Far - 7-12 feet
Personal Public
Close -1½ to 2½ Close - 12-25
feet feet
Far - 2½ to 4 ½ Far - 25 feet or
feet greater
Different Cultures ...
A crowded
culture
What is your
private space?
Masks We Wear
Public Masks
Public smile
Clothing
Putting on my face
Can we drop masks?
Jockeying for position
Inclusive - Non-inclusive
How you include/exclude others in a group
Parallel body positions
Will position yourselves to relate to each
other
Side by side are neutral
Facing means people are involved
Looking
How long do you look?
Staring- dehumanizes or challenges
Glances - socially acceptable timing
Appraisal- may indicate interest
Do you look when you talk?
Do you look when you listen?
Actions Speak Louder than Words?
‘What often happens in any relationship is that
language itself becomes a mask and a means of
clouding and confusing the relationship. If the
spoken language is stripped away and the only
communication left is body language, the truth
will find some way of poling through”.
Misinterpretation = Trouble??
Lost business
Lack of interest
US tendency to get right to
business
Troubles
Conflict with
peers
• Different work styles
• Wrong assumptions
Trouble….
Misinterpretation
of signals
Can be BIG
trouble
Legal trouble
Do you know how
to act or are you
confused?