Module 1:
Knowing and Understanding
Oneself during Middle and
Late Adolescence
SELF – CONCEPT
Ideal self- is the self that you aspire
to be.
Actual self- is one that you actually
see. It is the self that has
characteristics that you were
nurture or, in some cases, born to
have.
Self-concept-refers to your
awareness of yourself.
Self- knowledge is derived from
the social interactions that provide
insight into how others react to
you.
Self- image- is it the actual self
PERSONAL EFFECTIVENESS
Personal effectiveness – making use of all
personal resources – talents, skills, energy
and time to achieve life goals.
Innate characteristics:
Talent – must be used in a particular subject
area
Experiences
Knowledge – for setting goals, defining an action
plan to achieve them and risk assessment
Skills vs Habit
SKILLS THAT INCREASE EFFICIENCY OF A PERSON
Determination – developed through self –
discipline
Self – confidence – positive attitude and beliefs
Persistence - developed through self – discipline
Managing stress –
Problem-solving skills – adopting new ways and
new experiences
Creativity –
Generating ideas -
BUILD YOUR OWN STRENGHTS AND WORK ON WEAKNESSES
Based on the video presentation
earlier, what are your insights?
Do you think the video has an
impact on you as a person?
Is it necessary to know our strengths
and weaknesses?
BUILD YOUR OWN STRENGHTS AND WORK ON WEAKNESSES
Weaknesses, if not recognized and not given
appropriate attention or remedy will result to
failures.
Example of weaknesses:
Communication, personality and ability
Strengths, you build your name and popularity.
Example of strengths:
Talents, abilities
Make a way on developing your weaknesses into
strengths. Get appropriate remedies to your perceived
weakness.
YOU NEED TO TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR FUTURE
Three kinds of people in the world:
MOVIEGOER –Pathetic, miserable
people in the world
No control of their lives –
except to comment about it
ACTOR – happy, have some sense of
control
SCRIPTWRITER – has enormous control
on life, have positive outlook
YOU NEED TO TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR FUTURE
“ Make the movie
beautiful, and I will
give you all that
you need for
success.”
– God, the producer