SK Conditioning Program
Thanks for ordering Sexual Key.
We begin with an important question:
Are you already at least moderately familiar with NLP-based seduction—specifically, have you
used it to successfully arouse at least a few women? If so, then you’re ready to combine Sexual
Key’s model of the female mind with your existing skills, so as to become even more effective.
In that case, you can, if you wish, disregard the section below. You can go ahead and plunge right
into SK—just be sure to email if you ever have a question or experience a difficulty.
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ON THE OTHER HAND, IF YOU ARE NEW TO NLP-BASED SEDUCTION…
Realize that Sexual Key can usher you into a very different world.
There are, however, DANGERS:
a) information overload: Sexual Key presents a great deal of information, and particularly
for users who enjoy theory, there can be the temptation to treat SK as something to think
about, rather than do. It’s important to focus on a single chunk at a time; apply it with
women; demonstrate to yourself that it works; then move on to the next chunk. When
you’ve mastered several chunks, the broad outlines will become much clearer and more
coherent. It would be easy to read the book or listen to the CDs and assume you know
SK—but you won’t know it. Put simply, you can only understand SK by using it.
b) underconfidence and tentativeness: Until you prove to yourself that most women, most of
the time, do operate in the way that we describe, your attempts at using SK will be
underconfident, and women will distrust you based on that underconfident “vibe”.
c) feedback vacuum: Whenever you have a question or difficulty, call or email me.
Seriously. Sexual Key is a product designed to change your life—if a customer is
unwilling to pick up the phone and write an email when he encounters an obstacle, he’s
obviously not serious about getting results. Again—got a question? Contact me.
So that you can avoid those pitfalls, and you can experience a process of ever-increasing success,
I strongly suggest that you hold off on using the techniques in SK until you go through the series
of steps I’m about to present.
Think of it this way: you have just purchased a hang-glider. You are presently standing at the
base of a mountain; you cannot jump off or glide downward, and your hang-glider is useless from
where you presently are. Can you glide by just jumping up, or by standing where you are and
studying your hang-glider intently? No—either of these approaches would only frustrate you.
Instead, you should begin to scale the mountain, so that you can get to a cliff from which you can
use your hang-glider effectively.
The steps below will get you up to the top of the mountain, so you can put your new hang-glider
to use.
Diligently, persistently practice the skills and distinctions you are about to learn, and you will
very likely emerge from your Sexual Key training looking at women in a new and much more
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enjoyable way, knowing that you possess extraordinary powers of arousal and seduction, and
using them for your pleasure and the pleasure of the women you meet.
OBSERVATION PHASE
Step 1.
Listen to women, especially when they are talking only to other women. Watch Oprah-like
daytime shows, if you have a chance. Listen to pop songs, and flip through women’s magazines.
In doing so, notice how often words like these are used:
balance centeredness connection trust communication discovery wonder love relationship
energy understanding excitement passion learning growth peace serenity tranquility
stillness freedom intensity recognition realization knowing being depth surrender desire
transcendence fulfillment yearning fascination understanding curiosity groundedness
Also, notice how often words like these are used:
clear crisp soft smooth hard rough warm silky cool
Don’t focus on whether the opinion a woman expresses matches yours; focus on the words she
uses to present her opinion, and how they differ from the words you’d use.
Notice that the safer and more relaxed a woman feels, the more likely she is to use words like
those above; the more stressful her situation, the more likely she is to talk the way you do.
For now, just focus on noticing these differences. Focus on this one task until you experience five
occasions when you think, while watching and listening to women, or while reading what a
woman has written, “I wouldn’t have said what she just did” or “I wouldn’t describe things the
way she did” or “I don’t look at things the way she does.”
Notice how consistent this different mode of expression is among women.
This first step is designed to help you prove to yourself that women don’t just look and behave
differently, they actually think differently. Until you prove this to yourself, any attempt to use SK
will likely be undercut by your own uncertainty—uncertainty women will sense from your voice
and body language.
After you’ve successfully noticed this different mode of expression at least five times, proceed to
Step Two.
P.S.: Be patient, and please complete each step in sequence. Rushing into this is like teaching
your nephew to drive stick by putting him in the middle of the Indy 500.
You’ve got a race car—driving it slowly at first will give you a solid grip on how exactly it
works. By taking the time to get a solid understanding of how it works, you’ll soon be able to roar
past everyone else, dodging in and out, weaving through the other cars, in ways that other drivers
just can’t match.
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Step 2.
Listen to the themes women use in speech and writing—particularly when they are with other
women, or in a very relaxed and safe environment. Notice how often what they say has to do with
a) FEELINGS and EMOTIONS; b) LEARNING or REALIZING; and c) CONNECTING to or
TAKING INSIDE some feeling or idea.
Once you have had five distinct experiences of noticing this, proceed to Step Three.
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Step 3.
Notice how women prefer to communicate INDIRECTLY, through hints and clues, and notice
how often they express dissatisfaction with a man’s ability to understand their feelings.
Once you have had five distinct experiences of noticing these themes, proceed to Step Four.
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ACTION PHASE
Step 4.
Communicate interest in a woman INDIRECTLY, as if you’re a little boy trying to get a little girl
engaged by pulling on her pig-tails.
a) Smiling and with a friendly, relaxed air, approach a woman.
b) Continue smiling, and playfully criticize her—that is, tease her.
c) Disregard whatever she says, and again playfully criticize her.
d) Act as if something MORE interesting than her has suddenly caught your interest.
Immediately turn from her and approach the new person or thing.
e) After a few minutes, return to the first woman, and repeat a).
As you do this repeatedly, you will often find her becoming intrigued with you—she won’t
necessarily consciously like you, but you’ll probably sense that her defenses are coming down
and she’s becoming more emotionally engaged.
When you feel that she’s intrigued or engaged, say goodbye, walk away and forget her.
After you’ve done this successfully, intrigue two other women through the same technique:
approaching/mocking/leaving/approaching.
After you’ve successfully done this three times, begin using Sexual Key. And remember to call or
email should you EVER have a question or difficulty.
Have fun!
JD
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415-948-0700