Divorce by Mutual Consent Explained
Divorce by Mutual Consent Explained
Under Section 13-B, a decree of divorce may b e obtained b y both the parties to a
mamage together whether the marriage was solemnized before or after the commencement
separately for a period o f one year or more, that they have not been able t o live together
of the Mariage Laws (Amendment) Act, 1976 on the ground that they have ben living
and that they have agreed that the marriage should be dissolved
O n the motion of both the parties made not earlier than six months after the date of
the presentation of petition and not later than eighteen months after that date the court
shall if satisfied after hearing the parties and making such enquiries as the Court may
think fit, that a marriage has been solemnized and the statements contained therein are
Act. 1976, the expression "living in adultery" has been dispensed with. It has been
replaced by a simple requirement o f adultery, that is, voluntary sexual intercourse with
any person other than his or her spouse. Now, even a single act of adultery may
constitute a sufficient ground for obtaining divorce. This amendment was necessary
because under the unamended Act any cunning or watchful spouse, living a continuous
life in adultery, could on sensing the intention of the other party to file a petition under
the Act, discontinue the adulterous life temporarily and thus frustrate the object o f the
Act. Under unamended law i t was essential for the petitioner to show that the opposite
party is having sexual intercourse with a person other than the spouse, as a matter of
usual indulgence. It was further necessary under Section 23(i)(b) to shows that the
petitioner has not been in any way accessory to it, and that he or she has not connived a t
or condoned it. The fact that the husband cohabited with the wife even after knowledge
that she had been guilty of cohabiting with another person would be sufficient t o
constitute condonation.'
In the present clause the expression 'voluntary sexual intercourse' has been used.
Therefore, the sexual intercourse by either o f the spouses with a person other than his or
her spouse must be a voluntary act. If one of the spouses is raped i t cannot be said that
Some cases o n adultery decided b y the Indian Courts cannot be viewed without
impugnment. In P. v. P. where the wife was sen in a semi-naked state in a hotel with
a stranger, the court did not consider it sufficient to conclude adulterous relations of wife
with the stranger. The Court held that s o long the act of cohabitation is not proved
Similarly, where the husband is often found in company with the persons of ill-repute or
with prostitutes or with ladies o f immoral character, the Court has held that these all facts
are not sufficient enough:o prove adultery on the part of the husband.? I n view o f the
circumstantial evidence as only mode of proof of adultery, the existence of such facts may
1: Srivastava v. Srivastava, AIR 1967 SC 581 ; N. Reckliv. Kistamma. AIR 1962 Mad. 235.
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be sufficient to conclude adultery and to provide a matrimonial relief to the other party.
But the Court has held otherwise, which may not be very correct approach.
To constitute a ground for decree of divorce, the sexual intercourse complained must
have taken place after the solemnization o f marriage with the petitioner. Pre-marriage
unchastity of the wife o r pre-marriage sexual relation of the husband with some other
It i s also necessary that such intercourse must be intercourse with a person other
than his or her spouse. Therefore, intercourse with one of the wives of the pre-Act
polygamous marriage will not amount to extra-marital intercourse under this clause.
evidence of an act of adultery is extremely difficult. It is very rarely indeed that the parties
are surprised in the direct act o f adultery. Direct evidence, even when produced, the court
will tend to look upon i t with disfavour, as it i s highly improbable that any person can
be a witness to such acts, as such acts are generally performed with utmost secrecy. The
petitioner has t o rely on circumstantial evidence as to non-access and birth of a child, and
confessions and admissions of the parties i n relation thereto. But the evidence o f adultery
reasonable man to believe beyond any doubts and a mere probability that adultery
may have been committed is not enough. In Rajee v. Baburao' the Madras High Court
has held that mere allegation of adultery without proving wife's activities in details except
that family o f the husband has reputation, would not be sufficient to raise the
The burden o f proving adultery is always on the person alleging adultery, there
standard proof is required in order to satisfy the court that the offence has been committed
In Smt. Pushpa Devi v. Radheysham, it was held that it is not necessary t o prove
the fact of adultery by direct evidence and such evidence, if produced would normally be
evidence. The general rule i s that the circumstances must be such as would lead 10 a
But the circumstantiai evidence must satisfy the test that they lead t o an irresistible
inference that adultery must have been committed. In Chandra Mohini V. A.P
Srivastava, the Supreme Court held that the mere fact that some male relations
write improper leters to a maried woman does not necessarily prove that there was
ilicit relationship between the writer of the leters and the maried woman who recieved
1 . AIR 1996 Mad. 262 ; sce also Rajni v. Prabhakar, AIR 1958 Bom. 264.
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to have done so for the sake of dignity of his family, the petition o f divorce of the
Where the husband condoned the act of his wife's adultery and the petitioner is held
in Thimmappa Dasappa v. Thimma? the facts were that the wife used to be
usualy absent from the house and was found to be in company with strangers. She was
also found in the room of those strangers. She did not have any explanation for being 1
their company. On the petition for divorce filed by the husband. the court held that under
the conditions. the wife's living in adultery would be established and the petition would
be decreed.
The law relating to standard of proof is clear and simple. It i s not recessary that the
charge of unchastity must be proved beyond all reasonable doubt. The court can act o n the
In Hargovinda Soni v. Ram Dulari, the Court observed that it was no longer
required that adultery must be proved beyond all reasonable doubt. I t could be established
would lead a reasonable man t o conclude no other inference than the misconduct. In the
above case adultery was sought to b e proved by non-access and non-áccess is being
cstablished on the basis of blood grouping. The husband contended that he had n o access
to his wife from 28th April, 1968 but a boy was born to the wife on April 12. 1969,
another boy o n May 27, 1972 and a girl on May 27, 1975. Since on medical evidence
based o n blood-test, it was established that the third child could not be the child of the
peritioner, the court granted a decree of divorce on the ground of wife's adultery.
filed by either party to the marriage on the ground that the cther party has treated him o r
her with cruelty after the solemnization o f marriage. After passing o f the Marriage Laws
(Amendment) Act, 1976, cruelty has become a ground o f divorce as well. Under the
English law. the term 'cruelty' was defined in Russel v. Russel, 5 for the first time. I n
this case the House of Lords observed, "To constitute legal cruelty there must be danger
this definition of cruelty is not valid in the present Hindu Law. I t would depend upon the
Court to consider the gravity o f the cruelty to make i t a ground for divorce. The word
Although the term 'cruelty' has not been defined i n the Act, yet for the purposes o f
becomes impossible. I t should be somewhat more serious and ordinary wear and tear o f
routine marital life. In Indira Gangele v. S.K. Gangele, only some misunderstanding
berween parties was established. It was held that merely saying that parties are unhappy i s
2. AIR 1972 Mys. 1: Nidhi Dalela v. Deepak Dalela. AIR 2002 Raj. 128.
4. AIR 1986 MP 57
S. (1897) AC 395.
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not enough, not even unruly temper of a spouse or whimsical nature of a spouse is
enough. Wherever cruelty is to be examined the entire background of the life of the
has to be established.'
Cruelty may be physical or mental. Mental cruelty is the conduct of other spouse
which causes mental sufering or fear to the matrimonial life of the other. Cruely.
reasonable apprehension in his or her mind that it would be harmful or injurious for the
petitioner to live with the other party. Cruelty, horever, has to be distinguished from the
ordinary wear and tear of family life. It cannot be decided on the basis of the sensitivity of
the petitioner and has to be adjudged on the basis of the course of conduct which would.
Mens rea i s not an essential clement o f cruelty. Relief cannot be denied on the
Supreme Court that cruelly for the purpose of Section 13 (1), (la) is to be taken as
behaviour by one spouse towards the other, which causes a reasonable apprehension in
the mind of the latter that it i s not safe for him or her t o continue the matrimonial
A few stray instances indicating a short tempered nature and somewhat erratic
behaviour are not sufficient to prove cruelty for purposes of this section.
13(1)(ia) can broadly be defined as that conduct which inflicts upon the other party such
mental pain and suffering as would make i t not possible for that party to live with the
other. Mental cruelty must be of such a nature that the parties cannot reasonably be
expected t o live together. The situation must b e such that the wronged party cannot
reasonably be asked to put up with such conduct and continue to live with the other
party. It is not necessary to prove that the mental cruelty is such as to cause injury to the
In Shobha Rani v. Madhukar Reddi, the Supreme Court considerably enlarged the
concept o f cruelty and held that the demand for dowry, which is prohibited under law.
amounts t o cruelty entitling the wife to get a decree for dissolution o f marriage. A new
dimension has been given to the concept of cruelty. Explanation to Section 498-4
provides that any wilful conduct which i s o f such a nature as i s likely to drive a woman
t o commit suicide would constitute cruelty. Such wilful conduct which is likely to cause
grave injury or danger to life, limb or health (whether mental or physical of the woman)
would also amount t o cruelty. Harassment of the woman with a view t o coercing her or
1 . Smr. Maya v. Brij Nath, AIR 1982 Del. 240.
2. Savitri Pandey v. Prem Chandra Pandey, AIR 2002 SC 591: Karuna v. Jiwan Prakash, AIR 202
HP 127; Praveen Melta v Inderjir Mehta, AIR 2002 S C 2582.
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any person related to her to meet any unlawful demand for any property or valuable
Janachandra v. Aneel Kowr,' the Supreme Court held that the expression "cruelty" has
ken used in relation to human conduct or human behaviour. It is the conduct in relation
adversely affecting the other. The cruelly may be mental or physical, intentional or
mental, the problem presents difficulties. First, the enquiry must begin as to the nature of
cruel treatment. Second, the impact of such treatment in the mind of the spouse whether
if caused reasonable apprehension that i t would be harmful or injurious to live with the
other. Ultimately, it is a matter o f inference to b e drawn by taking into account the nature
of the conduct and its effect on the complaining spouse. However, there may be a case
where the conduct complained of itself is bad enough and per se unlawful or illegal.
Then the impact or injurious effect on the other spouse need not be enquired into or
considered. In such cases, cruelty will b e established if the conduct itself i s proved o r
admitted.
stated that the expression "cruelty' has a n inseparable nexus with human conduct or
human behaviour. It is always dependent upon the social strata or the milieu to which the
parties belong, their ways of life, relationship, temperaments and emotions that have
been conditioned by their social status. A set o f facts stigmatized as cruelty in one case
may not be in another case. The cruelty alleged may largely depend upon the type of life
the parties are accustomed to or their economic and social conditions. It may also depend
upon their culture and human values to which they attach importance. While dealing with
concept of mental cruelty the question has to be considered in the light o f the norms o f
marital ties of the particular society t o which the parties belong, their social values,
status and environment i n which they live. If from the conduct o f the spouse, it is
established and/or an inference can legitimately be drawn that the treatment o f the spouse
is such that it causes an apprehension in the mind of the petitioner about his or her
mental welfare, then the same would amount to cruelty. While dealing with the concept
of mental cruelly, enquiry must begin a s to the nature of cruelty, treatment and the
umpact o f such treatment in the mind of the spouse. It has to be seen whether the conduct
non-violence. That is the reason why the courts have never tried t o give an exclusive
cruelly had varied from time to time, not i n theory but in application, as the social and
economic conditions change. Cruelty under this section i s not necessarily physical
cruely. It also includes the cases of mental cruelty. The question of cruelty must be
determined from the whole facts and the matrimonial relations between the spouses. It has
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culture, temperaments, status in life, the state of health of the parties, the interaction
between thei in their daily life and numerous other factors which cannot be brought in
and confined to an exclusive or inclusive definition. All these factors must be considered
The existence of cruelty depends not on the magnitude, but rather on the consequences of
the offence of cruelty, actual or apprehended. To punish a spouse for the past is not the
function of the court. Its duty is to protect him or her for the future.
I n Rajender Bhardwaj v. Anita,? the facts o f the case were as follows :—The wife
did not allow the husband t o consummate the marriage for the first seven days and nights
The wife abused her müther-in-law, wrote a nasty letter to her husband making illega
demands for clothes for her brother etc., and threatened to burn the whole house by
putting gas cylinder o n fire. She also threatened that she would implicate her husband and
other family members i n false dowry case. It was held that the wife i s guilty o f cruelty.
The court observed that cruelty under the amended clause has to be o f the type which
should satisfy the conscience of the court to believe that the relations between the parties
had deteriorated to such an extent due to the conduct of one of the spouses that it has
become impssible for them to live together without mental agony, torture or distress.
the matrimonial home was not cordial, her threats and attempts t o commit suicide and her
act o f lodging false criminal complaint against husband were held t o be incidents of her
cruel behaviour. Cruelty as a ground o f divorce under Section 13(1)(ia) of the Hindu
Marriage Act is a conduct of such type that the petitioner cannot reasonably be expected
to live with the respondent. Now the act or omission or conduct which constitutes cruelty
need not cause any sort o f apprehension i n the mind of the petitioner.
In order to establish cruelty it would be sufficient to show that the conduct of one
o f the spouses is so abnormal and below the accepted norm that the other spouse cannot
harmful or injurious to continue the cobabitation with the other spouse. Therefore, 10
establish cruelty it is not necessary that physical violence should be used. However.
continued ill-treatment, cessation of marital intercourse, studied neglect, indifference of
In Naveen Kohli v. Neelu Kohli, 5 the Apex Court reiterated the well-establishe o
view that to constitute cruelty, the conduct complained o f should be 'grave and weighty
so as to come t o the conclusion that the petitioner spouse cannot be reasonably expected
It has to b e noted that ordinary wear and tear o f married life should not be confuse
with cruelty. The courts should help to preserve marriages. Too much should not be made
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out of pety instances of things said or done, until parties have had time to know each
other and setle down. Where the spouses had diferences in their early period of mariage
but after the birth of a son, no serious incidents or problems deserving consideration have
taken place the husband seeking divorce on the ground of cruelty could not succeed. The
temperament of spouses may not be conducive to each other and it may rosult in pety
various situations which amounted t o cruelty. Where the wife used to give the threat of
committing suicide, slapped the husband and admonished him not to trouble her i n the
night, used to refuse to do household work and to keep the husband waiting outside the
door of that house on his return from office at times for half a n hour, used to ask the
husband to clean the dining table and wash the dishes in presence of his friends, the court
held them as incidents of cruelty and hence decreed the petition o f the husband for
divorce.
I n Dr. N . C . Dastane v. Mrs. S . Dastane,3 the Supreme Court examined the entire
concept o f legal cruelty. In this case the husband brought a petition for judicial separation
on the ground of cruelty. The wife of the petitioner used to give him a threat that she
would put an end to her own life or that she would set her house on fire. She also
threatened that she will make him lose his job and have the matter published in
newspapers. She persistly abused him and insulted his father. The court held that all of
them were o f so grave a nature as t o imperil the husband's sense o f personal safety,
mental happiness, job satisfaction and reputation. Similarly, the acts like the tearing of
the Mangal Sutra, locking out the husband when he is due t o return from the office,
rubbing chillie powder on the tongue o f an infant child, beating a child mercilessly while
he is in high fever and switching on the light a t night and sitting a t the bedside o f the
husband merely t o nag him are the acts which tend t o destroy the legitimate ends and
objects of matrimony. Her frequent apologies do not reflect genuine contrition but merely
device to tide over a crisis temporarily. The Court held that the conduct of the wife clearly
amounted to cruelty. Although a case o f cruelty was established, yet the petitioner was
held to have condoned cruelty. He has not explained the circumstances as to how he came
lo lead and live a normal sexual life with the wife even after a series of acts of cruelty on
her part. Therefore, the case o f judicial separation of the husband failed and his appeal was
dismissed.
(a) 'Physical cruelty' will necessarily constitute a violence of certain degree and
such degree of violence, sufficient to constitute legal cruelty, will vary with the status of
parties in each case.4 Where bodily injury i s inflicted or where there is a reasonable
that cruelty has taken place. One or two acts of beating inflicted by the husband on the
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(b) "Mental cruelty" denotes a set o f circumstances, which though fall short o f
actual physical violence. may yet be acts of cruelty, e.g., malicious false accusation,!
rudeness, forcing wife 1o prostitution. threatening a pregnant wife,? subjecting the other
partner to indignity.*
Solitary act of wife who was an illiterate lady o f removing her Mangalsutra and
throwing the same on roadside gutter in heat o f moment would not constitute mental
cruelty.S
In Nemai Kumar Ghosh v. Smt. Mita Ghosh,° the wife became suspicious about
the character of her husband and used to doubt that the husband was in illicit connection
with his own sister-in-law. The husband held his sister-in-law in high esteem like his
mother. The Court held that i n such circumstances the behaviour o f the wife amounted to
mental cruelty. However, mere suspicion without any overt act or outward expression
Where the wife makes persistent disparaging derogatory and ugly remarks against
the husband and his close relations about their character and she reiterates suc
disparaging remarks in her writen statement, the court has held it to be a case of mental
cruelty. In Rajan Vasart Revankar v. Shobha Ranjan Revankar the Bombay High Cour
held that wild, reckless and seandaious allegations by wife against the husband's mother
his two married sisters and brothers-in-law followed repeatedly in letters, amounted to
mental cruelty against husband. The husband was therefore, entitled to decree of divorce
staying together under the same roof is not a pre-condition for mental cruelty. Spouse car
cause mental cruelty by his or her conduct even h e o r she is not staying under the same
roof. I n a given case, while staying away, a spouse can cause mental cruelty to the other
The mental cruelty faced b y the petitioner i s t o be assessed having regard to his
the police complaint and the consequent loss o f reputation and prestige in the societ
The incidents brought out in the evidence showed that the relationship between the part
was irretrievably broken and because o f non-cooperation and the hostile attitude of
observed that the conduct of the respondent can safely b e termed as cruelty within t
S. Shoba Srinivas Bodigar v. Srinivas Veeranna Bodigar, AIR 2002 Kant. 258.
8. AIR 1995 Bom. 246 ; Sce also Santana Banerji v. Sachidanand Banerji, AIR 1990 Cal 213.
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Similarly, where the wife falsely alleged that the husband attempted t o set her
ablaze by drousing her in kerosene oil, the court held that such allegations would result in
reckless, defamatory and false allegations against him, his family members and colleagues
lowering their reputation. It was held that such conduct of the wife who made the false
Act of wife of leaving matrimonial home without husband's consent and not
returning thereafter and i n making false and scandalous allegations against husband o f
demand of dowry and regarding his adulterous life constitute mental cruelty.3
The question o f legal cruelty justifying judicial separation o r divorce on that ground
health will undoubredly constitute cruelty. Mere slight acts of violence which any spouse
may commit in anger or worry cannot be a ground for holding that legal cruelty exists.
Cruelty by physical violence can b e committed both by the husband and wife, though
(b) Verbal abuse and insults.—The continual use o f abusive and insulting
words indulged in to bring shame and mental agony to the other spouse may amount to
legal cruelty. Mere trivial incidents, which are inerely the wear and tear of married life d o
not constitute cruelty.4 Insulting conduct indulged in by the wife i n public against her
husband would cause mental agony and pain and therefore it amounts t o cruelty.
the refusal i s persisted i n for a long time, i t will be a ground for holding that there i s
legal cruelty.?
In Shanker Prasad Chaudhary v. Madhvi Pal Chaudhary,& the Calcutta High Court
has held that where the wife has been refusing sexual intercourse without any reasonable
justification o r has expressed her inability to co-operate i n the sexual act or she behaves
in a manner that the consummation becomes impossible, such deliberate acts of the vife
would amount t o legal cruelty and the husband would b e entitled t o matrimonial relief.
attention and company t o the other and forcing the latter t o leave the home o n account o f
such conduct would i n the circumstances of any particular case constitute neglect
3. Rukesh Sharma v. Surbhi Sharma, AIR 2002 Raj. 138; Hema Reddy v. Rakesh Reddy. AIR
2002 AP
5. Ramakanta v. Mohinder Laxmidas Blundula, AIR 1996 P & H 99: False Criminal complaint
by wife
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Taramari,' the husband was admited in the hospital after having ben badly wounded in
an accident. He was lying in the hospital for about eight months but the wife did not use
to go to se him despite the information of his conditions. The court held that the conduct of
the wife was so neglectful that it amounts to cruelty and the husband is
he is afflicted with venereal disease has sexual intercourse with the other such spouse is
guilty of cruelty. (g) Drunkenness and use of drugs.-Drunkenness and intemperance and
violent
behaviour due to use of drugs may not in themselves constitute cruelty, but if they resul in
violent acts injurious to the health, whether mental or physical, of other spouse, ther
such acts would amount to cruelty.
strangers to share the life of the home and conjugal society of the other as, for instance, by
the husband inducing his ivife to have intercourse with a stranger or inducing her to
put u p with a lewd woman whom he has brought into her room for his caral
satisfaction, the wife is entitled to resist all such immoral attempts by filing a pelion
(j) Unsubstantial allegations of extra-marital affair levelled by wife and threats and
children in the presence of the mother with a view to give her pain to such an extent that
it affects her health and mind will entitle her for a judicial separation or divorce on the
ground of cruelty.
(I) Wife's association, persisting in with another woman, raising suspicion of her
(m) Wife suffering from deadly disease.—If the wife suffers from a deadly
disease due t o which the husband is prevented from performing his marital functions, il
(n) Persistent effort o f wife to constrain husband t o b e separated from his parents
Whatever might have been the view i n past the present tendency is in favour of the
view that any conduct o f the husband which causes disgrace t o the wife and annoyance
and
such type that i t has become impossible for the spouses to live toggther.? However.
minor incidents Icading to temporary unpleasantness may not amount to cruelty. Thus, in
a case the petitioner on certain occasions pursuaded the respondent to accompany him and
7. Rajan Vasant Revankar v. Shobha Ranjan Revankar, AIR 1995 Bom. 246.
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even pressed her for the same. This gave rise lo unpleasantness because she was
unwiling to go with him. Held that such a conduct on the part of the husband is
The conduct of a husband of indulging in love afairs with a woman other than the
wife and going to the length of promising to her and keeping her as his own wife in the
same house wherein maried ivife lives is sufficient to give rise to an apprehension that
the maried woman would be mentaly hurt. This would be a sufficient ground to grant
judicial separation. The expression cruelty not only covers the physical or violent act of
the spouse but covers the mental or psychological acts of the other partner which creates
apprehensions in the mind of the complaining partner that it would be harmful and
injurious to live with the other party. Even though the wife had not been given any
physical beating, the denial of medical treatment to her, and turning her out of the house
clearly go to establish, that the husband had treated the wife with legal cruelty. 3
leveling false charges against her father are circumstances when cumulatively considered,
The concept o f cruelty has varied from time t o time, from place to place and from
involved and their economic conditions and other matters. Each case depends o n its own
faces and must be judged on their facts.4 Cruelty has to be of the type which would
satisfy the conscience of Court in believing that the relations of the parties had
acteriorated to such an extent that i t has become impossible for them to live together
dissatisfaction of the wife. Where the husband fails t o satisfy the wife i n sexual
intercourse on account of his physical disability o r otherwise the courts have held i t to be
a cruelty. In Dr. Srikant Rangacharya v. Smt. Anuradha, the Karnataka High Court held
that where the husband has failed to sexually satisfy the wife, it would be regarded as
cruelty 1o her. The court observed further that cruelty is not only physical it may be
psychological also. Marriage without sex i s a curse. To fail t o satisfy the wife's sexual
The impotency of husband has been held t o be cruelty t o wife. In Hanuman v . Smt.
Chandrakala, the wife sought divorce on the ground of impotency of her husband.
Although the doctor iho examined the husband concluded about the proper development
or his genital organ, but there vas n o cogent evidence that the husband was capable of
creting his organ which i s necessary for penetration t o complete coitus. The Punjab
High Court held that iwhere the husband failed to do anything o f the kind, letting the wife
remain in such a matrimonial bond would be utter cruelty to her and she would b e entitled
lo get divorce. The court observed that sex i s the foundation of marriage and without
sexual activity, it would be impossible for any mariage to continue for long. Forcing the
wile to live a sexless life would inevitably damage her physical and mental health and it
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In Smi. Satva v. Sri Ram.' where the husband was craving for an issue and him
parents and other family members were also pressing for an issue but the desire of
husband was crushed by the wife by aborting twice, the Court held that this wold
amount to mental cruelty to husband. Such acts causing mental agony to either party of
mariage would be sufficient cruelty. Similarly, in Mukesh Kumar Gupta v Kamin Gunia. the
wife used to impute immorality on the husband and has been accusing him s
be adulterous and drunkard. This kind of conduct on the part of wife causing mental
depression, was held by the Delhi High Court to be acts of cruelty sufficient enough in
decree dissolution of marriage. Similarly accusing the husband to have illegal relations
with some other lady and burning the thesis written by the husband who was a lecturer
and doing the research would amount t o cruelty. Such an incident would entitle the
I n Madan Mohan Manna v. Chitra Manna,* the wife refused to stay with the
husband as the husband was already staying with another woman, under the same roof
Wife showed wilingness 1o live with the husband if that woman was removed from house.
Whether o r not the petitioner had any illicit relationship with that woman, the
respondent had genuine ground of apprehension that all was not well. I t was held that she
could not h e compelled to live in the same house under the same roof with another
woman not related to the husband. If she was so compelled, that itself would have
amounted to cruelty.
I n Deva Kumar v. Thilagavathy, it was aileged by the petitioner that within five
days after the marriage, the respondent aliempted to commit suicide. The respondent wife
contended that due to ill-treatment by her mother in law and sister i n law she was driven
1o the stage o f attempting to commit suicide. I t was held that her attempt i n the given
A false criminal case to harass the husband would be an act of cruelty depending
upon the circumstances of the case. I n Raj Kishore Prasad v. Raj Kumari Devi, the cour
held that filing a false case against the husband under Section 494 of I.P.C. by the wife
amounted to cruelty particularly since the husband, who was a government servant, would
Where the wife gave birth to an illegitimate child, the child being born only 6
months after the marriage with the full development, it has been held to be cruelty to the
husband. The husband in such cases has been held t o he entitled to divorce
notwithstanding that o n the same facts he could have availed remedy o f decree o f nullity
However, the mere suspicion without any overt act or outward expression cannot
amount to cruelty. Mere suspicion is net enough. There must be some test of objectivity
in the concept of cruelty. Only a certain state of mind of one person, without more.
cannot have the adverse effect o n the body and mind o f other spouse s o much so that it
would amount t o cruelty. Marriage cannot b e s o frail and fragile that it should b e wrecked
6. AIR 1986 Pat. 362, see also Rama Kanta v. Molunder Luumulas, AIR 1996/' & HO2: Nare
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hecause of some quarrels beneen the couple or on account of some frailly on the part o f
ihaviour Few isolated incidents of long past and that too condoned due to compromisin
continuously for a period not less than two years immediately preceding the presentation of
the petition for judicial separation or divorce, such petition may be granted.
to the mariage without reasonable cause and without the consent or against the wish of
such party and includes the wilful The expression 'desertion' means the desertion of the
petitioner by the other party
marriage. "Desertion" means withdrawing from the matrimonial obligation, i.e., not
permiting or alowing and facilitating the cohabitation betiveen the parties. The proof of
desertion has to be considered by taking into consideration the concept of mariage which
in law legalises the sexual relationship between man and woman in the society for the
and for procreation of children. Desertion is not a single act complete in itself, it is a
continuous course of conduct to be determined under the facts and circumstances of each
case. As desertion i n matrimonial cases means the withdrawal of one party from a state of
things, i.e., a marital status of the party, no party to the marriage can b e permitted t o
allege desertion unless he or she admits that after the formal ceremonies of the marriage,
the parties had recognised and discharged the common obligation of the married life which
essentially requires the cohabitation between the parties for the purpose of consummating
the marriage. Cohabitation by the parties is an essential of a valid marriage. There can be
no desertion without previous cohabitation by the parties. The basis for this theory is
built upon the recognised position of law in matrimonial matters that no one can desert
who does not actively o r wilfuily bring to a n end the existing state of cohabitation.
However, such a rule i s subject to just exceptions which may b e found in a case on the
ground of mental or physical incapacity or other peculiar circumstances o f the case. The
party seeking divorce on the ground of desertion i s required t o show that he/she was not
other. Desertion implies abandonment against the wish of the person charging. I t i s a
obligation on the deserted party to appeal t o the deserting spouse t o change her or his
mind. The circumstances that the deserted husband makes no effort to take steps to effect
a reconciliation with the wife does not debar him from obtaining the relief of judicial
separation, for once desertion is proved, the deserting spouse is presumed t o continue in
For the offence of desertion, s o far as the deserting spouse i s concerned two
essential conditions must be proved: (1) the factum of separation, and (2) the intention
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an essential so far as the deserted spouse is concerned: (a) the absence of consent (D) and
absence of conduct giving reasonable cause to the spouse leaving the matrimonial hom
to form the necessar intention aforesaid. The petitioner for divorce bears the burdene
proving those elements respectively and also their continuance throughout the duration of
from certain facts and circumstances of each case. The inference may be drawn from
certain facts which may not in another case be capable of leading to the same inference. If
a deserting spouse decides to come back to the deserted spouse by a bona fide ofer of
resuming the matrimonial home, desertion comes to an end. Hence it is necessary that
during al the period there has ben a desertion, the deserted spouse must affirm the
marriage and be ready and willing to resume married life on such conditions as may be
reasonable.
should be established: -
(b) the deserting spouse must have the intention to desert the other spouse,
(c) the deserted spouse must not have agreed to the separation,
(d) the desertion must have been without reasonable cause, and
(e) this state of affairs must have continued for the requisite period, i.e.. two
years.
(a) One of the essential requisites of actual desertion is separation of one spouse
from another and therefore i f the spouses are living together, there i s no factum of
separation, and therefore here one of the essential elements of actual desertion is missing
(b) Where one of the spouses leaves the matrimonial home for some specific perio
with the idea that he would return home after the expiry o f that period, he i s not guilty ci
of one spouse by the other. I n order t o constitute this offence, there must be an intention
(c) In order to establish desertion the petitioner must prove that the separation of
the respondent is against the wish and without the consent of the petitioner. Where the
spouses live separately under the agreement and there i s no evidence that the husband
revoked the agreement i t cannot amount t o desertion a s essential element o f leaving the
matrimonial home without the consent o f the deserted spouse is not present.
(a) To constitute desertion, the separation must be without reasonable cause. The
folowing have ben held to constitute sufficient grounds for desertion- (1) confession oi
adultery by the wite, (1) habitual drunkenness o f wife, (III) persistence in the false changi
of unnatural ofence having ben commited by the husband, (IV) unreasonable and
persistent refusal by the wife to consummate the mariage and, (V) wife permiting
1.
v. Duan, 1949 AIl ER 822: Devi Singh v. Sm Sushila, AIR 1982 Raj. 48: Adhvatma Bhat f.
Adhyama Bharur Sri Devi, AIR 2002 SC 88
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both factum of separation and animus deserendi should continue during the entire
statulory period of two years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition. The
ofence of desertion remains inchoate til the presentation of the petition however long
might have been the period of previous desortion. During this period the ofending spouse
has always the locus poenitentiae lo go back to the deserted spouse. It is necessary that
wing to resume maried life on such conditous aftay the casale and be ready and
In Lachman v. Meena, 2 the wife was required to live with her husband's joint
family. The wife left the matrimonial home after about five years from the mariage. She
went to South East Asia where her parents had business houses. Throughout this period
her husband wrote to her to return to which she replied that she would when her health
would permit her to do so. Her ofer to return as expressed in her leters was not sincere
and she had no intention to return. I: was held by the Supreme Court that besides the
factum of separation there was also animus deserendi at the time when she left the
husband's house and the requisite animus continued for the period of two years before the
Kalia v. Jatinder Nath Kalia the husband went abroad for higher studies leaving behind
presentation of the petition, therefore, she was guilty of desertion. Similarly, in Veena
wife and two minor daughters. He never ivanted wife t o join him in that country and left
her i n lurch in India for herself. Husband already married in that country and had three
children there. The Delhi High Court held that since the parties did not live together for
23 years and also that husband had married in the foreign country, he had deliberate
intention of deserting the wife and divorce was granted in favour of the wife.
animus deserendi is not proved, judicial separation cannot be decreed. Here the appellant
husband was a poor man, having meagre salary insufficient to maintain a home. He
directed the respondent wife t o live in his ancestral home where his parents and brother
resided, which she steadfastly refused. According to the husband, this amounted to
desertion and hence the prayer of judicial separation. The court dismissed the appeal
holding that there was want of animus deserendi. Similarly, where the sole deposition of
husband's allegation that his wife was living with her father without his consent and
without any cause, could not be proved b y him, the Rajasthan High Court held that
animus deserendi of the wife has not been proved and decree for divorce cannot b e
granted 5
The offence of desertion commences when the facts of separation and the animus
deserendi co-exist. But i t i s not necessary that they should commence a t the same time.
The de facto separation may have commenced without necessary animus or it may b e that
end permanently would not amount to desertion. However, if the intention to abandon the
company o f the other spouse is permanent, it would be 'desertion' within the meaning of
4. AIR 1924 Ker. 43. Sce also Devinder Pal Single v. Sanjota Rai, AIR 1995 P & H 275 and Tirth
Ram v.
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living separately from the other. Merely to prove that one of the partics i s not fulfelling
Where a wife lives separately from her husband in order to do some joh and dues
not resign the job a t the instance of the husband, her refusal to resign would not amount
to desertion, because here she has no intention on her part to withdraw from her
matrimonial obligations.
In Smt. Sriehlata Seth v. Kawal Krishna,' the Delhi High Court held that where
the wife lett the matrimenial home at the instance of mother-in-law in order that
husband's mood and temper i s restored that would not amount to any desertion.
particularly when the wife displayed her willingness t o come back to matrimonial home.
I n this case the husband did not express his willingness to take her back and there was
evidence of his designs to free himself from matrimonial bond and enter into another
marriage. The Court held that the wife was not guilty of desertion as to entille the
wife is turned out o f the house o r she herself abandons the husband wilfully and i s not
pursued to be brought back as wife, divorce (on the ground of desertion) in fact takes
place, sometimes regulated by custom. In this case the parties belonged to "Shudra' caste
and the Apex Court held that Hindu law is clear o n the subject that if Shudra woman
leaves the house o f her husband and starts living with another person and there is n o
objection o r pursuation by anyone, the divorce is complete and the wife is entitled to
I n Durga Prasanna Tripathy v. Arundhati Tripathy,? the petition for divorce was
filed by the husband on the ground of desertion under Section 13(1)(i-b) of the Hindu
Marriage Act. Wife had deserted the husband after 7 months o f marriage. Parties were
living separately for about 14 years. Wife was not prepared to lead conjugal lite with the
husband. Attempts were made by the husband and his relatives in getting back wife to
matrimonial home with no success. It was found by the Court that the good part of life
of both the parties was consumed in the litigation. Record showed that the parties disliked
each other. There were no chances of reconciliation. The Apex Court held that there is a n
irretrievable break-down of marriage. With a view to put a quietus to the litigation inter
se and bitterness between parties, decree of divorce on the ground of desertion was granted
In Manju Kumari Singh @ Smt. Manju Singh v. Avinash Kumar Singh, 4 parties
to the marriage were living separately for last more than decade. Attempts were made for
reconciliation between them, but such attempts were of no effect. There was no chance of
both living together to continue their marital life. In order to do substantial justice
between the parties the Supreme Court passed decree for the dissolution of their marriage
under Article 142 read with Section 13(I)(i-b) of the Hindu Marriage Act.
place, but it is withdrawal from a particular state of things. i.e., cohabitation. Where the
husband creates a condition in which the wife is compelled to leave his company and
live separately, the wife will not be held guilty o f desertion but the husband
2. AIR 1997 SC 10; See K. Palanisam! v. P. Suniathal, AIR 2002 Mad 158.
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himself would be guilty of desertion. Thus constructive desertion consists of that state
of things where one party to mariage has ben compeled to leave matrimonial home
owing to repulsive behaviour of the other party and the party thus living separately cannot
be held to be deserter but the party compelling her/him would be held to be the
deserter.
In Jyotish Chandra v. Meera, husband and wife lived together but it was aleged by
the wife that the husband was cold, indiferent and sexualy abnormal and perverse. The
husband after completing his education from abroad returned to home but his behaviour
did not change. He used to return very late from the club and hardly spent any time with
her. At the instance of the husband, the wife went for higher studies to England and
stayed there for three years. During this period she came twice to India but found the
husband stil more cold. When she finaly came back to India, on finding the husband
unchanged, her mental sufferings and agony continued. She realised that there is no use of
living together with the husband and started living separately alongwith her mother and
sister in a rented house. Sometime, later her father tried to meddle between them and each
a compromise, but he was dragged out by the husband t o the rented flat where the wife
was living. When a dialogue was going on the husband became enraged and beat the wife.
her sister and father. Under these conditions a petition for divorce was filed by the wife on
the ground of desertion. The court held that the husband b y his conduct has forced the
wife t o stay separately from matrimonial home. Thus the husband was guilty of desertion
even though it was the wife who had left the matrimonial home.
Desertion also includes wilful neglect of one spouse by the other. I n Dr. Srikant
Rangacharya v . Smt. Anuradha, the Karnataka High Court held that wilful neglect by
one spouse 1o the other would come within the meaning o f desertion. It i s not necessary
to prove that one of the parties to marriage is living separately from the other. Merely to
prove that one of the parties to marriage is not fulfilling the duties and responsibilities
towards the other, is sufficient to establish desertion, provided such neglect in the
of the grounds for divorce. Under Section 10 which provides for judicial separation,
conversion to another religion is now a ground for a decree for judicial separation after the
Act was amended b y Marriage Laws (Amendment) Act, 1976. Change of religion does
not ipso facto dissolve the marriage performed under the Hindu Marriage Act between INo
Hindus. Apostasy does not bring t o an end the civil obligations or the matrimonial bond.
out apostasy is a ground for judicial separation under Section 10 of the Hindu Marriage
Act. A decree for divorce can b e obtained by a petitioner where the opposite party ha:
or Zorostrianism.
such a nature as to disable the petitioner to live reasonably, with the respondent makes
the petitioner eligible to get a decree of divorce. The term "mental disorder' has been ven
Mukherji, ILR (1948) 2 Cal. 119.(1880) 4 Bom. 330; Budansa Rowther v. Fatima Bi, AIR 1914
Mad. 192: Rakera Bibi vAnil Komur
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mind, psychopathic disorder or any other disorder or disability of mind and includes
schizophrenia. The expression psychopathic disorder has ben further explained to include
In Ram Narain Gupta v. Smt. Rameshwari Gupta,2 the Supreme Court elaborately
described about the degree of mental disorder which wil enable an aggrieved party to
a mariage to obtain a decree of divorce. The court held that the context in which the
¡dea of unsoundness of 'mind' and "mental uisorder" occur in the section as grounds
for dissolution of a mariage, require the assessment of the degree of the "mental
disorder". Its degree must be such that the spouse seeking relief cannot reasonably
be expected to live with the other. Al mental abnormalities are not recognised as
grounds for decree of divorce. If the mere existence of any degree of mental
all schizophrenias are characterised bv the same intensity of the disease. The mere
branding a person as schizophrenic therefore will not suffice for purposes of Section
13 (1) (iii).
Woman suffering from incurable epilepsy and unable to manage herself or her
affairs as an ordinary reasonable person, fall within the expression "incurably of unsound
mind. "3 Where the husband does not submit to medical examination on the petition of
divorce by the wife, alleging that the husband i s suffering from unsoundness o f mind,
disolution of marriage under the Hindu Marriage Act and i s omitted b y the Personal
Laws (Amendment) Act, 2019. Before this Amendment Act, virulent and incurable form
of leprocy was a ground o f divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act a s laid down in Section
10 prove that the opposite party has been suffering from venereal disease in a
communicable form. We note that for divorce it is not specifically required that the
disase shall not have been contracted from the petitioner, but this requirement is to be
regarded tantamount to civil death and therefore i t is given a s a ground for a decree of
divorce. A person, howevei, does not become a sanyasi b y merely declaring himself a
necessary for entering the class of sanyasi; without such ceremonies h e cannot be
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cither party may seck divorce on this ground it the other parly has not ben heard of an
being alive, for a period of seven years or more by those persons who would natural!
have heandolic, had that party ben alive. Thus the aggrieved party may mary againand
have legitimate children. If the second mariage is performed on the basis of presumpton
dideath withom getting a deeree of divorce, no person other than the missing spouse can
divorce on the ground that there has been no resumption o f cohabitation between the
panies to the marriage for a period of one year o r more after the passing of a decree for
already heen passed and the other party has not resumed cohabitation within one year
thereafter.
Where a wife has obtained the decree for judicial separation and the husband makes a
petition of divorce, after 2 years of that separation on the ground that there was no
Cohabitation means living together as husband and wife. I t consists of the husband
acting as a husband towards the wife and the wife acting as a wife towards the husband
the wife rendering house-wifely duties to the husband and the husband supporting his wife
as a husband should. Cohabitation does not necessarily depend on whether there is sexual
intercourse betiveen husband and wife. If there is sexual intercourse, it is very strong
evidence-it may be conclusive evidence-that they are cohabiting, but it does not follow
that because they do not have sexual intercourse they are not cohabiting. Cohabitation
implies something different from mere residence. I t must mean that the husband and wife
have began acting as such and have resumed their status and position as husband and
wife. 3
when a decree for restitution of conjugal rights has heen passed and it has not been
complied with within one year of the passing of such a decree. The spouse who fails 10
comply with it would do so at his or her risk and it would not be necessary for the
aggrieved spouse to prove that he o r she had made positive efforts to make the other party
comply with the same and it would suffice to show that there was no compliance vith
the decree 4
Where the wife in good faith came to settle with the husband after passing of the
decree of restitution of conjugal rights and stayed with him for some time but later on due
to il-realment of the husband, she had to leave the husband's place, it cannot be said that
the wife was guilty of non-compliance o f the decree of restitution o f conjugal rights
3. Mula's Hindu Law, 17th Edition at p. 121 cited in Hirachand Srinivas Mandpaonkar v Suran
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Hence, the husband under the circumstances would not be entitled to get a decree of
In the case of Sir. Bimla Devi v. Bakhtawar Singh,' it has been held that the
provisions of Section 23 (1) (a) cannot be invoked to refuse the relief under Section
where there has not been restitution of conjugal rights as between the parties to the
mariage for a period of one year or onwards after the passing of decree for restitution of
In O.P. Mehra v. Smr. Saroj Mehta, 3 she decree for restitution of conjugal rights
was pased in favour of the husband. After four and half months the husband brought a
petition of divorce on the ground of adultery of the wife. Later on, after a year he brought
another petition of divorce on the ground that the wife has not complied with the decree
of restitution for a period of one year. The wife resisted the petition on the ground that
the husband deliberately brought a petition after four and half months of the decree o f
resitution of conjugal rights falsely imputing acultery against ner and thus made it
imposible for her to comply with the decree. The court held the non-compliance of the
decree to be justified and accordingly dismissed the petition of the divorce filed by the
husband. The court refused to pass the decree on the ground that during the pendency of
the petition for divorce on the ground of wife's adultery, the wife was disabled to join her
husband, and i f decree o f divorce ivere t o b e passed i n his favour, it would amount to
Four additional grounds u f divorce are available to the wife. She may also present a
petition for the dissolution of her marriage on any of these grounds. The special grounds
(i) Bigamy (Section 13(2)(i)].- A wife may also present a petition for the
dissolution of marriage by a decree for divorce o n the ground that i n the case of any
marriage. solemnized before the commencement o f this Act, li.e., 18th May, 1955), the
husband had married again before such commencement or that any other wife of the
husband married before such commencement was alive at the time o f the solemnization o f
the marriage of the petitioner. There is, however, one condition that i n either case a t the
husband which was solemnized after the commencement of the Act, the husband admitted
the acts of second marriage and living with her. No connivance or condonation by the
peiioner vas proved. It was held that a second marriage by the husband was void ab
initio under Section II read with Section 5(1) of the Act and living with second wife
(i) Rape, sodomy or bestiality.—A wife may also present a petition for the
dissolution of her marriage b y a decree o f divorce on the ground that the husband has,
since the solemnisation of the marriage been guilty of rape, sodomy o r bestiality. The
Penal Code. Section 375 defines "rape" while Section 377 "unnatural offences" (ie.
expressions 'rape' or 'sodomy' have ben defined in Sections 375 and 37 of the Indian
In Navtej Singh Johar v. Union of India, the Supreme Court held that that portion
portions o f Section 377 relating to sex with minors, non-consensual sexual acts and
The decision of Navtej Singh Johar v . Union of India, however, does not have
A carnal intercourse against the order of nature, with any man, woman or animal is
an unnatural carnal intercourse and ihoever voluntarily has such intercourse, commits an
unnatural offence.3
It should be noted that only a proof of conviction, in these criminal offences will
not be sufficient for a decree of divorce. 4 The commission o f the offences must be proved
"de novo'.
13(2)(iil).- Where the decree or order has been passed against the husband awarding
maintenance to the wife in a suit under Section 18 o f the Hindu Adoptions and
Maintenance Act, 1956, or under Section 125 of the Criminal Procedure Code, 1973, and
after passing of such decree or order, cohabitation between the parties has not been
(iv) Option of Puberty (Section 13(2)(iv)]: - The wife may also present a petition
for the dissolution of her marriage by a decree of divorce on the ground that her marriage
was solemnized before she attained the age of fifteen years and she repudiated the marriage
after attaining that age but before attaining the age, of eighteen years. It is immaterial
In Bathula Ilahi v . Bathula Devamma, the Court granted the decree after the wife
had attained the age of eighteen years. The wife i n this case had repudiated the marriage
before attaining the age of 15 years because after living with the husband for some time
she realised that i t would be dangerous to live with him any more. She came t o learn later
on about the passing o f Marriage Laws (Amendment) Act, 1976, which entitled her to
bring the present petition. The Court held that even i f the petition has been presented
after passing of the age of eighteen years i t would be allowed in the wake of reasonable
Where the wife was married before attaining the age o f fifteen years but she
repudiated the marriage after attaining the age o f fifteen years but before attaining
eighteen
years and all this happened before the Amendment Act of 1976 came into force, the Court
held that even after 1976 that episode can be taken into consideration and divorce can be