Guiding the

her mind
to orgasm
Probably, this is the chapter
more important, simply by
the fact of containing exactly
what will differentiate you from
anyone else and make yourself the man
more awesome and consistent when the
the theme is to make a woman
have an orgasm.

As I have been saying, each

woman is different, and understanding this
concept of guiding her mind,
your body will allow you to have
much more success with all the
"physical" techniques that you are going to
learn.

Make a woman have a

orgasm is closely related to
guide her mind, make her
I forgot about everything and everyone when
you all be together, among four
walls.
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As I have told you before, the
orgasm is simply the art
of to let oneself allow of
surrender to your partner, and
for this to happen, the
trust and respect are
essential elements.

His wife wants to feel comfortable.

in this process of surrendering to
you, it is about "lowering the
guard" and guide it to the
orgasm. And for this
it happens, she needs to feel that
trust yourself.

This is why, as time goes by

time, orgasms become
cada vez mejores, una vez que
his wife is going to know him a lot
more, respect it and trust in its
person.

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When it comes to sex of a
night, probably you and the
woman don't even know each other so
Well, maybe you are together.
just to have that night of
pleasure, and everything is fine with that.

However, as time goes by

time you cultivate a relationship
with that woman, or if you are already
in one, you will perceive that, to
as she gets to know him,
respect and trust more and more in
you, the orgasms are going to be more
frequent and increasingly more
intense.

Remember: Orgasms are treated

about letting the mind be 100% free,
and surrender

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Here we have a tale of a
person who sent me an email:
Sometimes when we have
she asks me to stop,
because he is afraid of losing it
control" and this is an example
perfect of the emails that I
I receive frequently.

Another example is: 'She arrived very'

he looked for it, but it started to hurt him,

he/she started to be afraid of

lose control, and there she asked me
that it stops.

This means, the majority of the

times, that she did not give herself,
that her mind was very active
at that moment.

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Women have a kind of
of 'program' that medium that
the prevents to surrender
easily, as if it were a
safety barrier.

When we talk about sex, this

protective barrier prevents
that they make the most of it
feel the pleasure of what they are
capable.

This reality changes when she

feels comfortable, secure,
when trusting the person with
the one that is being related.

There things get easier,

she feels much more pleasure and
has orgasms more
rapid and more intense.
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Ok, so how to make that
Does she trust you?

Firstly, if she feels

attraction to you and it is
With you, I like you.
enough to have sex, very
she probably respects him and
also trusts you, maybe
you are already in a relationship
a long time ago in which the
respect and trust already exist.

So, how to make her

handed to you? Before speaking
about this, me would like
to emphasize that you must have
be careful with the words with them
that addresses her, this is because
it is not right to evade it, to take advantage
about his feelings and things of
that guy.

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Well, what I am going to teach you
here, don't do it with that one
woman that you just finished
to meet, or if it is the first time
that are together, and if with
the one with whom he already has a
this relationship prevents you from just
focus on the orgasm and
then I ended up hurting his
feelings.

If you really have the

intention to make her trust in
you, tell her this: 'Linda, I think
what are incredible all the
moments that we are together and
I want to be closer and closer.
yours, I want you to surrender to
I completely know that
what you can trust and give yourself to
to me
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I know that this seems like something very

simple, but to reassure her

verbally he is going to help her to
calm your mind as you
she starts to trust you more,
becoming 100% vulnerable
for you.

In the end, this is what you

wants to be able to say 'love, I'
I want you to allow yourself everything and you

delivered completely, of
a way that you have never
done before. I want that
let's be closer than ever,
I want you to let yourself go.

Emphasizing the part of letting go

take, because this is what the
Her mind needs to listen.

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She needs to let herself go,
never say this in a way
formal, like 'love, you need
let yourself go if you want to have a
orgasm with me.

Put the tricks that are

being taught here in
context, live the moment with
her and teach her to let go.

It is important to understand that,

when a woman is going to have a
orgasm, she must be
completely present in the
moment, and in his mind not
there must be no thought
that hinders that moment.

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Now, I know that making this
it can be difficult, since
we all have voices
and thought within
our heads active all the
time, but when a woman
or a man enjoys, there is,
truth, a complete absence
of thought during that
moment.

Think carefully, when a man

he is going to ejaculate, it's not like he

we were having
sex and thinking that we are going to

do tomorrow, there is a moment

of dissociation from reality.

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This is so true that it has already happened.

tested with scanners that analyze

the human mind, that the cortex
cerebral momentarily becomes
turn off during orgasm, so much
in the woman as in the man.

So, even though we

men have clarity
when we are ejaculating,
many women do not know how
make that dissociation in the rise
of sex.

What can take them to what

think: "Oh my God! Am I going to
to enjoy? Is sex only this to
final?
thoughts that should not be
to be present at that
moment, instead of turning them off.

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Such thoughts obscure the
moment and they do not allow him to be
present at that moment,
experiencing what is
happening in your body and
going with the flow.

For this reason, you have to

to be able to guide her so that she gives
This way she does not enter that.
thinking mode

To give you an example of that,

I am going to read an email from a woman
that nowadays manages to have
constant orgasms.

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In the email, the woman portrays the
relationship with a person who
he just entered her life,
saying that with him it is possible
to achieve several orgasms and not
I knew how to explain why well, but
that he didn't have time to
think, and the next thing that
remember it was when I was
having the orgasm.

Another woman depicts the difficulty

to reach the climax that one finds
with their current partner, difficulty
that was not present in his
ancient relationship.

Putting, here once again, that

her ex-partner wouldn't let her think
a lot.

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So, remember this, do not give it
her time to think, not her
let enter into a logical state and
calculator that will lead you to have
many thoughts instead of
seize the moment.

Guide her, keep her in the present

and living that moment with
you, make her feel the
sensations of your body and that
so it gets lost in the moment.

One of the biggest problems

today is that some men are
so quick to want sex that
when the woman finally
manages to find itself in the
moment, the man has already enjoyed and the

sex is over.

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Unfortunately, many
women don't even get
take advantage of the sexual relationship.

I hope that the women who

be there don't be passing
for this situation
constantly and I hope that
you, men, after
read this course take the
time needed to take her
up to the present.

Without this, there is no way to achieve

for a woman to have a
real orgasm.

In the event that you continue

these basic instructions that
are being presented, I them
I guarantee that you will have a woman.
very happy in your hands.

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Another important aspect for
create the special moment with the
jokes that anticipate sex.
Many women love games
previous, before the moment
final.

The positive point of these games

dialectical is that they can be
facts before the moment,
thus creating an environment of
constant anticipation for her
and for you.

Thus, when the meeting occurs

both are already on the same one
tuning, becoming more
easy to bring her at the moment since
she will be waiting for that
some time ago.

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Well, now we are going to talk about
some barriers that women
they can have in sex.
Basically, these are some
factors that can create the
unwanted thoughts and
consequently prevent him/her
to be 100% present experiencing
that moment.

The first is a possible

insecurity regarding your
body. In the event that there is such a one
insecurity or that she doesn't know
feel sexy, she won't get it
prevent the constantes
thoughts in his head.

It will be this way, she asks herself.

How: "What will you think of my
coke?” or “Will he not like me?
naked?

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What studies show is that
women with more self-confidence,
well-humored and that possess more
self-esteem in relation to their body,
they have a greater ease of
constantly enjoy.

I usually manage to say,

when I meet a woman and I am
moving towards a relationship, if she
will have greater ease or
difficulty enjoying.

This happens because you are going

getting to know the person and achieving
to know if she has confidence in
herself, in her body, and if she is not
rethinking things all the
time.

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The truth is that everyone
deserves to feel good about their
own body, the problem is
that not everyone achieves
achieve that.

In this case, your role is

calm her down furthermore of
to show her that you
considered sexy and attractive, something
What is clear is that you all are going to

to have relationships, so she

she will feel comfortable and will be able to

to surrender more easily.

The next mental block that

what she can have is the trend
to know how to give more than to receive.

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Many people are like this, they...
I like giving something much more than
to be satisfied, since only the
pressure on the person receiving.

Many of those people also

they enter into the discussion of the block
mental insecurity of them:
them, to put it in words
simple, they do not feel worthy of
receive something or do not have security
mind to feel comfortable
receiving something in sex.

That is noticeable in situations

how are you: You see her lying down, and
try to make her feel
comfortable and relaxed, having sex
verbally and suddenly she asks him
to stop.

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That's why I tell you, your companion
you need to understand that you
he is doing that with her, is he not?
not for her.

Maybe she will try to initiate sex

quickly to ignore
some insecurity or to
quickly end the
previous situation - that is very
negative for construction
of a good orgasm.

That's why, so that she is more

willing to accept pleasure
what you the is
providing, it is important
demonstrate that it is not about
charity, you are also
enjoying the situation of giving
pleasure.
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To demonstrate that you are
really enjoying, tell him
something like: 'love, I feel
very excited toasting to you
pleasure, that's why I only want
that you relax and enjoy!

The important thing is that she

notice that you also
are you getting something out of that

situation and that both are

taking advantage, even in that
moment, in sex, when
she is more passive than active.

With this, you will be able to withdraw

those negative thoughts

from the what we speak
previously and place it in the
present.

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Well, moving on to the next one
blocking that normally the
men find in the
women, it doesn't have much to do with the
sex itself, but the stress and the
distractions of her life that
they take her out of the present moment and
they are not allowed to surrender in a
100%.

This blockage is difficult, as

we think about how many problems
we have daily and in such
problems us we agreed
worried all day, since
family problems up to
professional conflicts.

It is much harder to dissociate them.

even if it's a moment for
let's focus on one thing
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If we think historically about the
fact, it has been one of the
the biggest difficulties of the
humanity, finding the center
at specific moments and
disassociate from everything else
things what we occur
daily.

Despite the difficulty, it is for

this that sex is something so
wonderful, sex is a
opportunity to be 100%
present. But logically, their
paper helps in that state
mental.

If she is thinking about her

work colleague that her
he criticized his boss, he is not going to

to be able to enjoy as one should.

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Logically, it is not their role to eliminate the

stress of your life, but what

you can really do it, in the
in case I perceive that she is
focused on the difficulties
daily activities is to distract her instead of

focus on that.

Bring it to the present, talk about

other things, thus, naturally, your
the head will begin to dissociate from the

situation. Another common blockage

it is the constant focus on enjoying.

As we discussed before, in the case

that your mind is only focused on
to enjoy, such thought will have the
opposite effect, transforming the
great expectation of what it should be
come in obligation, ruining
thus the opportunity.
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Now, remember the email I quoted.
previously, do not give him time to
that she thinks. She shouldn't be
with nothing in the head at that
moment, just feeling the
sensations of your body.

Such absence of thoughts is the

factor that will take her to orgasm and not
to stay anchored in the
expectations.

Well, now that we talked about the

main mental blockages that
can happen during sex, I'm going
to talk about some situations that
you can generate to bring to your
woman in the present, so that in
the right moment, she is not there
thinking about absolutely nothing
more than in both of you.
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For this, our best ally is the
building the climate, generate a
pre-game game. You
Can you make her anticipate the orgasm?
moments or even hours before that
it happens.

With this, your mind will be

thinking positively about him
meeting of you, the same
time that prevents her from staying
capture of thoughts of the
stress of everyday life.

Thus, you anticipate the construction

about the climate, that is, instead of waiting
that she arrives to relax her,
why not send a message
saying something like "My love, I
I can't wait any longer, alone
I want to see you and...

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In the end, you can do it.
in the dirtiest and filthiest way than
you want, logically,
always based on the level
of intimacy that one has with
the other.

Depending on the level of

intimacy, I would send the
craziest message possible
like "love, I can't anymore"
think of something else, just me
I want to penetrate you, eat you.
things that make her wet,
while she is doing
shopping with your friends or
sitting in her office, bored
one Monday, and it arrives at a
a message that excites her and makes her
anticipate the meeting between
you two.
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So, the important thing is
make her mind enter
in climate and worked in favor of
orgasm and not against.

The untamed message is just one

possibility, but be creative,
meme slobs, naked, or
even when you all are
meet in person, no
he is going straight to touch it, instead
From that, see it in various places
of her body, like the ear, that
it is one of the most places
sensitive for women.

That's why, work well the

anticipation until the
penetration begins.

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Tell him something like: 'Love,
let's a go to y bed
let's relax a bit,
close your eyes and breathe
deeply, for this
way to empty your mind.

You can also say something

like: 'just focus on my voice'
the important thing is to guide her during
the whole orgasm, from the
anticipation up to the climax
final.

With her calm, more and more

you can talk to her about a
reassuring manner and that the
make the objective understood.

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Something like: 'Love, I want
may the next hours be
just for us, I want
que nos juntemos como jamás
we do it, as if we were
the last two people in the
Earth, let's escape to
our space where we
let's feel comfortable, because today
I am going to give myself 100%.
and I want you to do the same.

I know this seems a little

ridiculous, but the idea is not
repeat exactly that phrase,
but if saying something for her
feels comfortable, something that the
focus on the moment and that the
make forget the world out there
outside.

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Logically, you will not tell him.
this to someone with whom one
finds for the first time or is
a one-night encounter,
for these cases you
focus more on the small ones
tricks that we are going to discuss
later.

But understand, when you

is getting more involved
deeply in a relationship
and intimacy is growing,
to manifest in a way
that going in harmony will help
a lot in the sexual relationship of
both.

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As previously mentioned the
little games before of the
penetration y until
complementary a the
preliminaries, son very
important to bring her to sex
consistently, that's why
it is important to take some time
in this step.

Just remember that every woman is

different, I used the concepts
presented, based on the
style of the woman with whom he is
that moment.

Now we are going to present some

more anatomical techniques for
to further increase the
chance of success and maintain your
woman present during the
sexual relationship.

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