Guiding to

mind of her
orgasm
Probably, this is the chapter
most important, simply
because it contains exactly the
what will differentiate you from anyone
another guy and to make you the most man
strong and consistent when the
the subject is to make a woman have a
orgasm.

As I have been saying, all

woman is different, and understanding this
concept of guiding her mind, your
body, will allow you to have much more
success with all techniques
"physical" that you will learn.

Making a woman have an orgasm

it's very much about guiding her mind,
make her forget everything
and of everyone when you are
ali, behind four walls.
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As I have said before, the
orgasm is simply the art
to allow oneself, to permit oneself
for your partner, and for what
this happens, trust and
respect are elements
essential.

Your wife wants to feel

comfortable in this process of being
allow you to "download the
keep her and guide her to orgasm. And
for that to happen, she
needs to feel that it trusts you.

That's why, as time goes by

over time, orgasms become each
better times, once your
the woman will get to know you very well
but, to respect you and trust in your
person.
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When it comes to a hookup of
one night, probably you and
the woman doesn't even know herself so

Well, maybe you are together.

just to have that night of
pleasure and that is all right with that.

However, as time goes by

you cultivate a relationship
with this woman, or if you already
if you are in one, you will notice that, to
as she gets to know you,
respect and trust more and more in
you, the orgasms will be more
increasingly frequent
intense.

Remember: orgasms are 100%

about letting the mind be free, if
allow.

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Here we have a report of a
person who sent me an email:
sometimes, when we
she asks me to stop,
because they are afraid of losing the

control," and this is an example

perfect of emails that I
I receive a lot.

Another example is: "she arrived

so close, but it started to hurt
for her, or she got scared
of losing control, and then she
asked to stop.

This means, in most of the

times, that she did not allow herself,
that your mind was very
active at that moment.

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Women have a kind
of the 'program' that kind of
impedes "to allow oneself"
easily, as if it were a
protective barrier.

When we talk about sex, this

"protective barrier" prevents
that they enjoy as much as
pleasure of what they are capable of.

Essa realidade muda quando ela

feels comfortable, secure,
when you trust the person with the
which is dating.

Here things get much easier,

she has much more pleasure and has
orgasms faster
and more intense.

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Ok, so how to make her
Do you trust yourself?

First of all, if she feels attraction

for you and is with you, likes to
you are enough to have sex
with you, she will most likely
respects and also trusts you,
maybe you are already in a
a long-term relationship
in what respect and trust already
exists.

So, how to make her

may I allow for you? Before speaking
about this, I like to point out that
you must be careful with the
words that direct to her, this
because it's not nice to deceive her, to take away

advantage of your feelings and

things of that kind.
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So, for what I am going to tell you
teach here, don't do with
that woman you just
to catch, or if it is the first time
that you are together, and yes
with the one you already have a
relationship, thereby avoiding
that you do only for
orgasm and then end up hurting
your feelings.

If you really have the

intention to make her trust in
you, say this: 'Beautiful, I think
amazing all the moments in
that we are together and I want
getting closer and closer to
you, I want you to be
completely devoted to
Mom, as you know, you can.
to trust and allow myself.
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I know this seems like something
very simple, but it calms down
verbally will help her to
calm your mind as you
that she starts to trust more in
you, allowing yourself to be 100%
vulnerable to you.

After all, is that what you want,

to be able to say 'love, I want you to
you allow yourself everything and if

delivered completely, from

a way never done before.
I want us to be
closer than ever, I
I want you to let yourself go.

Emphasizing the part of letting go

to take, because that's what the mind
She needs to listen.

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She needs to let herself go, never
say this in a formal way,
like "love, you need to
let go if you want to have an orgasm
with me.

Put the tricks that are

being taught here in
context, live the moment with
And teach her to let go.

It is important to understand that,

when is a woman going to have a
orgasm, she must be
completely present in the
moment, and in your mind not
There should be no thought
that disrupts this moment.

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Now, I know that doing this
happening can be difficult, since
we all have voices and
thoughts within our
active heads all the time,
but when a woman or
man enjoys, there is, in fact,
a complete absence of
thoughts during this
moment.

Think well, men, when

a guy is going to ejaculate, it is not like

if we were having sex

and thinking about what we are going to do

tomorrow, there is a moment of

disconnection from reality.

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This is so true that it has already been

tested with scans that analyze

the human mind that the cortex
cerebral momentarily it
turns off during orgasm, so much
in the woman as in the man.

So, despite us men

clarity terms when we are
ejaculating, many women do not
we know how to do this
disconnection at the height of sex.

What can lead them to stay

thinking: 'My God! Will it
Am I going to enjoy it? Is that all there is to sex?

is it, in the end?

but the thoughts that do not
they should have been present at that
moment, instead of turning them off.

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Such thoughts obscure the
moment and does not allow them
to be present in that moment,
experiencing what is
happening in your body and
letting oneself be carried away.

For this reason, you have to be

able to guide her so that
she doesn't go into this 'mode'
thoughtful.

For example, I will read a

email from a girl that we
these days can have
constant orgasms.

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In the email, the woman portrays the
relationship with a person who
just entered your life,
saying that with this it is possible
to reach several orgasms and that
she couldn't explain it right the
why, but that he did not give it to her
time to think, and the next
the thing that she remembers is
when I was having the orgasm.

Another woman portrays the

difficulty in reaching climax
what you find with your current
boyfriend, difficulty that doesn't
was present in its ancient
relationship.

Putting, here, once again,

that your ex-boyfriend doesn't affect you

would make me think a lot.

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So, remember this, don't give
time for her to think, not her
let it enter a logical state
the calculator that will lead her to have
many thoughts instead of
seize the moment.

Guide her, keep her in the present and

living this moment with you,
make her feel the
sensations of your body and that
thus get lost in the moment.

One of the biggest problems today is

that some guys are so fast
in wanting the sex that when the
woman finally manages to
find at the moment, the guy already
Come on, the sex is over.

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Unfortunately, many
women can't even
enjoy the sexual relationship.

I hope that women for

so they are not going through
this situation constantly is
I hope that you, men,
after reading this course take
the time needed to take her
until the present.

Without this, there is no way for a

woman having an orgasm of

truth.

If you follow these

basic instructions that are
being presented, I guarantee
that you will have a woman
very happy in your hands.
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Another important aspect for
creating the special moment are the
games that anticipate the
sex. Many women love
create anticipation before the
final moment.

The positive point of these

games are that they can
to be done hours before the
moment, thus creating a
constant anticipation for her
and for you.

Thus, when the meeting

acontece, vocês já estão na
same tuning, becoming
easy to bring her to the moment, already

that she will be waiting for

it's been a while.

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Well, now let's talk about some
blocks that women
they can have in sex. Basically,
these are some factors that
they can create thoughts
undesirable and consequently
prevented her from being 100% present
experiencing that moment.

The first is a possible

insecurity regarding your
body. In case there is such insecurity
or she doesn't feel sexy, she doesn't
will be able to prevent the constant
thoughts in your head.

She will, thus, ask herself questions.

like "what is he going to think about the

my butt
you won't like me naked.

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What studies show is that
women with more self-confidence,
but more cheerful and that
have more self-esteem in
regarding their bodies, possess
an easier way to enjoy
constantly.

I can usually say,

when I meet a girl and
I am progressing towards a relationship,
if she will have greater ease or
difficulty to orgasm.

This happens because you go

knowing a person e
progressively manages to say
if she has confidence in herself,
in your body, and if it doesn't stay
rethinking things all the time.

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The truth is that everyone
deserve to feel good about your
own body, the problem is that
not everyone can
get into that mindset.

In this case, your role is

calm her down, in addition to showing
that you consider her sexy and
hot, something that is already
it is expected that you are going to have sex,

this way she will feel more

comfortable and will be able to
deliver more easily.

The next mental block is

that she may have the tendency to
to know better than one knows
receive.

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Many people are like this, they are
the type that like much more of
to deliver something rather than to satisfy oneself,

since this puts the pressure on

recipient.

Many of these people enter

also in the discussion of the blockage
mental insecurity: they, for
put in simple words, do not be
they feel worthy of receiving something
or do not have mental security
to feel comfortable
receiving something in sex.

This is noticeable in situations

how are you: you have her lying down,
trying to make her feel
comfortable and relaxed, having sex
oral and suddenly she asks to
stop.
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That's why I tell you, your
the partner needs to understand that
you are doing this with her
and not for her.

Maybe she attempts to initiate sex

quickly to ignore
any insecurity or to
quickly put an end to the
previous situation - this is very
negative for the construction of
a good orgasm.

Therefore, for it to be
more prone to accepting pleasure
what you are providing,
it is important to demonstrate that
it's not about charity, you
is also taking advantage of the
situation of giving pleasure.

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To demonstrate that you are
really enjoying, say to the
it's something like: 'love, I'll stay'
very excited to finger you
so, I just want you to
relax and enjoy, I'm
loving!

The important thing is that she realizes.

that you are also taking out

Something about the situation is that both

they are taking advantage, even though

at this moment, in sex, she is
more passive than active.

With this, you will be able to withdraw

those negative thoughts

how much we talked earlier
and put it in the present.

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Well, moving on to the next one
block that men usually
they find in women, there isn't
has a lot to do with the sex itself, but
yes with stress and distractions from
life of hers that they take away from the moment

and do not allow them to give 100%.

Such a blockage is difficult, as we think

how many problems we have
daily and how much such
problems we keep dwelling on
throughout the whole day, since
family problems up to conflicts
professionals.

It's very difficult to erase them, not even if

be for a few moments and

allow yourself to focus on just one
specific thing.

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When we think historically,
that fact has always been one of
large difficulties yes
humanity, to manage to find
your zen in specific moments
and disconnect from everything else that
it happens daily to our
return.

Although difficult, that is why the

sex is something so wonderful, sex
it is an opportunity to be 100%
present. But logically, your
the paper is to help her get there
mental state.

If she's thinking about that cow

from the coworker who messed things up
with her to your boss, she doesn't
can you enjoy it as you should.

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Logically, it is not your role to eliminate the

stress of her life, but what

can you really make a case
notice that she is still
removing as difficulties
everyday is to distract her, instead of
focus on this.

Bring her to the present, talk about

other things, thus, naturally,
your head will be disconnected from
situation. Another common blockage
it is the constant focus on enjoyment.

Como já falamos antes, caso sua

mind should be focused only on
enjoying, such thought will have the effect
opposite, transforming the big
expectation of what should come
naturally in obligation and
thus ruining the opportunity.
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Agora, lembrem-se do e-mail que
I mentioned here earlier, don't give
time for her to think. She does not
should have nothing in mind
in that moment, just feeling
the sensations of your body.

Such absence of thought is the

factor that will lead her to orgasm and not
to keep ruminating on the expectation.

Well, now that we have talked about the

main mental blocks that
can happen during sex, I will
talk about some situations that
you can create to bring your
woman for the present, for what
so, at the right moment, she does not
be thinking about absolutely
but nothing besides you two.

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For this, our best ally is the
building the climate, create
anticipation for the meeting. You
can make her anticipate orgasm
moments or even hours before that
it happens.

With that, your mind will become

thinking positively no
meeting of you, at the same
time that prevents her from getting stuck
in thoughts of stress of
day by day.

Thus, you anticipate the construction

of the weather, that is, instead of
wait for her to arrive home
to relax her, why not send
a message saying something like
My love, I can't take it anymore
wait, I just want to see you and...
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Anyway, you can do it from the
dirtiest and naughtiest way that
you want, logically,
always based on the level of
intimacy that both possess
with each other.

Depending on the level of

intimacy, I would send the message
the most naughty possible like
love, I can't think
in another thing, I just want you
fuder, I'm going to eat you", things that the

make it wet, while

she is shopping with
the friends or sitting on
office, bored in a
Monday, then comes a
message that excites her
and makes to anticipate the meeting
between you two.
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So, the important thing is to do with
let her mind get into the mood
and work in favor of the orgasm and
do not against.

The naughty message is just

a possibility, but be
creative, naughty memes, nudes,
or even, when you all find yourselves

we will meet in person, no

go straight to ratting her out, instead
from this, kiss several places of
your body, like the ear, that is
one of the most sensitive places
for women.

So, work well a

anticipation until penetration
start.

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Tell her something like: 'Love,
let's go to bed and relax
ask to close the eyes and
breathe deeply, to
thus empty your mind.

You can also say something

like: 'focus only on my
voice", the important thing is to guide it

throughout the orgasm, from

the buildup to the final climax.

With her calming down, each time

but you can declare yourself
a way that calms her and
that I may understand the objective.

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Something like: 'Love, I want you to
may the next hours be only
about us, I want us to
let's come together like we never did before,

as if it were just the two of us

last people on Earth, let's
escape to our little corner
where we feel
comfortable, because today I am going
give myself 100% to you and
I want you to do the same.

I know this seems a little

ridiculous, but the idea is not
repeat exactly this sentence,
but rather to say something so that she
feel comfortable, something that the
anime with the moment and that
make me forget about the world outside.

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Logically, you wouldn't say that
for someone you are with
to get involved for the first time
once or a single time, for
in these cases, you will focus more
in the little tricks that
let's discuss more for the
front.

But understand, when you

is getting more involved
deeply in a relationship
and intimacy is growing,
to declare oneself in a way that
case with the situation will help
your sexual relationship.

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As previously stated, the
little games before yes
penetration e until how
complementary to the preliminaries
are very important to bring
the way for sex
consistent, that's why it's important
take some time at this step.

Just remember that all

woman is different, use the
concepts presented based on
in the style of a woman with whom you
is at this moment.

Now we will present some

more anatomical techniques for
we can increase even more the
chance of success and maintain your
woman present during the
sexual relation.
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