Stages of Unfairness in Relationships
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UNFAIRNESS
Becoming disloyal is a process! Many
people do not know that they are becoming
sluggish... Let's learn about this topic to
to self-assess and assess our
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1st Stage:
INDEPENDENT SPIRIT
When a person belongs to a ministry
and develops an independent attitude she
almost becomes autonomous in that context.
Example: You can call the person to
several meetings, but the person decides to just go
those that she considers important. This
the person is doing exactly what they think
what one must do.
Biblical Example: Joab
1ª Situação: Assassinato de Abner(II Sm. 3: 20, 21; 26, 27);
Independent people do what they want!
2nd Situation: The Murder of Absalom (2 Samuel 18:5, 12, 14);
Ironically, independent people do not leave!
3rd Situation: Threatening the king (2 Sam. 12:28)
Independent people pretend to have a false modesty!
4th Situation: Supporting Adonijah (1 Kings 1:5-7)
Independent people always oppose!
2nd Stage:
OFFENSE
People start to betray and hate each other.
others when they are offended. The spirit of
Offense opens the door to the spirit of betrayal.
Biblical Example: Absalom fell deeply
hurt by two important events. The
the rape of your sister and David's failure to not
punish Ammom (Lev. 20: 17).
Matthew 24:10
3rd Stage:
PASSIVITY
When a person is at this stage, they do not get involved.
in many ways. These people may have been hurt in
recent past.
Pastors look for people who are indifferent and
carefree. They are potential deserters of the boat.
It is a curse not to be involved (Jr. 48: 10). I am
talking about someone who is normally active and
extroverted, but is intentionally neutralized and
disconnected.
To become critical, you must be 'uninvolved'. You
must have enough time to examine thoroughly and
to underestimate the church and its leaders.
Biblical Example: Absalom
Absalom was filled with hatred for his half-brother,
but didn't say anything for two whole years.
This is passivity! (II Sam. 13: 22)
The indifferent person quickly degenerates
and becomes aggressive (II Sam. 13:28)
4th Stage:
CRITICAL
This is the stage of observing and expanding the
failures.
Your point of view depends on your
perspective. The value of the thing depends on
look that you look at her. If you look
for something with critical eyes, will go
just see the imperfections. However, if you
looking at her with eyes of love, you will see something
of hope for the future.
Biblical Example:
Miriam and Aaron (Num. 12: 1)
Absalom (II Sam. 15: 2, 3)
5th Stage:
POLITICIAN
When a person becomes political, they try to involve
others in their ideas and philosophies. Politicians operate from
of the power of people's opinion.
Gradually, they are able to spread their dissent.
for a group of credulous and often naive Christians
naive.
When a person is at this stage, they always say: "-
Everyone is saying out there...
When a person reaches this stage, they become
dangerous for the unity and stability of the Church.
Biblical Example:
Absalom went through the stage of offense, then
the hair of passivity, then that of criticism and
now he starts involving other people in
your treacherous thoughts. (2 Samuel 15:3, 6)
6th Stage:
DECEPTION
The people who rebel are being rude
tricked.
Many rebellious people deceive themselves into thinking that
they are greater than their leaders. Sometimes a child in the
a ministry can surpass its master/father (John 14: )
12). But that does not make them greater than Christ (John
Unfortunately, many leaders when
we made some progress in the ministry, they are now beginning to
to think that they are bigger, perfect, etc
Biblical Example: Lucifer
It was placed where it is by means of another.
Ezekiel 28:14
We must not forget where we came from
(Ezekiel 28: 12 – 13)
We cannot be corrupted by our
recent success (Ezek. 28:17)
7th Stage:
OPEN REBELLION
This is the stage in which insurgents
deceived openly fight against the
authority. This open struggle occurs due to
trust that the rebel develops over time
two months and years. He acquires support
psychological when receiving support from some
people.
Biblical Examples:
Lucifer: Gets support from part of the
angels and begins the rebellion (Rev. 12:7)
Absalom: Struggle for his father's death and
want to become like him (2 Samuel 16:11, 22)
Judas: Betrays Jesus (Mt. 26: 47, 48)
8th Stage:
DEATH PENALTY
The end of all rebels is always the same and the
same - death penalty. The rebellion is
essentially a diabolical thing.
Base Bíblica: I Sm. 15: 23; Ex. 22: 18
Biblical Examples:
Lucifer: (Revelation 12:9)
Absalom: (II Sam. 18: 15)
Ahithophel (2 Samuel 17:23)
Simei (I Rs. 2: 46)
Adonias (1 Kings 2: 25)
Judas (Mt. 27: 5)