Orgasms
Clitorians
Hello, welcome to the module about
clitoral orgasms.
Up to this point, you have already improved your
understanding of anatomy
feminine, as well as the
ways to bring your mind to
present and guide her so that she
I reached orgasm.
I want to make a demonstration
on how to use techniques that
stimulate her clitoris to take her
to the orgasm, but first I am going to
talk to her about how to prepare it
for that experience, for what
may you have the greatest success
possible.
Entonces, recuerde anticiparse, y
send that message to her.
80
Always make sure she is
excited and that her clitoris is a
a little more hardened before
to touch it.
If she is getting excited, to
as you play your
body, she is going to be more and more
more excited and her clitoris is going to
begin to harden.
But remember that if you touch
her clitoris before she is
excited can to result in
doloroso, entonces asegúrese
that she is excited.
81
Remember: you have to have
the certainty that she is in the
present, that she is not imprisoned
in their own thoughts,
but is there, with you,
willing a to have a
incredible experience.
It is also necessary to use
lubricants, we are going to
use your fingers in these techniques,
so it is good to use a lot
lubricant to prevent any
scratch, which can be very
painful for her.
Even if she doesn't feel it in that
moment, even if it's a scratch
small can hurt her, because
that always, always, be
internally or externally, use
quite a bit of lubricant.
82
What I like the most is the
grape oil, which is not one of
those lubricants that you
shop at a sex shop, it's just a
normal grape oil.
And the reason I prefer it is
he is more natural,
provides a more intense feeling
natural lubrication, both by
inside as well as outside, and it is even until
healthier for women.
It can also be used as
massage oil, you can
start by giving him a massage and
then slowly lowering his hands
to the vagina.
83
I prefer to use that oil, but
if you are going to use a condom,
should not use it, because it can
break the condom, in that
I recommend using a
water-based lubricant.
Besides this, be careful
with their hands and nails. Many
women complain that the
Man, they are going to touch them and I don't know.
feel comfortable because their
hands are rough.
It could be a reason for that.
she doesn't want you to use them
hands. and besides you do not
he wants to scratch her, then,
we are going to use more the
index finger and middle finger,
But you must make sure that
the whole hand is very soft
when I go to play it.
84
It is essential to ensure that
her nails are quite short, due to
stranger than this may be
to ring
It will be worth keeping your years
soft, even understanding that in
some types of work you
needs to use his hands and for that
these are becoming more
rough, if you can take care of your
hands, really, it is good to avoid
any roughness on the hands and
on the nails that can hurt their
woman.
Thus, keeping this in mind,
let's start looking at some
techniques.
85
I will start by showing you
stimulation techniques of
clitoris. In this case, the foreplay is
always a key, never go
directly to the clitoris.
Women always complain
that men do not know
prepare them, we are going
directly to the points
sensible.
That's not good, even more so if it's her.
She is not excited, she might even
it can be painful if you touch it
before being ready.
So creating a preview, is it
what we call 'preliminaries'.
86
When you go to touch it,
caress around her vagina and
not directly at the points
sensible, caress everything around and
this is really going to leave her each
more excited.
Remember what I told you before, the
the area of the clitoris extends to
further down, then one thing that
it is very pleasurable for the woman
use the fingers to press the
side of the vaginal lips.
87
You also can
massage it with the thumbs, and
this can to cause him/her
very intense sensations.
Indeed, some women
they can reach orgasm alone
with that, it is even so that
some of them masturbate, of
this way they can arrive at the
climax without even touching the
clitoris.
Thus, you can make her enjoy it.
just caressing her vagina like
in the images.
Now let's talk about how
you can stimulate the
clitoris.
88
After we had a good
preheating, she is ready,
you are going to touch the clitoris, and the
the basic way to do this is
slide your finger down on
on top of the clitoral hood.
The cap is above the
clitoris, which by that point will already be
a little more swollen, you
you will be able to see it a little better later
is going to slide the finger down and
there will begin a to carry out
circular movements.
It means you push the
cap over the clitoris and
press above the
hood, you will not arrive at
touch directly on the clitoris,
just place the finger on it and
make circular movements.
89
Do this for a little while and
it will take her to orgasm. This is a
technique well basic of
stimulation of the clitoris, and it is
also like many women
they masturbate.
What you can also do is
take the tip of the clitoris between
the thumb and the index finger, still
about the cap and move it from
side by side.
You can stretch it a little.
up and down, always
remembering to use quite
lubricant on the hands, and it will be
how to stimulate the central point
from the clitoris, this generates a
very intense feeling.
90
Now, I bet you that many
man never touched a woman
in that way, and even if she does it
alone, it will never be as good as if
it is you who does it, because
she will be able to simply relax and enjoy
while you touch it like that
way.
Another way to stimulate her, and I almost
I can guarantee that no one
man has done it before, it is
grab the whole area around the
clitoris.
Of course, the best thing is always to avoid
things that can hurt the
person, but you need
to understand that this is the part for
where do the babies come from, then
sometimes can "play" a
a little bit stronger there.
91
You can really grab
all that area, around the
clitoris, and massage it upwards and
down
You will almost cross over in pleasure
your clitoris, and if it is swollen,
is going to jump in and out
outside while you do this,
and she will reach orgasm very
fast. It is a very feeling
strong, that she will love.
Later, we are going to talk about
specific movements, but
you can simply
grab it to secure that area and
to ask her to move by herself.
92
What will happen is that she is going to
flex the muscles of the
vagina, and while it moves, its
the clitoris will move inward and
out there, you just need
hold it tight while she
move and this can take her to the
orgasm
Well, then these were
some of the techniques of
clitoral stimulation.
Let's talk a little more
about this when we go to
present oral sex techniques, and
you will be able to combine all
these techniques and offer a
combo, using some of the
techniques that he/she learned now
also when I practiced with him
oral sex.
93
The more I know about what you...
like it or not, the better it is
reading of body language
she will notice when this happens
touching the right points.
And she will also be able to keep telling him:
that, right there, like this
remember: communication is
All! To know if she is.
having an orgasm, it can be
a little difficult with the orgasm
clitoral, in comparison to
vaginal.
94
The clitoral orgasm is more
external, unless you are
applying a combo, but if it is
stimulating only the clitoris, it can
it may be that you do not notice it,
that she only tenses her body or
of a louder moan, but the
most of the time, she goes to
ask him to stop, because his
the clitoris will be sensitive afterwards
of that.
Another way to know it is to place
the little finger in his anus, but
she needs to be open to the
anal stimulation.
With your finger there, you it
he/she will perceive, because, in the case that
have an orgasm, the muscles
they will contract from that region
at that moment, pressing his
finger.
95
So you can try
this, if she likes it, and will be able to
to have certainty. Now we are going to
talk about stimulating the clitoris
during sex.
The best position is, in fact,
anyone in which you
manage to reach your clitoris with the
hand while is
penetrating her, but I prefer the
position of four, when you
manage to pass the arm
around her and stimulate her
clitoris while maintaining its
pen inside her.
96
Personally, I do not do
a lot of this, I don't stimulate much
the clitoris during sex,
I prefer to try to take her to the
vaginal orgasm, but many
times she prefers a
combination of the two,
so you need
to get to know her well and, if it were the case,
there are various positions in the
What can you manage to do?
this.
Very well, it's just this for this.
module, we will talk again
about clitoral stimulation
when we talk about oral sex,
but for now, let's get to know
a little more about orgasm.
97