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By Irina GardeaApril 23, 2013Ariespersonal developmentnodding northlunar nodespotential
I promised to give you more details about the lunar nodes and their interpretation for each.
zodiac.

Here you will find:

What are the Lunar Nodes

What should you consider before reading the information

In which zodiac is the North Node positioned in your astrogram?

Interpretation for the North Node in Aries

Links to other websites where you can find more information

Links to the interpretation of the North Node position in the other zodiac signs

What are the lunar nodes in astrology?

The lunar nodes are not planets, but points at the intersection of the Moon's orbit.
with the plane of the ecliptic (the plane of the Earth's motion around the Sun).
The movement of the Nodes occurs in the direction of the clock hands. They are in opposition, meaning they are at a distance.
exactly 180° on the zodiac circle.

In short, the South Node represents the entirety of the karmic baggage.
The Northern Node represents, on the contrary, dharma, thus the Law that it has to fulfill or the evolution.
spiritual maximum possible in current life.

The North Node generally offers certain advice or indicates what we need to do to become
happier, healthier or to feel more intensely that we live.
The advice or statements are valid, but they also represent a danger – either because they give the impression
it would require too much work for uncertain results, either because it reminds us,
conscious or unconscious, of failures or traumas from the past.
However, it is good to view them as possible causes and solutions, because for each...
problem, there is a cause and a solution; equally, however, what is perfect for one,
it can be something unpleasant for someone else.
Even though people have the same life lessons, they are lived differently, and the solutions fit.
more or less, depending on our level of spiritual consciousness or of
the capacity to understand life. "Celestial Fortune Lunar Nodes."
Below you will find a table that helps you discover in which zodiac your North Node is located.
The information helped me a lot, but it's good to know that at the same time I resorted to
a specialist.
For better results, I recommend considering that personalized analysis is much more effective.
superior to some general information.

In which zodiac sign is your North Node?

For example, if you are under the zodiac sign of Libra, it does not mean that your North Node is also in Libra.
It can be anywhere.

Use the table below. It includes the date of birth.

The position of the North Node is written to the right of this data:

January 27, 1949 – July 26, 1950 • North Node in Aries

July 27, 1950 - March 28, 1952
March 29, 1952 - October 9, 1953 • North Node in Aquarius
October 10, 1953 - April 2, 1955 • North Node in Capricorn
3 Apr. 1955 - 4 Oct. 1956
October 5, 1956 – June 16, 1958
June 17, 1958 - December 15, 1959 • North Node in Libra
December 16, 1959 - June 10, 1961 • North Node in Virgo
June 11, 1961 - December 23, 1962 • North Node in Leo
Dec 24, 1962 - Aug 25, 1964 • North Node in Cancer
August 26, 1964 - February 19, 1966
February 20, 1966 - August 19, 1967 • North Node in Taurus
August 20, 1967 - April 19, 1969 • North Node in Aries
April 20, 1969 - November 2, 1970 • North Node in Pisces
November 3, 1970 – April 27, 1972 • North Node in Aquarius
April 28, 1972 – October 27, 1973
October 28, 1973 - July 10, 1975 • North Node in Sagittarius
July 11, 1975 - January 7, 1977
January 8, 1977 - July 5, 1978
July 6, 1978 - January 12, 1980 • North Node in Virgo
January 13, 1980 - September 24, 1981 • North Node in Leo
September 25, 1981 - March 16, 1983 • North Node in Cancer
March 17, 1983 - September 11, 1984
September 12, 1984 - April 6, 1986 • North Node in Taurus
April 7, 1986 - December 2, 1987 • North Node in Aries
December 3, 1987 - May 22, 1989
May 23, 1989 - November 18, 1990 • North Node in Aquarius
November 19, 1990 - August 1, 1992 • North Node in Capricorn
August 2, 1992 - February 1, 1994 • North Node in Sagittarius
February 2, 1994 - July 31, 1995 • North Node in Scorpio
1 Aug. 1995 – 25 Jan. 1997
January 26, 1997 - October 20, 1998
October 21, 1998 - April 9, 2000 • North Node in Leo
April 10, 2000 - October 12, 2001
Oct 13, 2001 - Apr 13, 2003 • North Node in Gemini
April 14, 2003 – December 25, 2004
December 26, 2004 - June 21, 2006
June 22, 2006 - December 18, 2007

December 19, 2007 – August 21, 2009 • North Node in Aquarius

August 22, 2009 - March 3, 2011 • North Node in Capricorn
March 4, 2011 - August 29, 2012
August 30, 2012 – February 18, 2014 • North Node in Scorpio
February 19, 2014 – November 11, 2015 • North Node in Libra
November 12, 2015 - May 9, 2017 • North Node in Virgo
May 10, 2017 - November 6, 2018
November 7, 2018 - May 4, 2020 • North Node in Cancer
May 5, 2020 - January 18, 2022 • North Node in Gemini
January 19, 2022 – July 17, 2023
July 18, 2023 - January 11, 2025
January 12, 2025 – July 26, 2026

North Node in Aries

Natives with the north node in Aries are born athletes, pioneers, and leaders. e D
Similarly, they have self-awareness, are creative, masculine, confident, and competitive.

enjoy action, speed, and risk-taking. They can be assertive and bold,
They are not bothered by being alone due to an extraordinary self-esteem.

The archetypes of natives with the North Node in Aries are:

Spiritual warrior

The athlete in competition with himself

The beginning of spring

If you find yourself in the description above, it means that you are most likely heading towards
fulfilling the potential given by the North Node in Aries.

If you don't find yourself yet, it's okay.

It is normal not to immediately identify with the above because of the North Node
represents the exit from the comfort zone, from the familiar.

This signifies what you need to become, the lessons to be learned, and implicitly the energies that
your soul would like to bring them into your life to make you feel more fulfilled.
In short, these would be 10 aspects to consider if you have the North Node in Aries:

Don't rush, don't try to do everything at once. Take your time... try them one at a time.
one ...and you will see how you will "blossom" right before your own eyes.

Be the bold and assertive initiator.

Use the energy and courage to inspire change

3. Identify with the "warrior" within you

4. Use your strong will to overcome challenges

5.. Take risks and don't be afraid to express your opinion.

Be the pioneering spirit of your generation.

7. Don't be so concerned about what others want and believe ... follow your own path
you can't fail.

Surround yourself with people who support your assertiveness and daring.

9. Incorporate Aries symbols into your daily life to remind you of

mission

10. If the most important, become the 'Spiritual Warrior' you are meant to be!

If you have the North Node in Aries, it means that the South Node is in Libra.

As the South Node represents the comfort zone and at the same time old habits that no longer help you as much
For a long time now, follow in the table below what the specific traits of Libra are and
propose to exceed them in order to move towards fulfilling the potential given by the North Node
in Aries:

South Node in Libra: (comfort zone, old patterns) ---> North Node in Aries (new)
possibilities):

AMBIVALENT…………………………………………..ASSERTIVE
• HESITANT…………………………………………APPRECIATES THE ACTION
SUPERFICIAL
FEAR OF CONFLICT.......................WITHSELF-AWARE
AVOID ANGER..........................INITIATE
• FACES EXCESSIVE COMPROMISES .................... HE LIKES NOVELTY
PREA RANATIONALASSUMES RISKS
PASSIVE…………………………………………………………………..SPONTAN
•DORESTE PACEA CU ORICE PREȚ ..............PREFER ACTHEORY
APATHETIC COMPETITIVE
NECINSTIT..............................................AUTO-MOTIVAȚ
VANITOS…………………………………………………………….CURIOUS
•TASKS………………………………………………………………EXPLORE

NESTATORNIC..........................ENERGIZANT

by Rodica Purniche

The vulnerable point of natives with the North Node in Aries is the need for justice and
absolute correctness.

In equal measure, they dream of the ideal relationship based on total trust.
I have the talent to perceive the other's point of view and to negotiate diplomatically in order to
establish and maintain correctness.

Natives with the North Node in Aries desire happiness, harmony, fairness, and fulfillment alongside
the being that I love.

To achieve this, they need to first have their own partner. Thus, they will
they will know more and more, they will accomplish remarkable things for those around them and will feel
powerful and appreciated.

They are the leaders, the innovators, the pioneers. That is why they need professions that require initiative and
independent action (for example, surgeon, technician or entrepreneur), in which to
work alone, to follow and to know themselves, and finally to control and to
direct your beneficial energies.

He has a natural talent for supporting others.

In order to effectively support others, they have exceptionally developed their consciousness and
sensitivity, using love as tools, the ability to calm, the power to
encouragement and trust that the other will come out victorious from any situation.
They are used to giving, to being a 'team player' and supporting others without thinking of themselves.
their own person, which often caused them to annihilate their own identity.

These natives must discover and stabilize their identity.

This discovery cannot be rushed, and natives with the North Node in Aries are making progress.
only if they decide to pay more attention to themselves.
These natives have a colossal power to love, which shines through them, radiant and touching.
almost anyone I meet.

They came with the feeling that they are loved by others, whom they perceive as they truly are and
I am making a celebration out of this truth.
Thanks to these perceptions, I then experience uplifting states, as I fully appreciate glory.
the power, the energy, the light and the life from the other.
What remains for them in the next stage is to see the same beauty within themselves.

Those with the North Node in Aries are so sensitive to the atmosphere around others that they have
the tendency to make maintaining a harmonious atmosphere the main goal of the relationship.
They indeed need harmony in their life to feel fulfilled and happy, but they reach to
I have internal complications if their balance depends on another person.
They need to develop their ability to focus on a single idea.

Because natives with the North Node in Aries are influenced by the image that others have of them.
about them (especially if it concerns someone they respect), they develop over time
the tendency to trust the judgment of others more than one's own.
Fearing that others will judge them if their decision is based on criteria other than on a
solid logic, they tend to believe that decisions made based on first impulses would be wrong.
On the contrary, for those with the North Node in Aries, decisions based on the first impulse yield,
In general, the best results, logic being necessary later on, to find
the practical applicability of the decision.

If they need to make a decision but don't feel any impulse, it's very normal not to.
decide nothing.

Natives with the North Node in Aries find it useful to develop self-control and to resort to
systematic introspections.
The lesson of these natives is to be altruistic for themselves. It doesn't seem logical, but it is practical.
Admitting one's own weaknesses without fear of hurting someone helps at a deeper level to cope.
of their own soul, of their own qualities and flaws, of their own desires.

The time has come for them to take the courage and responsibility to create their own happiness.
Natives with the North Node in Aries come with the energy to help others, to support their ideas, to
to implement and to carry out the projects, because that is how they understand "the energy to
finalizes.

However, their task is to start things. They must initiate, then leaving the others.
to finalize.

This is a way to learn to appreciate others without underestimating oneself.

If they do not join them, then they can also take responsibility for the end.

In the process of cooperating with others, the most important thing is to allow others to...
help.
Here is a role reversal: although they are leaders, they must allow others to support them and to.
promote the ideas.
For natives with the North Node in Aries, everything that is to their advantage requires discipline.
spend a certain amount of time alone, daily, to have a few habits or routines to
consolidate life.

Self-discipline is not a punishment, but rather a practice.

It involves strengthening the body to gain power, health, and good mood.
Moreover, it can prove to be a tool in discovering one's own identity. Practicing
The awareness of self-discipline will awaken the warrior within him in a balanced and harmonious way.

In many ways, it can be said that they do not interact with each other, but with the relationship.
between them and the other. The relationship is not an entity, it cannot evolve if the two do not evolve.
people.
If these natives believe in the ability of the close being to act autonomously - instead of...
encourage, to calm him permanently or to 'fix his pants' - then they will succeed in
remark on the other's strengths and then yes, it is really necessary to encourage him/her to utilize them
these forces.
This attitude paves the way for looking at and within themselves at a deeper level,
to discover their own resources there and to follow their own impulses in the direction
evolution.

Dependence on harmony between them and others (especially in the couple relationship) is the element
of primary importance in this life for those with the North Node in Aries.
In fact, the problem may involve not only addiction but also total identification with being.
sometimes appropriate, with all the people who mean something to them.

These natives often end up identifying so much with their loved ones that they are overwhelmed by
their emotional states.
They treat each other as an extension of themselves and end up losing their patience while trying to find it.
make "to set things right", so that they feel comfortable again within themselves.
To avoid such behavior, they need to respect others enough.
to allow them the right to live their emotional states, because in this way, people reach a
deeper level of affective consciousness.

Additionally, these natives can understand much better what is happening with the loved one if they
stay a little away from her. Therefore, it is crucially important for them to have a space of
a place, surrounded by personal things, to go when they have identified too much with
a close being – a place where they can be alone.

These natives will never be able to enjoy inner peace as long as they refuse.
to recognize both the 'boundaries' of one's own being and those of the loved being, allowing that
Another person to be their "center". This is their lesson.
None of us actually knows what makes the other feel good and if we
by doing this we deprive him of the chance to discover himself and fulfill himself.
Natives with the North Node in Aries are sometimes so obsessed with peace and harmony that they
They ruin relationships in a reckless manner due to their tendency to avoid any kind of conflict.
How many times do they foresee something like this, instead of solving it in the early stages, they postpone it until
divine inevitability.

For their relationship with their loved ones to be successful, those with the North Node in Aries must
embrace the value of acting independently in the direction that brings them satisfaction
personnel.
In this case, they will no longer 'share their energy' with just one person to be happy, but
they will broaden their scope and will interact with many different people, developing themselves and
consolidating their own identity at the same time, which will create real happiness for them.
After that, relationally matured, they can connect with their loved one, because now
each of the two has something to offer. Because they have recharged their batteries outside the relationship, they
they have more "exchange" energy within the relationship.

The joy of discovering one's own self is one of the highest experiences of the natives.
with the North Node in Aries. The best technique for truly discovering oneself is
the courage to follow their impulses, as this attitude will energize their vitality.
Their style resembles that of a ram (sometimes hitting with its head, trying its luck and...
(laughing), but in this way, they discover who they really are.
This process involves taking risks and expressing different facets of their personality and
constitutes the fundamental reason, realized, behind every action. Natives with the Node
North in Aries must learn to redirect the power of love towards its own being.

One of the reasons why they postpone revealing themselves to others is that they are not sure of themselves.
insisi.
This shortcoming can be overcome through greater trust in their being and through a greater and
constant courage to allow others to know them deeply.

Even though, at a subconscious level, they feel this act as a great risk (to reveal yourself in
totality means becoming vulnerable to possible emotional aggressions from others), these
natives can reconsider their life experience at any time to notice that the methods through which
the attempts to harmonize relationally have not yielded results.

Now, if they want the result to be different (the good one, of course!), and the methods of interacting with
people must also be other. In order to allow their new authentic identity to take shape.
contour, they must express themselves as they feel, avoiding prejudices such as 'this is proper' or
"this is not fitting" to do, in other words, they need to be spontaneous and say what they have to say.

Instead of waiting for others' opinions, they must act immediately, motivated by the first impulse.
what is always the most "clean", untainted by emotions or mentalities.
Action and in accordance with it, they will also benefit from the force and energy with which this impulse
vine loaded.

Another aspect of a positive attitude is that these natives make the 'boundaries' known to others.
their identity, while also defending their position that no one should abuse them.
I suppose that people will treat them with sensitivity, out of love, but it is not always the case. In
this direction, to protect themselves from a possible failure, it is good for them to love each other enough and to
do not allow anyone to hurt you.

In relationships, they will always enjoy love and fairness if they have the courage to ...
behave authentically, just as they truly are.
This means to trust their intuitive wisdom that emanates from a very
deep love.

It takes courage, the will to experiment, and enough confidence to take risks.
People almost always have reservations about a new idea because it means change.
It is a natural reaction and one of the qualities of a leader is to know this.
If natives with the North Node in Aries continue to "demonstrate credibility" and to
follow their inner impulses, then they will find that often others will adapt and do
uphold the decision.

Existence reserves the joy of discovering one's own individuality.

Life is an adventure if they have the courage to see it that way and to realize their spontaneous impulses.
If they have ideas, then the feeling of fulfillment and happiness will grow in them.

These natives must abandon their doubts about their own availabilities and begin to
if it is not self-sufficient, act according to spontaneous impulses.

If one assumes to build their own happiness, actively following the direction in which
to reach their goal, they will be led to activities and/or people that will
fulfill the requirements.

Do you want to know more?

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With love,

Irina.

P.S.: Look for the North Node of your loved one. Discover how you can help them, what their qualities are.
to encourage them to reach their potential.

P.P.S.: If you want advice from a professional astrologer, I recommend Valeriu.

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North Node in Rac
Natives with the North Node in Cancer are emotional, sensitive, maternal, and home-loving.

From a spiritual point of view, these natives often wish to create a 'nest' to have
care for those I love.

They are extremely intuitive, they are dedicated to supporting the child within each of us. They are capable
to express their deepest feelings, without being afraid of showing their vulnerability.

The archetypes of the native with the North Node in Cancer include:

Mama

Feminine nature

The protector of the house

The cook

If you find yourself in the description above, it means that you are most likely heading towards
fulfilling the potential given by the North Node in Cancer.

If you don't recognize yourself yet, it's okay.

It is normal not to immediately identify with the above because of the North Node
It represents the exit from the comfort zone, from the familiar.

This signifies what you need to become, the lessons to be learned, and implicitly the energies that
your soul would like to bring them into your life to make you feel more fulfilled.

In short, here are 10 aspects to consider if you have the North Node in Cancer:

Don't rush, don't try to do everything at once. Take your time... try them one by one.
...and you will see how you will 'bloom' right before your own eyes.

Take care of yourself.

2. Connect with your emotions, do not repress them.

3. Identify with that part of you that represents the child, not the adult.

4. Let go of the need for control and achievement. THE EARTH (Capricorn) will always be
under your feet.

5. Trust what you feel. Do not be afraid of WATER (Cancer) because this
"apa" is the emotion you feel deep within you. Take care of it and nurture it.

Surround yourself with people who make you feel safe.

7. Create a home that you love... cook... provide spiritual nourishment... live.
connect with life.

Create the family (literally or not) that your soul longs for desperately.

9. Incorporate Cancer symbols into your daily life to remind you of

mission.

10. If the most important, become the 'Mother Earth' that you are meant to be!
If you have the North Node in Cancer, it means that the South Node is in Capricorn.

Since the South Node represents the comfort zone and also old habits that no longer help you as much
For a long time now, follow in the table below what the specific traits of Capricorn are and
propose to surpass them in order to move towards fulfilling the potential given by the North Node

SOUTH NODE IN CAPRICORN: (COMFORT ZONE, OLD MODELS) ---> NORTH NODE IN CANCER
(NO POSSIBILITIES):

MATERIALIST…………………………………………………..LOVER
RIGID
Ambitious ... Intuitive
OBSESSED WITH THE PAST...........................................EMOTIONAL

PESSIMIST
DO NOT REACT ........................................ MOTHER
•BEING SERIOUS………………………………………………..EMPAThetic
•DISCIPLINE…………………………………………….DEVOTED

NEED RULES ALWAYS.........APPRECIATE FAMILY

•PREA PRECAUT…………………………………………ARE INCREDERE

ARROGANT.........................................SUSTAINER
STUBBORN………………………………………………TENACIOUS
CONTEMPLATIVE..................................PROTECTOR

INTENSITY...ROMANTIC

The vulnerable point of natives with the North Node in Cancer is their need to control situations.
and people.

If they seek to take responsibility for certain moments in the lives of others without them
If this is requested, then they will act incorrectly, as they will usurp the responsibility of others.

The true fulfillment they need is to recognize the immense within themselves.
contribution that is specific to them: that of feeding others, that of supporting them at
real modular.

What these natives desire is to have permanent absolute control over

in every area of their lives. The need to believe that they can do anything is immense.

But, in order to achieve this goal, one must become aware of their feelings and state of being.
insecurity, because this way they no longer hide or repress their emotions.

At the same time, they will develop the ability to perceive the feelings of others.

Natives with the North Node in Cancer have the gift of nourishing others and providing support.
that, any activity that gives them the opportunity to feed (physically, emotionally or mentally)
it represents a joy for them.
Their professional options include occupations related to food (restaurants, hotels,
motels, vacation homes, public food commerce or trades in the food industry, in
special dairy products etc.), housing repairs and household activities.

They also do very well in sales and real estate investments and have a keen sense.
yes, exactly in business, along with an excellent ability for transactions and skilled negotiations.

I instinctively know what to do and how to achieve success in business.

For the sake of achieving an important goal, these natives will make extraordinary sacrifices.

They can work hard without complaining, setting aside personal pleasures and postponing.
relaxation. Moreover, they will directly monitor any activity, so that everything is well executed, regardless
of the necessary effort, as we are masters at achieving goals.

This talent is so much related to innate abilities that it is almost subconscious.

In the absence of a purpose to motivate them, it is possible that their natural talents will degenerate.
in the desire to have control over others.

Natives with the North Node in Cancer have a tendency to take everything very seriously.

Having a serious attitude, they make others believe that they are unapproachable.

Their deepest gift is to get close to people, to those they need to be clear with.
to set aside the haughty attitude that keeps everyone at a distance.

Natives with the North Node in Cancer have a fluctuating sensitivity to feelings: they are either
hypersensitive, or completely insensitive.

If they become aware of their emotional connection with others, they will speak or will
behave without hurting anyone and will thus avoid situations where they could get hurt, until
hurt, my own feelings.
They are practical people willing to work hard, have a keen instinct and a talent.
born to organize everything in such a way that achieves a large-scale objective.

It is difficult for them to accept any help because they believe that others do not see the whole picture.
overall.

These natives must learn that no one can see all the possibilities and that life would
it could be much easier if they took into account the opinions of others before they start to
act

Regardless of the role they play (boss, lover, employee, friend, etc.), natives with the North Node in
They are, to a very large extent, reliable people - they always keep their word and
respect the commitments.

They demonstrate unwavering devotion to the responsibilities they have assumed, but they develop an attachment.
extreme in relation to the commitments they undertake even when it is not necessary or they
it respects even when they are no longer opportune.
They also sacrifice their care for themselves and disregard their own
only needed to honor a promise.

The idea of keeping one's word is good, but the attachment to this idea can make him.
to lose touch with their inner feelings and fulfilling experiences in the field
emotional, it helps them to evolve.

Natives with the North Node in Cancer demonstrate controlled passion and an extraordinary
self-control

Relationships with great emotional force represent an immense challenge and, at the ultimate level, they can
to set him free.
When these natives interact with someone who stimulates their passion, their impulses
the primaries activate and tend to take the lead.

Because they have been suppressed, they now seem overwhelming in intensity.

In practice, natives with the North Node in Cancer fear the most exactly what they desire.
Nothing else in this life can truly fulfill him.

Passion can be the greatest source of pain and frustration for them, but also that challenge.
to take them beyond the limitations they have imposed on themselves and to heal them from the barriers
painful ones they raised between themselves and others.

These natives must focus on their own resources which means

the certainty of "being", which is essential for them to achieve a deep communion,
authentic.

From within this certainty, they can venture outside to interact peacefully with
the others.

If the energy of others becomes too intense or creates a dispersion, they can withdraw into themselves.

But if they are not sure of their resources, they may mistakenly identify themselves with the resources.
the other people, trying to keep them under control to ensure the stability of the relationship.

If natives with the North Node in Cancer are in touch with their own 'home' (their own body),
then they feel much better around other people.

In close relationships, these natives tend to hide their feelings from others.
what prevents them from creating the intimacy they seek and the relationships that bring them fulfillment.

For natives with the North Node in Cancer, the tendency to keep things under control is a trap.
major in their close relationships.

It has become such a deeply rooted automatism that they don't even realize they have it.

Striving to direct the behavior of others and being very flexible, they always calculate.
two steps ahead. For example, if I perceive that a loved one feels "imprisoned" and wants to
In a relationship, it's possible to take a vacation to give the other person more space, so that he can
don't leave.
They are willing to excessively sacrifice their own feelings in order to maintain those of the ones around them.
jur satisfaction and "under control".

While the natives are perceived by their peers as being insensitive, they are, in fact, extremely sensitive.
towards their own emotions as well as towards the emotions of others that they do not know how to control.

Until they form a system that uses the emotional connections between them and
the others with confidence and ease, their automatic reaction will be to keep the being of others under control,
their own being, considering that this way they eliminate the problem of overwhelming emotions.

Due to their habit of taking on responsibilities, these natives believe they are accountable for
the feelings of others, which is why, once again, he suppresses his emotions, so as not to
over the other.

In fact, they do not do anyone a favor, but hiding feelings prevents healing.
the plight of the situation.

This is what natives with the North Node in Cancer have to learn: not to suppress their feelings only
to please someone else.

What those native with the North Node in Cancer desire in their relationships is to feel secure and
to know that they are loved for who they are.

But they make this almost impossible, since, as they do not reveal themselves,
Could others know and love them? Their biggest challenge is to
accept that I am vulnerable.

He is so afraid to acknowledge his feelings that it is hard for him to let others in.
they want to be closer. They do not want to be hurt.

The fear of being hurt is much more serious than actually experiencing an intense feeling.

Natives with the North Node in Cancer flee from their feelings because they are not familiar to them, but,
As they usually communicate them, they discover an unexpected depth in their lives.
interior.

Natives with the North Node in Cancer fear that they will be overwhelmed by feelings and will thus lose out.
control.

Even if they happen to be "taken" in the wrong direction, they can always escape through
simple application of their innate ability to assume responsibilities.

It is good for natives with the North Node in Cancer to be who they truly are and not what others expect.
social acceptability

They have to learn that if they do not communicate their feelings and if they do not act on them,
there will be no "another opportunity".

Emotions must be acknowledged when they arise, and they should not be judged at all.
critics act in accordance with them. For them, authenticity represents the only
correct scale.
When others are stressed, the 'dominant father' aspect of the native with the North Node in
There is a tendency to tell the other person what to do to eliminate their negative emotions.

It disregards the feelings of others and disregards theirs as well, which makes them feel
people to feel misunderstood.

Natives with the North Node in Cancer need to amplify their empathy by listening to others and
understanding his suffering, just as a mother understands her child; then they can offer suggestions
care practices will be useful.

These people are here to take care of the needs of others; if they do so, they will evolve.
and you will gain security.

If they stop on their way and help others, then, automatically, they will also satisfy their own.
needs. They are nourished and fulfilled as they nourish others.
To feel safe, natives with the North Node in Cancer must always be
be concerned with a process and not with a goal.

This fact will eliminate the possibility for them to abuse people, exploit them or
emotional shock.

If, sometimes, their tendency to keep everything under control activates, or mental tendencies
excessive, to remember that these are all sources of suffering.