- Domestic Abuse: a pattern of behavior in any relationship that is used to gain or maintain
power or control over an intimate partner.
- Abuse: physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of
actions that influence another person.
- Signs of abuse:
- Your partner:
- Embarrass or make fun of you in front of your friends or family?
- Put down your accomplishments?
- Make you feel like you are unable to make decisions?
- Use intimidation or threats to gain compliance?
- Tell you that you are nothing without them?
- Treat you roughly—grab, push, pinch, shove or hit you?
- Call you several times a night or show up to make sure you are where you said
you would be?
- Use drugs or alcohol as an excuse for saying hurtful things or abusing you?
- Blame you for how they feel or act?
- Pressure you sexually for things you aren’t ready for?
- Make you feel like there is “no way out” of the relationship?
- Prevent you from doing things you want – like spending time with friends or
family?
- Try to keep you from leaving after a fight or leave you somewhere after a fight to
“teach you a lesson”?
- You:
- Sometimes feel scared of how your partner may behave?
- Constantly make excuses to other people for your partner’s behaviour?
- Believe that you can help your partner change if only you changed something
about yourself?
- Try not to do anything that would cause conflict or make your partner angry?
- Always do what your partner wants you to do instead of what you want?
- Stay with your partner because you are afraid of what your partner would do if
you broke up?
- No one deserves to abused under any circumstances
- Contact CISMU if you fear your safety or suspect you might be in an abusive situation
- More than 10 million people are abused in one year in the united states
- 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men have experienced some form of physical violence by an
intimate partner. (What about everyone else?)
- 1 in 5 women and 1 in 71!!!??? Men in America have been raped in their lifetime
(WTFFFFFFF!!!!!!)
- The cost of intimate partner violence exceeds 8.3 billion dollars per year
- Between 21-60% of victims of intimate partner violence lose their jobs due to reasons
stemming from the abus
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-787-3224 or 1-800-787-3224
- DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT ALWAYS PHYSICAL ABUSE!!!!!
- Abusers frequently continue to stalk, harass, threaten, and try to control the victim after
the victim escapes
- ⅕ of homicide victims with restraining orders are murdered within two days of
obtaining the order; ⅓ are murdered within the first month.
- Domestic violence actually occurs in LGBTQ relationships at similar or higher rates than
in the general population
- Psychological violence can be equally an equally devastating form of abuse
- Gender plays a significant role in perceiving and reporting incidences of domestic
violence