Week 7: Mindfulness & Compassion
Week 7: Mindfulness & Compassion
Matthieu Ricard's perspective in "Cultivating Altruism" contributes to the understanding of mindfulness and compassion by proposing that through mindfulness practices, individuals can consciously nurture their innate capacity for altruistic behavior. Ricard, drawing from extensive meditation experience, argues that mindfulness provides the mental clarity and focus necessary to cultivate compassion deliberately, leading to a more altruistic and benevolent state of being.
The MBSR Week 7 materials link mindfulness to ethical behavior by emphasizing that mindfulness is incomplete without compassion and ethics. It is argued that while mindfulness enhances present-moment awareness, without a compassionate core, it could be misused (e.g., a 'mindful' terrorist). Compassion is thus framed as essential to guide ethical actions. This linkage is further explored in supplementary materials like the Dalai Lama’s video on compassionate ethics in challenging times.
The Lovingkindness Meditation in MBSR serves to cultivate compassion towards oneself and others, enhancing emotional connections and uplifting one's capacity for empathy. The practice involves mentally directing well-wishes and positive thoughts towards oneself and then gradually extending them to friends, acquaintances, strangers, and even adversaries. This gradual extension embodies broadened empathy and mitigates negative biases. Participants are encouraged to alternate this meditation with Walking Meditation throughout the week.
Compassion is presented as a natural human tendency in MBSR through videos and literature that suggest humans are innately inclined to connect and care for others. The concept is backed by scientific and philosophical evidence, such as the video "We Are Built To Be Kind" by Dacher Keltner, which provides evidence of an evolutionary basis for compassion, and Paul Ekman's article "Survival of the Kindest,” which notes that even Charles Darwin recognized the evolutionary advantage of compassionate behavior.
Self-compassion is crucial in MBSR as it mitigates the harshness often associated with self-critical practices, making mindfulness practices more compassionate. Without self-compassion, the exercises can become dry or even counterproductive. Kristin Neff addresses misconceptions such as the belief that self-compassion diminishes motivation and makes individuals complacent or ineffective. Instead, she argues that it enhances self-improvement by providing emotional resilience and reducing anxiety.
The MBSR Week 7 materials encourage extending compassion beyond personal and familiar relationships through practices like the Lovingkindness Meditation, which systematically extends well-wishes first to oneself, then to friends, acquaintances, and eventually to all beings, including those with whom there may be conflicts. These practices are supported by discussions on the evolutionary basis for widespread compassion and the ethical imperative to care about others universally, as explored in various readings and videos.
For individuals unable to perform Walking Meditation, the MBSR materials recommend choosing any of the previously learned practices that can accommodate their physical abilities, such as mindful breathing or sitting meditations. The focus remains on maintaining a daily practice, ensuring that physical limitations do not hinder participation in mindfulness exercises.
Shauna Shapiro argues that mindfulness naturally leads to greater self-compassion, as it allows individuals to observe their thoughts and emotions non-judgmentally. This acceptance facilitates a kinder relationship with oneself. In her article and video, Shapiro demonstrates that mindfulness encompasses acceptance and awareness, which inherently fosters compassion by reducing harsh self-criticism, allowing people to approach their shortcomings with kindness and understanding.
Tara Brach addresses misconceptions about self-acceptance being a means of complacency or lack of motivation. Instead, she argues that radical self-acceptance is a prerequisite for personal change. This concept, presented in the video "Radical Acceptance is a Prerequisite for Change," suggests that only by accepting ourselves fully can we create a solid foundation for genuine transformation.
The MBSR course emphasizes that mindfulness practices, while strengthening concentration and present-moment awareness, require a balance of compassion to avoid becoming harsh or counterproductive. Compassion acts as the 'oil' that makes the practices smooth and effective, ensuring they are nurturing rather than judgmental or rigid. This balance helps prevent mindfulness from being misperceived or misused and ensures it promotes emotional resilience and ethical behavior.