What is the role of body language in communication?
When we talk about communication, we usually associate the verbal
form. Nevertheless, the nonverbal part is almost as important as the
verbal. We can communicate without using words. We are able to impart
and exchange a lot of information by our gestures (dzseszcsö(r)sz), mimicry (k),
appearance, eye gaze or body language - even subconsciously
(szábkánsöszli).
The signs of our body are messages. Gestures, such as waving,
pointing and shrugging shoulders, have specific meanings, and are
generally related to different cultures. I would highlight the handshake,
because it demonstrates how confident we are. Facial expressions are
rather universal. Individual (individzsuol) feelings (e.g., anger, disgust, fear or
surprise) are bound up with the same mimesis (mömészisz) for all the people
in the world.
But we can express not just personal emotions, but also attitudes,
opinions and features with nonverbal communication. Eye gaze is the
perfect example for this. If someone holds eye contact, it is because they
are interested (but staring is more like creepy), however if someone rolls
their eyes, it means the opposite: it is indifference. To mention more
examples, mumbling (mámböling) is often taken as a sign of anxiousness.
The tone of voice, the pitch tells a lot about a person. Posture (poszcsö') can
transfer information, too; if someone crosses their legs or arms, that refers
to aloofness. Having an open body language, touching someone is used to
communicate sympathy as well as affection. Physical touch is also a type
of love language and therefore plays an important role in most of the
relationships.
To sum it up, because we communicate on a nonverbal basis every
time we interact with others, we should pay more attention to our own and
our communication partner's behaviors. We should not forget that the
information is a combination of two components (kompónentsz): what a
person says verbally plus their body language.