What do we learn about Bud’s character in Bud,
Not Buddy, and what impact does this
characteristic have on his relationships in the
story?
In ‘Bud, not Buddy,’ we learn that Bud is
empathetic. This allows him to connect with
other characters and build relationships.
In chapter two, Bud expresses empathy when he
reflects on Todd’s behavior. Bud is involved in a
desperate situation in which he has to defend
himself from Todd’s attacks, and Todd later lies
to his mother about how the fight started.
Bud says that he couldn’t “blame Todd for lying
like that. Having someone that likes you so much
they think that everything you say is the truth has
got to be a liar’s paradise” (p. 8).
This shows Bud’s ability to put himself in
someone else’s shoes, which is an essential
aspect of empathy. By being able to understand
Todd, Bud does not have to feel resentment
towards him.
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Another example of Bud's empathy is when he
comforts Jerry, who is upset about moving to a
new foster home. Bud notices that Jerry is about
to cry and tries to make him feel better by using
humor.
He reassures Jerry by saying, "I know being in a
house with three girls sounds terrible, Jerry, but
it’s a lot better than being with a boy who’s a
couple of years older than you. I’m the one who’s
going to have problems”(p.2).
This shows that Bud puts Jerry’s feelings first,
even though he is also sad about leaving. By
making Jerry laugh and feel less scared, Bud
shows his ability to understand and care about
how others feel, even when he is facing a difficult
time himself.
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We can find a final example of Bud's empathy in
Chapter 19 when he rubs Herman E. Calloway's
back as he breaks down in tears. Bud narrates, “I
put my hand back on Mr. C.'s shoulder and patted
him and rubbed him a couple of times, then left
the room” (p.165).
Despite the way Herman has treated him
throughout the story, Bud chooses to comfort
him in his moment of weakness.
By staying and offering this silent support, Bud
shows his ability to empathize with someone who
is clearly struggling. This small gesture
demonstrates Bud’s kindness and maturity, as he
puts Herman’s emotional needs over
remembering how dismissive he was previously.
These three examples express Bud’s empathy,
and how this empathy impacts his connections to
others.