Samantha Angela D.
Duron
ABELS 2-3
Characters:
Sam: Bride-to-be
Mj: Groom-to-be
(Scene: A bridal shop. Mia is trying on a wedding gown.)
Sam: (On-record, positive politeness) "Mj, sweetie, does this dress make me look okay?"
(Positive face-threatening act - seeking validation, mitigated by positive politeness).
Mj: (Off-record, negative politeness) "The beading is... intricate." (Negative face-threatening
act - avoids direct answer, mitigated by negative politeness).
Sam: (On-record, direct) "Honest opinion, please!" (Positive face-threatening act - demands
honesty).
Mj: (On-record, positive politeness) "Well, my love, perhaps we could look at a few more?
This one might be a tad… overwhelming." (Negative face-threatening act - offers alternative,
mitigated by positive politeness).
Sam: (On-record, negative politeness) "Oh, right. I wouldn't want to waste your time. Could
you help with the buttons?" (Positive face-threatening act - requests help, mitigated by
negative politeness).
Mj: (On-record, direct) "Sure." (No politeness strategy needed).
Sam: (Off-record, indirect) "This next one feels much better, don't you think?" (Positive
face-threatening act - seeks agreement, mitigated by indirectness).
Mj: (On-record, positive politeness) "Yes, darling! It's perfect!" (Positive face-saving act -
provides positive feedback).
Sam: (On-record, positive politeness) "Oh, thank you, my love!" (Positive face-saving act -
expresses gratitude).
Mj: (Off-record) *Relieved sigh* (No speech act - non-verbal expression of relief).
The dialogue in the skit reflects the complexities of communication in a close relationship,
especially during a sensitive moment like a wedding gown fitting. Sam and Mj navigate face-
threatening situations by using various politeness strategies and speech acts, balancing the
need for honesty with the desire to maintain a supportive and loving atmosphere. Their
interaction underscores the importance of empathy and understanding in relationships,
particularly when discussing topics that may provoke vulnerability or insecurity.