Fall 2023 Communication & Leadership eJournal
Fall 2023 Communication & Leadership eJournal
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SEMESTER 1 | FALL 2023/24
my eJournal
ideas · reflections · purpose
Beatriz Dias
Dear Students,
In this sense, and because we are starting a new semester, at a time when it
has become even more proven that the future is uncertain and sometimes
difficult to predict, it is important to invest in ourselves and truly begin to
get to know ourselves and make ourselves known to others.
To know, in the double sense of self-knowledge and getting to know others
around us like friends, colleagues, family members or professors.
In recent years we have seen our reality change from one day to the next.
There were good changes that made us grow as humanity and less good
changes that challenged us and made us question what we are doing as a
society. And in the midst of so much change, the urgency of working and
developing communication and interpersonal relationships became even
more evident. At this moment, change is the only certainty we have and
therefore it is necessary to develop our flexibility, focus and individual capacity
to change and adapt to new circumstances and realities. It is necessary to
invest and take advantage of all our resources to get to know each other,
reinvent ourselves and take more and better advantage of what we are given
to live.
And this eJournal is a roadmap for the path, in the sense of remaining
consistent and aligned with the purpose, multiplying skills, unveiling
talents and reinforcing awareness of critical issues such as the way we
express ourselves and influence those around us.
Use it in the best way that serves you and count on us, always!
Final Presentations
Mandatory class 7
attendance
6 Preparation
The Power of
5
Stories & Feedback
Becoming a Leader
4 for Life
Mandatory
Assignment #4
(Final Presentation)
Pitching Yourself
3 & Personal Brand
Mandatory
Assignment #3
Communication:
The Big Picture
Mandatory
Assignment #1
2 1
Communication
Traps
Mandatory
Assignment #2
Team
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This eJournal is divided into five chapters, which correspond to five of our
seven lessons. At the end of each class, the eJournal template will be available
on Moodle so you can download, consult, work with and add to the previous
one, making a single eJournal with five chapters.
Each chapter has always three types of pages: intro page with notes we would
like you to keep, challenges for you to reflect upon that will help you deepen
your knowledge and incorporate learnings and, last but not least, a blank
page for your personal notes and clippings, where you can write, draw, post
images/ pictures, links or anything you like. You can have as many blank pages
as you wish to register your learning journey, use them with entire freedom.
#2 AN EVALUATION TOOL
In a course without final exam, such as C&L, the eJournal will also allow us to
assess each student's learning path. For the assessment to be fair and
objective, we need you to submit on Moodle your Mandatory Assignments
two weeks after each class, in PDF. This is, until 23:59 of the same day when
that’s been 2 weeks after the class in reference.
Regarding the Optional Challenges, you can include them in your final
eJournal delivery (last class). For more details on the evaluation criteria, please
check the Syllabus, available on Moodle.
The good news about the C&L course is that it is both for introverted and
for extroverted people, for students who feel capable of easy and fluid
communication, but also for students who find it difficult to communicate with
others or have difficulty exposing themselves.
Be authentic
Communication: The Big Picture
1
There is a saying which states that “actions speak louder than words” and we
all know that, if our words and actions are not in alignment, then the flow of
communication will be hindered. The body is our key communication
instrument, and it likes to be used as it was designed. “But with stress,
tensions and even body injuries we may lose the body’s natural movements
(Kinesics), including facial expression, smile, body orientation (Birdwhistell,
1952).
As a result, a body that is out of balance (in which we include the breath
and the voice) will impact our actions, which might end up contradicting our
words and thus generating misunderstandings. This is how we fall into the
first big communication trap: misfit body language.
The following video illustrates the power that the body language can have on
the way we communicate.
Mandatory Assignment #1
Self-Assessment
This challenge that we propose will help you to stop to reflect and deepen
your self-knowledge, something we don't normally do in our daily lives. Take
advantage of this quality time to get to know yourself better and
understand the perception that others have of you. This mandatory
assignment is divided into four parts:
EVALUATION CRITERIA:
• | 10% | 2nd Part: careful analysis with three print screens of the video and
visual identification of the strengths and areas to be improved with the
respective analysis in the caption;
• | 30% | 3rd Part: reflection, interpretation and critical analysis of the results
obtained in the 1st and 2nd parts from a perspective of self-knowledge and
continuous evolution;
• | 20% | 4th Part: realization of a real and sustained action plan based on the
points to be improved identified above with reliable strategies;
• | 10% | Creativity and Originality: innovation and ability to carry out the
assignment in a visual, appealing and creative way;
Mandatory Assignment #1
Self-Assessment
SOME TIPS:
• If you want and can, do this exercise somewhere that energizes you. You
will see that your openness and, consequently, inspiration will flow much
more easily;
• It's not every day that we have the opportunity to stop and look inwards!
Take advantage of this exercise to really get to know yourself better;
• If it helps, first answer (in draft) the questions that we leave you on the
reflection page and after you have your ideas organized, write your final
reflection;
• You can always think of other questions that help you to reflect and get to
know yourself better;
• Enjoy! J
Challenges to reflect upon
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Mandatory Assignment #1
Self-Assessment
1ST PART:
Personality data collection
• Start by reading the 24 statements on the next page and add one that
makes sense to you on the last line.
• For each of the statements, assign the number that best reflects your self-
perception based on the following criteria:
• After doing your self-analysis in the blue squares (first column), send this
list of affirmations to three people from different circles (it is interesting
to ask people who are not related to each other: best friends,
acquaintances, housemates or schoolmates, brothers/sisters... be creative! )
to share their perception of you/your personality. Send the blank list,
without sharing your own rating/self-perception.
• Then, fill in the white squares with the numbers that the three people
assigned to each statement.
• At the end, don't forget to identify the people you chose to do this
exercise. Share the name of the person and the relationship you have in the
following rectangle (example: Maria, sister):
11 2 3 4
2 1 2 2 I am shy
2 2 2 2 I am active, extroverted
3 1 1 3 I have difficulties expressing myself
3 2 2 1 I easily jump to conclusions about people too fast
2 2 2 3 I am good at finding solutions to solve problems
1 1 1 3 I am a good team player
2 2 1 2 I am creative
2 2 2 3 My behaviors demonstrate maturity
2 2 2 2 I am a serious person
1 1 1 3 I avoid confrontations when dealing with other people
2 1 2 3 I am a good listener
2 2 2 3 I am a thoughtful person
2ND PART
Body Language analysis
• Review the video again and again, with and without sound, and mark
with an x what you noticed in your body language (add what makes
sense):
Fixing my hair
Short movements with your arms x _____________________________
• Then, add on the next page three print screens of the key moments of
your body language and complete with a caption and/or observation about
your movements.
Mandatory Assignment #1: Self-Assessment
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• Now that you've finished the two self-analysis exercises, the next step is to
write a brief reflection (between 200-400 words) about this experience. If
you have doubts about what is intended, talk to us or check the evaluation
criteria.
• At the end of this reflection, create a real and customized action plan
with what you can do to improve your interpersonal communication.
• To help with this reflection, we share with you some questions that unlock
self-knowledge. Attention: these questions are just to help unlock your
thinking. Make sure, please, that your text is a reflection worked on by
you and not a set of answers to these questions:
• How does the perception of myself differ from that of others? Why
does this happen? Am I “many people” within one and do I behave
differently in different environments?
• Given these results, and based on my reflection, what are the main
traits/characteristics of my personality that have been identified by
me and/or others?
The first exercise was definetly harder for me. Self-reflection is always
challenging for me because I notice that my personality tends to change
depending on who I'm with or the environment I am in and it’s really
hard to define it. Thus, I chose to help me with this, my twin sister
because she is the person who knows me the best and could provide a
reliable external perspective on myself. Additionally, I considered the
opinion of my housemate during my time abroad on Erasmus. In that
new and unfamiliar environment where I wasn't speaking my native
language, I felt like a different person, which further highlights the
impact of surroundings on my behavior and identity. Lastly, I consider
my coworker’s opinion. It's hard to be the same person in a work
setting because of the unique dynamics and demands of the job. These
situations show me just how much my surroundings impact the way I
see myself and how I act.
Honestly, the answers didn't come as a big surprise to me. I've been
somewhat aware that I act differently in various environments, and
these insights didn't deviate significantly from what I already knew
about myself. I strongly believe in the importance of adaptability and
understanding when it's appropriate to adjust your behavior. It's one of
the reasons why people might have different perspectives or opinions
about me.
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Communication
Traps
Communication Traps
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We are all good communicators, and we are all able to understand each
other because we are all born with a survival kit that allows us to
communicate, even when we do not speak or do not know the language
of others.
You are the generation that was born in the century of communication. We live
in the 'TED era', of talks, pitches, audiences and stages that multiply
themselves around the world and serve to share ideas and projects, to build
bridges and create partnerships but, above all, to generate more knowledge
and reinforce awareness of key issues.
You are also the Erasmus generation, in a world that has started to travel low-
cost. Nowadays it is easier to travel, live experiences and explore the world.
WHAT IS ‘DIS-COMMUNICATION’?
We all have and will always have ‘traps' in communication, but becoming aware
that they exist allows us to avoid them, minimize them, bypass them or, if they
are not preventable, get out of them.
When there is no harmony between verbal expression and body language the
message is distorted or weakened.
TRICK:
To learn to undo repetitive gestures and postures.
When we think we are right, that we are the ones who know, who understand
and who are on the side of the intelligent and of the ‘good’.
This attitude closes us, shrinks horizons, catalogues others, devalues those
who do not think, or act like us. It does not validate different or opposite ideas,
permanently judges who behaves differently, generates labels, prejudices, and
discrimination. It makes us act arrogantly towards people from other cultures,
with behaviors and tastes that are different from ours or that we consider to
have 'other origins’.
Absolutizing points of view is an attitude that can generate cultural bloopers
but takes an even more perverse side when it discriminates and excludes
others, based on our presumption of intellectual, moral or physical superiority.
When we are too close or too distant from others, whether they are people,
facts or events and, therefore, unable to resolve a conflict, act positively in a
situation or understand the intentions that move the people involved in the
action.
This attitude leads us to make hasty judgments and to have disproportionate
and even silly reactions, precisely because they are rushed.
4. UNCONSCIOUS LINKS
When we take for granted that others know or perceive what they are under
no obligation to know or perceive.
It often happens among people who think that others know them well just
because they work with them, or live in the same house, or because they exist
and work within the same perimeter. It is a very common trait in families and
among peers, in companies, but also very common in managers and team
leaders.
Avoiding or minimizing unconscious links starts with being very clear and, at
times, even redundant, making sure that others follow our reasoning and
understand the essentials of our communication. It is also essential to use
images or metaphors (a contemporary narrative is always graphic), allowing
people to ask questions so that we can clarify all doubts. It is crucial to make
sure that we are all ‘on the same page’.
References:
Writing professional emails in the workplace | University of Waterloo - Writing and
Writing professional emails in the workplace | University of Waterloo - Writing and
Communication Centre
Communication Centre
These Are The Four Biggest Email Problems (And How To Fix Them) | FastCompany
These Are The Four Biggest Email Problems (And How To Fix Them) | FastCompany
Email Etiquette: Do’s and Don’ts | Towson University – Career Center
Email Etiquette: Do’s and Don’ts | Towson University – Career Center
2. SUBJECT LINE
DON’T leave the subject line empty. With the number of emails
and viruses that populate inboxes, realize the significance of the subject line.
A subject header is essential if you want someone to read your message.
DON’T write a vague subject line. People may ignore your email, or it
may be sent to the junk/spam folder.
• Vague: Budget // Specific: Budget Revision Request
• Vague: Application // Specific: Application to Research Assistant
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3. GREETING
4. BODY
5. SIGN-OFF
DON’T forget to check for spelling and grammar. An email you write
represents you. Poorly written messages may indicate a poor calibre of work in
other ways. Use proper capitalization, punctuation and usage, and always check
your spelling.
Mandatory Assignment #2
Writing an application email
Written communication, when used well, is often the key to create new
opportunities and to solve problems throughout your career. The challenge of
composing effective emails will, inevitably, arise in any career path you
choose. For that reason, we created this assignment for you to start practicing
today your written communication through emails.
Our next class is going to be about job interviews. Frequently, businesses
and organizations lack standardized recruitment procedures, requiring a
proactive approach via application emails that support your application process.
In this sense, this assignment consists of a simulation of your application
for a specific job, and to do so you must follow the following steps:
3. Then, critically analyze the result obtained. Although AI tools are useful,
they sometimes fall into communication traps and email writing errors that
you learned to avoid in this course. Identify and explain three traps or
mistakes that the AI tool has fallen into and/or that it has circumvented.
Identify the concepts learned in class and explain how you can
personalize the email to more effectively introduce yourself to the
company you are applying for.
4. Finally, revise the email and present its final version. Do not forget to
personalize it. Refer that you will attach your CV and add it at the end of your
assignment. The CV quality is not going to be assessed, only its reliability.
Please, bring your CV to the next class (printed or digital).
Challenges to reflect upon
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Mandatory Assignment #2
Writing an application email
EVALUATION CRITERIA:
• | 10% | 2nd Part: identification of the AI tool used, input inserted (prompt)
and the result obtained. Careful, relevant and complete choice of the
inserted prompt(s);
• | 35% | 3rd Part : reflection, interpretation and analysis with a critical sense
of the results obtained, relating to both parties (1st and 2nd):
§ Explanation of three concepts learned in class (communication traps
and/or errors in writing emails), correctly and in the appropriate
context (see the Do's & Don'ts guide);
§ Reflection on the personalization of the email based on personal
characteristics (according to the attached CV), the role and the
company/organization to apply for;
• | 20% | 4th Part : presentation of the final version of the email based on
the critical reflection described above; structuring the email and effective
presentation of the candidate to the recruiter, highlighting the main
experiences/qualities, relating them to the organization's mission.
Compliance of personal aspects with the attached CV;
Mandatory Assignment #2
Writing an application email
Mandatory Assignment #2
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ChatGPT
Mandatory Assignment #2
Writing an application email
Mandatory Assignment #2
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After some reflection, I believe the AI tool did a reasonably good job, but
there is room for improvement. The AI generated a formal email and
addressed the committee appropriately since we don’t have more
Information about the committee. The subject line is concise and clearly
states the email's purpose (applying for the scholarship). The AI tool
follows the Direct Method of communication, starting with the main
point (applying for the scholarship), providing Information about the
scholarship, and concluding with gratitude for the opportunity to apply.
One advantage of using an AI tool is that the text is free from sarcasm
and is straightforward.
I've noticed that the AI tool has fallenl into a comunnication trap,
which is called the "lack of critical distance." Essentially, it happens
when someone tries to talk about something, but it’s they ser either too
much involved or too far away. In this case, the AI tool is too far away
because it doesn't really know much about me, so it can’t write
about me or my experiences in detail. This leads to the email not
feeling very personal. It keeps talking about things the company
probably already knows, like the benefits of the scholarship. We can
improve the email by explaining why these benefits matter to me
personally, why I think I deserve the scholarship, how I can help the
company if I receive it, and what I plan to do with the scholarship. Since
the AI tool doesn't know me personally, it struggles to distinguish me
from any other student, which might not convince the company that I
truly stand out from all the other students who might be applying.
Additionally, the email sounds a bit robotic and the email is more
extensive than necessary. It explores details that the company is likely
already aware of, such as the benefits of receiving the scholarship. , so
adding a personal touch, like a more friendly and human tone, could
make it more interesting and engaging.
To wrap it up, I should also include some information about my personal
journey and accomplishments, such as how I manage to work while
studying and my experiences during my semester abroad. This will give
the company a better sense of who I am and what I've achieved.
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Optional Challenge #1
Communication Traps
Deadline: At the end of the semester with the delivery of the complete eJournal
Think about examples (at least one per trap) where you or another person
have fallen in one of these communication traps. Describe them, reflecting on
what could have been said or done, in order to avoid these traps. If possible,
design your strategy to avoid them in the future.
4. UNCONSCIOUS LINKS
After you have done the unconscious links exercise in class, post the picture
of your paper and the original paper that served as the basis for dictating this
dynamic. The contrast between the results obtained by the various students
and, in most cases, compared to the original paper is extraordinary. In this
way, it is possible to perceive the impact of unconscious links in our
communication. Take advantage of the following reflection spaces to share
some real examples where you fell into this trap.
Pitching Yourself
& Personal Brand
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The competition is fierce and who wins are those who distinguish
themselves by their authenticity and degree to which they prepare for a
job interview.
Your individual brand will be more captivating the more authentic and
interesting it is.
We cannot anticipate what the interviewer's style will be like, but we can
always control what comes out of us. The preparation of the interview always
involves reinforcing knowledge and focusing on self-knowledge.
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FIRST IMPRESSION
This is the most open question, the most general and the most predictable,
but at the same time the most disconcerting for those who have just sat down
to start being interviewed and still do not feel comfortable to start talking
about themselves. The most infallible strategy is to state one or two striking
traits or the motivation that makes you run. Nothing else! This is enough
to have a ‘foundation' for the conversation. Never start by telling your story,
from school or high school to the present day, because that is a trap where
many fall at the beginning of the conversation and where they start to lose
points, for speaking too much and taking too long to realize that that was not
the interviewer’s intention, who just wants to get the conversation started.
Very frequent and, in certain contexts, inevitable. The most important aspect
has to do with the value that you can add to the organization, but it is crucial to
know the company you are applying for well. Knowing not only the core
business, but social responsibility and/ or sustainability projects, the
company's history and, if possible, knowing the organizational chart, career
progression and even salary expectations, just in case.
Might be a question coming from someone who is interested in you, but it can
also be a trap, in the sense that the organization needs to be sure that you
project your future within the company, creating bonds and building on loyalty.
In other words, even though it is legitimate that in the future you want to be
doing other things outside this organization, the question is always asked to
know how you project your evolution within the company you are applying for.
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AUTHENTICITY
What you see is what you get. The act of hiring someone always implies a clear
and unequivocal bet on the talents and skills revealed throughout the
recruitment process. In this logic, the more authentic you are, the more
chances of success you will always have.
COHERENCE
GOOD ANSWERS
What captivates and sometimes fascinates those in the role of the recruiter is
the ability to get good answers from the questions that are asked. If you, as
an interviewee, show yourself interesting (and not just interested), the
conversation flows and evolves in a way that is infinitely more favourable
and comfortable. And it is in this flow, in this dialogue, that there is space for
you to direct the interview a little, taking the conversation to where you think it
is most expressive, in the sense of making yourself known in what you feel is
most remarkable in you and you absolutely want them to know about you.
It is not a matter of you asking many questions, trying to lead the interview,
nor of answering vaguely or evasively to avoid a topic, trying to reach another
one that may interest you more. The strategy that works is to prepare and
take with you a collection of relevant stories, experiences, knowledge
and facts, in order to illustrate the conversation and not just stay on a
conceptual or abstract level. So, good answers are those that are surprising for
the knowledge and self-knowledge demonstrated (always read as a sign of
maturity, note!), and that you illustrate intelligently, linking them to your
experiences.
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Terminology counts. The words we use also define us and capture the
attention of those who try to get to know us. In this logic, the ideal is to
assume that our flaws are areas under improvement.
Whenever you talk about your weaknesses using the terminology of areas
under improvement, you are revealing a tremendous knowledge of yourself,
and this has a huge impact on whoever interviews you.
As for the areas under improvement, using your terminology and not that of
the interviewer, remember to always communicate them in the past and
with a sense of vigilance. This, in order not to leave defeated, assuming only
your ‘weakness’ without showing signs that you are paying attention and using
strategies to improve, or even overcome them.
Regarding qualities, you can use this terminology or use the word
'strengths', you decide what best suits you, because unlike the concept of
‘flaws’ or ‘weaknesses’, the word 'qualities' does not contain anything negative
nor reduces you to the minimum expression, which is the risk you take when
you let yourself be defined by flaws.
NO GO!
Throughout the interview you have to keep in mind the ‘no go’s’ to avoid at all
costs. You shouldn’t talk for too long, unless you realize that the other
person is really interested in knowing more about a particular topic.
You should not hesitate, because if you hesitate a lot, it reveals little
confidence and little knowledge of the subject. And if the matter is yourself,
what you know and the attitude with which you live, it is very strange that you
hesitate in the answers.
There are little tricks that 'cover up', which help covering the slight
hesitations that are natural and stem from a situation of 'ongoing
thinking', in which we cannot control what is going to be asked. Remember
to use good ‘helpers’ because we always have ‘helpers’, but we have to
improve them throughout life.
In order not to be hesitating or repeating the ‘ããã’ from those who try to
situate themselves and think about what to answer, good ‘helpers’ can be:
• very interesting...
• I hadn't thought that way...
• in that perspetive...
Another trick for when you feel that you are taking too long or being
inconclusive, it is to make a kind of underline/ final catch, with a summary
sentence about what you were trying to say. It always works.
BOARD OF ADVISORS
What do you need a Board of Advisors for? To always have someone who
validates and values your talents and skills; to be able to have good
conversations about your ideas and projects; to exchange thoughts and
opinions; to reinforce convictions, contrasting them with people who are a
reference for you, and even the market where you want to enter; to count on
these people to fill you with confidence and never let you give up on your
dreams and purpose.
You belong to the generation that will have and develop dozens of activities
throughout its professional life. Surely more than 25 and probably even 40,
some of them sequentially, but many in a disruptive logic. This is also why you
need a Board of people and professionals who will always be there to
lighten your path, to rescue your confidence, to help you think and
maintain critical distance.
You will always realize the 'weird' question that can differentiate you in an
interview. It can be a mental puzzle, it can be a question with no apparent
answer, a dilemma, a brain teaser or even a seemingly 'silly' or uninteresting
question, one that does not feel like spending time answering.
Do not devalue these questions and do not resist giving an answer. Remember
that they can be decisive in hiring you or not. It is very important that you
realize that some require you to delimit a universe and calculate probabilities.
Others require other types of reasoning and responses, but all require you to
voice your thoughts out loud. No more doing the math in your head and
giving the final result. Never do that, because the idea is to see, hear, how
you think and how you react. This is because your entire professional life
will require you to respond to unforeseen situations. Recruiters always
need to know how you solve unexpected problems. With what tools. And
how do you put the means to achieve the ends.
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This question rarely comes up in the first contact, in the first interview, but
sooner or later they will want to know and you have to have an answer.
Nobody wants to be excluded from the process for asking too much, but
neither does anyone like to be included for asking below what they think
they deserve. What's more, if more people are hired for functions similar to
yours and those people earn more than you because they negotiated better,
you will feel enormous frustration and, over time, there might be an erosion
that weakens your performance and collaboration.
You have to know how much the market pays and you also have to try to
inform yourself about the salaries paid in the company you are applying
for. Once this value is fine-tuned and because it is rarely an absolute value, a
good answer is to say something like:
"I know that this company pays between X and Y and I want to do my best, so I can
earn the maximum in the future."
This way, you don't commit to a specific amount and establish a win-win
contract. Everyone wins because whoever hires you knows, in principle, that
you will do your best. And you focus on the maximum you might earn on that
position.
FINAL QUESTIONS
Many recruiters like to give the candidate the opportunity to ask a few
questions or to clarify something before completing the interview.
Prepare for this and remember that questions that have to do with the
universe of the company, the nature of the function you are applying for, the
impact of your arrival or about what you do not expect, but the recruiter can
share, are welcome questions because they make sense and do not blur the
main topic.
Whatever happens throughout the interview, never lose sight of the fact
that there are things about you that you want them to know. Remember
to use examples, tell episodes, share stories or underline knowledge in an
intelligent way, without any presumption of superiority or arrogance (much
less distress or hesitation), but also without bringing these topics into the
conversation very artificially.
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READY?
To help you prepare in the best way for your next job interviews, here are
some tips to consider before, during and after the interview.
o Make sure you have correctly saved the day and time of the interview;
o Prepare your answers to the possible questions that you will be asked. The
ideal is to prepare a collection of stories that relate episodes where you
demonstrate your values, personality and skills developed. (Example: Tell us
about an episode that demonstrates your problem-solving skills.);
o Choose an outfit appropriate to the company's style (if you are not used
to wearing suit shoes or high heels, do not wear them for the first time in
the interview. You will be uncomfortable, and this image may pass to the
interviewer);
o Prepare a list of things you want to take with you to the interview
(water bottle, pad/paper and pen, and some questions for the interviewers);
o Online: ensure that you have a quiet place, with good lighting, a stable
internet connection and a suitable chair for the interview. Don't forget to
test the sound, your image and the internet connection well in advance.
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o If the interview involves two or more people, make sure that you speak to
everyone, involving each person with your eyes;
o Make sure you don't talk too little nor too much. Preparing your answers
to possible questions is crucial, so practice in the mirror, with a friend or
family member;
o Don't forget that you can (should!) also ask questions. Make sure you
don't leave the interview with doubts about the company and/or role you
are applying to. The interview’s purpose is also for you to understand if you
want to work in that company and with that team.
o Thank the interview and the opportunity to get to know each other
(you should do it at the end of the interview and at the end of the day you
can send a cordial email to reinforce your gratefulness);
o Wait for feedback. If they didn't give you a timing for the response, after a
week you can always send (or resend) a thank you email and ask for
feedback. If they told you that they will contact you, wait for a response.
If you need our help to prepare for an interview, we will always be here to
help within our possibilities. J
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Mandatory Assignment #3
Listen to Lead
Since this semester’s topic is Human Communication, we would like to
challenge you to talk to a leader who has a strong personal brand and who
is, for you, an inspiring example of having reinvented and/or adapted his/her
way of acting/leading in a new context.
The purpose of this assignment is for you to step out of your comfort zone
and, at the same time, have an immersive learning experience. We believe
that it can be very advantageous for your future to start today creating
relationships and networking with inspiring people with experience in the
job market. In this sense, we emphasize that you are not supposed to simulate
an imaginary conversation or choose someone just because they are more
comfortable/accessible for you (example: family, friends of friends, etc.).
We want this conversation to be impactful for you and for you to learn good
leadership lessons through this assignment. Try to contact leaders who can
add something to you as a person and/or help with your academic and
professional journey. LinkedIn is an excellent tool for doing this and, no matter
how busy and important people may be, they may be able to have 10 minutes to
talk to you, in person or on a call. This assignment is divided into three parts:
2. Then you must make the invitation official and schedule the
conversation about leadership via email to the person you want to talk to.
In this email you must reinforce the context of the invitation and explain
your motivations. This email will be evaluated so it must be sent with the
copy (Cc) of your professors (Professor Catarina and the respective TA);
3. Once you have identified the inspiring person and scheduled the
conversation, you have two options to complete this assignment:
§ Option A: Talk to the leader and write a reflection text;
§ Option B: Talk to the leader at the Nova SBE studio (Podcast).
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Mandatory Assignment #3
Listen to Lead
Option A:
Start by talking to the inspiring leader about leadership and other related
topics that you consider relevant. Then, you should reflect this conversation
in a written text that contains a brief contextualization of the leader, the
reason for your choice, why you consider him/her inspiring, what are the
characteristics of his/her leadership/personal brand and some concrete
examples of his/her reinvention (personally and/or as a leader). To carry out
this reflection you can use text, images, photographs, drawings, clippings,
quotes, diagrams, mind maps, links, etc. We challenge you to be as creative
and visual as possible!
Option B:
Listen to Lead
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Mandatory Assignment #3
Listen to Lead
Deadline:
1st and 2nd Part : 2 weeks from the moment the assignment is communicated;
3rd Part: 2 weeks after the 1st and 2nd part (i.e., 4 weeks from the moment the
assignment is communicated in class).
EVALUATION CRITERIA:
• | 05% | 1st Part: careful and relevant choice of the leader demonstrating
proactivity in expanding the network of contacts (networking);
• | 15% | 2nd Part: formalization of the invitation to the leader via email:
§ Structure (organization of the email respecting a logical sequence of
formal email invitation);
§ Content (clear and concise message that provides context to the
guest);
§ Correct use of vocabulary, language and grammar (spelling and
grammatical errors).
• | 10% | Creativity and Originality: innovation and ability to carry out the
assignment in a visual, appealing and creative way;
Assignment Obrigatório #3
Mandatory Assignment #3
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Optional Challenge #2
Interview Script
Deadline: At the end of the semester with the delivery of the complete eJournal
This script should work almost as a diary, where you can keep registering
stories, learnings, insights, and even new questions you are asked in
interviews that you want to get better prepared to answer next time. It is a
document where you can write down everything that seems relevant to
you and that can help you to prepare future application processes.
In this exercise we are not asking you to create an exhaustive interview script,
but we will challenge you to answer a few questions that can be the trigger for
you to start your own script, adjusted to your personality and purpose:
2. Remember and share 3 short stories that illustrate what you consider
to be your key strengths.
4. How would you describe your personal brand? What moves you?
(remember what your colleagues told you in class on the first day, during the
cross presentation).
5. What would be the last thing you would say at the end of an interview?
(think about it as a closing statement with what you consider to be essential
for others to know about you).
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Optional Challenge #2
Interview Script
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STORYTELLING
Why is it important?
FEEDBACK
Feedback was born at NASA, due to the imperative need to correct the orbit of
satellites and space missions to the millimetre (NASA lost over €100m just
from a satellite it sent to Mars that disappeared into space. Why did it get lost?
Because there were two teams, in two different countries, both responsible for
this mission, that communicated with each other using different unit
measures, so the satellite ended up going in the wrong direction and getting
lost)*. Through a retrovision mechanism - feedback - it became possible to
correct any and every deviation from orbit.
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We all disagree, and we should not be afraid to disagree, because there are
and there will always be differences between us. It is natural and human, given
the diversity of people, cultures, motivations, attitudes, ways of thinking, acting
and reacting. We should just be afraid of not understanding each other
again.
The most effective tool to get back to a platform of understanding is feedback.
It turns out that not all feedback is rescuing. Quite the opposite!
We live in the illusion that we are frank and direct people; we easily believe
that the truth goes through saying everything we think about someone; we
think it is legitimate to call attention, to reprimand or criticize those who make
mistakes, at the precise moment when they make mistakes. Worse, we are
capable of shouting, calling names, sticking labels or pointing accusatory
fingers at others and we get to be verbally aggressive without paying attention
to who is present, who is watching our exercise of criticism, so often done in a
harsh, angry and damning tone.
The Power of Stories & Feedback
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FEEDBACK
If they live in your house, if they gravitate within your perimeter, if they are
family or friends and you cannot escape from them, avoid being like them!
It is important to learn these subjects in the first person.
The only feedback that generates change is the one that is rescuing,
which rescues from failure, which does not reduce anyone to his/her failure,
which meets the context and circumstances of those who make mistakes and
waits for the right timing to intervene, to communicate in order to restore
confidence . To correct the 'orbit'.
People who think they are frank and direct because they always say
everything they have to say, whoever they are, cause even more deviations
and disturbance.
His rescuing feedback allowed her to rescue even the memory of a full
concert, without a single flaw. What's more, it has forever reinforced a bond
of trust and commitment between the two musicians.
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TWO RULES:
2. Being given taking into account who receives it and if it is within one’s
power to change.
And not who gives it, in the sense of relief of conscience or in the name of
'openness’. We cannot give feedback on something that the other is not able to
change, such as a tic or a particular circumstance.
FIVE CRITERIA:
4. Free silence, to create a safe harbour and not to underline failure. Never
the silence that humiliates, betrays or kills confidence;
We know that it is not always easy to structure and prepare the moment
to give feedback. For this reason, we share with you a methodology that is
well known and used in the day-to-day life of several companies around
the world, for developmental feedback.
Starting today, use this tool whenever you need to structure your thinking
and want to better prepare yourself to give feedback to someone in a more
organized way:
Optional Challenge #3
Giving and receiving Feedback
Deadline: At the end of the semester with the delivery of the complete eJournal
We give and receive feedback every day, but if we do not reflect and are
not aware of how we are giving and receiving these same feedbacks, we
run into the risk of not correcting the 'orbit' of relationships.
We lose effectiveness and, many times, we even lose reason. Worse still,
we can destroy others or irreversibly degrade a team's environment.
This is an invitation for you to become more attentive to the way you give
feedback, but also to how you receive it. This is because we do not always
know how to accept criticism, even when its intention is to be constructive.
3. Knowing what you know now about the effectiveness and power of
feedback, what advice would you give to someone who invariably
chooses to give destructive feedback?
4. From now on, what aspects will you always take into account when
giving feedback?
5. Let's practice feedback, using the SBI model. Think about someone
you would like to give developmental feedback to and use the three-
steps to structure what you want to say. In the, end, share with us
how was the experience of organizing your feedback in this way.
Optional Challenge #3: Giving and receiving Feedback
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Becoming a
Leader for Life
Becaming a Leader for Life
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We bring everything in us: vision, the power of ideas, the power of dreams,
lucidity, the criteria for discernment, the ability to make things happen but,
above all, the desire to add value. Our value.
“No leader is an island”. We hear this sentence over and over again that it
ends up becoming a cliché, a buzzword that makes perfect sense to us, but at
times seems empty of content.
This is how it is in academia, you are already called to collaborate with peers,
with teachers, with the School, with everyone, in the logic of adding value and
reaching results.
Your entire professional life will be lived in this way: collaborate more to
deliver better.
LEADERSHIP IS INFLUENCE
(not to be confused with internet influencers)
We all have leadership skills, in the sense that we all influence each other.
Nothing we say or do, nothing we keep silent is harmless. Everything
always has an impact on others. For this very reason, the golden rule is
that we must know how to manage ourselves.
All of this has been the subject of our classes and is the substance of the C&L
course, because there is no relationship without communication, nor is there
any effectiveness in communication if we do not cultivate the relationship with
those around us, especially in a professional context. We cannot have
'directive', bossy communication with our teams or with our peers.
Being a leader, in the true sense of the word, is within reach for
everybody and always involves positively influencing others, living with
the certainty that our words, our gestures, our silences and 'unspoken’
words have an impact and are never innocuous.
Nothing of what you say or what you don't say is innocuous. Everything
you say and do, and the way you do and say impacts others.
Leading involves knowing how to motivate, encourage and rescue those with
whom we work, but it also involves having a vision, knowing how to give
direction to one's own life and the projects we have with others. Leading
implies cultivating trust and projecting that trust on others.
For all these reasons, the good news of this class 5 is to know that you too
are a natural leader. You can and should practice your skills, but it is good
to know that true leadership of influence and proximity does not depend on
being more introverted or more extroverted.
It is vital and urgent to internalize that being a leader for life comes
down to how you create impact in the world, how you exert your
influence on others, how you use your individual brand, how you become
trusted, how you regulate your emotions and moods, how you involve
others in your ideas and build on the ideas of others, how you add value,
how you give feedback, how you multiply your talents, how you cultivate
authenticity and proximity.
SERVANT LEADERSHIP
It is urgent to rethink and refine the way we lead and are led. The way we
communicate and collaborate. The attitude and motivation with which we
serve. And it is because we are living in a time of great uncertainty, in which
the near future is, more than ever, a tremendous unknown, that we must also
investigate the concept of servant leadership. Leadership for service. At the
service of others, be it our family, the community, an organization, a country or
all of humanity.
“Servant leadership represents the power of love rather than the love of power,
in which being the servant is simply the act of identifying and meeting the
legitimate needs of people entrusted to your care. Therein the secret of
leadership. When you identify and meet the legitimate needs of others, you will
build influence with them. It is the Law of the Harvest – you reap what you sow.”
- Jim Hunter
Leadership is a skill that you can practice like going to the gym.
We go to the gym and do sports out of vital need, but leadership is also a
muscle that we must develop. The most important qualities of great leaders
are: humility, respect, self-control, honesty, commitment, selflessness,
determination, gratitude, communication and relationship skills.
Rationally, we all agree that these are the key principles of leadership, but not
all of them are internalized and put into practice. The biggest challenge is to
bring these principles from reason to heart. It is important to create good
habits and not to miss workouts, because the effectiveness of leadership is
practiced in the same way that an athlete practices to win a competition.
Leadership depends, above all, on how we manage ourselves. That is, your
personal and professional fulfilment will always depend much more on the
knowledge of your internal circumstances than on the possibility of controlling
external circumstances.
Becaming a Leader for Life
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The most foolproof trick not to miss any of the opportunities that you will be
given throughout your life to make an impact and have a positive influence in
the world is to be very attentive to your gifts and talents, your values and your
convictions.
It is a demanding task, but it is a reflection that will always help you find
your purpose and live with more enthusiasm.
Always try to discover what really matters to you and that adds value to others,
in all realities you move through.
Our seventh and final C&L class is a class dedicated to your final group
presentations, which represent a significant part of your final grade.
In this class you also have to deliver your final and complete eJournal:
• Submit the eJournal in PDF on Moodle (6th class tab) until the end of
the day of our last class.
Until then, you can improve it and/or edit some parts that you think are
essential. Do it creatively and freely, even if it means changing something
you've previously submitted. No one but you and us, professors, will have
access to your eJournal.
Final Presentation
Human Communication
And count on the whole class to support you, as we always did throughout
the semester!
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Final Presentation
Human Communication
• | 30% | Individual Body Language: the verbal message (eye contact, facial
expressions, hand gestures and overall balance) and use of vocal variety
(volume, range and rythm) to heighten and maitain the audience interest;
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