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H ow To H av e I n s t a n t R a p p o r t W i t h Wo m e n
melody. In this issue of The
Unfortunately, when it's not, it's like the screech of a Rake Letter™
beginner learning the violin. So the key is to try to
find the right chord when talking with women.
How To Have 1
There are many different ways to achieve this. Instant Rapport
With Women
Eye contact is a good start. Too many guys look
away or let their eyes dart across to another women, Reader Comments 1
whilst talking to their date.

Be warned: it doesn't go unnoticed.

Maintaining a strong eye contact will make your date Deepening 2

feel like you are more interested in her and in turn, Rapport Using
she will trust you more. Projection
Techniques
Participating in the conversation is also an
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excellent way to make a good impression. All too
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often, men barely acknowledge when a woman is
speaking, which makes her believe he is indifferent to
what she's saying.

You can stop this from happening by nodding, smiling,

Develop your rapport techniques and watch your and laughing in the right places.
success with women soar to new heights
If you don't find what she says funny, don't try to
Key Takeaways

D id anyone ever tell you that talking with a

woman is like playing a song? When the
conversation flows smoothly and the natural
force a laugh, as it will show. Instead, smile politely.

What would be good talk about? Turn the page… →

• Maintain consistent
eye contact
chemistry begins to emerge, it's like a beautiful
• Participate in the
conversation actively

• Run ‘multiple

Reader Comments: conversation

threads’ (see this
Hey Derek, “How To Attract A Girl With boyfriend but is still harboring article)
Just a quick note on A Boyfriend” article in the last feelings for him.
last issue of The issue—particularly on the article
‘Competition’ vs ex-boyfriends is
Rake Letter. at your blog (Derek’s note: the blog
an important aspect of dating that
link is here).
First of all, I love your work. I’ve is not really thoroughly discussed
been an avid follower of your The techniques that you have anywhere, but I’m glad you
newsletters since last January. written in the article could well brought it up!
be applied in the situation where
I am writing to comment on the - Stephen J, Miami
a girl has broken up with her
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(continued)

What To Talk About? Here's How To Be The Subtle Art Of Pacing The Conversation
Interesting...
Take it slower rather than faster...if a woman wants to speed up the pace,
Choosing the right subjects about which to talk is also she'll let you know. Take it from me, no woman wants to be rushed.
very important. Try and avoid talking about yourself and
Finally, be careful with what you say. Women often judge a
your interests the whole time.
man on what he has said, without him even being aware of
Although women love to hear about their dates' lives, having said anything wrong. Equally, by saying the "right"
they also like to be able to share a little of their own phrase or comment, you can catapult yourself to the front
lives too. of the dating stakes in an instant.

Vary your tone, volume, pitch, and pace of speech in order It's all just a matter of hitting the right chord. §
to avoid the conversation become monotonous or
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Quick Tip. How To Use Projection Techniques To

Develop Deep Rapport With Women

Technique 1: Project into the Future Technique III: Talk About Things Away
From Where You Are
Talk about the future. Ask her what her
‘dreams’ are, and how she sees herself in five The first two techniques are known as ‘astral
or ten years. projection’ and will help build rapport with
the woman that you talk to.
Whatever you do, don’t be cynical. Feel
genuinely interested in her stories. After the initial stage of rapport building, use
this technique to further deepen the
Share with her your own ambitions. Don’t
conversation. Talk about things outside your
be afraid to tell her your lofty goals.
immediate ‘environment’ - for example, if
Technique II: Go back to the Past you are at a bar talking to her, ask her about
her ideal holiday.
This technique is derived from the hypnosis
technique of ‘regression’. These three techniques use ‘time and
location distortion’ which will create an
Ask her about her childhood. Get her to
illusion that the woman has known you for a
share stories with you on what she did when
You can literally talk your way into a woman’s long time, despite only talking to you for ten
knickers if you know what you’re doing. she was a child.
minutes! §

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