Social Skills Activities for Ages 8-9
Social Skills Activities for Ages 8-9
Appropriate Program
for Children
2nd Edition
2010
Start Here! 5
Building Relationships 27
Practice the 5 Ls Daily 28
Building Relationships with Children 29
Building Relationships with Families 31
How to Support Children’s Learning 32
Resources 65
Children’s Books 66
Books for Teachers 68
Fingerplays and Songs 69
Internet Resources 72
Acknowledgements
Contributing Authors
Marcy White
Diana Courson
Clarissa Wallace
Tom Jambor
We use the word teacher throughout this book to mean any adult who regularly works with the
children. In your program these people may be called by titles such as teacher, lead teacher,
assistant teacher, teacher aide, or paraprofessional. When you read teacher in this book, it
means the people who provide care and learning experiences for the children.
We also need to know each individual in our group. Children follow a predictable sequence of
development, but each one is different. You may discover that the joy of teaching is in learning
to understand and appreciate each child.
Build Relationships
We know that the relationships we have with our children and their families are as important as
the materials and activities we provide. Children thrive in an environment that is warm and
supportive. This book considers the teacher’s role in building strong relationships with children
and families.
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Are You Ready?
Ruth Steinsiek
When parents are searching for child care, what will they see in your program?
Are you willing to try new ideas that will pay big dividends for your program and your children?
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Know the Children
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The Fascinating First Year
She recognizes the sound of the human voice from birth, and soon learns to distinguish parents,
family members, and other familiar adults. As her hearing and vision improve, she may become
apprehensive of unfamiliar people. With patience and time, she can grow to trust and bond with
new caregivers. During this year she learns to return a smile and communicate with the people
in her world.
The infant’s first communication is a means of expressing the most basic of needs, including
hunger and discomfort. As the year progresses, she is able to express more complex needs and
ideas. Verbal communication progresses from cooing and gurgling, to back and forth “baby
talk” exchanges, to the emergence of first words. Non-verbal communication may include
waving, blowing kisses, and even sign language. She understands many words long before she
can speak, and her receptive language will outweigh her expressive language for years to come.
In addition, even very young babies are responsive to tone, facial expressions, and body
language.
Cognitive growth occurs at a rapid rate during this year. The youngest infants respond to light
and sound, and learn to visually track a
moving object. As the year progresses,
baby learns to look for an object that falls
out of sight, and will try to move to reach a
desired toy. She may drop objects on
purpose, and she may enjoy “peek-a-boo”
games. She is constantly observing and
exploring her world, and learns best when
there is plenty to see and do. Towards the
end of this year, the child engages in a
tremendous variety of activities, including
banging objects together, dancing,
scribbling, and looking at books.
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Responding to children from birth to one year
• The youngest infants thrive on being held as much as possible. Close human contact
during these first months is irreplaceable.
• Hold and carry young infants in a manner that allows them to see the world around them.
• Share positive, physical touch by rocking, hugging, holding, and patting baby’s back, as
well as through physical games, such as bouncing and clapping.
• Provide the smallest group size possible, with as many caring adults as possible. There is
no such thing as too many loving laps!
• Provide consistent caregivers to allow the child to feel secure and form trusting
relationships with adults.
• Protect the youngest infants from the more active play of older infants and toddlers.
• Provide plenty of room to crawl and explore. Avoid leaving babies in swings, seats, or
Exersaucers.
• Sing, talk, and smile with babies throughout the day. Talk to her about what she is
seeing, feeling, and doing; even if she can’t talk yet, your words will stimulate language
development.
• Respond to the infants attempts to communicate. Imitate her sounds, and engage in
talkative/babbling play.
• Provide a wide variety of materials that allow baby to safely experience variety of
texture, transparency, weight, color, and sound. For example, provide rattles made of
wood and plastic, rattles of various colors and sizes, and rattles that clatter, jingle, and
chime.
• Strive to create a baby-safe environment. Everything in the space should be safe for little
hands and mouths, and furnishings should be sturdy enough to allow baby to pull up and
stand without injury.
• Provide outdoor experiences. Even very young infants can enjoy stretching out on a
blanket on a beautiful day!
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Wondrous Age One
The child is curious about almost everything, and often experiments with cause and effect.
Peek-a-boo is a favorite game, and making faces in the mirror can be a delightful pastime. She
may engage in repetitive behaviors, such as dropping a spoon from the high chair tray over and
over, banging two blocks together to make a noise, or filling and dumping containers of toys.
These repetitive actions, and tests of caregiver responses, are a natural part of learning.
The foundations for language are falling into place. During this year, children become more
and more attentive to adult speech. Sounds are used to gain attention and express meaning, and
first words are spoken. Soon, exclamations such as “uh-oh!” and favorite animal sounds follow!
Books of favorite objects are popular, especially when shared with an adult who points to and
names each object. The child also becomes adept at communicating with gestures, such as
pointing, waving “bye-bye”, and shaking her head to say “no”. The introduction of simple sign
language can create additional opportunities for successful communication by the one-year-old
child.
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Responding to one-year-olds
• Provide duplicates of favorite items, such as balls and toy telephones.
• Offer a variety of objects and materials to explore. Look for items that safely allow
children to experience different textures (hard, soft, silky, rough, fluffy); materials (wood,
metal, cloth); sizes; and weights.
• Include many open-ended materials, and allow inventive play. A block may become a
telephone, or a bucket may become a drum! Seek the child’s point of view: what is she
seeing, doing, and learning as she plays?
• Organize toys and materials to facilitate successful play. A toy box full of random pieces
does not encourage meaningful play!
• Allow plenty of time for meals and routines. Rather than rushing, provide time for
children to dabble and play in the water while washing hands, explore foods and feed
themselves at meals, and attempt self-help skills, such as putting on socks and shoes.
• Diapering times and other 1-on-1 routines can be more than just a chore! Use this time to
talk and sing with children.
• Describe what the child is seeing, hearing, feeling, and doing. Acknowledge the child
when she does something all be herself or discovers something new!
• Acknowledge the child’s attempts to communicate, and provide new words for things
that the child is interested in.
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Children: Two Year Olds
The two-year-old is slowly but surely developing an awareness of other children. Although he
remains primarily “me”-centered, he has learned names of classmates, and may even recognize
other children’s parents and siblings. He may begin to show more enthusiasm for playing around
other children as he observes their play carefully before duplicating their actions and sounds
himself. Complex skills such as negotiating and turn-taking have not developed yet, so scuffles
over toys and space are common.
By age two, children have generally mastered walking. This is perhaps the most active age of
all, and children enjoy running, climbing, simple ball play, digging, hopping, and tumbling.
Rocking toys and ride-on toys without pedals are popular, as are large toys that can be pushed
and pulled. Small tricycles with pedals frustrate many young two-year-olds, but the skill is often
mastered as the year progresses.
Language skills grow by leaps and bounds during this year. The
child’s vocabulary increases from around 50 words to hundreds of
words, and simple phrases and sentences are often used. Pronouns
appear in speech during this year. Receptive language skills are
growing, too. The two-year-old understands and follows simple
instructions, and comprehends the meaning of many more words
than he uses.
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Responding to two-year-olds
• Provide safe, acceptable outlets for active play, indoors and out. Look for ways to allow
children to safely challenge themselves as they build gross motor skills.
• Offer plenty of duplicates of popular toys, and offer children protected places to play
with favorite toys. Teacher/parent strategies such as careful supervision and redirection
allow children to feel that they can play safely near other children.
• Build on children’s awareness of children and adults by creating a photo book of familiar
faces.
• Provide props to encourage more complex dramatic play. Consider blankets and bottles
for dolls, food bowls and brushes for stuffed animals, and toy animals and vehicles to
enhance block play. Allow children to take the lead as you join in their pretend play.
• Provide materials that encourage fine motor skills and sorting/matching skills. Consider
offering “real-life” materials, such as a basket of various socks to match and fold or a set
of appealing containers with lids to open and close. Seek materials that allow children to
experience variety, including size, shape, texture, weight, transparency and composition.
• Allow carefully-supervised exploration with sand, water, and non-toxic art materials.
• Facilitate children’s budding awareness of the natural world with non-toxic classroom
plants, an aquarium, and/or a window bird feeder.
• Encourage children’s language acquisition by providing new words throughout the day!
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Children: Three Year Olds
Three is a social age! The three-year-old becomes more and more involved in play with other
children. She is often openly affectionate to children and adults alike, and may delight in acts of
kindness, such as picking flowers for the teacher or drawing a picture for a special friend. She
still has trouble understanding the point of view of others, though, so conflicts related to turn-
taking and leadership roles are common. The three-year-old also struggles to understand the
difference between accidental and “on-purpose” events; her feelings may be deeply hurt if a
classmate hurts her unintentionally. It is not uncommon to hear a three-year-old yell at a stray
toy for “making her” trip!
Three-year-olds thrive on routine, and may become flustered if things don’t happen in the usual
way. They experience a wide spectrum of intense emotions, and can
swing from one emotion to another quickly. She lives very much
“in the now” – the wants, needs, and events of the moment govern
her actions, and she may not be able to focus on benefits and
consequences down the road.
Physical strength and coordination continue to grow. The three-year-old can be a risk taker
whose confidence exceeds her competence. Close supervision is critical for ensuring safe active
play. Throwing and kicking balls, pedaling tricycles, climbing and sliding are favorite
playground pastimes. Small motor skills are growing, too. When using crayons, scribbles often
give way to very deliberate marks, such as lines and circles. Soon, self-portraits and other
drawings emerge.
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Responding to three-year-olds
• Provide support as children begin working and playing with one another. They will
continue to need your guidance throughout this year, and can learn much as you role
model social behavior.
• Validate the feelings of the emotional three, and remember that events that seem small to
you may be monumental to her! Celebrate her accomplishments, and help her seek
solutions to problems.
• Offer a wide variety of materials to encourage sorting and classifying. The three-year-old
enjoys exploring natural materials, such as seashells and stones.
• Create a library of favorite books, and share them often with individuals or small groups
of children. Seek books with a repetitive story line, and encourage the child to join in
telling the story.
• Play-dough and clay are popular with three-year-olds, as are finger paint and tempera
paint. Encourage open-ended, process-oriented use of these materials.
• Offer an array of fine motor materials, such as puzzles, lacing and linking activities, and
simple building toys. Sort and organize materials to help children be successful, and
consider rotating materials to maintain interest.
• Create warm, cheerful rituals for daily tasks such as putting away toys, washing hands,
and preparing for nap. Songs and games help smooth transitions while accommodating
the three-year-old’s desire for familiar routines.
• Take time to listen to the three-year-old’s stories, and to talk with her about her favorite
topics. Encourage sequencing and recollection skills as you discuss events from the
recent past, such as a cooking project from earlier in the day.
• Children are developing stronger interests, and are often interested in the same topic for
hours, days, or even weeks. Consider
allowing children’s questions, ideas, and
topics of play to guide classroom
planning. For example, children who
race to the playground fence in eager
anticipation of the weekly arrival of the
trash truck may delight in sharing books
about big vehicles, playing with toy
trucks during block play, and having a
chance to see community helper vehicles
“up close and personal” through a field
trip or special guest.
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Children: Four Year Olds
Play with peers occupies much of the time at school, though the four-year-old may occasionally
prefer to play alone. At this age, children are keenly aware of rules and seek organization and
order; they often “tell on” others who are not following rules, and may seem bossy at times.
“Best Friends” becomes an important topic of discussion. Strong, meaningful bonds form
between close friends, with some children becoming almost inseparable. At the same time, the
powerful threat of “I’m not your friend” is not uncommon, and can result in many hurt feelings.
Slowly but surely, negotiation skills begin to fall into place. The four-year-old becomes more
capable of solving conflicts with peers as the year progresses.
Meaningful learning occurs primarily through play; this is a very busy age! The four-year-old
loves to experiment with how things work, and will enjoy working with magnets, pulleys,
pumps, ramps, and other “cause-and-effect” materials. With adult guidance and supervision, he
can be very successful with “real” materials such as scissors and child-sized woodworking tools.
Pretend play continues to be an important part of the day and is more complex and inventive
now than at age three, reflecting television and movies, as well as community roles, such as
firefighter, doctor, and chef. Teachers are often surprised to see their words and actions echoed
precisely as children play school!
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Four is perhaps one of the most talkative ages of all! As the year progresses, the child will
understand and use terms to describe complex concepts relating to time, position, and distance.
The four-year-old loves new words, and begins to use a wide array of adjectives to convey his
meaning. Exaggeration is common. Silly rhymes, songs, and stories are very popular, and
“bathroom talk” may emerge as a way of gaining attention and joking with peers. During this
year, some children also start to form the connection between spoken and written language.
Children may begin to use inventive spelling as they write letters to friends, make signs for a
building block city, or take orders at a pretend restaurant.
Responding to four-year-olds
• Involve children in classroom tasks, such as serving meals, feeding pets, cleaning up
messes, and creating displays of artwork. Foster a sense of community and shared
responsibility.
• Provide opportunities for small groups of children to work together to complete a task.
• Set the stage for children to carry out simple experiments, such as mixing colors;
discovering items that sink or float; working with magnets, mirrors, magnifying
glasses and other simple science tools; planting seeds and predicting/observing
growth; or making shadows with a flashlight.
• Four-year-old children enjoy working with small objects. Nuts and bolts, buttons,
seashells, and coins encourage sorting and classifying. (Supervise carefully to ensure
that materials are not placed in mouths!)
• Create “zones” for different kinds of play outdoors. At this age, children’s ball play
takes up more space, as does active dramatic play. Tricycles, slides, and sandbox play
continue to be popular, as well.
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Children: Five Year Olds
Often a people pleaser, the five-year-old may ask permission to move from one activity to the
next. The need for approval is strong; she often asks adults or peers to validate her work, with
questions like, “Do you like my drawing?” Five-year-olds may also feel torn between the desire
to please adults or to follow peers, and can challenge authority at times. Another quirk of this
age: the five-year-old may be delightful at home but testy at school, or the other way around!
A shared sense of silliness creates close friendships; five-year-old children may find humor in
“inside jokes” and often adore riddles, silly stories, and knock-knock jokes. At this age, children
often prefer to work or play with one or two friends at a time, rather than with a larger group.
Feelings are sometimes hurt when children feel excluded. At the same time, five-year-olds are
becoming more sensitive to the needs and rights of others. Acts of kindness can be seen as she
tries to help peers succeed and feel good. Sharing skills blossom during the five-year-old year,
as long as the plan to share occurs prior to a serious conflict over a toy.
Writing skills continue to emerge and improve. Hand dominance is established in almost all
children by age five. The young five-year-old focuses intently on writing, often gripping their
pencil tightly and leaning over their work. She concentrates on each individual letter, and may
tire easily. As the year progresses, children tend to write more quickly, but their work may
become sloppy as quantity takes precedence over quality. Invented spelling is used frequently,
often representing the beginning and ending sounds of words. The random nature of a
preschooler’s stories gives way to more structured storytelling with a distinct beginning,
middle, and end.
The child is less talkative now that at four. She has the ability to give elaborate responses but
may not do so, preferring instead to give one-word answers. You may, however, hear her talking
to herself, especially when she “thinks out loud” to work through problems while using hands-
on materials. During the five-year-old year, her vocabulary will grow to 13,000 words or
greater. Reading emerges for some children, but will not fall into place for another year or two
for others. Acquisition of reading skills is dependent on changes in communication between the
eyes and brain, as well as many other factors. Learning to read early does not always indicate
that a child is gifted, just as late readers often go on to become avid and talented readers in the
years to come.
The five-year-old continues to have a strong need to move. “Sit and Listen” times, such as
circle time, are most successful if limited to periods of no more than 15 – 20 minutes. Outdoor
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play is a favorite part of the day! If allowed, five-year-olds will
become deeply focused on digging in deep sand or constructing with
large outdoor blocks, planks, or crates. Locomotor skills such as
galloping and skipping fall into place if they have not already, and she
may learn to jump rope during this year. Structured playground games,
such as “Duck, Duck, Goose” and “Red Light, Green Light” may be
popular, though many five-year-olds do not handle competition well
and may react poorly to games where they lose or have to sit out.
Responding to five-year-olds
• Schedule long blocks of time for play with a wide variety of open-ended materials.
• Allow projects to continue over several days or weeks; offer a safe place for materials to
be stored between uses.
• Offer space and safe materials for open-ended outdoor construction play.
• Provide books that appeal to children with a broad range of interests and abilities.
Remember that “beginning reader” books often have a highly limited plot that many
children find boring; well-written and illustrated picture books continue to be popular,
and some children enjoy having more complex “chapter books” read aloud to them.
• Offer opportunities for children to work alone, with a partner, and in groups of three
or four.
• Share a variety of non-competitive outdoor games, but allow the option of free play,
as well. Parachute games are popular with fives, as are music and movement activities.
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Sweet and Silly Sixes
The six-year-old values independence and likes to make decisions, but relishes encouragement
from adults. In the classroom, the six-year-old can be a charming, eager participant who thrives
on classroom routines and rituals. At the same time, he is highly sensitive to criticism, and may
burst into tears or withdraw from interactions if his feelings are hurt. At six, it is hard to admit
mistakes!
At play with peers, six-year-olds value rules and focus on fairness. Competitive activities are not
ideal at this age; at six, damage is done if the child feels that friends or trusted adults think he is
“no good” at something. He is becoming more understanding of differences in opinion, and
much more adept at compromise than during the preschool years! Very much aware that he is a
“big kid” now, the six-year-old may be highly protective of younger children, pets, and even
insects!
The child views the world much more logically now, and is eager to seek answers to “why”
questions. Meaningful learning can be fostered by encouraging children to observe carefully and
seek answers to questions; this is an excellent age for direct experiences related to science and
social studies. Recitation of factual information, such as months of year, address, and birth date
comes much more easily now, without the confusion and frustration younger children often
experience if adults try to promote rote memorization in the preschool setting.
Reading proficiency continues to strengthen for many children, though some children will
continue to build pre-reading skills during this year,
allowing for the emergence of strong reading skills in the
following year. Many six-year-olds enjoy reading
environmental print aloud while passing road signs and
billboards in the car and during trips to grocery stores
and restaurants. Expressive and receptive vocabulary
will double in the next year or so. Imaginative stories
involving magic and fantasy are favorites of the six-year-
old, who whole-heartedly believes in the tooth fairy and
her holiday friends! Jokes and riddles are also
immensely popular.
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Some teachers describe the six-year-old as being obsessed with teeth and, indeed, the loss of
baby teeth and eruption of permanent teeth is a major life event for children! Many sixes often
experience a renewed “teething” period where they gnaw pencils, erasers, and even books and
toys. Physically, the six-year-old may still seem awkward or clumsy. He may become
discouraged when playing with older children who seem, to him, to be faster and better at almost
everything. Active play is an important and beloved daily outlet. Balls and jump ropes are
favorite playground equipment, and games involving hideouts or clubhouses are increasingly
popular as the year progresses. The six-year-old tires easily, and does best with a long block of
outdoor play time that allows him to cycle through bursts of intense activity, followed by quieter
moments of rest and recovery.
Responding to six-year-olds
• Offer kind words of encouragement often, but limit criticism as much as possible.
• Limit competition indoors and out, focusing instead on cooperative games and
activities.
• Encourage children to seek answers to questions that interest them, such as “What
makes a river run?” and “How do tadpoles turn into frogs?” Offer hands-on
experiences in response to children’s questions when possible.
• Continue to offer blocks and dramatic play materials, including puppets, dress up
clothes, props, and dollhouses.
• Schedule field trips and guest speakers to provide direct experiences for learning.
• Consider allowing the six-year-old to teach a game or read a story to a younger child,
fostering a sense of competence and allowing him to explore his nurturing nature.
• Encourage children to join to big projects, such as murals, class newsletters, and
cardboard box constructions.
• When possible, limit plastic materials, offering materials made of metal, wood, and
cloth instead. Real materials appeal to the senses and naturally spark more careful,
focused work and play.
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Skillful Sevens
Seven can be a dramatic age! From the child’s perspective, everything is wonderful in the world,
or everything is terrible; seemingly small events can color the child’s day! She generally prefers
the company of peers to adults, and has several very close friends. The seven-year-old is highly
concerned with concepts of right and wrong; “tattling” may surface or resurface during this year
in correlation with her desire to ensure that everyone follows the rules and everything is “fair”.
At seven, children can be highly competitive, with a strong desire to be “perfect” and “best”.
Concerns about popularity may emerge during this year. She may imitate the words and actions
of peers as she experiments with various roles. Parents may be surprised when new behaviors
are tried for the first time at home! When playing with peers, the seven-year-old retains some of
the self-critical tendencies that she had at age six, but is now better equipped to handle winning
and losing without cheating or becoming upset.
The seven-year old continues to enjoy dramatic play, and will use real props to craft complex
pretend play scenarios. Restaurant, office, and school are popular pretend play themes. Logical
reasoning continues to emerge, and she experiences strong
feelings of satisfaction when she can solve problems and
figure out puzzles; meaningful conclusions can be drawn
from simple science experiments. The ideal
classroom/group setting provides a balance of active and
quiet pursuits, including chances to work with groups of
peers, a partner, and alone. Large-scale, child-directed
projects create momentous learning opportunities for the
seven-year-old!
Physical hobbies are common during this year; children often pursue interests such gymnastics,
skating, soccer, and bike riding. Fun, low-key lessons may help build skills, but it is important,
too, for adults to remember that “dabbling” in a wide variety of activities can create a healthy,
life-long love of exercise that may not be accomplished through intense, focused training in any
given sport. Long blocks of free play outdoors offer the seven-year-old freedom to roam,
explore, and move.
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Responding to seven-year-olds
• Encourage children to talk through and solve problems, but provide supervision and
support to prevent deliberately unkind behavior towards peers.
• Board games and card games are popular. Foster creativity by allowing children to build
structures with playing cards and invent their own rules and variations for games.
• The seven-year-olds’ strong sense of fairness and justice makes this a great age to
incorporate community service projects, such as collecting food and supplies for a pet
shelter.
• Talent shows and karaoke are popular, and are often enjoyed most when done just for
fun, rather than to determine a winner.
• Cooking experiences are greatly enjoyed, and children are able to participate in a variety
of ways. Consider preparing and eating real foods, or concocting your own bubble
solution, play dough, or slimy putty!
• Offer outlets for drawing and creative writing, but avoid mandatory paper and pencil
tasks if at all possible.
• Ensure that classroom materials are in good repair. Frustration, boredom, and lack of
focus can prevail if the art supplies are dried out, the books are torn and tattered, and the
puzzles are missing pieces!
• Gardening can be highly rewarding at this age. Children can fully understand the process
and marvel at the transformation from seed to plant. Similarly, consider creating a
classroom nature center that allows children to observe the metamorphosis of caterpillars
or tadpoles, or to incubate and hatch eggs.
• Encourage children to hone skills through the use of real tools for measuring,
constructing, and creating. Woodworking and work with clay provide many valuable
experiences.
• Provide long blocks of free choice time that allow for active play and quiet
contemplation.
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Magnificent Middle Years: 8, 9, and 10
Eight, nine, and ten year olds are developing strong connections with adults outside the home.
Teachers, coaches, and other trusted grown-ups have a tremendous influence as mentors and role
models. One-on-one conversations with adults allow the child to feel competent, capable, and
valued. She is often helpful and cheerful in the classroom, but may become sullen if she feels
ignored.
Free play often finds children polarized by gender; boys tend to play with other boys while girls
tend to play with other girls, and the groups may avoid or antagonize one another. At this age,
children are easily embarrassed and may seek to conform to a group rather than risk standing out
by voicing a differing opinion. In addition, children become increasingly self-conscious about
their talents and weaknesses, sometimes avoiding activities like dancing, singing, or drawing if
they do not feel as competent as peers.
This group demonstrates a greatly increased attention span and can be thoughtful and reflective.
In the classroom, “busy work” and worksheets may meet with great resistance. On the other
hand, teachers find that projects that encourage reasoning and appeal to the child’s idealistic
nature are well received and often result in excellent educational outcomes. Interest-based
activities are popular with the eight-year-old, and she can now embrace hobbies such as
photography, origami, and weaving with more success than in the younger years. Clubs are very
popular, fostering a sense of belonging and allowing children to explore shared interests.
Children also rally behind group efforts such as bake sales, lemonade stands, and coin drives.
Not only do these activities provide a common goal, but they also appeal to the “middler’s”
fascination with money!
At eight, nine, and ten children can spend long stretches of time engaged in planning and
building activities. Materials such as Lego, K’nex, and Erector sets can fascinate the eight-
year-old for hours. She also enjoys using tools to take apart real electronics, such as no-longer-
working radios, alarm clocks, and telephones. Board games continue to be popular, and the
simple games of the early elementary years are slowly replaced with more complex games, such
as Clue, Monopoly, Chess, and Blokus. The 8-10 year old appreciates having a system and
space to save Lego constructions and half-finished boards games and jigsaw puzzles to return to
later.
Outdoors, she thrives when given the choice to join in group games or sports, explore climbers
and swings with friends, or just “hang out”. Children are growing rapidly during this year, and
often seem restless and “wiggly”. In addition to outside time, she enjoys frequent opportunities
to move throughout the day. Possibilities include active games, such as “Simon
Says”, during transition times; opportunities to walk around, stand, sit, or stretch out on a soft
rug in the indoor environment; and even materials that can allow limited gross motor play in the
classroom, such as a hopscotch mat or Nerf basketball hoop.
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Responding to Eight-, Nine-, and Ten-Year-Olds
• Take time to talk with children about their thoughts, ideas, and interests.
• Offer a wide variety of choices and select activities that are open-ended and do not lead
children to judge their efforts as “good” or “bad” in comparison to others.
• Use stories, role play, and discussion to encourage children to care for one another and
“do the right thing”.
• Invite guests to share topics of interest with the children. Visitors such as park rangers,
athletes, musicians, and artists can spark new interests, provide hands-on experiences to
support learning, and offer meaningful interactions with adults.
• Value children as competent and capable learners, and offer materials and experiences in
response to their interests. An enthusiastically motivated group of middlers can
accomplish almost anything.
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Supporting the Development of Self-Regulation and
Social Competence
You are supporting the development of self-regulation and social competence with infants as
you:
Create an environment of love and trust through warmth and responsive care
Gradually guide infants into regular sleeping and eating patterns, yet meeting individual
needs.
You are supporting the development of self-regulation and social competence with toddlers as
you:
Set up an environment that is safe to explore
Model appropriate ways to manage your emotions
You are supporting the development of self-regulation and social competence with
preschoolers as you:
Use a variety of positive guidance methods, such as noticing appropriate behavior,
modeling appropriate behavior, and smiling at the child.
Redirect activities. Know the children in your group so well that you can direct a child
into a favorite activity and away from unacceptable behavior.
Help children to use words to express feelings and frustration rather than hitting, kicking,
and biting. Be careful not to give children a ready-made reason for unacceptable
behavior, "Did Mary make you mad? Is that why you hit her?" Children need to
learn that they, not others, are responsible for their own feelings and behavior,
that behavior can be controlled, even if their feelings cannot.
You are the development of self-regulation and social competence with older children as you:
Connect what they learn to the way they live. Learning must be related to living.
Show them they are needed. Give them meaningful responsibilities and tasks.
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PRACTICE THE FIVE Ls DAILY
Love the children unconditionally. You may not like what they do, but you love
them. Let them know it.
Listen to them. They will let you know when their needs are not met or when they want
to share a secret.
Limit them. All children need limits for their protection, but limits must be
appropriate for the developmental age.
Laugh with them, not at them. Everyone needs to laugh, to share joys, to release
emotions for survival.
Let them live. Let a two-year-old act like a two-year-old; don’t expect him/her to be
a five-year-old
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Building Relationships with Children
Interactions with others help shape our sense of who we are and influence how we will relate to
others in the future. Positive relationships with children, with their families, and with our
colleagues benefit everyone. Through our relationships and interactions with children, we
contribute to the child’s need for attachment, self-regulation, social competence, protection, and
healthy role models.
We have learned from research that close, positive teacher-child relationships are important.
Children have higher language, literacy, cognitive, and social abilities. They show reduced
anxiety, depression, and stress. Your relationships and interactions with children influence their
development and learning in powerful ways. Here are some suggestions for building close
relationships and positive interactions.
Be positive
Do you want to build a relationship with someone who frequently criticizes or ignores you?
Probably not. Children are no different. Be sure that your comments and responses to children
are overwhelmingly positive. Sometimes you have to look hard for those positive things, but
you and the child will benefit if you make the effort to focus on the positive. Remember that
frequent negative experiences are associated with less optimal brain development.
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Be curious
People are interesting, and children are especially interesting. Be curious! Throughout the day,
allow your curiosity to lead you toward a deeper understanding of each individual child. Instead
of punishing or resenting a child’s challenging behavior, get curious.
Listen
Suppose a close friend is telling you about a report from the doctor or describing a parenting
dilemma. Think about the way you listen to that friend. You are probably focused on the friend,
trying to understand what is being said. You are probably not doing other things while listening
to your friend.
Children have valuable thoughts, ideas, and feelings. They deserve our best listening skills!
Look at children while they are speaking. Make responsive comments and ask open-ended
questions. Your comments and questions support children in the following ways.
• Children learn how to investigate a problem and find answers to their questions.
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Building Relationships with Families
Enhancing communication
When we have a positive relationship with families, we are more likely to communicate
effectively when concerns arise. If I know you, I am more likely to ask you about my child’s
lost hair bow. Without that relationship, I may not mention it to you, but will surely tell
everyone else about your lack of attentiveness to my child. Similarly, it may be easier to address
concerns about the child if we have a good rapport with the family.
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How to Support Children’s Learning
• Building a positive relationship. Show that you as a person they can trust. Plan some
one-to-one time with each child; just three minutes a day will make a difference.
• Being a good model. Remember, children will follow your example. If you want them to
speak softly, you speak softly.
• Respecting and accepting each child for the unique individual he or she is.
• Talking with children, not at them. Talk about putting on boots, walking in the snow, the
first robin, or the new baby. Remember that a conversation requires everyone to talk and
to listen.
• Helping them develop self-control. Develop a warm, trusting relationship will help the
child practice self-control.
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Create the Learning
Environment
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Safety First
One of the most essential services you provide for the children is to ensure their safety and well-
being. You need to know how to make your center safe for children and how to prevent
accidents and reduce the frequency injuries. Most children are curious and view things as
interesting to touch or taste, not as safe or hazardous. Take a child's eye tour of your program,
inside and outside, to make a thorough safety check. Here are some suggestions you may need
to implement.
The Arkansas Minimum Licensing Requirements book is your basic guide for health and safety
procedures. Be sure that you understand and follow these requirements, and other regulations
and standards that apply to your program. Ask your administrator about your program’s risk
management plan. Some general safety considerations are highlighted below.
• Teach children safety procedures, such as fire safety and passenger safety.
• NEVER leave children unattended. There must always be at least one staff member with
children, whether it is one child or a group of children.
• Remove any visual barriers in the children’s activity areas, so that teachers can supervise
children more easily.
• If children are transported by your program, be sure that all safety regulations are
followed: seat belts, safety seats, passenger roster, etc.
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Respond to emergencies
• Be sure you are familiar with the evacuation routes (such as fire drills) and shelter
locations (such as for severe storms). These should be posted throughout the facility.
• Maintain a list of emergency contact information for each child. Keep this list in a
designated space that is easy for adults to reach.
• Know basic first aid procedures and infant/child CPR procedures.
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Staff should help children to establish the-following good health habits.
All employees of child care facilities are mandated reporters of child abuse and
neglect. (Arkansas Child Maltreatment Act, 2009, Arkansas Code 12-18-101,
Subchapter 4) This means that if you have reasonable cause to suspect child
maltreatment, you are required by law to report your suspicion. Failure to report is a
violation of state law.
You licensing specialist can advise you on indicators of abuse and neglect, and on
procedures for reporting suspected maltreatment. Your program’s administrator can
also inform you of your program’s policies and procedures.
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Elements of a Good Preschool Schedule
A good schedule balances active and quiet, and indoor and outdoor, learning
experiences.
Alternating active and quiet activities helps children avoid fatigue and boredom and helps
them maintain self-control. Children need both indoor and outdoor experiences every
day.
A good schedule includes at least one hour of outdoor play in suitable weather.
Children will experience outdoor play for a portion of every day unless weather
conditions are extreme.
Sources: Gestwicki, C. (1999). Developmentally appropriate practice: Curriculum and development in early
education, 2nd ed. Albany, NY: Delmar.
Courson, D. (2010). Better beginnings guide. Little Rock: Arkansas DHS Division of Child Care and
Early Childhood Education.
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Sample Daily Schedule for Infants
Birth to 18 months
10:00 Snack
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Sample Daily Schedule for Toddlers
18-36 Months
8:00 Breakfast
11:00 Lunch
11:45 Choice of selected quiet activities, such as reading books, working puzzles,
building with Duplo blocks
12:15 Nap
Snack
5:30 Close
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Sample Daily Schedule for 3-5 Year Olds
7.5 hours
10:05 Clean-up
11:00 Lunch
12:40 Clean-up
3:30 Dismissal
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Sample Daily Schedule for 3-5 Year Olds
Full Day
8:00 Breakfast
10:20 Clean-up
11:30 Lunch
3:20 Clean-up
5:30 Close
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Sample Daily Schedule for School-Age Youth
Before School
8:10 – 8:25 Children help clean up the interest area and gather belongings for school.
Cleanup
Source: Caring for Children in School-Age Programs: A Competency Based Training, Volume One, by Derry G.
Koralek, Roberta L. Newman and Laura J. Colker (Teaching Strategies, Inc.)
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Sample Daily Schedule for School-Age Youth
After School
4:00 – 5:00 Gross motor outdoor play activities such as bicycling, basketball, dancing
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Good Transitions
Transitions--those changes in activity when things can go seriously awry. Our ability to manage
transitions affects the child's sense of safety and security, which are essential to optimal growth
and development. When we plan appropriately for transitions, the day is more pleasant and less
stressful for the children for us. Here are some reminders about the effective management of
transitions.
• Minimize the number of transitions. Too many transitions during a day take time away
from other activities and give a disjointed feeling to the day.
• Give advance warning that a change is about to take place. Don't flick the lights. Do
walk around to each area and remind children that they have 5 more minutes to play.
Better yet, appoint a "5-minute" helper who holds up 5 fingers and quietly announces "5
more minutes" as he/she walks around the room.
• Give children familiar cues about change. Sing a certain song, play a specific tape, or use
another familiar routine. Children behave according to the habits formed from repeated
experience. Transition cues encourage children to cooperate more readily.
• Make sure that directions given for children's participation are clear and specific. Give
only one or two directions at a time, make eye contact, and touch children gently.
• Begin the next activity as soon as two or three children are ready. Plan for transitions in
which children always have something to do and do not have to wait for everyone to be
ready.
• Allow for movement of a few children, rather than the whole group. Use transition
techniques to move children in pairs or small groups from one activity to another.
• Use imagination and playfulness to help children keep focused during transitions. Fly
like birds, bounce like bubbles, float like butterflies.
• Plan transitions. How will you give advance warning of changes? What do you want
children to do during transitions? What will the adults do during transitions? How can we
have fun doing this? Plan for transitions just as you plan for art experiences and stories.
Adapted from: Gestwicki, C. (1999). Developmentally appropriate practice: Curriculum and development, 2nd ed.
Albany, NY: Delmar Publishers.
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Addressing Inappropriate Behaviors
We sometimes hear this suggestion: "Find out if there's something going on at home." The more
information we have, the better we can help the child. It is essential to work with families to
support the child's learning and development. Knowing that there has been a death in the family
or that grandma has come to visit for a month can help us understand the possible reason for
changes in the child's behavior.
However, a word of caution is in order. We have little or no control over factors in the child's
life outside of our program. Certainly knowledge of those factors can be helpful, but we
should remember that the two areas in which we can make the biggest difference are the program
environment and ourselves.
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Planning Materials for Play and Learning
Carefully selected materials can make the difference between meaningful play that leads to
significant learning and aimless, unproductive play. Consider the following points as you choose
toys and learning materials.
Safety note: Be sure that all materials are clean, safe, and age-appropriate. Do not use small
objects with children who are likely to put such items into mouths, ears, noses. Know your
children and plan accordingly. Use great care and good judgment when collecting and using
materials with children. All materials must be clean and must not be sharp, toxic, or potentially
harmful. All activities with young children require close supervision.
Supply and demand. Do you have enough toys? Children need plenty of toys from which to
choose. You will also need duplicates of popular toys to reduce disputes and waiting time. Do
children need additional materials? Observe children’s play, and add props and materials that
will extend and enrich their learning.
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Variety. Do you have an interesting assortment of
materials? Be sure to provide classic toys such as dolls
and Legos and open-ended materials like play dough,
blocks, and puppets. Also include materials not usually
found at home—finger paints, musical instruments,
hammer toys (Koralek, 2004, Spotlight on Young
Children and Play, p. 31).
Authentic and natural. Have you included authentic materials? Provide real objects that are
safe for children to use in their play—mixing bowls, baskets, rulers, measuring cups, clothespins,
maps. Does the learning environment include both items from nature and items made from
natural materials? Plastic is sturdy, colorful, and usually safe, but doesn’t provide the same
sensory richness as wood and fabric. In addition, children need indoor nature experiences such
as counting seeds, using leaves in creative art, and floating pieces of bark in the water table.
Rotated and inviting. Are children losing interest in a toy? Sometimes children simply need
some guidance in new ways to use the toy. Or perhaps it’s time to replace that toy with
something they haven’t played with recently. Establish a system for appropriately rotating
learning materials. Are materials inviting to children? Display toys in sturdy containers on
labeled shelves. Avoid stacking containers so that children can easily take what they need and
put away at clean-up time.
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The Block Play and Construction Center
There is no substitute for a good set of unit blocks. Many types of blocks are available, but the
Most versatile and durable for preschool and school-age children are unit blocks. Unit blocks
(and their “big brother”, hollow blocks) represent a financial investment for many programs.
Although blocks seem expensive initially, they should last for many years and in the long run
actually cost only pennies a day.
Materials Examples
Unit Blocks Wooden
Large hollow blocks Wooden
Cardboard Bricks, boxes (large and small), tubes, flat pieces
Homemade blocks Clean, empty food boxes
Building surface Clear floor space and/or a low platform
Small vehicles Cars, trucks, trains, planes
Small vinyl and wooden animal (domestic, farm, forest, ocean, and
Animals
zoo animals)
People Small vinyl people of different race, culture, ability, and occupation
Road signs, trees, fences
Other accessories Ruler, tape measure, protractor, a level
Related dramatic play props
Empty thread spools, clothespins, craft sticks, paper cups, chenille
Loose parts stems, buttons, smooth wood scraps, PVC pipe, soda straws, twigs,
wheels, baskets, buckets, small balls, maps
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The Dramatic Play Center
Dramatic play is not only one of the great joys of childhood, it also offers abundant opportunities
for learning. Children develop interpersonal skills, particularly cooperation and conflict
resolution, and improve their language and problem solving abilities in pretend play.
The mainstay of this center is housekeeping. However, as children’s interests change and as they
gain experience in the world, the theme of the center may change. Some areas of interest might
be a doctor's office, a store, a bank, or a post office. Props should be added to reflect the
children’s interests.
Materials Examples
Skirts, dresses, men’s and women’s jackets, hats, and shoes
Dress-up clothes Uniforms (different professions)
Jewelry and accessories (eyeglasses with no lenses)
Child-sized furniture Table and chairs, sink. Stove, cabinet, baby bed, refrigerator
Cooking equipment Pots and pans, utensils, dishes
Variety of dolls, doll clothes, paper dolls, wooden dolls.
Dolls
Dolls should represent different races, cultures, and abilities.
Doll furniture Doll bed, high chair, stroller, doll house
Non-breakable mirror Full length mirror, handheld mirrors
Fiction and Nonfiction Books How-to books, cook books, books about dramatic play themes
Materials and furnishings chosen based on the student’s
Thematic props
current interests
Play food Include a variety of types and different ethnic foods
Dolls Include different races, cultures, clothes, abilities
Artificial flowers, fabric squares (about 1 yard each),
clothespins, scarves, ribbons, tote bags, suitcases, backpacks,
Loose parts
stuffed animals, baskets, flashlights, telephones, magazines,
calendars, empty food containers
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The Art Center
Materials Examples
Drawing materials Crayons, markers, colored pencils, chalk, pencils
Paper Different types, textures, sizes, colors
Background Canvas, wood, paper
Paint Tempera paint, water colors, finger paint, roll top bottles
Paint brushes of different sizes, shapes, and texture
Paint tools Household tools : potato masher, spatula, fly swat, soda straws,
toothbrushes
Fasteners Tape, glue sticks, white glue, stapler, paper clips, rubber bands
Sculpting materials Play dough, Model Magic, clay (air dry)
Tools Wire cutters, scissors, stapler, hole punch, rulers
Wood Wooden pieces, wooden frames
Display Space to display art
Cleaning supplies Smocks, wipes, paper towels, running water, soap
Wire, cardboard tubes and boxes, feathers, buttons, sequins, pom-poms,
cotton balls, magazines, fabric, coffee filters, soda straws, chenille
Loose parts
stems, thread spools, ribbons, yarn, string, blocks of Styrofoam, paper
towel tubes, leaves
COLORING PAGES are not creative and should not be in the art center. Staying in the
lines does not teach the children any skill and does not allow a child to be creative.
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The Music Center
Music and rhythm is a part of everyone's life. It is a large part of our heritage and culture.
Musical skills help develop large and small muscles and eye-hand coordination. Marching,
clapping, and singing require mental and physical coordination. The music center is the place
where instruments go. It can be a creative center, if you provide interesting materials and invite
the children to explore. You will need a CD player the children can use and plenty of space for
movement.
Materials Examples
Musical instruments Cymbals, drums, triangles, tambourine, wood blocks, guitar, ukulele,
(Homemade or maracas and other shakers, castanets, xylophone, bells, piano, rhythm
commercial) sticks
Listen and record CD Player, iPod, docking station, microphone
Classical, pop, jazz, rock, reggae, rhythm and blues, rap, folk,
Types of music
country; children’s songs and lullabies; songs in different languages
Scarves, capes, costumes, flags, umbrellas, canes, hats, baton, pom-
Accessories
poms, microphones, non-breakable mirror
Music Written music in song books and on charts
Charts Songs and fingerplays
Craft sticks, chenille stems, empty food containers, stuffed animals,
Loose parts
dolls, hollow blocks, fabric pieces (about 1 yard each)
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Library Center
In the library center, children begin to understand that books are exciting friends that can be
enjoyed. They play and experiment with words. They begin to notice that letters are symbols
for the words they say. They learn to tell stories and events in sequence. Young children learn
to read pictures and older children read words. The children are developing their listening,
speaking, reading, and "writing" skills.
The library center needs to be a quiet, well-lighted, warm, cozy, inviting place. You might have
children's art work on the wall, a soft doll to read to, and a big comfortable pillow to lie on and
read books.
Materials Examples
Commercial books Fiction, fantasy, non-fiction
Child-made books Illustrated and dictated or written by students
Charts Fingerplays, rhymes, poems, group stories
Flannel board, magnet board, Velcro board
Re-telling and creating stories
Figures for re-telling and creating stories
Stories (written, dictated, or illustrated by children based on
Group books
group experiences)
Prerecorded books (CD, I-tunes), CD player, iPod, docking
Listen and record
station, microphone
Cloth or knitted puppets, sack puppets, pop-up puppets, box
Puppets
puppets, finger puppets, puppets on a string
Magazines, variety of paper, pencils, pens, markers, alphabet
stamps, plastic/wooden alphabet letters, name cards,
Loose parts
chalkboard and chalk, textured alphabet letters, story-related
props (stuffed bear, toy steam shovel)
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Table Games and Manipulatives
Children are working with activities that develop small muscles and eye-hand coordination.
Putting a puzzle together involves problem-solving and configuration (seeing the shapes of
things and how they fit together). In this center, children learn how to work independently, how
to classify, how to put materials together, and how to take them apart.
Materials Examples
Legos, unifix cubes, bristle blocks, nuts and bolts, gears, Mr.
Interlocking materials
Potato Head, train tracks or race tracks, Lincoln Logs
Small blocks (less than 2") Dominoes, magnetic blocks, wooden cubes, table blocks
Sticks, pegs, pegboards Branches, Tinker Toys, pegs of different sizes, Lite Brite
Modeling dough Play dough, Model Magic, clay (air dry)
Lacing/ Stringing activities Beads (various sizes, shapes, colors), lacing cards, laces
Toys that zip, snap, button Dolls with clothes to fasten, dressing frames
Links Chains, pop beads
Picture puzzles, knob puzzles, floor puzzles, jigsaw puzzles,
Puzzles
parquetry blocks, tangrams, pattern blocks
Jar lids and bottle caps, beads, buttons, sea shells, small boxes
Loose parts
and cups for stacking and nesting
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Discovery (Math/Science) Center
Materials Examples
Leaves, sea shells, rocks, different types of wood, pine cones,
Natural objects
bird’s nest, seeds, acorns
Nontoxic house plants, pets (hamster, fish, bird, crab, snails), ant
Living things
farm, worm farm, butterfly kit, eggs that hatch , herbs
Books Non-fiction books with realistic photos or drawings
Math/science games and Matching games, sorting games, tangrams, pattern blocks, shape
puzzles sorter, stacking rings
Charts Photos, drawings, models of natural science
Magnets, items that sink or float, sound cans, translucent paddles
(variety of colors), magnifying glasses, slopes for racing things,
Tools rain gauge, levers, pulleys, pendulums with different weights, items
to taste. Thermometers, microscopes, tape measure, yard stick,
ruler, clock, balance scales, tweezers/tongs
Buttons, jar lids and bottle caps, soda straws, craft sticks, counters
Loose parts (teddy bear, vehicles, dinosaurs, etc.), tape, play dough, water,
muffin cups, coffee filters, graph paper, pencils, muffin pan
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Sand and Water
Sand and water provide children with sensory, small muscle, and eye-hand coordination
experiences. Sand and water stimulate creativity and develop skills in math, science, and
communication.
If you do not have a sand and water table, use plastic dish pans or baby bathtubs. Children need
plastic aprons in the water area. Add and remove accessories according to the children’s
interests and needs. The more often you have the sand and water areas open, the more skilled
children become in using them.
Materials Examples
Storage Sand table, water table, tub, dishpan, bucket
Materials Top soil, sand, water, mud
Liquid measures (1/2 pint, pint, quart, gallon), funnels, sifters,
molds, shovels, scoops, spoons, trowels, rakes, sand/water
wheels, turkey baster, spray bottles, pumps , watering can,
Tools
sand combs, whisk, rolling pin, medicine droppers, measuring
cups and spoons, plastic salt and pepper shakers, coffee
scoops
plastic tubes, containers (variety shapes and sizes), bowls,
cups, toy animals, items to sink or float, sponges, dolls, boats,
Loose parts
cars, people, soap, food coloring, ice cubes, PVC pipe, corks,
ping pong balls, craft sticks, combs, rocks, twigs, soda straws
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The Outdoor Learning Environment
The outdoor learning environment is more than a place for children to exercise or to let off
steam. It is a space that helps them grow socially, emotionally, physically and intellectually.
An outdoor learning environment does not mean that children will have “lessons” outdoors.
Rather, it means that teachers plan the outdoor space as carefully as they prepare the indoor
environment. The outdoor learning environment is a play space that allows children an
opportunity to grow, learn and develop to their fullest.
Adventure Play invites children into activities they may not be able to do in their more
structured indoor environment. Things can get messy and it is totally appropriate! Adventure
play allows children to dig, hammer, saw, and construct (with supervision, of course!).
Children can use their imagination as they build, working in a cooperative spirit and
developing a sense of responsibility to each other and to the environment.
Active Play provides numerous play opportunities to meet children’s active needs at various
developmental stages. Different surfaces can accommodate a variety of activities.
• Hard surfaces for tricycles, wagons, painting, lining game boundaries, etc.
• Grass for running, tumbling, rolling, tag games, ball play, etc.
• Sand as a softer surface that doubles as a great play material for digging, sifting
building molding, etc.
• Add a bit of water and texture change, and play opportunities increase.
Active play promotes gross motor activities to the fullest. Equipment includes varied
climbing and play structures that promote physical and perceptual coordination, as well as
fantasy play and spontaneous games.
Quiet Learning brings many indoor activities outdoors. This area should have tables, easels,
patio setting, shade structures that allow for reading, writing, storytelling, painting, clay,
markers, crayons, puzzles, other arts and crafts, and a water play table. This area is a great
place to eat lunch or snack, or have class meetings, story time, or group time.
Quiet Play is encouraged with niches, enclaves, playhouses, benches, and loose parts to
support activities such as role playing, watching, talking, and other fantasy play. It is also a
place for children to get away from peers and engage in solitary play or to just kick back and
watch the clouds or listen to the birds.
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Plan the Curriculum
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THE IMPORTANCE OF PLAY
“Through their play, they discover the world…and themselves.”
-- Fred Rogers (Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood)
Play is the most efficient, powerful, and productive way for young children to learn the
information and gain the skills they need.
They increase their knowledge of the physical world, knowledge that is a critical foundation for
academic pursuits. Through first-hand experience with real objects, children begin to understand
how the world works. Play experiences reduce stress levels, which increase the efficiency of
thinking and learning.
Many social skills can only be learned through experience. Play provides the opportunity to
develop skills for solving social problems—negotiation, compromise, cooperation, sharing,
taking turns. Children develop flexibility and the ability to consider different perspectives.
Young children who have abundant dramatic play experiences seem to be more socially
competent.
Interacting with others during play strengthens the child’s communication skills. Children
practice using speech correctly and increase their vocabulary. Conversation skills are enhanced
as children play.
As children use materials, interact with others, and master new tasks and skills, they develop a
sense of control of the environment. They gain a feeling of competence and a satisfying
enjoyment in their ability to learn. Through play they develop dispositions for perseverance and
risk-taking.
Play integrates critical brain functions and learning domains. Adult-directed learning activities
are often narrowly focused and lack this important integration, which brain research shows is
very important to development.
In play, the child always behaves beyond his average age; above his daily behavior;
in play it is as though he were a head taller than himself. As in the focus of a
magnifying glass, play contains all developmental tendencies in a condensed form
and is itself a major source of development.
Lev Vygotsky
Mind in Society: The Development of Higher Mental Processes
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THE ADULT ROLE IN CHILDREN’S PLAY
Provide interesting, open-ended materials. Carter and Curtis (1996) refer to this role
as “provisioning the environment”. Effective teachers spend a lot of time
in gathering real objects and toys that will invite children to explore and adapt as they
play.
Provide adequate space and time for play. Successful play experiences require plenty
of space to move and to manipulate materials and equipment in the environment.
Satisfying play requires an abundance of uninterrupted time that allows the play to
develop.
Play with children when it is appropriate. When adults enter into the play, they model
how to play and they demonstrate that play is valuable. In addition, adult participation in
children’s play helps the child reach beyond what he would be able to do on his/her own.
(Vygotsky called this “scaffolding”.) As you join children’s play, follow the children’s
direction without dominating the play activities. Know when not to play—recognize
those times when you can provide more effective support by observing.
Observe and respond to children’s play. Closely observe children as they play. Look
for emerging skills, approaches to problem solving, frustrations, and social interaction.
As the play develops, you may offer thought-provoking comments, ask open-ended
questions, or offer additional props. At times children will need your help in negotiating
conflict.
Plan experiences that will enrich the play. As you observe, notice where children seem
to have inadequate or incorrect information. Also notice variations on the theme of the
play. Based on your observation, invite family and community members to visit your
group, arrange field trips, and bring in appropriate children’s books. These opportunities
will add to the foundation from which children develop their play.
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A Developmentally Appropriate Curriculum
Connected: Know your children and plan a curriculum that is meaningful to them. Consider
what experiences your children have had and build on those experiences. Plan activities and
provide materials that connect to the child’s home and culture, as well as to individual interests.
Engaging: The focus of the curriculum should be on opportunities for children to actively
explore the world around them. By investigating topics of interest to them, children learn to ask
good questions, predict results, and solve problems.
Comprehensive: Every day should include activities that support growth and development in all
areas: social, emotional, language, cognitive, and physical. Provide many opportunities for
children to explore and acquire key concepts in all subject areas, such as reading, writing, math,
science, social studies, physical education, the arts. Be sure that your curriculum supports your
program’s learning goals and standards.
Effectively implemented: Your curriculum should allow and encourage flexibility. A good
curriculum will encourage you to make adjustments based on the interests and needs of your
group of children. Throughout the day, the curriculum should provide a predictable routine, but
also allow flexibility for unanticipated opportunities for learning.
Linked to assessment: Your curriculum should enable you to observe and assess each child’s
progress. You use the results of your assessment to make adjustments in the curriculum for the
group as a whole and for individual children.
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Does the Environment Support the Curriculum?
Does each space match the type of activity expected to occur there?
Are there cushions and pillows in a cozy reading area? Is there open space for large
constructions in the block area? Are there places in the art area for paintings and
sculptures to dry? Is there a place to store unfinished work until the next day?
Is there ample space for movement in the music area?
Does the space encourage the development of relationships among children and adults?
Are the sand/water tables positioned so that children stand on opposite sides, facing each
other? Are there comfortable places for adults to sit while interacting with children? Is
there a place to be alone? Are there places to be with friends?
Does the space appeal to the senses and the child’s awareness of beauty?
Is there natural lighting? Is the space colorful without being overwhelming? Are
displays well-designed and attractive?
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They’re Not Just Playing – They’re Learning!
Most of us would agree that children learn through play. Children learn best when they are fully
engaged in hands-on activities with materials and people of their choice. If children are learning
through play, shouldn’t we be teaching through play? What should we be doing and saying in
order to teach through play?
Let’s begin with some definitions. When you think of the word teacher, what image comes to
mind? Do you see someone like Miss Corey, who always had a special activity for her second
graders on Friday afternoons? Do you visualize a person like Mrs. Meyers, who assigned seat
work while she worked with reading groups? Maybe you picture Ms. Jones, the coolest teacher
in fifth grade because she went bungee jumping during summer vacation! Perhaps you
remember a favorite teacher from kindergarten or band or senior English. All of these are
teachers, using their individual styles and talents to teach.
The elements of teaching through play can be organized into three actions: observe, interpret,
and respond. We can develop skill in each of the three actions that will enhance our ability to
teach through play.
Use observation to gain insight into behavior. Where and when did the behavior occur? Who
was present? What was happening in the environment? What happened before this behavior
occurred? What did the child seem to be feeling, needing, or intending?
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Use observation to assess learning and development over a period of time. Tools such as
teacher’s notes, photographs, and checklists document children’s progress toward learning goals.
Use observation to solve problems. Is there frequent conflict in the dramatic play center? Are
children reluctant to clean up? Focused observations can provide useful information on how to
resolve these problems.
Multiple observations can highlight evidence of skills that are emerging or mastered and
concepts the child is exploring. After reviewing a series of observations, a picture of the child’s
progress begins to emerge. Compare the child’s overall performance to standards, such as
benchmarks or performance indicators.
Identify areas in which specific instruction might support the child’s learning. Does the child
need to acquire skills or competencies that would enable more successful play and effective
learning? Could these skills/competencies best be gained through teacher-assisted instruction?
Summarize how the child interacts with others. Through play children demonstrate their
preferences and competencies in the social/emotional areas. Good observations allow you to
create a summary of the child’s ability and approaches.
Identify particular times or spaces that seem to be challenging for a child or for the group.
Careful observation can provide information to guide you in making adjustments to reduce or
eliminate problems.
Adjust the environment. This may mean rearranging furniture, changing the schedule, or
adding/removing equipment. What might make it easier for children to engage in meaningful
play?
Remove/add materials. Consider the level of challenge, the number of pieces, the interest
demonstrated by the children. What might enrich the play? How can you support new directions
for the play?
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Make a comment or ask a question. An adult’s well-timed comments and questions help
children sustain their play and gain new meaning. Avoid quizzing children and interrupting the
flow of their work. Appropriate open-ended questions and comments can support the child’s
thinking and guide them toward satisfying solutions.
Focus on the process. Ask questions that help extend the child’s play. “That is a noisy truck.
What is it honking at?”*
Support problem solving. Help children define the problem and learn negotiation skills.
Encourage them to think about alternatives. Suppose one child has grabbed a marker from
another child, who then cries. The adult might say, “It looks like there is a problem here. Can
each of you say what just happened?” If the children are too young and lack verbal abilities, the
adult can say, “It looks like you both need that marker. Next time, you can tell Lupe, ‘That’s
mine!’” The adult then offers another marker. (Koralek, 2004, Spotlight on Young Children and
Play, pp. 30-31)
Do nothing. Sometimes the best response is to continue observing and interpreting. Too often
adults intervene at the wrong time, short-circuiting the child’s learning process. Literally think
twice before commenting or questioning. If the children are safe (physically and
psychologically), it may be better to wait. Continue observing their approaches to solving the
problem.
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Resources
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Our Favorite Children’s Books
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Lilly’s Purple Plastic Purse (Kevin Henkes)
Lyle, Lyle the Crocodile (Bernard Waber)
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Books for Teachers
For those who work with infants, toddlers, and twos, and older
Active Learning for Infants (Debby Cryer, Thelma Harms, Beth Bourland)
Active Learning for Ones (Debby Cryer, Thelma Harms, Beth Bourland)
Active Learning for Twos (Debby Cryer, Thelma Harms, Beth Bourland)The Complete Creating
Complete Learning Spaces Book for Infants and Toddlers (Rebecca Isbell and Christy Isbell)
Prime Times, 2nd ed. (Jim Greenman, Anne Stonehouse, and Gigi Schweikert)
Simple Steps (Karen Miller)
Story Stretchers for Infants, Toddlers, and Twos (Raines, Miller, Curry-Rood, and Dobbs)
Things to Do with Toddlers and Twos (Karen Miller)
Toddlers Together (Cynthia Catlin)
Open, shut them (open and shut your hands). I have a little turtle,
Open, shut them. He lives in a box,
Give them a little clap, clap, clap. He swims in the water
Open, shut them. And he climbs on the rocks.
Open, shut them. He snapped at a minnow
Put them in your lap. He snapped at a flea
He snapped at a mosquito
Wave them… And he snapped at me.
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Ten In A Bed
There were ten in a bed and the little one said, "Roll over, roll over." rolling motion
So they all rolled over and one fell out.
There were nine in the bed and the little one said, "Roll over, roll over."
So they all rolled over and one fell out....
This is repeated until you get to the number one. Each time "roll over" is said, rolling motion is
dramatized.
There was one in the bed and the little one said, "Good night!"
I Love You
(Tune: This Old Man)
Six Little Ducks
I love you,
Six little ducks that I once knew (Babies arms in, pointing to self)
Little ones, big ones, tall ones too
But the one little duck with the feather on her back You love me
She led the others with her quack, quack, quack (Babies arms extended out)
Quack, Quack Quack
She led the others with her quack, quack, quack We’re as happy as can be!
(Rocking baby side to side)
Down to the river they would go
With a wibble wobble, wibble wobble to and fro Here’s a great big hug
But the one little duck with the feather on her back And a kiss from me to you,
She led the others with her quack, quack, quack Won’t you say you love me too!
Quack, Quack Quack (Rocking baby side to side)
She led the others with her quack, quack, quack
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I Am Special
The Wheels on the Bus (Tune: Frere Jaques)
The doors on the bus go open and shut, Five Little Speckled Frogs
open and shut , open and shut...
Five little speckled frogs
The money on the bus goes clink, clink, clink...... (Hold up and bop five fingers)
The driver on the bus says, "Move on back, Sat on a speckled log
Move on back, Move on back”... eating a most delicious bug
(Pick off and eat bug)
The horn on the bus goes beep, beep, beep......
Yum, yum, yum (Rub tummy)
The people on the bus go up and down,
up and down, up and down..... One jumped into the pool
(One finger motions hopping into pool)
The babies on the bus go "Waah, waah, waah"...... where it was nice and cool,
The parents on the bus go "I love you. I love you. Then there were four green speckled frogs
I love you."..... (Hold up four fingers)
Wiggles
I wiggle my fingers
I wiggle my toes
I wiggle my shoulders
I wiggle my nose
Now no more wiggles are left in me
So I will be still as still can be.
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Additional Resources
TAPP Registry
[Link]
Better Beginnings
[Link]
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