DISTRESS TOLERANCE HANDOUT 4
(Distress Tolerance Worksheets 2, 2a) 373–273 . pp ;
STOP Skill
S top Do not just react. Stop! Freeze! Do not move a
muscle! Your emotions may try to make you act
without thinking. Stay in control!
T ake a step back Take a step back from the situation. Take a break. Let
go. Take a deep breath. Do not let your feelings make
you act impulsively.
O bserve Notice what is going on inside and outside you. What
is the situation? What are your thoughts and feelings?
What are others saying or doing?
P roceed mindfully Act with awareness. In deciding what to do, consider
your thoughts and feelings, the situation, and other
people’s thoughts and feelings. Think about your
goals. Ask Wise Mind: Which actions will make it
better or worse?
Note. Adapted from an unpublished worksheet by Francheska Perepletchikova and Seth Axelrod, with their permission.
From DBT Skills Training Handouts and Worksheets, Second Edition, by Marsha M. Linehan. Copyright 2015 by Marsha M. Linehan. Permis-
sion to photocopy this handout is granted to purchasers of DBT Skills Training Handouts and Worksheets, Second Edition, and DBT Skills
Training Manual, Second Edition, for personal use and use with individual clients only. (See page ii of this packet for details.)