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Emotional Turmoil in a Relationship

The conversation reveals a tense exchange between two individuals, ~Spm_services and Som7ochukwu, discussing their troubled relationship filled with emotional turmoil and past grievances. ~Spm_services expresses a desire to end the relationship due to mental and emotional distress, while Som7ochukwu pleads for reconciliation, highlighting their shared history and feelings. Both parties acknowledge past hurts and misunderstandings, indicating a complex emotional dynamic.
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Emotional Turmoil in a Relationship

The conversation reveals a tense exchange between two individuals, ~Spm_services and Som7ochukwu, discussing their troubled relationship filled with emotional turmoil and past grievances. ~Spm_services expresses a desire to end the relationship due to mental and emotional distress, while Som7ochukwu pleads for reconciliation, highlighting their shared history and feelings. Both parties acknowledge past hurts and misunderstandings, indicating a complex emotional dynamic.
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[1/4/25, 7:19:26 AM] ~Spm_services: Messages and calls are end-to-end encrypted.

No
one outside of this chat, not even WhatsApp, can read or listen to them.
[1/4/25, 7:19:26 AM] ~Spm_services: ~Spm_services uses a default timer for
disappearing messages in new chats. New messages will disappear from this chat 90
days after they're sent, except when kept. Tap to set your own default timer.
[1/4/25, 7:19:26 AM] Som7ochukwu: Good morning
[1/4/25, 7:19:36 AM] Som7ochukwu: Please help me with your mom’s number
[1/4/25, 7:37:53 AM] ~Spm_services: 0816 395 8846
[1/4/25, 7:46:35 AM] Som7ochukwu: Thanks
[1/4/25, 7:53:31 AM] Som7ochukwu: I just spoke with her
[1/4/25, 7:54:06 AM] Som7ochukwu: Can I talk to you over the phone?
[1/4/25, 8:06:24 AM] ~Spm_services: No please
[1/4/25, 8:06:33 AM] ~Spm_services: I want to be left alone
[1/4/25, 8:09:42 AM] ~Spm_services: It’s too early pls you’re obviously messing
with my mental and emotional health
[1/4/25, 8:09:52 AM] ~Spm_services: Drop a text
[1/4/25, 8:10:03 AM] Som7ochukwu: I am not messing with your mental health
[1/4/25, 8:10:17 AM] Som7ochukwu: If I am, it’s not even intentional
[1/4/25, 8:11:11 AM] ~Spm_services: I been block you before oo I don’t even know
why I unblocked you from the beginning
[1/4/25, 8:11:15 AM] ~Spm_services: You’re
[1/4/25, 8:11:35 AM] ~Spm_services: You literally asked me to
[1/4/25, 8:11:38 AM] Som7ochukwu: I’ve not been myself miracle
[1/4/25, 8:11:47 AM] ~Spm_services: I don’t respect you?
[1/4/25, 8:11:52 AM] Som7ochukwu: Wait
[1/4/25, 8:11:56 AM] ~Spm_services: That talk still the hurt me
[1/4/25, 8:12:05 AM] ~Spm_services: Omo
[1/4/25, 8:12:46 AM] ~Spm_services: It’s too early I might just block you this time
and Aswear with my life nothing willl make me unblock you
[1/4/25, 8:13:01 AM] Som7ochukwu: Alright I’ll let you finish typin
[1/4/25, 8:13:05 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m not good for you so you’re not good for me
too so pls
[1/4/25, 8:13:08 AM] Som7ochukwu: Miracle i love you
[1/4/25, 8:13:15 AM] Som7ochukwu: Even you know this
[1/4/25, 8:13:31 AM] ~Spm_services: I don’t know
[1/4/25, 8:13:51 AM] Som7ochukwu: I haven’t been this way with anyone
[1/4/25, 8:13:55 AM] ~Spm_services: You’ve made me look stupid when it comes to
people around me
[1/4/25, 8:14:00 AM] ~Spm_services: Wetin I do you
[1/4/25, 8:14:10 AM] Som7ochukwu: It’s been years and still everything feels fresh
[1/4/25, 8:14:13 AM] Som7ochukwu: What about me?
[1/4/25, 8:14:23 AM] Som7ochukwu: What about my friends
[1/4/25, 8:14:33 AM] Som7ochukwu: I hurt people emotionally because of you
[1/4/25, 8:14:52 AM] Som7ochukwu: I disconnected myself from a lot of people
because of you
[1/4/25, 8:14:55 AM] ~Spm_services: I’ve been happy all this while but letting you
into my life again has cost me my happiness this few days
[1/4/25, 8:15:14 AM] Som7ochukwu: You keep making me appear to be the villain
[1/4/25, 8:15:31 AM] Som7ochukwu: Why did I leave the relationship to start with if
it wasn’t for neglect
[1/4/25, 8:15:36 AM] ~Spm_services: I said I’m you can move on I want to be
[1/4/25, 8:15:59 AM] ~Spm_services: I can’t be happy having you close to me
[1/4/25, 8:16:11 AM] ~Spm_services: How can I be unhappy for no reason
[1/4/25, 8:16:14 AM] Som7ochukwu: Do you think it’s easy for me and I haven’t done
it
[1/4/25, 8:16:23 AM] ~Spm_services: Can’t even figure out
[1/4/25, 8:16:30 AM] Som7ochukwu: These few days I haven’t been myself too
[1/4/25, 8:16:34 AM] Som7ochukwu: I hardly eat
[1/4/25, 8:16:46 AM] Som7ochukwu: My people keep asking me what’s wrong ,, and I
can’t even say
[1/4/25, 8:16:50 AM] ~Spm_services: Just leave me pls enough of the emotional
turmoiling
[1/4/25, 8:17:22 AM] Som7ochukwu: Why I texted you is because
[1/4/25, 8:17:27 AM] Som7ochukwu: I want us to get back together
[1/4/25, 8:17:32 AM] Som7ochukwu: I can’t do life without you
[1/4/25, 8:17:38 AM] Som7ochukwu: I keep trying
[1/4/25, 8:17:42 AM] ~Spm_services: Tolling “”
[1/4/25, 8:17:57 AM] Som7ochukwu: But I don’t want it to look like I am asking for
that because of life difficulties
[1/4/25, 8:18:16 AM] Som7ochukwu: But please stop making me look like a villain
Mimi
[1/4/25, 8:18:36 AM] Som7ochukwu: We meet when we were both very young
[1/4/25, 8:18:51 AM] Som7ochukwu: I love and worshiped the ground you walked on
[1/4/25, 8:19:09 AM] ~Spm_services: I don’t want again the trauma is too much for
me
[1/4/25, 8:19:29 AM] Som7ochukwu: Before you paint me to be a villain .. ask
yourself what made us fall out
[1/4/25, 8:19:39 AM] Som7ochukwu: What made me go back to the same girl 2 twice
[1/4/25, 8:19:38 AM] ~Spm_services: You can wake up anytime and leave me in pains
[1/4/25, 8:19:53 AM] ~Spm_services: I don’t even wish to go through that again
[1/4/25, 8:20:10 AM] Som7ochukwu: If it’s not disrespect, neglect and
unfaithfulness
[1/4/25, 8:20:11 AM] ~Spm_services: You will still go back I know you
[1/4/25, 8:20:27 AM] Som7ochukwu: I dated you for 2years.. I didn’t have anything
with any woman
[1/4/25, 8:20:35 AM] Som7ochukwu: I can still swear with anything on that
[1/4/25, 8:20:45 AM] Som7ochukwu: Don’t get me wrong I am not trying to emotionally
manipulate you
[1/4/25, 8:20:46 AM] ~Spm_services: What do I know I still try to be a better
person
[1/4/25, 8:21:08 AM] ~Spm_services: Omo it’s too early to cry again today
[1/4/25, 8:21:09 AM] Som7ochukwu: All I want you to see is .. I am not the villain
you turn me to
[1/4/25, 8:21:20 AM] ~Spm_services: I don’t want
[1/4/25, 8:21:33 AM] Som7ochukwu: I dated you 2 years.. I no sabi any other woman
other than you
[1/4/25, 8:21:46 AM] Som7ochukwu: Anybody that spoke ill of you .. I fought with
everything
[1/4/25, 8:22:01 AM] Som7ochukwu: You didn’t know you were hurting me?
[1/4/25, 8:22:19 AM] Som7ochukwu: You didn’t know you were creating scares that
will forever remain in my heart right?
[1/4/25, 8:22:31 AM] Som7ochukwu: I am not telling you for you to cry
[1/4/25, 8:22:41 AM] Som7ochukwu: But I am telling you to think it through like an
adult
[1/4/25, 8:23:09 AM] Som7ochukwu: Me and you go stay .. because you have somewhere
to go with Osy .. you will start one issue just for you to leave
[1/4/25, 8:24:02 AM] Som7ochukwu: Now you are telling me I made you look like a
fool to your friends
[1/4/25, 8:24:20 AM] Som7ochukwu: Chaii
[1/4/25, 8:24:54 AM] ~Spm_services: What is it
[1/4/25, 8:25:08 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m sorry for everything that happened in the
past
[1/4/25, 8:25:33 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m tired and already sick because of all this
[1/4/25, 8:25:44 AM] ~Spm_services: No problem I’m the problem
[1/4/25, 8:26:02 AM] ~Spm_services: Everything you said I did I did them
[1/4/25, 8:26:19 AM] Som7ochukwu: You made me have doubts.. and when I started
feeling like off due to truma .. you say am the devil
[1/4/25, 8:26:39 AM] Som7ochukwu: Forgetting you turned me in to that person ..
[1/4/25, 8:26:42 AM] ~Spm_services: That’s not true stop judging things this way
[1/4/25, 8:27:02 AM] Som7ochukwu: Do you know how obvious it was ?
[1/4/25, 8:27:02 AM] ~Spm_services: You wey I Dey stay with for weeks I only go
when we hv issue
[1/4/25, 8:27:19 AM] ~Spm_services: Na you they pursue me
[1/4/25, 8:27:38 AM] ~Spm_services: You even said we hv stayed for too long you nah
see me as a sister
[1/4/25, 8:28:08 AM] Som7ochukwu: This was after 3years
[1/4/25, 8:28:26 AM] Som7ochukwu: After all the damage
[1/4/25, 8:28:45 AM] ~Spm_services: You said we dated 2yrs
[1/4/25, 8:29:08 AM] Som7ochukwu: The first 2years we dated… I didn’t cheat on
you .. I didn’t know any other woman
[1/4/25, 8:29:11 AM] Som7ochukwu: That’s what I mean
[1/4/25, 8:29:36 AM] Som7ochukwu: We dated for 4years .. the first 2years I was
solid with you
[1/4/25, 8:29:51 AM] Som7ochukwu: I can hit hand on my chest and defend it anywhere
[1/4/25, 8:30:01 AM] Som7ochukwu: The 3rd year .. we were on and off
[1/4/25, 8:31:15 AM] Som7ochukwu: The 3rd year you now really wanted to be down for
me… but the scars already ruined my mindset <This message was edited>
[1/4/25, 8:31:54 AM] Som7ochukwu: We kept going on and off till the 4th year
[1/4/25, 8:31:53 AM] ~Spm_services: All this refreshments hurts me more
[1/4/25, 8:32:02 AM] Som7ochukwu: It hurts me too
[1/4/25, 8:32:03 AM] ~Spm_services: Iv passed all this stage
[1/4/25, 8:32:19 AM] Som7ochukwu: I didn’t want to being it up .. but I had to
[1/4/25, 8:32:22 AM] ~Spm_services: I’ve healed from it
[1/4/25, 8:32:28 AM] ~Spm_services: Why?
[1/4/25, 8:33:16 AM] Som7ochukwu: Because you always say I am the devil.. I am the
villain.. and I made you look like a fool in front of your friends .. forgetting
you turned me to that person… who couldn’t trust you any more
[1/4/25, 8:33:22 AM] ~Spm_services: You said we can be cool friends
[1/4/25, 8:33:34 AM] Som7ochukwu: See
[1/4/25, 8:33:51 AM] ~Spm_services: You also contributed to it
[1/4/25, 8:33:58 AM] ~Spm_services: I go through your phone
[1/4/25, 8:34:31 AM] Som7ochukwu: Let’s be realistic … we were inlove.. and might
still be.. for me I still love you.. and I don’t know how to be friends with
someone you are emotionally attached with will work <This message was edited>
[1/4/25, 8:35:58 AM] Som7ochukwu: And you saw me double dating? Or you saw me
cheating?
[1/4/25, 8:40:05 AM] Som7ochukwu: The first time I went through your FB, September
2017 I can’t remember the exact date.. i dont want to remind you of what I saw, but
you came all the way from owerri to onitsha to apologize .. which I forgave you..
because I understood you had no help and had to do what you had to do
[1/4/25, 8:42:05 AM] ~Spm_services: Oh God
[1/4/25, 8:42:25 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m sick and down
[1/4/25, 8:42:41 AM] ~Spm_services: No problem it happened
[1/4/25, 8:42:45 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m sorry
[1/4/25, 8:43:10 AM] Som7ochukwu: We had a little issue you travelled to Lagos … we
didn’t talk till you came back and tried to apologize to me through Creed.. the
idiot played deaf ears and blind eyes to my complains .. all because he was getting
favors from you… I swear God go they punish that boy where ever he is …
[1/4/25, 8:44:14 AM] Som7ochukwu: The first time I ever booked a hookup girl .. was
still out of pains over neglect … the same traveling thing .. and that was 2years
of us dating
[1/4/25, 8:44:26 AM] Som7ochukwu: And yet.. somehow you still see me as the devil
[1/4/25, 8:44:39 AM] Som7ochukwu: If I dont love you.. I for done move on with my
life since
[1/4/25, 8:44:42 AM] Som7ochukwu: Heaven knows this
[1/4/25, 8:45:29 AM] Som7ochukwu: I know say maybe I never really get my foundation
right and my finances are still struggling… but I know quiet how many people I have
snubbed my entire duration knowing you
[1/4/25, 8:45:37 AM] Som7ochukwu: I am not the devil Miracle
[1/4/25, 8:46:40 AM] Som7ochukwu: I might have known erotic things from a young
age.. but I was a novice in anything concerning relationships… I feel head over
heels for you.. and along the line I got damaged a bit ..
[1/4/25, 8:46:42 AM] ~Spm_services: So tomorrow you will hurt me as usual
[1/4/25, 8:48:12 AM] Som7ochukwu: Now each time I try to get over you and can’t..
and try to connect back .. you remind me of things I did.. trying to protect my
heart
[1/4/25, 8:49:31 AM] Som7ochukwu: I am deeply sorry for my wrong doings.. because I
know I didn’t get it all
[1/4/25, 8:49:54 AM] ~Spm_services: <attached: 00000132-AUDIO-2025-01-04-08-49-
[Link]>
[1/4/25, 8:50:32 AM] Som7ochukwu: I could have just gone straight to the village
from Abuja, if I had known I would get this entangled with you.. now I can’t think
of any other thing but you,, it’s a new year and I can’t even focus on anything
[1/4/25, 8:51:38 AM] ~Spm_services: You can
[1/4/25, 8:51:44 AM] ~Spm_services: We’re still friends
[1/4/25, 8:53:48 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m sorry I wil stay very far away from you i
hv already decided that
[1/4/25, 8:54:18 AM] Som7ochukwu: You feel like I love my ex more than I love you?
[1/4/25, 8:54:40 AM] ~Spm_services: Because nothing will stop you from hurting me
some day
[1/4/25, 8:54:53 AM] ~Spm_services: Just love her more if you don’t
[1/4/25, 8:55:20 AM] Som7ochukwu: How do I do it?
[1/4/25, 8:55:35 AM] ~Spm_services: I for don enter relationship if I wanted one
[1/4/25, 8:55:54 AM] ~Spm_services: I can’t even love again everything irritates me
[1/4/25, 8:56:09 AM] ~Spm_services: You’re lucky to easily get into a relationship
[1/4/25, 8:56:20 AM] ~Spm_services: It’s not been easy for me so pls
[1/4/25, 8:56:37 AM] Som7ochukwu: If it’s easy to just love someone else like
that.. why haven’t you find another relationship
[1/4/25, 8:56:59 AM] Som7ochukwu: Which other relationship other than my ex?
[1/4/25, 8:57:04 AM] ~Spm_services: I didn’t want
[1/4/25, 8:57:11 AM] ~Spm_services: Na me the leave run
[1/4/25, 8:57:30 AM] ~Spm_services: I feel like I’m hurting people because I’m
broken
[1/4/25, 8:57:56 AM] ~Spm_services: That’s what I’m talking about you were dating
her under my nose
[1/4/25, 8:58:13 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m tired I don’t want to continue this
discussion
[1/4/25, 8:58:21 AM] Som7ochukwu: That’s not true
[1/4/25, 8:58:31 AM] ~Spm_services: Aaaah
[1/4/25, 8:58:34 AM] ~Spm_services: It’s cool
[1/4/25, 8:59:18 AM] Som7ochukwu: It’s fine
[1/4/25, 8:59:30 AM] Som7ochukwu: I just wish there’s a way God can just do it for
me
[1/4/25, 9:00:13 AM] Som7ochukwu: And instead of being apart.. we still end up
together in one city always
[1/4/25, 9:01:44 AM] Som7ochukwu: I was totally healed from all of this .. and then
I forced my way into it again
[1/4/25, 9:01:54 AM] ~Spm_services: We’re not meant to be we can be friends
[1/4/25, 9:02:04 AM] ~Spm_services: Forced?
[1/4/25, 9:02:22 AM] Som7ochukwu: You were staying away from me.. I kept forcing to
see you
[1/4/25, 9:02:25 AM] ~Spm_services: You clearly ate your cake and had it
[1/4/25, 9:02:28 AM] Som7ochukwu: Now I am stuck again
[1/4/25, 9:02:36 AM] Som7ochukwu: How?
[1/4/25, 9:02:36 AM] ~Spm_services: How?
[1/4/25, 9:03:52 AM] ~Spm_services: Omo
[1/4/25, 9:04:05 AM] ~Spm_services: Make I come they explain my self
[1/4/25, 9:04:12 AM] ~Spm_services: This morning
[1/4/25, 9:04:16 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m tired pls
[1/4/25, 9:04:28 AM] ~Spm_services: I can’t continue the same thing every year
[1/4/25, 9:05:07 AM] Som7ochukwu: You should know this.. once you were truly inlove
with someone.. it’s impossible to overcome it .. we were apart for a long while..
and I kept on pushing to see you.. I kept on pushing to spend time with you .. and
now here the emotions are back
[1/4/25, 9:05:44 AM] Som7ochukwu: Honestly I understand this..
[1/4/25, 9:05:50 AM] ~Spm_services: The same way you will go back to your ex some
day
[1/4/25, 9:05:52 AM] Som7ochukwu: It’s a crazy unhealthy loop
[1/4/25, 9:05:55 AM] Som7ochukwu: Nah
[1/4/25, 9:06:10 AM] ~Spm_services: Are you not tired of hurting us
[1/4/25, 9:06:22 AM] ~Spm_services: Pls steak to her
[1/4/25, 9:06:30 AM] Som7ochukwu: My ex is getting married
[1/4/25, 9:06:35 AM] ~Spm_services: Teach her what you want her to know
[1/4/25, 9:06:47 AM] Som7ochukwu: And I am not telling you this for anything to
change
[1/4/25, 9:08:06 AM] ~Spm_services: You guys lived together
[1/4/25, 9:08:18 AM] ~Spm_services: Is that why you want me back ?
[1/4/25, 9:08:50 AM] ~Spm_services: She literally dragged you and insulted me with
the things you told her
[1/4/25, 9:08:51 AM] Som7ochukwu: I left you because of neglect and lack of
respect… I went back to her because of respect and she listened to me
[1/4/25, 9:09:01 AM] Som7ochukwu: No
[1/4/25, 9:09:24 AM] Som7ochukwu: I didn’t tell her anything .. I swear with my
life
[1/4/25, 9:09:29 AM] Som7ochukwu: You keep bringing this up
[1/4/25, 9:10:33 AM] Som7ochukwu: I’ll tell you exactly what happened if you would
believe me.. she knew 2 guys that has been with you..
[1/4/25, 9:10:50 AM] ~Spm_services: That’s a big lie my dear
[1/4/25, 9:10:56 AM] ~Spm_services: I don’t understand
[1/4/25, 9:10:58 AM] Som7ochukwu: Ones name was Verison .. and I can’t even
remember the last
[1/4/25, 9:11:04 AM] Som7ochukwu: I swear on my unborn kids
[1/4/25, 9:11:05 AM] ~Spm_services: What do you guys take me for
[1/4/25, 9:11:33 AM] Som7ochukwu: If this is a lie… let me not leave this village
alive
[1/4/25, 9:11:35 AM] ~Spm_services: I swear with my fathers grave I know no such
person
[1/4/25, 9:11:57 AM] Som7ochukwu: I have never ever for once sat down with her and
discussed anything about you
[1/4/25, 9:12:10 AM] Som7ochukwu: This whole story started with creed
[1/4/25, 9:12:30 AM] ~Spm_services: Haaa I won’t lie Dey might know me doesn’t mean
iv had anything with any of them habah
[1/4/25, 9:12:53 AM] Som7ochukwu: This was before us.. this was before us even
entering the university
[1/4/25, 9:13:18 AM] ~Spm_services: I don’t know such person
[1/4/25, 9:13:23 AM] Som7ochukwu: This whole gist flew
[1/4/25, 9:13:41 AM] Som7ochukwu: That I left her.. for someone that has been with
2 people she knew
[1/4/25, 9:13:55 AM] Som7ochukwu: I have never for once spoke about you.. around
her
[1/4/25, 9:14:11 AM] ~Spm_services: And you believed it?
[1/4/25, 9:14:26 AM] ~Spm_services: Knowing how much i respect myself here
[1/4/25, 9:14:46 AM] ~Spm_services: Omo na una sabi sha na only God knows the truth
[1/4/25, 9:14:58 AM] ~Spm_services: There’s no need for all this pls okay
[1/4/25, 9:15:08 AM] ~Spm_services: It’s getting me pissed the more
[1/4/25, 9:15:14 AM] ~Spm_services: Stop telling me
[1/4/25, 9:15:14 AM] Som7ochukwu: The point of me bringing this up.. is because you
keep saying I told her stuff about you <This message was edited>
[1/4/25, 9:15:32 AM] Som7ochukwu: This is what about brought about this
[1/4/25, 9:15:47 AM] ~Spm_services: No problem pls
[1/4/25, 9:15:52 AM] Som7ochukwu: If I believed those story .. do you think we
would have been for as long as we were
[1/4/25, 9:16:06 AM] ~Spm_services: You still left
[1/4/25, 9:16:18 AM] ~Spm_services: She’s getting married what happened to you
[1/4/25, 9:16:42 AM] Som7ochukwu: I left because of our personal differences and
things I saw with my eye miracle
[1/4/25, 9:16:49 AM] Som7ochukwu: Not because of the gists
[1/4/25, 9:16:51 AM] ~Spm_services: During my 200lv I had suitors I rejected and
ran away because of you
[1/4/25, 9:17:04 AM] ~Spm_services: I was still staying in my family house then
[1/4/25, 9:17:23 AM] ~Spm_services: Like you did nothing?
[1/4/25, 9:17:31 AM] Som7ochukwu: That’s not what I mean
[1/4/25, 9:17:46 AM] Som7ochukwu: Oh God
[1/4/25, 9:17:52 AM] Som7ochukwu: It’s okay
[1/4/25, 9:17:56 AM] ~Spm_services: No problem I apologized already
[1/4/25, 9:18:14 AM] ~Spm_services: I understand you I said I’m not feeling fine
[1/4/25, 9:18:53 AM] ~Spm_services: I removed a baby boy wey nearly take my womb
because of you
[1/4/25, 9:19:03 AM] Som7ochukwu: Did you tell me about it?
[1/4/25, 9:19:22 AM] ~Spm_services: Omo I did everything you said I did and I’m
very sorry pls
[1/4/25, 9:19:29 AM] Som7ochukwu: You never mentioned to me that you were pregnant
[1/4/25, 9:19:31 AM] ~Spm_services: Let’s forget about it
[1/4/25, 9:19:34 AM] Som7ochukwu: Chill
[1/4/25, 9:19:56 AM] Som7ochukwu: If you bring something up .. you iron it out..
that’s how adults handle things
[1/4/25, 9:20:13 AM] Som7ochukwu: You removed a baby because of me…
[1/4/25, 9:20:27 AM] ~Spm_services: We were still in 200lv
[1/4/25, 9:20:31 AM] Som7ochukwu: Do you know I still remember everything to detail
how it happened
[1/4/25, 9:20:33 AM] Som7ochukwu: I know
[1/4/25, 9:21:11 AM] ~Spm_services: My family and yours plus our course mates and
the shame
[1/4/25, 9:21:25 AM] Som7ochukwu: Okay so you missed school for 3days or 4, and
wasn’t taking my calls or messages … only to show up in school.. and I was acting
angry because how can my babe ghost me for days
[1/4/25, 9:21:27 AM] Som7ochukwu: You didn’t tell me
[1/4/25, 9:21:33 AM] Som7ochukwu: I even heard it from Creed
[1/4/25, 9:21:40 AM] Som7ochukwu: That I had to ask you
[1/4/25, 9:21:40 AM] ~Spm_services: I did it for us and I later told you why I was
sick and couldn’t make it to school
[1/4/25, 9:22:34 AM] Som7ochukwu: You said I can still remember your words vividly
“I aborted a pregnancy for you and you are angry at me, I don’t want you to talk
about it”

This is what you said to me that day


[1/4/25, 9:22:57 AM] Som7ochukwu: How can I hear that you aborted my baby from
another guy?
[1/4/25, 9:23:40 AM] Som7ochukwu: You made creed a third party to our relationship
that he passed informations about us around.. if things you can never think of
[1/4/25, 9:24:35 AM] Som7ochukwu: I don’t blame you for aborting a baby.. but you
didn’t tell me.. you went offline .. missed school and came back only for me to
hear it from another persons mouth
[1/4/25, 9:25:07 AM] ~Spm_services: Yea upon all that you still made me look like a
fool
[1/4/25, 9:25:13 AM] ~Spm_services: Shey you left ?
[1/4/25, 9:25:43 AM] Som7ochukwu: You don’t hit a child and expect them not to
cry .. or give out a reaction
[1/4/25, 9:25:57 AM] ~Spm_services: I blame myself for showing love and care to
those who doesn’t deserve it
[1/4/25, 9:26:21 AM] ~Spm_services: Instead of teaching me you left
[1/4/25, 9:26:37 AM] ~Spm_services: No be say you no know say I love you
[1/4/25, 9:26:50 AM] Som7ochukwu: You say I left .. like I woke up and left
[1/4/25, 9:27:03 AM] Som7ochukwu: You talk like I don’t love you miracle
[1/4/25, 9:27:14 AM] Som7ochukwu: You talk like.. this love was only yours and
yours alone
[1/4/25, 9:27:23 AM] ~Spm_services: Yes you did
[1/4/25, 9:27:35 AM] ~Spm_services: It was obviously
[1/4/25, 9:27:48 AM] ~Spm_services: You even started feeling very irritated
[1/4/25, 9:28:06 AM] ~Spm_services: You made me felt rejected for the first time in
my life
[1/4/25, 9:28:16 AM] Som7ochukwu: If everyone else around us could see that I love
you.. I just wonder why you couldn’t see it too
[1/4/25, 9:29:35 AM] Som7ochukwu: Wait put yourself in my shoe.. where you know
series of things that I do.. and even when I apologize I still go back to do
them .. just because I had no support… how would you feel .. if not irritated?
[1/4/25, 9:30:42 AM] Som7ochukwu: You talk about teaching.. but you teach people
willing to learn.. not someone who’s not willing to learn.. not someone who would
get angry at every slightest provocation
[1/4/25, 9:30:51 AM] ~Spm_services: It’s not just the way you think it
[1/4/25, 9:30:58 AM] Som7ochukwu: No problem
[1/4/25, 9:31:04 AM] Som7ochukwu: I’m very very sorry for all you had gone through
okay? I am not a perfect person..
[1/4/25, 9:31:16 AM] ~Spm_services: No problem
[1/4/25, 9:31:30 AM] Som7ochukwu: And also for what I made you go through .. I am
sorry
[1/4/25, 9:31:30 AM] ~Spm_services: I’m sorry for everything I made you go through
too
[1/4/25, 9:31:50 AM] ~Spm_services: It’s fine
[1/4/25, 9:32:13 AM] Som7ochukwu: I’m sorry I made you smash your phone.. if it was
in my powers I would have gotten you another one that same day
[1/4/25, 9:32:49 AM] Som7ochukwu: I hope you heal from what makes you sick .. and I
pray your sadness turns into happiness today
[1/4/25, 9:33:35 AM] ~Spm_services: It’s fine I shouldn’t hv reacted that way too I
just felt you never want to understand me even till now
[1/4/25, 9:33:46 AM] ~Spm_services: Amen
[1/4/25, 9:37:11 AM] Som7ochukwu: I know no one is perfect .. and I know unlearning
bad habits is difficult.. but all i was trying to do that day.. was telling you why
I was hurt not misunderstand you... If I didn’t love you, like you claim I don’t..
none of that would hurt me or matter to me
[1/4/25, 9:37:33 AM] Som7ochukwu: I would just be like.. oh you didn’t get a place
for me to say.. no wahala.. I move on with my life
[1/4/25, 9:38:35 AM] Som7ochukwu: When people complain a lot.. means they love you
and expect a lot from you… sometimes instead of getting angry bursting out in
tears,. Try and pause and listen
[1/4/25, 9:38:56 AM] ~Spm_services: Ok
[1/4/25, 9:39:15 AM] ~Spm_services: But I was explaining again and again <This
message was edited>
[1/4/25, 9:41:03 AM] Som7ochukwu: Because I wanted more apology 😭.. I wanted to be
pampered small
[1/4/25, 9:41:21 AM] Som7ochukwu: But it’s okay
[1/4/25, 9:41:25 AM] Som7ochukwu: I’m sorry about your phone
[1/4/25, 9:46:48 AM] ~Spm_services: No problem
[1/4/25, 9:46:52 AM] ~Spm_services: Sorry
[1/4/25, 9:50:21 AM] ~Spm_services: How’s your work ?
[1/4/25, 9:50:39 AM] Som7ochukwu: Couldn’t finish up.. my money finish
[1/4/25, 9:51:02 AM] Som7ochukwu: But I wan go back there Monday.. if my brother go
support me
[1/4/25, 9:51:29 AM] Som7ochukwu: He’s supposed to support because na family stuff
[1/4/25, 9:51:38 AM] Som7ochukwu: So hopefully Monday I go complete am
[1/4/25, 9:52:34 AM] ~Spm_services: Yes not bad
[1/4/25, 9:55:55 AM] Som7ochukwu: About your phone .. is the lower screen still
blank?
[1/4/25, 10:09:46 AM] Som7ochukwu: I’m really sorry for the pain wey I done cause
you
[1/4/25, 10:09:57 AM] Som7ochukwu: Today cheer up and be happy
[1/4/25, 10:10:06 AM] Som7ochukwu: There’s so much to be accomplished this year
[1/4/25, 10:10:32 AM] Som7ochukwu: Whenever it is.. I still owe you another phone
[1/4/25, 1:21:37 PM] ~Spm_services: No problem
[1/4/25, 1:22:36 PM] Som7ochukwu: ?
[1/4/25, 1:27:11 PM] ~Spm_services: It gets bad and correct it’s self
[1/4/25, 1:27:18 PM] ~Spm_services: Like it comes and go
[1/4/25, 1:27:50 PM] Som7ochukwu: Omo
[1/4/25, 1:27:55 PM] Som7ochukwu: No wahala
[1/4/25, 1:36:43 PM] Som7ochukwu: Make I find money.. make you swap am to normal
13, they manage for the mean time?
[1/4/25, 1:38:10 PM] ~Spm_services: Baby don’t worry I will manage
[1/4/25, 1:38:20 PM] ~Spm_services: Phone no be my problem now
[1/4/25, 1:38:41 PM] Som7ochukwu: But it’s making you unhappy 😢
[1/4/25, 1:39:11 PM] Som7ochukwu: Abi na me they even make you unhappy
[1/4/25, 1:42:11 PM] ~Spm_services: I’m fine
[1/4/25, 1:42:24 PM] ~Spm_services: I had a nap I will be fine
[1/4/25, 1:42:35 PM] Som7ochukwu: Okay baby
[1/4/25, 1:45:14 PM] ~Spm_services: Yea
[1/4/25, 1:54:17 PM] Som7ochukwu: <attached: 00000310-VIDEO-2025-01-04-13-54-
17.mp4>
[1/4/25, 1:55:17 PM] ~Spm_services: Enjoy
[1/4/25, 1:55:59 PM] Som7ochukwu: I just want you to smile 😢
[1/4/25, 1:56:05 PM] Som7ochukwu: I am not enjoying
[1/4/25, 2:01:18 PM] Som7ochukwu: Okay i just want you to be happy
[1/4/25, 2:01:38 PM] Som7ochukwu: What do I do?
[1/4/25, 2:11:12 PM] Som7ochukwu: When you feel this way.. I don’t know if I should
give you chance till you’re happy again.. or I should try to make you feel better
myself
[1/4/25, 2:11:31 PM] Som7ochukwu: I am very sorry for all I have put you through
[1/4/25, 2:15:01 PM] ~Spm_services: I will be fine
[1/4/25, 2:15:04 PM] ~Spm_services: Fr
[1/4/25, 2:15:49 PM] Som7ochukwu: Anything you want me to do?
[1/4/25, 2:18:35 PM] ~Spm_services: No
[1/4/25, 2:19:05 PM] Som7ochukwu: Alright baby
[1/4/25, 9:56:55 PM] Som7ochukwu: I hope you never forget how much of an amazing
soul you are.. I hope you never forget how much of a wonderful person you..
[1/4/25, 9:56:58 PM] ~Spm_services: <attached: 00000324-AUDIO-2025-01-04-21-56-
[Link]>
[1/4/25, 9:57:03 PM] Som7ochukwu: Jesus
[1/4/25, 9:57:36 PM] Som7ochukwu: Ahh
[1/4/25, 9:57:41 PM] Som7ochukwu: From where?
[1/4/25, 9:57:48 PM] Som7ochukwu: Dem break down your door? <This message was
edited>
[1/4/25, 9:57:52 PM] ~Spm_services: <attached: 00000329-AUDIO-2025-01-04-21-57-
[Link]>
[1/4/25, 9:58:50 PM] Som7ochukwu: Anybody wey do that thing know you
[1/4/25, 9:59:09 PM] ~Spm_services: Aswear
[1/4/25, 9:59:11 PM] ~Spm_services: I know
[1/4/25, 9:59:33 PM] Som7ochukwu: That’s very bad
[1/4/25, 9:59:38 PM] Som7ochukwu: I’m so sorry baby
[1/4/25, 9:59:36 PM] ~Spm_services: <attached: 00000335-VIDEO-2025-01-04-21-59-
36.mp4>
[1/4/25, 10:00:10 PM] ~Spm_services: Omo
[1/4/25, 10:00:14 PM] Som7ochukwu: Them collect this one?
[1/4/25, 10:00:17 PM] ~Spm_services: It’s well
[1/4/25, 10:01:05 PM] Som7ochukwu: ??
[1/4/25, 10:01:41 PM] Som7ochukwu: Nna eh
[1/4/25, 10:01:51 PM] Som7ochukwu: When last your mom go there
[1/4/25, 10:03:13 PM] ~Spm_services: <attached: 00000342-AUDIO-2025-01-04-22-03-
[Link]>
[1/4/25, 10:03:24 PM] ~Spm_services: It’s been months
[1/4/25, 10:05:59 PM] Som7ochukwu: I know the orange color wig
[1/4/25, 10:06:03 PM] Som7ochukwu: Haaa
[1/4/25, 10:06:12 PM] Som7ochukwu: Who do this one sha know you
[1/4/25, 10:06:24 PM] Som7ochukwu: And the person know say your door is not secured
[1/4/25, 10:06:26 PM] Som7ochukwu: Nawa
[1/4/25, 10:28:07 PM] ~Spm_services: <attached: 00000349-VIDEO-2025-01-04-22-28-
07.mp4>
[1/4/25, 10:29:41 PM] Som7ochukwu: Yeah I remember this with just the description
<This message was edited>
[1/4/25, 10:48:59 PM] Som7ochukwu: Baby where you wan go for this one now
[1/4/25, 11:00:17 PM] ~Spm_services: Omo
[1/4/25, 11:00:24 PM] ~Spm_services: I’m making my hair
[1/4/25, 11:05:51 PM] ~Spm_services: This message was deleted.
[1/4/25, 11:06:07 PM] ~Spm_services: video omitted
[1/4/25, 11:06:37 PM] ~Spm_services: Video call, 17 sec
[1/4/25, 11:07:34 PM] Som7ochukwu: Baby I am standing outside the compound.. trying
to work on a job
[1/4/25, 11:07:42 PM] Som7ochukwu: Once I am done I go call you normal call
[1/4/25, 11:08:55 PM] ~Spm_services: Ok
[1/4/25, 11:29:00 PM] Som7ochukwu: Voice call, 2 min
[1/4/25, 11:32:45 PM] Som7ochukwu: Baby what’s up
[1/4/25, 11:35:47 PM] ~Spm_services: Good
[1/4/25, 11:36:02 PM] Som7ochukwu: Wetin you wan tell me
[1/4/25, 11:39:55 PM] ~Spm_services: Nothing
[1/4/25, 11:41:20 PM] Som7ochukwu: You sure?
[1/4/25, 11:41:40 PM] ~Spm_services: Your prayers ?
[1/4/25, 11:42:03 PM] ~Spm_services: Talk to mom you don’t want her to guide you
through
[1/4/25, 11:43:31 PM] Som7ochukwu: I talked to her already
[1/4/25, 11:43:34 PM] Som7ochukwu: In the morning
[1/4/25, 11:44:08 PM] Som7ochukwu: I am supposed to send her money for transport on
monday
[1/4/25, 11:44:17 PM] ~Spm_services: Ok
[1/4/25, 11:44:45 PM] ~Spm_services: But then try pray as you Dey your villa
[1/4/25, 11:45:00 PM] ~Spm_services: If not with water let it be hot drink
[1/4/25, 11:45:22 PM] Som7ochukwu: Yeah I do.. I have been doing what I can
[1/4/25, 11:45:41 PM] ~Spm_services: Good
[1/4/25, 11:46:21 PM] Som7ochukwu: Yeah
[1/5/25, 12:09:26 AM] ~Spm_services: U don’t open the vid
[1/5/25, 12:14:44 AM] Som7ochukwu: It has been loading since that time
[1/5/25, 12:16:06 AM] Som7ochukwu: Ohh
[1/5/25, 12:16:18 AM] Som7ochukwu: You’re looking stressed
[1/5/25, 12:16:49 AM] Som7ochukwu: This crack on your camera done spoil am
[1/5/25, 12:17:05 AM] Som7ochukwu: Reflecting now gives it white glare
[1/5/25, 12:17:13 AM] Som7ochukwu: Done with the hair now?
[1/5/25, 1:40:21 AM] ~Spm_services: <attached: 00000384-VIDEO-2025-01-05-01-40-
21.mp4>
[1/5/25, 1:40:46 AM] ~Spm_services: Yes baby just few minutes ago
[1/5/25, 3:58:59 AM] Som7ochukwu: Nwa Oma
[1/5/25, 5:20:37 AM] ~Spm_services: Baby
[1/5/25, 5:21:07 AM] ~Spm_services: I been go out with friends I had my market with
me buh I’m home now
[1/5/25, 5:21:16 AM] ~Spm_services: Sorry for the late response Biko
[1/5/25, 5:30:13 AM] ~Spm_services: video omitted
[1/5/25, 5:30:37 AM] ~Spm_services: I miss you a lot
[1/5/25, 5:30:51 AM] ~Spm_services: Good morning baby
[1/5/25, 6:05:16 AM] Som7ochukwu: It’s okay baby
[1/5/25, 6:05:22 AM] Som7ochukwu: Sleep been even carry me
[1/5/25, 6:05:30 AM] Som7ochukwu: I miss you too baby
[1/5/25, 6:12:21 AM] Som7ochukwu: 🥹🥹🥹 your nipples just be getting thicker 🤤🤤
[1/5/25, 6:12:30 AM] Som7ochukwu: And by the way your contact looks great

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Trust and fidelity are central concerns, with Som7ochukwu asserting fidelity during the relationship's early years and expressing frustration over being painted as unfaithful without cause . The partner, however, protests against these narratives and expresses past doubts about Som7ochukwu's commitment, illustrating mutual mistrust . These discussions highlight the recurring issue of trust that complicates reconciliation efforts .

The dialogue underscores the critical role of communication in addressing emotional distress and misunderstandings. Both partners articulate their grievances, revealing neglected problems and attempts at healing through conversation . Effective communication is shown to be crucial for reconciliation, yet past traumas and misinterpretations have created significant barriers .

The document illustrates an ongoing challenge in conflict resolution, marked by a cyclical dialogue rather than resolution. Both parties engage in recounting grievances and seeking acknowledgment, with minimal progress towards lasting reconciliation . While attempts at dialogue represent a strategy for conflict resolution, the persistence of unresolved issues and deep-seated emotional scars illustrate the complexities and challenges inherent in such efforts .

Reconciliation is attempted through open dialogue where Som7ochukwu candidly shares their emotional distress and desires to get back together . Communication focuses on reflecting on past relationship dynamics and misunderstandings, with both parties expressing apologies and discussing the impact of their actions . However, unresolved feelings and past traumas continue to hinder reconciliation efforts .

The main reasons for the relationship's deterioration include perceived neglect, disrespect, and unfaithfulness mentioned by both parties . Emotional scars and unresolved issues from past interactions are acknowledged as significant factors contributing to the strain . Additionally, both partners express a sense of betrayal and misunderstandings about past actions and intentions .

Both individuals exhibit vulnerability, with Som7ochukwu expressing deep emotional pain and the impact of the relationship on their mental state , while the partner expresses feeling tired and emotionally affected by past experiences . The expression of feelings involves acknowledging personal limitations, misunderstandings, and the pain caused by previous interactions , highlighting the complexities in achieving emotional openness and healing.

Past experiences profoundly influence the relationship dynamics, as both parties cite past betrayals and events that led to emotional scars and mistrust . Som7ochukwu recalls perceived betrayals and emotional scars, which affect their current mindset and interactions . The partner acknowledges unresolved issues from past actions, contributing to present animosities . These memories shape the communication dynamics and ongoing emotional responses in the relationship .

Som7ochukwu highlights a strong sense of commitment, claiming they did not have any romantic involvement with other women during the first two years of the relationship . They emphasize having been devoted and having fought to defend their partner against any criticism . However, they acknowledge that the relationship was on and off in the third year due to emotional scars .

Som7ochukwu's arguments reflect a narrative where both blame and responsibility are contested themes. They express feeling wronged and misrepresented as a villain for relationship issues influenced by neglect, disrespect, and unfaithfulness . Additionally, they point out their own perceived efforts and fidelity, questioning the partner’s actions that contributed to emotional pain, thus highlighting mutual blame and the struggle over accepting responsibility .

Som7ochukwu expresses feeling neglected and emotionally distraught after leaving the relationship, indicating emotional turmoil and relationship strain . They also mention experiencing difficulty eating and being asked by others about their well-being, suggesting deep emotional stress . The conversation shows attempts to reconcile, amidst acknowledgment of emotional scars and unresolved issues .

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