Human Resource

Management
Who am I?
• Hande Sinem Ergun
• Born in Edirne
• 06.06.1976
• 17 year old son
• Professor of Management at Business School
Who am I?
• Feeler
• A heretic mind
• Unconditioning and Unlearning Process
• Curious
• Intraverted extravert J
• Progressive Communication
• Concious Awareness
• Sensepreneur
• Nature lover J
• Do not believe in «teaching»
• I believe in SHARING
Contact..
• hsergun@[Link]
• 0533 552 68 35
• Instagram: handesinemergun
• Twitter: sinemergun
Human Resource Management Goals
Company Strategy

OSHA

Attract an Effective Workforce

HRM planning
Job analysis
Forecasting
Recruiting
Selecting
Maintain an Effective Workforce
Develop an Effective Workforce
Wage and salary
Benefits Training
Labor relations Development
Terminations Appraisal
• What are your expectations from this course?
• Mini homeworks J
• 2 test
• One for mid-term
• Oner for final
For next week…
• What are your expectations from this course?

• What are the topics you are curious about?

• What contributions can you make to this course?

 Something Extraordinary

Is Happening in the World,

And Most People Haven’t Noticed…

• Old Paradigm… • New Paradigm…
• How we create things?

• Who is to decide what works for you?

• it's ultimately up to me to decide what works for me.
• Formulas are helpful when they resonate but constricting when they don't allow for
the totality of our unique human expression.

Business is such an important vehicle for because it often allows us to receive money
for things we love doing.

That is the shift I feel - structure >>> vehicle.

• Shifting into the New Paradigm requires some shifts of the mind!

• Part of deconditioning for us is

• examining our beliefs around what work is and how we work,
• replacing those with more expansive views of how we are here to use our
time and energy and make money.
 How do I know what my innate gifts are?

They are the things that I truly enjoy and that I feel I want to share
with others in exchange for money.
For me
Letting go of the idea (still in the process) that I make money by fitting myself into a
role predetermined by someone else has been challenging but rewarding.

No, I make money by sharing my innate gifts in a way that feels energizing, satisfying
and peaceful to ME.

That might be a role designed by someone else, but only if it feels like a major YES
inside.

What is your dominant feeling?

• The world has been chasing Old Paradigm success for a long time, and
it has left us burnt out, ill, and unfulfilled.
• In the New Paradigm, we know that profit and growth occur as a
result of focusing on our own joy and satisfaction, sense of peace
through aligned action, recognizing unique gifts and embracing
openness, magic, surprise, and fluidity.
•
• If we also know ourselves well enough, we become aware that we all
experience things differently.
• For instance how do you function under competition - there's nothing to
prove.

Making this shift is not always easy - these thought

patterns can run deep.
• Deconditioning
• Unlearning
• We are now seeing that many of the systems that we were taught to
trust can change dramatically overnight.
• In the past, knowing how to contort ourselves to fit into these
hierarchies could yield success.
• As we move on, those energetic dynamics won't work anymore. So
where is the money now?
• We were each encoded with gifts and interests in that unlock money
and abundance of all kinds.
How do we access them?

By knowing ourselves, knowing how to

harness our unique energy patterns, and
making decisions from our inner guidance.
• We are shifting away from needing experts to tell us how to live.
• Experts are wonderful as information sources, but not as decision-
makers!
• We are moving into a time when knowing ourselves and how we
operate is key - the more we recognize our own uniqueness (we are
all unique!) the more we will understand that everyone operates
differently.
• What an exciting world!
• How many years of our lives have we been taking advice and guidance from
others...others who are considering only themselves and NOT operating with an
understanding of the person they are giving the advice to?
• Moving forward we will always be considering the recipient of our guidance and
how they are designed. Armed with this knowledge of ourselves and others, we
can all guide anyone!
• We know how to help them through challenges, how they make decisions, and
how to best support them. We know how we are different and how we can use
our own strengths.
• Mostly, we just have to waste less time figuring out the whole thing of - wait,
should I be listening to this person? We would know that if they're designed
completely differently from us, it's wonderful to listen to their experience...we
just won't expect ourselves to recreate it!
• There's a lot of stuff out there about "finding your purpose" and it rings a little
hollow to me.
• For me, my lived experience has been that purpose for me is more of a feeling
than a destination.
• We don't find it by muscling or overthinking or analyzing.
• We find it by observing where our body wants to move (i.e. where our energy wants to go)
from moment to moment.
• We are not «conditioned» to do pointless random things or be lazy.
• When given the space and time (and it doesn't have to be tons of space, it can even be just
an hour!) it naturally gravitates towards the things that energize it.
• It's just that so many of us have never experienced this (or it's been a long time since we
experienced it) that we're used to what we do when we're burnt out, tired, or recovering
from draining ourselves.
• Our purpose unfolds step by step. Eventually we may have a name for it, but
that's not necessary!
 We can't pretend to ever understand the totality of someone
else's reality but that's ok because what I have to do is listen,
support, and remove the barriers I have inside of me that stop
me from listening and supporting through concrete action.

Concious Listening and Communication

• In the Old Paradigm, we felt we needed to sacrifice ourselves to serve
in an authentic way, melting into a collective and erasing our sense of
self.

• In the New Paradigm, we know that we can contribute and support

the world from a place of wholeness while recognizing our
uniqueness and value.
• Something that we've all internalized from the current sytem is a
hierarchy that places value on our gifts and activities.
• Certain skills are worth more, certain bodies are worth more, certain
minds are worth more. This, too, is a construct.
• Our worth, no matter what, is inherent. Yes, in order to be be paid for
something we have to provide value. But what we've decided is
valuable is a construct that is rapidly breaking down.
In the New Paradigm
• We know what is valuable by how it feels inside.
• If we love to do it, there is a place for it in the world.
• We came programmed with a desire to do the things that are needed
in the world.
Figuring out what that place is...that's the puzzle.
But it's a delicious one, and it's worth undertaking! There is so much
more room out there than we realize.
• In the old paradigm, we waffled between feeling that we were either
completely alone or a disembodied One.

• As we move into the New Paradigm, we are beginning to understand

how we are deeply connected through our sovereignty - no
hierarchies or losing ourselves in others.
What is 100% the next step in the
evolution of humanity?
 You are perfect just as you are.

You are perfect with your imperfections.

• Know thy self?
• Experiment with yourself?
• What is a human being?
• I'm not here to be anyone else's slave, live under anyone else's
limitations, or be treated as anything less than a complex, deeply-
feeling, worthy, valid, and valuable human.
• Our time on Earth is precious - do we want to spend 8+ hours per day
not feeling seen or appreciated?
• As soon as we admit what we need, we begin to see what is possible
and how to get there.
• It is likely a winding path, but if you are open, curious, and believe
that you are worth it, you'll get there.
• Looking back we can see how we've been seeded with different tasks and
energies over time, and the different realities we've been able to create.

• How do we initiate and carry through the shift?

• right now is all about self empowerment, self knowledge, and loving our uniqueness,
as opposed to believing that we were born "sinners" and need an outside force to
save us.
• To be successful in this age of human development, we know that by loving and
knowing ourselves, the world that we build will be more open, inclusive, and
prosperous for everyone.

See and love our unique qualities and give us permission to be ourselves.
 Are you a soul/person who deeply
believes in building a (better) world
through self love and self knowledge?
• Why it is so hard to follow our inner guidance in the world?
• Don’t we don't trust that we are enough?
• When will we be enough?
• What needs to happen so that we can say that we are enough?
• The world right now wants us to think that the energy we have, and where
we naturally know we should put it, isn't enough.
• I am here to tell you - it is!
• ALWAYS ENOUGH.
• It doesn't matter if you completed a huge project, cooked a meal, took a
walk, laid on the couch, or just napped. Whatever you are guided to
do...it's always enough.
• Are you working out of fear, expectation, limits, boundaries, and
habit?
• Are you honoring yourself in what you do?
• Are you supporting, embracing, and enriching your and everyone's
existence?

The more we know ourselves and follow what energizes us, the better
the world will be for everyone. This is so much larger than us.
• It can take so much deconditioning just to feel that it is safe to be
yourself.
• You can make money as yourself.
• You can find love as yourself.
• You can have friends being yourself.
• Each person who heals enough to step into this not only shifts us all a
little bit forward, but creates the space for others to do so as well.
In discovering myself, life took me on an
unexpected journey into the nature of love...
Through the process of discovering myself, I felt and investigated the deepest roots of loss, pain (I
was shown the depth of possible pain was synonymous with the depths of love), self-love,
acceptance of what is, love of the universe, love of the human experience, love of everyone around
me, love of everything around me, love as a force (like gravity).
I began to understand that while the loving parts of myself required sensitivity and vulnerability,
and also loving my parts that were not so loveable.

Where I had previously viewed love as a feeling between two people, I now had a much more
expansive experience of what it meant to truly love. To love was to live in love, which I came to view
as complete awareness and acceptance of the present. I opened my heart to love and allowed it to
be my guide.
Ever since, this relationship with love has been an important part of my life and my path. I know
that it’s very important for me to hold that energy - life flows better when I do.
For next week…
• What are your expectations from this course?

• What are the topics you are curious about?

• What contributions can you make to this course?