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UNPACKING THE SEXUAL SELF
The sexual self refers to an individual’s understanding of their sexual orientation, desires, preferences,
and relationships. It shapes your identity and how you feel about yourself. In this module, we will explore
these aspects to help you understand and embrace your unique sexual self. Are you ready to dive in?
Development of the Secondary Sex Characteristics
Secondary sex characteristics are physical traits that develop during puberty, distinguishing males and
females but not directly involved in reproduction.
Male Female
Increased larynx size and deeper voice Widening of hips and enlargement of breasts
Increased muscle mass Onset of menstruation
Increased growth of body hair Increased growth of body hair
Human Reproductive System
The human reproductive system is a collection of organs and structures in both males and females that
work together for reproduction. Below are the importance of the reproductive system:
• It generates sperm in males and eggs in females for reproduction and species development.
• Hormones like estrogen and testosterone are essential for developing secondary sex
characteristics.
• It helps individuals understand their own bodies and sexual health, leading to healthier
relationships and better decision-making about consent and safety.
Erogenous Zones
Erogenous zones are sensitive areas of the body that can lead to sexual arousal when stimulated. The
following are common erogenous zones:
• Lips and Mouth
• Neck and Ears
• Breasts and Nipples
• Inner Thighs
Human Sexual Response Cycle (Masters and Johnson model)
The human sexual response cycle describes the changes that happen in the body as people become
sexually aroused. The cycle consists of four main phases:
1. Excitement – The body prepares for sexual activities. Males may experience an erection of the penis
and nipples, tightening of the scrotum, an increase in respiration, muscular tension, heart rate, and
release of pre-ejaculation fluid during this phase. In females, the discharge of lubricating fluid and
clitoris enlargement are possible.
2. Plateau – It intensifies responses from the excitement phase. You may experience rapid breathing,
high blood pressure, a faster heart rate, and muscle contractions in the face, feet, and hands.
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3. Orgasm – This phase, referred to as the ‘climax’ of the cycle, involves intense breathing, blood
pressure, and heart rate. Muscle contractions in the face, feet, and hands continue, and both partners
may be able to breathe heavily. There is an overwhelming release of sexual tension: males ejaculate
semen, while females experience vaginal muscle contractions.
4. Resolution – The body gradually returns to its normal functioning. Fatigue may begin to be felt;
however, sexual activity is expected to provide a sense of biological fulfillment.
Chemistry of Lust, Love, and Attachment
Helen Fisher (1945 – 2024) was an American anthropologist and self-help author who identified three
stages of love: lust, attraction, and attachment.
Lust – It involves the natural desire for sexual pleasure, which is important for all living beings. This desire
is linked to sex hormones: testosterone in males and estrogen in females.
Attraction – This intense attention can create a deep desire for emotional connection, sometimes
resulting in irrational behavior driven by passion. Hormones and chemicals such as adrenaline, dopamine,
and serotonin are essential in this stage.
o Adrenaline – It is released during "fight" or "flight" responses, which can cause sweat and dry
mouth when you see your crush.
o Dopamine – It produces a strong feeling of pleasure, boosts energy, reduces hunger and sleep
needs, and helps you focus on your partner.
o Serotonin – It is linked to "falling in love," which makes you constantly think of your partner.
Attachment – This stage in relationships is characterized by a desire for intimacy, comfort, and security
with a partner. It emphasizes long-term companionship and is influenced by the hormones oxytocin and
vasopressin.
o Oxytocin (cuddle hormone) – It is released during orgasm and enhances feelings of intimacy after
sexual intercourse.
o Vasopressin (anti-diuretic hormone) – It is released after sexual intercourse and plays a crucial
role in attachment.
It is important to note that these stages can overlap and do not always occur in a strict order. Furthermore,
individual experiences may differ due to genetic, personal, and cultural factors. Although this model
provides a framework for understanding the biological basis of love, human relationships are complex and
influenced by factors beyond chemistry.
The Diversity of Sexual Behavior
Sexual behavior refers to a variety of actions and activities related to sexual expression and intimacy.
The following are examples of sexual behavior:
Masturbation – It is a sexual act of stimulating one's own genitals.
Sexual Intercourse (Coitus)– This refers to the act of sexual reproduction where the male's penis
penetrates the female's vagina (or other orifices).
Sexual Play – It is a variety of sexual activities that may not involve intercourse but still provide sexual
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pleasure and intimacy. It includes behaviors such as kissing, touching, role-playing, using toys, and
exploring fantasies. It focuses on enhancing connection and enjoyment between partners while
emphasizing consent and communication.
Marital sex – It refers to the sexual activity between spouses, often seen as part of the marital
relationship.
Premarital Sex – It refers to the sexual activity between individuals who are not married, typically
occurring before they enter a marital relationship.
Extramarital sex – It refers to the sexual activity that occurs outside of a marriage, often with one partner
being unfaithful to the other. This is considered unlawful and unacceptable in society, for it is an act of
infidelity.
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) are infections caused by various pathogens, such as bacteria,
viruses, or parasites, that can be transmitted through sexual contact. Many STIs can be asymptomatic,
causing an individual to be infected without displaying any symptoms. This can lead to undiagnosed and
untreated infections, which can lead to complications over time.
STIs can also be transmitted from a pregnant person to their baby during pregnancy, childbirth, or
breastfeeding. Moreover, some STIs may spread through blood transfusions or by sharing needles. It is
essential to practice safe sex and get regular screenings to reduce the risk of transmission and manage
potential infections effectively.
Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)
Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) refer to infections that have progressed to a stage where symptoms
or disease symptoms are present. This term is used when an STI leads to noticeable health issues, such as
pain, discomfort, or other clinical symptoms. In essence, all STDs are STIs, but not all STIs develop into
STDs. Below are five common sexually transmitted diseases (STDs):
Chlamydia – It is caused by the bacteria, Chlamydia trachomatis. It can affect the penis, vagina, cervix,
anus, urethra, eyes, and throat. In females, symptoms may include strong-smelling vaginal discharge,
painful urination, and pain during sexual activity. In males, symptoms can include discharge from the
penis, painful urination, and testicular swelling.
Gonorrhea is a bacterial infection that affects mucous membranes such as the eyes, throat, and genitals.
In men, it often causes yellowish-white discharge and painful urination. Women may experience painful
urination and discharge, including fever, abdominal pain, and the risk of pelvic inflammatory disease.
Syphilis – It is an infection caused by the corkscrew-shaped bacterium, Treponema pallidum. It is
transmitted by direct contact with syphilitic sores that can appear on the vagina, anus, rectum, lips, or
mouth. Syphilis can be contracted through sexual activity or even by kissing an infected individual. If left
untreated, it can lead to severe health issues, such as paralysis, blindness, heart disease, brain damage,
dementia, and potentially death.
HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) – It is primarily transmitted through blood, semen, vaginal fluids,
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and breast milk, and it is likely to cause AIDS if not treated. Symptoms of HIV may be mild or absent
initially but can progress to serious health issues. Antiretroviral therapy (ART) can prevent viruses and
reduce the risk of transmission. Although there is no cure, ongoing research is aiming to discover potential
cures in the future.
AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome) – It is a condition that is caused by HIV that weakens the
immune system, making the body vulnerable to infections and certain cancers. It is the final stage of HIV
infection, and you cannot acquire AIDS without first having HIV. Most people with HIV can avoid
progressing to AIDS with treatment, but without it, most will eventually develop AIDS. Although there is
no cure for AIDS, it can be managed with medical treatment and antiretroviral therapy (ART).
Methods of Contraception (Natural and Artificial)
Contraception methods prevent pregnancy during sexual activity and can be classified as natural or
artificial. Since no method is perfect, consider the following factors when choosing a contraception
method:
• The contraceptive should have no unwanted side effects for users.
• It should effectively prevent unwanted pregnancies.
• The method should be simple and easy to use.
• It should be readily available when needed.
Natural Contraception
Natural Contraception does not include any chemical or foreign body insertion into the human body.
Most people who are very conscious of their religious beliefs are more inclined to use the natural method
of birth control. Most individuals prefer natural methods because they are more cost-effective.
Coitus Interruptus (Withdrawal) – The male partner withdraws before ejaculation to prevent sperm
from entering the uterus. While it can reduce pregnancy risk, it is unreliable due to pre-ejaculate fluid
and does not protect against Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs).
Abstinence – This practice involves refraining from sexual activity and is the only method that is 100%
effective in preventing pregnancy and STIs. It can be a personal choice based on various factors, such as
religious beliefs and personal values.
Calendar Method (Rhythm Method) – This involves tracking menstrual cycles to predict fertile days by
marking the start and end of each period on a calendar. It helps identify when to avoid unprotected sex
to prevent pregnancy.
Artificial Contraception
Artificial Contraception is hormonal contraceptives effective through the manipulation of the hormones
that directly affect the normal menstrual cycle so that ovulation would not occur.
Condoms – This refers to a barrier method used by males or females to prevent sperm from reaching the
egg while also providing protection against STIs.
Birth control pills – These are daily hormonal pills that prevent ovulation and help regulate the
menstrual cycle. The birth control pill works by stopping sperm from fertilizing an egg. Fertilization occurs
when sperm joins with an egg.
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IUDs (Intrauterine Devices) are small devices inserted into the uterus that prevent fertilization. They
are available in hormonal and non-hormonal (copper) forms.
Implants – These are hormonal rods placed under the skin of the arm that release hormones to prevent
ovulation.
Injectables – These are hormonal injections administered every few months to prevent ovulation.
Both natural and artificial methods have varying effectiveness rates and may be suitable for various
lifestyles and health needs. These methods can enhance effectiveness; however, they require careful
observation and education for optimal results.
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