WHAT IS

SEXTING?
Sexting is the grown-up version of passing notes in class, with a spicy twist.
From compliments that’d make Shakespeare blush to pictures that can put your
phone on fire – it’s all fair game when carried out with consent and respect.

“I am home alone, too bored sitting on the

couch or a sexy photo of their thighs - could
be your signal to the next sexting escapade”.

Your reply?

Well, this guide will cover that and a lot more..

 SEXTING
PERKS:
MORE BANG FOR
YOUR TEXT
Best for bedroom introverts: Sexting Enhances dopamine and oxytocin:
offers you the window to communicate all the The act of sending and receiving flirty and
things you want to try in bed but may be too suggestive triggers the release of feel-good
nervous to talk about face-to-face. hormones and reduces stress hormones. Good
vibes only!
Higher sexual satisfaction: Not only does
this kind of openness make you feel closer to
your partner, but it also enhances your sex life
by heightening anticipation. Ever thought of dropping a hint like
‘69 on my mind?’ or “fantasizing about an
It’s rewarding: Sending erotic messages is adventurous romp under a waterfall”, see
an amazing way to flirt, engage in foreplay and where sext lands you on those escapades.
build sexual tension before the date.

Build deeper, emotional connections: So, grab your phone and add this new form of
Since you’re writing everything out, you can intimate ritual in the most natural way possible.
be sexually vulnerable and dip into more taboo Shall we?
areas of sexual fantasies with ease.
 MASTERING
SEXTIQUETTE:
TEXTING LIKE A
PRO

Get consent: Don’t send a

random nude (or even a sexy emoji)
without checking in first, they could
be…in a meeting/driving/or just busy.

Never screenshot or share with others:

If you intend to share your private moments and
conversations with your friends, this is a game you
must avoid at all levels. Confidentiality, here, is the
ultimate turn-on

Know your privacy options: Understand and

utilize the privacy settings of the channels to
share nudes and explicit messages.

Go slow: It’s not a race to finish, it’s a slow

dance to cherish; so build anticipation and
keep your impulsive urges five times slower
than your usual.
 LET’S
BEGIN
Need some sexting
inspiration? Here are
a few examples to get
you started.

The Anticipation-
Building Sexts I can’t wait to get you naked tonight

Go as creative or naughty with

I just can’t stop thinking about
your “I can’t wait to…..” sexts going down on you.
as you’d like.

Here are some inspirations for All I can think about is you inside of me.
the starters…
I get so turned on by thinking
about us in the shower.

I’m dying for you to blindfold me and

do whatever you please with my body.

It makes me so wet/hard thinking

about you__________________________

(doing something you totally dig in the

bedroom)
The Down-memory-
lane Sexts That orgasm you gave me last night
still makes my knees go weak.
We all admire the greatest
hits of the past, don’t we?
It was so hot when you kissed
These sexts have a “remember my nape in the car.
when?” feel.

Here are some sexy ideas. I still get turned on thinking about
the last time we did it in the bathtub.

Did you like it when I ____?

Still thinking about _____ and craving

more tonight.

Can’t stop thinking about your face

while I was looking up at you with
my face between your legs.

You’re a bad boy.

You can’t orgasm tonight

I want you naked, sitting in the

tub, and waiting for me when I
get home.

You can’t cum until I ask you to.

Dominating Sexts Sounds like you deserve a

good spanking tonight.
Ruled the last adventure? Remind
them about it or anticipate the next Undress right now and start
encounter when you’re going to have touching yourself for me.
it “YOUR” way! Some ideas to build
up the heat through texts…(with
I have a blindfold and handcuff
interchangeable pronouns, of course). waiting for you when you get
home. Get ready for the wildest
night of your life.
Submissive Sexts
Have you been a bad girl/boy
lately? It’s time to surrender Are you going to punish me tonight?
with these sexy texts.
Please, make me beg for it.

I’ve been so naughty lately, tie me up

with a handcuff.

You know what I want…and you know

how to deny me in all the right ways.

I want you to make me do all the

work tonight.

I think I need you to put me in my place.

You have the hottest body I’ve

ever seen.

Have I told you how gorgeous

you look when you’re not
wearing anything

Your kiss makes me so so wet,

every time!

I can’t believe I get to touch

The Compliment you every day

Sexts Your sexy back is such a

turn-on for me
Because compliments never hurt.
Here are a few to play with.
Have I ever told you that you
give the best head ever?
SEXTING
WITH
EMOJIS,
ANYONE?
Don’t believe in words? Use the power of Emojis
to express your deepest fantasies and desires to
your partner.

Here are more options.

 LEVEL-UP YOUR
SEXTS
Wanna make it even more steamy?
Here are a few tricks to try.

↘↘ Be specific and throw in some creativity ↘↘ Switch to disappearing photos mode: Keep
- Vagueness in sexting can be a major turn-off. the spark alive by giving them only a chance to
Be crisp, detailed, and highly specific with your look at your nudes or sexy photos. Use apps like
first sext. WhatsApp, Telegram, Snapchat or even Instagram
that offer the option of disappearing photos.
An Easy Formula Is -
A Situation + Body Part + Desire. ↘↘ Use your voice: If they aren’t surrounded by
people, a provocative voice is all you need to turn
“You look so hot” is fine, but what will work them on. Whisper, moan and remember to take
better is “It’s so hard to resist biting your neck their name at least once in your voice note.
when you tie your hair up”
DON’T
DON’T FORGET
FORGET
THE NUDES…
THE NUDES
Whether you want to spice up the sexts,
replenish the stash or have free time and
want to experiment with different looks on a
flattering afternoon, the below tips will help
you get some hottest nudes:

Don’t want to include the face? Consider textured walls and so on. A messy bed with
snapping identifiable characteristics like your crinkled sheets can do the work though. Isn’t
tattoo, birthmarks, a recent Hickie, and other that where you want them to cosy up with you?
attributes that scream of “you”.

Don’t underestimate the power of a good Get those angles right. Lie on your stomach
light. Generally, natural lighting works great down to flaunt your booty or show off your
for nudes, but if you don’t have access to the chest by sitting on the edge of the bed - take
sunlight in your room, a well-placed desk lamp the shots from angles that make you look
and ring lights can be pretty useful. irresistible to your partner. Make sure you wear
something hot and reveal certain body parts in
Pick a nice background with flowers, painting, a saucy way.
And Most Importantly… Have fun! Sexting is all
playful if you do it responsibly.

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