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Effective Phone Call Script for Dating

This document provides a phone call script to set up a date with a woman. It outlines four phases: 1) initial small talk and getting to know her, 2) focusing the conversation on learning about her interests and schedule, 3) proposing a specific date, time and activity, and 4) addressing any potential concerns she may have to prevent cancelling the date. The goal is to engage her in conversation, find common interests, and set up a casual first date in a way that leaves a positive impression and secures the plans.

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Effective Phone Call Script for Dating

This document provides a phone call script to set up a date with a woman. It outlines four phases: 1) initial small talk and getting to know her, 2) focusing the conversation on learning about her interests and schedule, 3) proposing a specific date, time and activity, and 4) addressing any potential concerns she may have to prevent cancelling the date. The goal is to engage her in conversation, find common interests, and set up a casual first date in a way that leaves a positive impression and secures the plans.

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PREMIUM

PHONE CALL
SCRIPT
BEFORE THE CALL

Make sure you're in a quiet, relaxed


environment

Sit down, lean back ( your voice will


sound deeper, more manly)

Play some nice music in the


background

Do the Research - Go over her IG


stories and take notes of what she'd
done in the previous 24 hours (you
will use it when you get stuck this
info will be helpful).
PHASE 1
INITIAL FLUFF & GETTING TO KNOW YOU
Use deeper voice to get more sexy tone. (girls
love deeper man voices)
Let her say hello first.

You: "Hey Jessica"


( say her name from time to time, people like
hearing their names)
You: "How are you doing?"
Her: "Fine, and you?"
Tell a small story for example:
"I've just finished my last zoom meeting for
today… these clients are making me proud,
really"

"Actually, [tell her about an event from today,


keep it positive]"
Notice the hook in the conversation, this
sentence leaves a lot of questions unanswered.
Which Clients? What did they do to make you
proud?
This is where she will be intrigued to ask a
question.
Keep every story of you this way, and let her ask
questions more and more.
PHASE 2
GETTING TO KNOW HER
After 5 minutes like this, focus on her.
You: "so how was your day?"

If she gives a shallow answer like "ok", use


something you saw on her story.
If she didn't have a story, tease her.
You: "just ok? You look much happier on
Instagram!"
You : "Btw, I have to say you have such a sweet
voice, I am loving it." - throw a compliment
You: "Now honestly, how was your day?"
The purpose of focusing on her is learning how
her days look like.

This way, you start building up the logistics for a


date. Learn what she's doing in life (job &
hobbies), when is she with family and friends,
how's her weekends look like, and when is she
free
Notice:You add energy to her using a response
once in a while, show her appreciation, tease
her, tell a story about the topic as well.
Loop this part for several minutes, use stories
for new topics “oh I see you are going to this new
gym..”Try to find as many connections and
commonalities as you can.
PHASE 3
SETTING UP THE DATE
You: "Jessica, I have 3 questions for you, and I
need you to answer as fast as possible, can you
do it?"

She: "yeah sure"

You: "Beach or Park?"


Her answer
You: "Wine or Beer?"
Her answer
You: "Music or Guitar?"
Her answer

You: "Amazing!"
You: "so what do you say about this wednesday,
20.30, me & you on the beach… with a blanket
and a nice bottle of red wine… music playing in
the background… sounds good?"
Close.
PHASE 4
PREVENTING FLAKES
Flakes happen when the woman needs to fill up
the gaps she doesn't know about you by herself
using her own imagination.
Mostly, she will fill the gaps for the worst, not
the best.

If you followed the script precisely you will not


get flakes!
However, in case there is missing information in
her mind , we always want to add 1 last step to
ensure that she won't flake.

In the end of the conversation you say:


"Before I go I want to make One thing sure... is
there ANYTHING else you need to know about me
before we meet? Your Biggest Deal Breaker?"
If she says no, you're good.
If she says yes, you either give her a direct
answer or you tease her on that.
For example:
Her: "I don't know... I guess if you're short it's a
dealbreaker"
Direct: "I'm 1.90, would that be enough?"
Tease: "I am 1.45cm, but I promise to bring my
super high heels ok?"
Note: Direct answer will work only if it's in your
favour, in any other case, you use a tease.

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