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Understanding Emotional Intelligence & Regulation

This module focuses on understanding emotions and developing emotional intelligence. It discusses how emotions are defined as biochemical reactions in the brain and body that result in changes to one's physical state. Feelings are the mental portrayal of emotions and are subjective based on beliefs and experiences. The module also covers emotional regulation and developing qualities like self-control, trustworthiness, and empathy to effectively manage emotions. Culture influences appropriate emotional expression and strategies must fit the social context. Emotional regulation is primarily learned through family interactions like observational learning.

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Understanding Emotional Intelligence & Regulation

This module focuses on understanding emotions and developing emotional intelligence. It discusses how emotions are defined as biochemical reactions in the brain and body that result in changes to one's physical state. Feelings are the mental portrayal of emotions and are subjective based on beliefs and experiences. The module also covers emotional regulation and developing qualities like self-control, trustworthiness, and empathy to effectively manage emotions. Culture influences appropriate emotional expression and strategies must fit the social context. Emotional regulation is primarily learned through family interactions like observational learning.

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Module 5.

Unfolding the Emotional Self


This module focuses on the emotional dimension of self. This broadly tackles the different aspects
of human emotions and reactions that we put to different emotional experiences. This also thoroughly
covers discussions on emotional intelligence and emotional regulation.

UNIT 1. Human Emotions and Emotional Intelligence


This unit will delve into understanding of one’s emotional self through the lens of emotional
intelligence theories, particularly in the aspects of emotional awareness and emotional management.
An important aspect of our Self is acknowledging that we have emotions. Emotions serve as a driving force
in many of our behaviors; we use it as one of the basis in making a decision, embracing certain lifestyles,
and relating to others. However, while we can immediately recognize our emotions, there is difficulty in
defining it and for some people, difficulty in controlling it. However, it is not to say that our emotions rule
us and become the basis of our decisions; an important point to remember is every individual has the
capacity to manage them.
Emotions is defined as the “lower level responses occurring in the brain, creating biochemical
reactions in the body, which results in changes of one’s physical state” (Hampton, 2015). Thus, emotions
serve a critical survival function in making us aware of threats coming from the environment that affect
our inner consciousness.
“ the mental portrayal of what is going on in your body when you have an emotion and is the byproduct
of your brain perceiving and assigning meaning to the emotion” (Hampton, 2015).

Thus, feelings are subjective experiences that frame our interpretation of emotion. Feelings are
subjective since there are based on our beliefs and past experiences. When we make a particular decision,
aside from using logic and reason in deliberating about our choice, we ask ourselves “how do I feel about
making this decision? Does it feel good? Does it feel right?”

Emotional Intelligence

For Bar-On (1997), “it is an array of non-cognitive abilities, competencies, and skills that influence
one’s ability to succeed in coping with environmental demands and pressures.”
According to Mayer, Salovey, and Caruso (2004), it is “the capacity to reason about emotion, and
of emotions to enhance thinking. It includes the abilities to accurately perceive emotions, to access and
generate emotions so as to assist thought, to understand emotions and emotional knowledge, and to
reflectively regulate emotions so as to promote emotional and intellectual growth”.
Goleman (2005), it is the “capacity for recognizing our own feelings and those of other, for
motivating ourselves, and for managing emotions effectively in ourselves and others.”

UNIT 2. Emotional Regulation


This unit continues discussion on the emotional aspect of the Self, from emotional intelligence to
healthy emotional expression and regulation. It will highlight practical applications of emotional
intelligence to one’s daily activities.
Adolescence is considered a turbulent time of development due to the biological, psychological,
and social changes that adolescents experience and encounter. Part of the reason why this is a crucial
point of development is the emotional issues that teenagers are confronted with. In the midst of exploring
their self and identity, adolescents begin to develop values, cognitions, and engage in risk-taking behavior
that have both positive and negative consequences, which is underlined by fluctuating, rapidly changing
emotions. The same can be attributed to the millennial generation, who are known to be inquisitive, active
in learning, egocentric, and dislike delay of gratification. It is important that at this stage, adolescents
begin to curb their impulsivity, develop emotional efficacy, and ultimately, acquire emotional maturity.
This will enable them to make viable future plans and long-term goals.

Meta-analytic Research has outlined ten (10) common strategies employed in emotional
regulation, namely, rumination, distraction, acceptance, problem solving, behavioral avoidance,
experiential avoidance, expressive suppression, reappraisal, mindfulness, and worry. However, employing
these strategies are dependent on a number of factors, including person characteristics, external stimuli,
specific emotional regulation goals, nature of the emotion to be regulated, long-term goals, and available
cognitive resources. Thus, emotional regulation varies from person to person, from context to context.
However, there are common characteristics shared by individual who have achieved emotional
maturity and efficacy. These individual manifest the following qualities that enable effective emotional
regulation:
1. Self-control. Managing disruptive impulses.
2. Trustworthiness. Maintaining standards of honesty and integrity.
3. Conscientiousness. Taking responsibility for one’s performance.
4. Adaptability. Handling change with flexibility.
5. Innovation. Being open to new ideas.
6. Empathy. Understanding other people and putting yourself in their shoes.

Unit 2. Emotional Regulation


In a cultural aspect, emotional regulation is defined as “all the processes that help to attain
culturally appropriate or functional emotional experiences”. This definition underlies the importance of
culture in our emotional behavior. We need to contextualize how we manage our emotions in an
appropriate manner; we need to adopt strategies that would fit the cultural context we live in. In the Asian
context, emotional regulation is influenced by “culturally valued relationship frameworks”. This will
ensure our social competence in a variety of situations; within our homes, our school environments, and
society at large.
How do we develop emotional regulation abilities? We learn to regulate emotions primarily
through observational learning, and social referencing, particularly on the basis of family.

Common questions

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Emotional intelligence theories emphasize that emotions play a crucial role in decision-making by serving as a guide to assess choices alongside logic and reason. According to Mayer, Salovey, and Caruso (2004), emotional intelligence involves the ability to reason about emotions and use them to enhance thinking, which includes making decisions. When making a decision, individuals often ask themselves if it feels right, thus integrating emotions into the process .

The ten common strategies used in emotional regulation are rumination, distraction, acceptance, problem-solving, behavioral avoidance, experiential avoidance, expressive suppression, reappraisal, mindfulness, and worry. These strategies are chosen based on various factors, including personal characteristics, external stimuli, specific emotional regulation goals, the nature of the emotion to be regulated, long-term goals, and available cognitive resources .

Emotional expression and regulation are critical during adolescence as this period is marked by significant biological, psychological, and social changes. Adolescents encounter fluctuating and rapidly changing emotions, which can lead to risk-taking behaviors with both positive and negative consequences . Developing emotional regulation abilities during this time can lead to emotional maturity, allowing adolescents to make viable future plans and long-term goals .

Adolescence is critical for developing emotional regulation skills because this developmental stage involves pronounced biological, psychological, and social changes, with emotions fluctuating rapidly. During this time, individuals explore their identity and encounter emotional challenges that necessitate developing control over impulses and acquiring emotional maturity to set future and long-term goals .

Emotional intelligence enhances intellectual growth by allowing individuals to accurately perceive and generate emotions to assist thought processes. It involves understanding emotional knowledge and reflectively regulating emotions to promote both emotional and intellectual development. This capacity to reason about emotions enables individuals to use emotional information strategically in cognitive tasks, thereby enhancing their intellectual capabilities .

Different theorists have varied definitions of emotional intelligence. Bar-On (1997) describes it as a set of non-cognitive abilities, competencies, and skills needed to cope with environmental pressures. Mayer, Salovey, and Caruso (2004) emphasize the capacity to reason about emotions to enhance thinking, encompassing understanding and regulating emotions for growth. Goleman (2005) focuses on recognizing and managing both personal and others' emotions effectively. Common to all definitions is the notion of leveraging emotional understanding and regulation to improve decision-making and enhance personal and interpersonal effectiveness .

Cultural contexts significantly influence emotional regulation by defining what is considered appropriate emotional expression. Emotional regulation, as defined in a cultural context, involves processes that help attain culturally appropriate emotional experiences. In Asian cultures, for example, these regulations are influenced by culturally valued relationship frameworks, which affect how individuals manage emotions in various social situations to ensure competence . These cultural norms dictate the strategies individuals adopt for emotional regulation .

In the context of emotional intelligence, emotions are defined as lower-level responses occurring in the brain that trigger biochemical reactions, affecting one's physical state. They serve a critical survival function by making individuals aware of environmental threats . In contrast, feelings are subjective experiences that occur as a mental portrayal of the physical changes when emotions arise, influenced by beliefs and past experiences, shaping our interpretation of those emotions .

Emotional regulation abilities develop through observational learning and social referencing by observing and imitating appropriate emotional responses from others, particularly within the family context. This learning process involves understanding how others manage their emotions in culturally and socially acceptable ways, providing a framework for individuals to regulate their own emotions effectively in various situations .

Individuals who have achieved emotional maturity and efficacy typically possess qualities such as self-control (managing disruptive impulses), trustworthiness (maintaining honesty and integrity), conscientiousness (taking responsibility for one’s performance), adaptability (handling change flexibly), innovation (being open to new ideas), and empathy (understanding others' perspectives).

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