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Backreading Insights from Retreat

This document provides a guide for facilitating the third day of an online retreat called Search-Insight. The day focuses on reflecting on lessons from the prior two days about focusing on oneself and others/family. Participants will discuss their favorite activities and lessons, with the facilitator helping summarize the key themes about self-awareness, supporting others, and finding purpose through life's challenges as part of a community. The facilitator aims to help participants feel at ease and apply the retreat's lessons to their ongoing personal growth and relationships.
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Backreading Insights from Retreat

This document provides a guide for facilitating the third day of an online retreat called Search-Insight. The day focuses on reflecting on lessons from the prior two days about focusing on oneself and others/family. Participants will discuss their favorite activities and lessons, with the facilitator helping summarize the key themes about self-awareness, supporting others, and finding purpose through life's challenges as part of a community. The facilitator aims to help participants feel at ease and apply the retreat's lessons to their ongoing personal growth and relationships.
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Search-Insight

Day 3: GOD

Activity Name: Backread

*THIS IS NOT A SCRIPT, RATHER A GUIDE.*

I. Preliminaries (slightly revised to be flexible based on different answers of participants)


a) Join the first two days of search-insight as an observer, preferably
introduce yourself and turn on your camera, to gather significant
resources from the participants. Said resources will be utilized for the
activity to further the impact of search-insight and its lessons to the
participants. Such resources can be:
 Name
 Past Experiences
 Mannerisms/ Body Language
 Attitude
 Attentiveness
 Current Achievements/Struggles

b) On the day of the activity, make a final observation of the


participants and start talking comfortably to set a certain mood. Tell
them that this is the last day of the online retreat and that they are in
for a day of solace. If the participants are not responding as expected,
utilize the gathered information to create a connection that will result
into them opening up, easing the tension. Other ways for the
participants to open up are the following:
 Tell a personal experience with the online retreat or
search-in in general.
 Joke around with the participants.
 Share interest/ hobbies that you might share with the
participants.
 Establish a friend to friend connection rather than a
facilitator-participant relationship.

II. Mechanics (slightly revised to be flexible based on different answers of participants)


a) After establishing a comfortable connection, carefully ask the
participant to choose their favored day so you can divide the
participants by Day 1 & Day 2, you can then ask their favourite
activity. Learn the why’s and how they will apply the lessons learned
in their everyday life. If the participants find it difficult to remember the
former activities, help them remember by stating the said activities by
day and informing them on what happened.

b) Succeeding the sharing of the favored day and activities, state


the true lesson of the former and latter. If the search-insighters did
mention the true lesson, further the explanation for the others to
understand. The lessons/ themes of the days are the following:
 Day 1 is focused on themselves, symbolizing that it is okay to
focus on ourselves first before we switch our attention to
others.
 Day 2 is focused is focused on Others/Family.
The summary of the lessons of the activities are then the following:
 Innocence: baby pictures reflecting his/her personal decision
on how a person can still make changes for them in order to
be what they’ve always wanted or even what God would’ve
wanted for him or her to be.
 Recess: Taking a break is not bad, sometimes hitting the
pause button can put everything in perspective and that can
lead to breakthrough It's just like holding a cup of water for a
long period of time, yes it's just a small amount of water but as
time pass by it gets heavier and more tiring, and what's the
solution? put the cup down and just take a rest. Everything will
be better.
 Facade: Hiding emotions can be very tough, strength doesn't
always mean looking presentable and strong to everyone else,
sometimes strength is also accepting the fact that you are just
a human, you have weaknesses and that's okay. We are all
strong in our own way. Weaknesses are meant to be worked
on, and your strengths are meant to be polished.
 Perception: We all have individual baggage that we don't
want the whole world to know. Venting it out is the only way to
get rid of the burden. And we are willing to unpack those
baggage for you. A mask isn't always an answer, we are given
a voice to be used and we're thankful you voiced out your
thoughts and we hope it all made you feel better.

III. Processing
a) Today, we have come to the end of this 3-day online retreat. During
the first day, we reminisced who we were during our adolescent days
and compared who we were back then and who we are at this
moment, thus making us realize how having self-awareness is
important as we go on with our lives.
b) On the second day, we learned how our friends, family and other
people tend to present a facade of themselves even in times of
struggles, with that thought, let us open our hearts and allow them to
feel protected for we will be by their side and will face tough
challenges ahead of us, together.
c) As we look back at the different activities that happened throughout
the whole retreat, specifically the importance of oneself, family and
God. We may have had shortcomings for we were not able to fully
give you the real search-in experience but we continue to carry out
these valuable lessons for you to remember while finding different
paths of your life in the future. From being a lost individual during this
difficult times to an individual who fosters a positive and strong image
of life and who recognize how we transition or changed ourselves due
to the challenges we have faced in life which shaped who and what
we are. We have come through this process not only as an individual
or as a group, but as part of one Lasallian community.
d) There’s also a reason as to why you chose that specific activity to be
your favorite among the rest. Maybe deep inside you have related
much with the insights that the activity carries. This only shows that
you have been successful in joining Search-Insight. Congratulations!

Common questions

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The 'Recess' metaphor, likening a break to putting down a cup of water that becomes burdensome over time, illustrates the necessity of rest in maintaining mental and emotional well-being. During the Search-Insight retreat, this metaphor serves as a reminder that taking breaks is crucial for gaining perspective and fostering breakthroughs. It teaches participants that regular rest is not a weakness, but rather an essential component for sustained personal growth and life balance .

The structure of the Search-Insight retreat, beginning with self-focus and progressing to focus on others, enables participants to first develop self-awareness, which is fundamental for effectively navigating interpersonal relationships. By understanding and accepting oneself, individuals can better empathize with and support others, promoting healthier and more authentic relationships. This progression mirrors the concept that emotional and relational health starts with self-understanding before extending to empathy and support for others .

Day 1, which focuses on self-awareness and personal growth, and Day 2, which emphasizes understanding and supporting others, complement each other by creating a balanced approach to personal development. By first centering on self-care and understanding, participants are then better equipped to engage meaningfully with others. This dual focus not only fosters individual growth but also enhances relational skills, enabling participants to build supportive, empathetic relationships, thereby promoting a well-rounded approach to life and personal development .

The Search-Insight retreat encourages participants to apply their insights by reflecting on personal and relational dynamics, and suggesting actionable ways to incorporate these lessons into everyday life. Through activities focused on introspection and empathy, participants gain deeper understandings of themselves and others, which can inform practical decisions and behaviors in real-life scenarios. The retreat's emphasis on self-awareness and communal support serves as a blueprint for handling personal challenges and fostering supportive relationships beyond the retreat setting .

The theme of transitioning from self-focus to focusing on family and others reflects the participant's journey of first establishing a foundation of self-awareness and personal understanding. This prepares them to extend empathy and support to others. The retreat starts by encouraging introspection, allowing participants to build confidence in their identity and values, which then facilitates more meaningful connections with family and others. This progression signifies a layered growth that begins internally but naturally extends outward, highlighting the interconnectedness of individual and relational development .

Self-awareness is considered foundational in the Search-Insight retreat as it underpins the process of understanding one's identity and the changes one undergoes in life. According to the program, self-awareness allows participants to recognize their growth from adolescence to adulthood, facilitating personal reflection and alignment with one's goals and values. This heightened self-perception is crucial for personal development, guiding individuals in making informed and authentic life choices .

The 'Facade' concept challenges the traditional view that strength is about always appearing strong and presentable. It redefines strength to include the acceptance of one's vulnerabilities and weaknesses. This view promotes the idea that acknowledging and working on one's weaknesses is also a form of strength, thereby encouraging a more holistic understanding of personal strength where inner authenticity is valued over outward appearances .

The 'Perception' activity encourages participants to express their emotions and share their burdens by providing a supportive environment where venting is normalized. This activity is important because it recognizes that suppressing emotions can lead to emotional strain and isolation. By promoting open communication, the activity aids in emotional relief and improves mental health, helping individuals to manage stress more effectively and build better emotional resilience .

The transition from an individual to a community perspective in the Search-Insight retreat highlights the interconnectedness of personal growth and communal support. This shift is significant because it fosters a sense of belonging and collective strength, reminding participants that personal transformation is enhanced when shared with and supported by a community. It reflects the retreat's underlying principle that while individual self-improvement is vital, true resilience and growth are reinforced through community bonds and collective experiences .

The 'Innocence' activity involves participants reflecting on their childhood through baby pictures, symbolizing the potential for personal change and growth. It relates to personal development by highlighting the idea that individuals can continuously evolve towards what they aspire to be or what they believe they should become. This activity encourages participants to consider their aspirations and how they align with their current path, prompting a reevaluation of life choices to better align with personal or divine aspirations .

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