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11 Important Types of Play for
Growing Children
Play offers children the opportunity to learn and
practice new skills
By
Amanda Rock
Updated on September 30, 2022
Medically reviewed
by
Ann-Louise T. Lockhart, PsyD, ABPP
Verywell / Joshua Seong
Children love to play because it's fun—but it's also vital to healthy
development. During different types of play, children learn and practice
key social, thinking, physical, and emotional skills, including creativity,
imagination, and problem-solving. [1] The benefits of play are progressive,
meaning that the skills kids develop during their fun and games build
upon each other.
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Play activities like rolling a ball back and forth with a sibling or putting on
a costume help little ones learn to take turns, build fine motor skills and
proprioception (awareness of the body in space), and practice getting
along with others.
Influential sociologist Mildred Parten was an early advocate for the
benefits of play. Her work described six essential types of play that kids
take part in, depending on their age, mood, and social setting, and what
children learn from them. [2]
Every child develops at their own pace and may engage in these types
of play earlier or later. And while these stages are progressive, they
often occur simultaneously. A child may not leave one type of play
behind when they move on to the next one.
Types of Play
Unoccupied play
Independent play
Onlooker play
Parallel play
Associative play
Cooperative play
Competitive play
Constructive play
Dramatic play
Physical play
Symbolic play
Unoccupied Play
The first stage of play is unoccupied play. primarily from birth to three
months. This type of play likely doesn't look like play at all. However,
when babies observe their surroundings or make random movements that
don't seem to have an objective, this is actually unoccupied play. It sets
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the stage for future play exploration.
Parents don't need to do anything special to foster this type of play. Babies
do it instinctively. However, it's important to allow babies to explore, even
if it's just wiggling their hands and feet in the air. Your baby might enjoy
a play mat or activity gym, but these aren't essential.
Solitary (Independent) Play
Solitary play is just what it sounds like—your child playing alone. This
type of play teaches children how to keep themselves entertained, one of
the steps on the path to being self-sufficient. [3] Once your baby can
interact with toys, such as by grasping a rattle, they are starting to move
into the independent play stage.
Toys for independent play can be anything that babies, toddlers, or
preschoolers can play with on their own, such as stuffed animals, blocks,
toy figures, dress-up costumes, musical instruments, play tools, dolls,
push toys, and books.
Any child can play independently, but this type of play is most common in
children between two and three years old. At that age, children are still
pretty self-focused and lack good communication and sharing skills. If a
child is on the shy side and doesn't know their playmates well, they may
prefer this type of play at older ages as well.
Preschoolers and older kids may continue to choose independent play
even after learning to play well with others as it provides unique
opportunities to explore their own interests on their own terms.
Onlooker Play
In onlooker play, a child simply observes other children playing and
doesn't partake in the action. They may watch what you or other adults
are doing as well. Onlooker play is typical for children between two and
three years old and is especially common for younger children whose
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vocabulary is developing. [4]
Don't dismiss the importance of this type of play. It's a healthy form of
learning and part of your child's play journey. It could be that the child
feels tentative, needs to learn the rules, or just prefers to watch before
joining in play with others. Watching helps kids gain confidence and
prepare for future stages of play.
During onlooker play, by observing and possibly mimicking the play
of others, your child is building their own skills.
Your child may be using their own toys while engaging in onlooker play,
but this type of play is about observing rather than playing alongside
others, which is called parallel play. However, children in onlooker play
may comment on what they're seeing. They are learning about how other
kids play and interact.
Related:
Build Your Child's Vocabulary
Parallel Play
Put two three-year-olds in a room together and you are likely to see them
having fun, playing side by side in their own little worlds. It doesn't mean
that they don't like one another; they are just engaging in parallel play.
This type of play begins around age two and differs from playing together
in that neither child tries to influence the play of the other.
Despite having little overt contact with each other, children in parallel
play learn quite a bit from one another. [5] Even though it appears that
they aren't paying attention to each other, they truly are and often mimic
their playmate's behavior.
Like each of the other stages, this type of play is a bridge to the later
stages of play. Many types of activities, from drawing to playing with toy
cars, can occur during parallel play.
Related:
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Associative Play
Associative play commonly begins around age three or four. Like parallel
play, it features children playing separately. But in this type of play,
children are involved with what others are doing.
Think of a small group of kids building a city with blocks. As they build
their individual buildings, they talk to one another, but they primarily
work on their own.
This stage of play helps little ones develop a whole host of skills, such as
socialization (what should we build now?), taking turns (can I have the
blue one now?), problem-solving (how can we make this city bigger?),
cooperation, and language development. [6]
Associative play is how many children begin to make real friendships.
Typically, this form of play phases out by age five.
Cooperative Play
Cooperative play is where all the stages come together and children truly
start playing together. Typically starting between four and five years of
age, this is the predominant type of play in groups of kids this age and up,
or in younger preschoolers who have older siblings or have been around a
lot of children.
Cooperative play uses all of the social skills your child has been
working on and puts them into action. [7]
This stage of play can encompass many different types of play activities.
Whether they are building a puzzle together, playing a board game, or
enjoying an outdoor group activity, cooperative play sets the stage for
future interactions as your child matures. However, kids will still return to
the earlier stages of play from time to time as well.
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Competitive Play
The stages of play are vital to your child's social development. Once a child
reaches the cooperative play stage, you may see them trying out other
types of play. These also contribute to development of social, thinking,
and physical skills.
When your child is playing Chutes and Ladders or joins a sports team, they
are engaging in competitive play. This helps them learn about rules, turn-
taking, functioning as part of a team, and the realities of winning and
losing.
Competitive play can also help kids develop motional regulation,
sportsmanship, and the ability to cope with defeat.
Constructive Play
Constructive play teaches kids about manipulation, building, and fitting
things together. [8] Examples include building with blocks, Legos, or
magnetic tiles, making a road for toy cars, or constructing a fort out of
couch pillows.
During constructive play, kids use cognitive skills to figure out how to
make something work, whether it is a block tower that won't stand up or a
sandcastle that keeps collapsing. This type of play also teaches the power
of trying again.
Dramatic Play
When your child plays dress-up, school, or restaurant, it's dramatic or
fantasy play. Through this type of play, your child's imagination gets a
workout. Plus they learn how to take turns, cooperate, and share, and they
work on language development.
Role play also helps teach kids about functioning in the greater
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community.
Physical Play
Physical play includes activities such as throwing a ball, climbing a play
structure, riding a bike, or playing a game like tag. This type of play builds
gross and fine motor skills. Physical play encourages kids to develop
fitness skills and to enjoy physical activity, which provides lifelong
benefits.
Symbolic Play
This type of play can include vocal activities (singing, jokes, or rhymes),
graphic arts (drawing, coloring, or working with clay), counting, or
making music. Symbolic play helps children learn to express themselves
and explore and process their experiences, ideas, and emotions.
A Word From Verywell
Play is a tremendously important part of child development. While parents
and caregivers should encourage and support opportunities for play,
remember that children need their own time and space to learn these
skills, which will come independently.
Parents don't need to actively teach the lessons kids learn from play. The
beauty is that children discover concepts and skills as they play their
games, all in good fun.
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