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Embracing LGBTQ Identity and Equality

This document discusses issues faced by the LGBT community in the Philippines. It describes how the author realized they were gay from a young age despite coming from a Catholic family and conservative country. While some LGBT people face rejection and violence, the author was lucky to have family acceptance. However, discrimination is still common as LGBT rights are not protected by law. The conclusion expresses hope that continued advocacy will lead to greater equality and acceptance so that LGBT people can live freely without fear of prejudice.

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Embracing LGBTQ Identity and Equality

This document discusses issues faced by the LGBT community in the Philippines. It describes how the author realized they were gay from a young age despite coming from a Catholic family and conservative country. While some LGBT people face rejection and violence, the author was lucky to have family acceptance. However, discrimination is still common as LGBT rights are not protected by law. The conclusion expresses hope that continued advocacy will lead to greater equality and acceptance so that LGBT people can live freely without fear of prejudice.

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They say that life is always been a choice, a choice of who you want to be and what you want

to be.
Have you ever wondered how an individual know that they are lesbian, a gay, and a bisexual? Some
people may tell that being part of the LGBT is unnatural. Why? Is being gay, wrong? There are times that
people will call you “bading” “tomboy” and they think that being part of lgbt is “salot sa lipunan” or
even worst “isang malaking kasalanan”. When did it become wrong to live the way we want. When did
it become wrong to love regardless of our gender? When I was child, my mom already notices
something about me. They say that I prefer playing with my girl cousins who plays “doll house” rather
than playing “cars” with my boy cousins. Upon growing up, I thought that my family wouldn’t accept me
from who I am especially my mom that’s why when she came home, I always wear my jersey shirt and
hides my sexy shirt, but little did I know that my mom already knows that I’m a gay because it’s
undeniable since being gay runs in our blood. When I became more consciously aware, I realized that I
am living on a different body. What I want to be is different from who really, I am.

It’s been scientifically proven that being gay is natural. But why some people can’t accept the way we
are? It’s because Philippines is a prominent catholic country, and we are deeply entrenched with
Catholic beliefs that God created only a man and woman whereas man is made for woman and not man
to man or woman to woman. Many gay people have to go through hell in their families and even in their
schools. It is a sad reality that discrimination and unacceptance start in our families that supposed to be
the first person who will understand and accept you. I may lucky enough to have a good support system
but how about those people who remains to hide in closet because they have fear that they will be
rejected by their loved ones and are at risk for physical violence. They should be able to have a life
without fear. Living in fear is not living at all, that’s why some gay people prefer not to come out from
the closet. We want to protect ourselves from discrimination and prejudice of some homophobic
people. Like what the article 3 section 1 of the 1987 Philippine constitution states that “No person shall
be deprived of life, liberty, or property without due process of law, nor shall any person be denied the
equal protection of the laws.” they always see us happy but, behind those happy faces are the burdens
of our experiences and struggles. We don't wake up one day that we already know that were gays or
lesbian and we don't even choose to be in this position and that's what other people don't understand
about us. They have been always putting us down, discriminating someone like me because of my
gender not knowing our story or not knowing what I can do and share to them but I’m very delightful to
think that there are people who constantly fighting our rights. who keep on battling for inclusivity and
equality.

I have high hopes that we will rise again for equality. Let’s us continue to show our benevolence and
integrity. Let’s all prove them that we, the members of lgbt can also do what a straight men and women
can do. I hope that it serves as an eye opener for everyone what we are all humans who live in the same
earth, breath the same air. As what pope Francis quoted “who am I to judge” it could be a five little
word, but it has a great meaning for everyone that’s why to all lgbt out there, we should always be
proud of who we are because God created us to love, respect and accept one another so despite those
challenges, all we have to do is stand proud, be ourselves and be happy and if others don’t like it let
them be, for at the end of the day. Happiness is a choice, and we don’t live to please everybody.

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The texts assert that gender identity is inherent and not a choice. Individuals do not wake up one day deciding their sexual orientation or gender identity; these are intrinsic aspects of their being. This notion challenges societal beliefs that LGBTQ+ identities are a result of preference or external influence. By showcasing that one's gender identity is independent of choice, the texts aim to foster understanding and dismantle prejudicial notions that stigmatize LGBTQ+ individuals .

Familial support significantly affects LGBTQ+ individuals' mental well-being and confidence. Supportive families can provide a safe space and bolster the individual's sense of identity, offering protection against societal discrimination. Conversely, lack of familial support can lead to internalized fear, driving individuals to hide their identity to avoid rejection and potential violence, thereby severely impacting their mental health and overall quality of life .

The phrase 'Happiness is a choice' underscores the agency of LGBTQ+ individuals in seeking fulfillment despite societal and familial disapproval. It implies that happiness must be actively pursued and protected, often in defiance of external pressures. This assertion serves as encouragement for LGBTQ+ individuals to prioritize their well-being and live authentically, affirming that true happiness involves self-acceptance and living life on one's own terms .

Living 'without fear' is crucial for the well-being of LGBTQ+ individuals, as it allows them to express themselves authentically without the constant threat of discrimination or violence. The fear of societal judgment and familial rejection restricts their ability to live openly, impacting their life choices and personal happiness. When individuals live free from these fears, they can pursue their interests and relationships more freely, contributing to a healthier, more fulfilling life .

The acceptance of LGBTQ+ individuals in the Philippines is significantly influenced by societal and religious beliefs. The country, being predominantly Catholic, often views homosexuality as against religious doctrines, which traditionally recognize only the binary genders and heterosexual unions as 'natural.' This deeply entrenched belief results in the social stigma and discrimination faced by LGBTQ+ individuals, as many in society see them as deviating from religious norms. This results in challenges for LGBTQ+ individuals hoping to gain acceptance from family members, who might hold strong religious beliefs that influence their viewpoints .

Individuals often find ways to reconcile their LGBTQ+ identity with religious teachings by focusing on broader religious principles of love, respect, and equality. For instance, Pope Francis' statement "who am I to judge" provides a narrative that encourages acceptance rather than rejection. LGBTQ+ individuals, while facing religious opposition, emphasize showing kindness and integrity, thereby aligning their identity with essential religious values of compassion and understanding, beyond the literal interpretation of dogma .

Visibility and representation are foundational in promoting LGBTQ+ rights, as they help normalize diverse identities in societal discourse. Increased visibility challenges stereotypes and promotes understanding, demonstrating that LGBTQ+ individuals lead lives similar to others, emphasizing common humanity. Representation provides role models for LGBTQ+ youth, encouraging them to embrace their identities and counteracting negative stereotypes fostered by silence and exclusion .

Personal anecdotes in the document serve to humanize LGBTQ+ experiences, making abstract social issues more relatable. Through individual stories, readers gain insight into the real emotional and social struggles faced by LGBTQ+ people. These narratives highlight the pervasive discrimination in personal and family environments, while also illustrating resilience and the fight for acceptance, equality, and happiness. This approach helps to bridge the gap between theoretical understanding and emotional empathy .

Allies play a crucial role in fighting for LGBTQ+ equality by advocating for inclusivity and fighting against discrimination. Their support helps in challenging societal norms and opening dialogues about equality. Continuous efforts from allies provide LGBTQ+ individuals with a sense of community and hope that change is possible, further influencing social and legal reforms towards recognizing and securing their rights .

LGBTQ+ individuals in such settings often experience fear of rejection from family and society, leading some to stay 'in the closet.' This fear is coupled with a risk of facing discrimination and physical violence. Emotional burdens hidden behind seemingly happy expressions include the constant battle with identity, acceptance, and safety, as well as overcoming the societal judgment that stems from a strong cultural and religious opposition to homosexuality .

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