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Tips for Meeting Girlfriend's Parents

This document contains a homework assignment on meeting your girlfriend's parents for the first time. It provides 9 tips for doing so successfully: 1) Do research on the parents beforehand to find common interests, 2) Dress appropriately, 3) Be punctual, 4) Firmly shake the father's hand and greet the mother appropriately, 5) Call the parents Mr./Mrs. until asked to use first names, 6) Be prepared to answer questions about yourself, 7) Eat and compliment the food if invited for a meal, 8) Be honest but avoid controversial topics, and 9) Ask about what your partner was like as a child to keep the conversation going.

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Tips for Meeting Girlfriend's Parents

This document contains a homework assignment on meeting your girlfriend's parents for the first time. It provides 9 tips for doing so successfully: 1) Do research on the parents beforehand to find common interests, 2) Dress appropriately, 3) Be punctual, 4) Firmly shake the father's hand and greet the mother appropriately, 5) Call the parents Mr./Mrs. until asked to use first names, 6) Be prepared to answer questions about yourself, 7) Eat and compliment the food if invited for a meal, 8) Be honest but avoid controversial topics, and 9) Ask about what your partner was like as a child to keep the conversation going.

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  • Homework Task 1

UNIVERSITY

NATIONAL DE LOJA
ENGLISH LEVEL 3
Student:
Angamarca Angamarca Anahí

Teacher:
Pablo Rocha

Subject:
Homework #1_ Unit I

Academic period:
Oct 2022 - Feb 2023
HOMEWORW #1

a. Use the verbs to complete the reading.

to answer, not to be, to do (2), to have, to know, to make, to say,


to show, not to talk

How to... Survive Meeting

Your Girlfriend's Parents for the First Time

It's stressful, but these top tips can help you to get it right...

Tips

1) You need to do some 'homework' before you go. Ask your girlfriend about her
parents. Where does her mother work? Does her father like football? Do you have
any common interests? If you do this, it will be easy to have a conversation with
them.

2) Make sure you dress to make the right impression. Don't wear a suit, but don't
just wear your old jeans and the Che Guevara T-shirt you bought in the market.

3) Be punctual. It's very important not to be late at a first meeting.

4) When they greet you at the door shake the father's hand firmly (no father likes
a weak handshake!). Ask your girlfriend what kind ofnfiguració greeting her mum
will prefer.

5) Call her parents Mr and Mrs (Smith) until they ask you to call them 'Dave' and
'Sharon'.

6) Be ready to answer questions about yourself! Her parents will want to know
everything about you and your ambitions. Make a good impression!

7) If you are invited for a meal, eat everything they give you and say something
positive about the meal, like 'This is absolutely delicious!'. Offer to do the
washing-up after the meal (to show them that you are a 'new man').

8) Be yourself, and don't be a 'yes' man. If they ask you for your opinion, be honest.
However, try not to talk about controversial subjects - this isn't the moment to
give your views on religion and politics!

9) If the conversation is dying and you can't think what to say, ask them what your
partner was Like as a child. This is a brilliant tactic! All parents love talking about
their children and it shows you have a deep interest in their daughter.
b. Use the article to match the following sentences.

Match sentences a-d from the article with rules 1-4.

a. (2) If you do this, it will be easy to have a conversation with them.


b. (3) Offer to do the washing-up after the meal (to show them that you are a 'new
man').
c. (4) If the conversation is dying and you can't think what to say, ask them what
your partner was like as a child.
d. (1) You need to do some 'homework' before you go.

c. Listen to a conversation and then answer the questions based on the


article you read in part "a"

1. What does he do wrong?

- Arrives late to the meeting


- Calls his girlfriend's parents by their first name
- He says too much about meat eaters
-Doesn't say anything positive about the food
-Doesn't offer to do the dishes or at least help out
-Didn't find out before meeting if the father likes soccer;
-Doesn't answer questions very well.
-Doesn't answer questions about himself very well
-Is curt with his answers so the conversation dies.

2. What does he do right?


Asking to show pictures of his girlfriend as a child and tells him she was
"sweet".

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Being prepared to answer questions about oneself allows one to showcase ambitions and personality, essential for forming a genuine connection. Answering thoughtfully reflects self-awareness and confidence, aiding in creating a holistic and appealing image .

Calling a girlfriend's parents by their first names can seem overly familiar and disrespectful, likely leading to a negative impression. Respectful address, using titles until otherwise invited, acknowledges social norms and hierarchy, essential for building rapport and expressing respect .

Avoiding controversial topics is important to prevent potential disagreements that could lead to tension or conflict. The focus should be on building relationships rather than creating divides, ensuring a pleasant and neutral first meeting .

Asking about a partner's childhood is a tactic that can easily engage parents, as they enjoy discussing their children. This demonstrates genuine interest and keeps the conversation flowing, showcasing attentiveness and care towards the partner .

Non-verbal cues like dressing appropriately and firm handshakes are highlighted as significant. Dressing well signals respect and seriousness, while a firm handshake conveys confidence and respect. Together, they set a positive initial tone without words .

The advice emphasizes understanding personal interests and backgrounds beforehand, engaging in meaningful conversations, being ready to answer personal questions, and using inviting questions if the conversation stalls. This prioritizes communication by showing interest and maintaining the flow of interaction, crucial for a positive encounter .

Some strategies include doing 'homework' about the girlfriend's parents to find common interests, being punctual, dressing appropriately, and engaging them with firm handshakes and respectful address. These strategies are effective because they demonstrate respect, preparedness, and a willingness to engage, which are crucial for making a positive first impression .

The document suggests being oneself but avoiding contentious topics like religion and politics, thus promoting honesty without engaging in potentially divisive discussions. This balance allows one to be authentic, yet tactfully avoids conflicts, maintaining harmony in the interaction .

Offering help with tasks like washing up after a meal demonstrates the willingness to engage and adaptability to cooperate, which reflects modern masculinity traits. This act can enhance perceptions of one's character as considerate and helpful, promoting a favorable impression .

Punctuality is crucial as it reflects reliability and respect for others' time, which are key to establishing trust and respect in new relationships. Being on time indicates that the meeting is valued, setting a positive tone for interactions .

Subject: Homework #1_ Unit I Academic period: Oct 2022 - Feb 2023 ENGLISH LEVEL 3 UNIVERSITY NATIONAL DE LOJA Student: Angama
HOMEWORW #1 a. Use the verbs to complete the reading. How to... Survive Meeting Your Girlfriend's Parents for the
b. Use the article to match the following sentences. Match sentences a-d from the article with rules 1-4. a. (2) If you d

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