We’re Not Really Strangers: Question Set

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1. The questions cover a wide range of topics about first impressions, personality traits, dating preferences, relationships, and life experiences. 2. Many questions ask the participant to …

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  • Level One
  • Level Two
  • Level Three
  • Additional Prompts

Finish the sentence: Just by looking at you I'd think _____________.

LEVEL ONE
What do my shoes tell you about me?

Do you think I've ever been fired from a job? If so, what for?
What do you think is the hardest part of what I do for a living?
What was your first impression of me?
What reality show do you think I'm most likely to binge-watch?
What was your first impression of me on Bumble vs IRL?
Explain.
How would you describe what you think my type is in three words?
What's the first thing you noticed about me?
What did you think about my first message?
If Myspace was still a thing what would my profile song be?
Between the two of us, who seems like the better texter? Explain.
If you were to buy me a present, knowing nothing about me
What does my Instagram tell you about me?
other than what I look like, what would it be?
Make an assumption about
On a scale of 1-10, how messy do you think my room is?
me
1 being the cleanest 10 complete disaster, explain.
What about me intrigues you?
Do you think plants thrive or die in my care? Explain.

What do you think I'm most likely to splurge on?


Do I look kind? Explain.
As a child, what do you think I wanted to be?
Do I seem like more of a creative or analytical type? Explain.
Finish the sentence: Just by looking at you, I'd
Do I seem like someone who would get a name tattooed on myself? think ...
Why or why not?
Do you think I was popular in school? Explain.
How many speeding tickets do you think I've gotten How many speeding tickets do you think I've gotten in my life?
in my life?
WILDCARD: Ask and answer the next question in a different accent.
Do I seem like someone who would get a name tattooed
on myself? Why or why not? WILDCARD: Create your own question.

Do you think I fall in love easily? Why or why not? Am I someone you typically connect
with?
What compliment do you think I hear the most?

Do I intimidate you? Why or why not?


Do you think I ever checked an Ex’s phone for evidence?

What's your favorite song lyric that comes to your mind


What subject do you think I thrived at in school and did I fail
from the top of your head?
any?

As a child, what do you think I wanted to be?


Do I seem like a coffee or tea person - sweetened or unsweetened?

WILDCARD: Write down your number one goal for the next
As a child what do you think I wanted to be when I grow up? month. Compare.

Do I seem like a morning person or a night owl?

Do you think I was popular at school? Explain. LEVEL TWO

Do you think I'm usually early on time or late to events?


Explain.
What's been your happiest memory this past year?
Do I remind you of anyone you know?
Have you changed your mind about anything recently?
What do you think I'm most likely to splurge on?
What has been your earliest recollection of happiness? If you could get to know someone in your life on a deeper
level who would it be and why?
What lesson took you the longest to unlearn?
What's your mom's name and what is the most beautiful
Are you lying to yourself about anything?
thing about her?

What questions are you trying to answer most in your life right now? What part of your life works & what part of your life hurts?

When was the last time you surprised yourself? How can you become a better person?

What title would you give this chapter in your life? Do you think the image you have of yourself matches the
image other people see you as?
What do you crave more of?
Are you missing anyone right now? Do you think they miss
Finish the sentence: Strangers would describe me as ______ only
you too?
I know that I am _______
What fast food restaurant do you think I'm most likely to
What's the worst pain you have ever been in that wasn't physical?
drive through? What's my order?
Has a stranger ever changed your life?
Do you think I intimidate others? Why or why not?
What's your first love’s name and the reason you fell in love with them?
When you are asked how are you, how often do you
What would your younger self not believe about your life today? answer truthfully?

How are you,


How would you describe the feeling of being in love with one word?
really?
What are you more afraid of: failure or success and why?
What's the most unexplainable thing that happened to you?
What is a dream you let go of?
What's your father's name? And tell me one thing about him. What are you passionate about?

What are you not currently giving enough time to?


If you could have it your way: Whom would you be with? Where would
you be? What would you be doing?
What about my profile made you swipe right?
Describe your perfect day!
WILDCARD: Write down the three most important things
What dating advice would you give your younger to you in a relationship (30 sec) Compare.
self?
WILDCARD: Write down a dating pet peeve (30 sec).
How old do you feel emotionally? Compare.

Will I find your Ex on your Insta feed? Why or why not? WILDCARD: Draw your current mood. Compare.

What's the most embarrassing thing that happened to you on a date?

What could you have done better in previous relationships?


LEVEL THREE
Is there an image of yourself you try to project on a first date
you wish you could let go of?
Based on what you learned about me, what would you recommend
Finish the sentence: Dating is ____________ (both players)
I read?
What did the people who raised you teach you about love?
What about me surprised you?
Describe your perfect date.
Based on what you know about me, do you have a Netflix
What has being single taught you about yourself? recommendation?

What's your least favorite question to be asked on a date? What do you think my superpower is?
What do you wish you would be asked more?
What do you think our most important similarities are? How does one earn your vulnerability?

What do you think is one thing I could do that would drastically Dare your partner to do something out of their comfort zone
improve my life? next week.

What would be the perfect gift for me? What do you recommend I should let go of?

How would you describe me to a What has this conversation taught you about yourself?
stranger?
What do you think my defining characteristic is?
What do I need to hear right now?
What question were you most afraid to answer?
Based on what you've learned about me, does my social media
Why do you think we met?
portray me accurately?
When this game is over, what will be something you will remember
What is a lesson you will take away from our conversation?
about me?
What can I help you with?
What do you think my weakness is?
What do you think I fear the most?
How do our personalities compliment each other?
Where am I most qualified to give advice?
What do you think I should know about myself that perhaps I'm
What about me is the hardest for you to unaware of?
understand?
What would make you feel closer to me?
If we were a band what would be our name?
What do you admire most about me?
Admit something.
In one word, describe how you feel right now.
What parts of yourself do you see in me?
Do you believe everyone has a calling? If so, do you think I've
found mine?

What do you think my defining characteristic is?

What can we create together?

What answer of mine made you light up?

What's the most attractive quality about me that isn't physical?

WILDCARD: Based on what you learned re-write each other's dating


app bios. (30 sec)

Am I like you expected me to be?

What do you admire most about me?

How would you describe me to a


stranger?

WILDCARD: Draw your favorite memory with me. Compare.

Common questions

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The questions encourage self-reflection and provide insights into how others perceive you, which can enhance self-awareness. For example, questions about what gift one would give or how someone describes you to a stranger reveal how others interpret your characteristics and preferences . Additionally, reflecting on relationships, as prompted by questions about childhood aspirations or important lessons, can deepen interpersonal understanding and improve relational dynamics by highlighting shared experiences and personal growth areas .

'Wildcard' questions add an element of spontaneity and personalization to the game by encouraging unpredictable or creative responses, such as creating one's own questions or performing tasks like re-drafting bios or drawing moods. This can create unexpected insights and keeps the interaction dynamic, preventing it from becoming overly formulaic and ensuring that players remain engaged and invested in the game .

The question diversity—from superficial judgments like room cleanliness to profound ones about love or fear—facilitates a broad emotional landscape, blending humor with seriousness. This mix allows participants to navigate from light-hearted banter to deep emotional exploration, fostering authentic connections and building trust through shared laughter and vulnerability .

Questions about life goals and unfulfilled dreams invite participants to share personal aspirations and vulnerabilities, creating openness and trust. Discussing topics like 'What lesson took you the longest to unlearn?' involves profound introspection, encouraging empathy and support from others. This depth allows participants to connect over shared struggles and ambitions, fostering a deeper relational bond beyond superficial conversation .

These questions require detailed envisioning of ideal scenarios, revealing personal priorities such as relaxation, activity, or companionship preferences. The responses highlight what brings joy and how an individual seeks fulfillment and relaxation, thereby offering insights into their personality, stress-mitigation strategies, and compatibility with others .

By examining responses to questions about ideal relationships, dating peeves, or childhood dreams, observers can infer what participants prioritize in personal connections, such as honesty, compatibility, or common interests. For example, reflecting on what childhood aspirations or past relational mistakes one has reveals underlying values regarding achievement and emotional investment. These insights can aid in identifying alignment or disparity between partners' values .

Focusing on fears like failure or success unveils key insights into self-perception and risk tolerance. Understanding whether a person fears failure more than success helps delineate between a fixed and growth mindset, exposing comfort zones or resistance to change. This can indicate their approach to challenges, whether they view them as threats or opportunities for growth .

These questions prompt players to articulate their assumptions based on initial perceptions, which may reveal subconscious biases. By asking participants to explain their impressions, like presumed cleanliness or perceived kindness, the game challenges participants to confront the accuracy of their assumptions versus reality. This reflection can highlight biases based on superficial attributes and encourage deeper understanding and empathy among players .

Past relationship questions prompt introspection about what succeeded or failed in previous dynamics, fostering self-awareness. Addressing what could have been done differently or the lessons learned from being single help individuals identify patterns and actions that can improve future relationships. Such reflections can guide more intentional choices and interactions that align with personal and relational goals .

Inquiries about childhood dreams versus adult realities highlight the evolution of personal goals, reflecting shifts in values and priorities. For instance, asking 'As a child, what did you think I wanted to be?' helps illustrate how personal experiences and societal influences have shaped current pursuits and beliefs, offering context for both fulfilled desires and discarded ambitions .

LEVEL ONE 
What do you think is the hardest part of what I do for a living?
What reality show do you think I'm most likely to
How many speeding tickets do you think I've gotten
in my life?
Do I seem like someone who would get a name tattooed
on myself
What has been your earliest recollection of happiness?
What lesson took you the longest to unlearn?
Are you lying to yourself
What's your father's name? And tell me one thing about him.
If you could have it your way: Whom would you be with? Where woul
What do you think our most important similarities are?
What do you think is one thing I could do that would drastically 
impr
Do you believe everyone has a calling? If so, do you think I've 
found mine?
What do you think my defining characteristic is?

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