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Self-Discovery and Personal Growth Guide

The document discusses self-concept and personal development, explaining that having an accurate understanding of one's actual self compared to their ideal self is important for well-being, and providing learning activities to help students reflect on their strengths, weaknesses, values, and goals. It encourages students to take charge of their future by recognizing what they can control and working to align their actual self with their ideal self through personal growth.

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Self-Discovery and Personal Growth Guide

The document discusses self-concept and personal development, explaining that having an accurate understanding of one's actual self compared to their ideal self is important for well-being, and providing learning activities to help students reflect on their strengths, weaknesses, values, and goals. It encourages students to take charge of their future by recognizing what they can control and working to align their actual self with their ideal self through personal growth.

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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

Name: ____________________________ Grade Level: __________


Section: ___________________________ Date: ________________

LEARNING ACTIVITY SHEET

SELF DEVELOPMENT
READY

BACKGROUND INFORMATION FOR LEARNERS

Great morning everyone. Set in order and be prepared for your learning journey
today!
Take a glance at this note by Edmond Mbiaka, “Try not to be too focused on
pleasing others and end up losing your true self.” Yes, let us hold on to our true self
not on gratifying others. Talking about your true self, do you really know who you are?
How do your strengths and weaknesses help you in dealing better with other people?
Let us now begin by revealing the truth about “yourself” and the underlying concepts
about it.
Think about yourself. What do you want to be? Or do you see yourself what you
actually see? Speaking of which, Dr. Barbara Wong-Fernandez, RGC, [Link]., (2016)
shared that there are two categories of self-concept. First is your ideal self, the self
that you aspire to be. The one that you hope will possess characteristics similar to
that of a mentor or some other worldly figure. It is how we want to be. It is an ideal
image that we have developed over time, based on what we have learned and
experienced. It includes components of what our parents have taught us, what we
admire in others, what our society promotes, and what we think about our best interest.
Your actual self, however, is the one that you actually see. It is the self that has
characteristics that you were nurtured or, in some cases, born to have. It is derived
from social interactions that provide insight into how others react to you. It built on self-
knowledge. It is who we are actually. It is how we think, how we feel, look, and act.
What about self-concept? Do you have an idea what a self-concept is? According
to Dr. Barbara Wong-Fernandez, RGC, [Link]., (2016), Self-concept refers to your
awareness of yourself. It is the construct that negotiates these two selves. In other
words, it connotes first the identification of the ideal self as separate from others, and
second, it encompasses all the behaviors evaluated in the actual self that you engaged
in to reach the ideal self.

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Congruency is important. If the way that I am (the actual self) is congruent with
the way that I want to be (the ideal self), then I will feel a sense of mental well-being
or peace of mind. If the way that I am is not matched with how I want to be, the
incongruence, or lack of alignment, it will result in mental distress or anxiety. The
greater the level of incongruence between the ideal self and real self, the greater the
level of resulting distress. Personal development has an ultimate aim of achieving
greater self-knowledge that will lead to higher alignment between these two
personality domains.
Your knowledge of yourself and how you manage yourself impacts directly on
your personal effectiveness. Being self-aware, making the most of your strengths,
learning new skills and techniques and behavioral flexibility are all keys to improving
your personal performance. Our personal effectiveness depends on our innate
characteristics – talent and experience accumulated in the process of personal
development. Talents are first needed to be identified and then developed to be used
in a particular subject area (science, literature, sports, politics, etc.). Experience
includes knowledge and skills that we acquire in the process of cognitive and practical
activities.
Could you claim that you already achieved a greater self-knowledge? Maybe
you would say, yes. In that case, you could also easily enumerate your strengths and
your weaknesses. What are those? How it would affect your relationship to others?
Most failures emanate from weaknesses that are not recognized or probably
recognized but not given appropriate attention or remedy. Instead of giving up or
indulging in self-pity, take action.
Instead of simply focusing on your weaknesses, recognize your own talents and
abilities, build on them, utilize them to your greatest advantage. This is where you can
build your name and popularity. Handicapped people like Ana Kristina Arce did not
hang over her physical defect. She is deaf since she was born. She became a graphic
artist and graduated as Magna cum laude at De La Salle - College of Saint Benilde
(CSB) with a degree in Applied Deaf. So, we shall be inspired with her.
Story: YOU NEED TO TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR FUTURE (Dr. Barbara Wong-
Fernandez, RGC, [Link]., (2016) Personal Development Reader, First
Edition)
There are three kinds of people in this world:
The first is the Moviegoer. This person watches the movie of their lives,
admires some parts and criticizes others. Aside from that, they do nothing else. All she
says the whole day is, “I like this thing and but I don’t like that thing.” The Moviegoer
feels she has absolutely no control of their lives --- except to comment about it.
Moviegoers are the most pathetic, miserable people in the world.
The second is the Actor. This person does not only watch the movie of her life.
She actually realizes she’s the Actor – and can control a big part of her life. She can
actually make or break the movie – by how well she delivers her lines and how she
portrays her character. Actors are a happy bunch, realizing they are the start of the

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show and enjoy some level of control. But many times, they wish the movie would end
in another way – but realize that they have no say in such things.
The third is the Scriptwriter. This person does not only watch, and she doesn’t
only act, but she actually creates the entire movie from her mind. She determines what
she will say, what she will do, and how the movie will end. She realizes she has
enormous control over her life, and sees to it that the movie of her life will turn out
beautiful.
Who are you among these three people? Do you merely watch your life go? Or
do you act out a script that you feel has been handed to you? Or do you write the script
and make your life beautiful?
By the way, the Producer of the movie is God. He tells you, “Make the movie
beautiful, and I will give you all that you need for success.”

LEARNING COMPETENCY

Explain that knowing oneself can make a person accept his/her strengths and
limitations and dealing with others better. EsP-PD11/12KO-Ia-1.1 (Quarter 1,
Week 1)

DIRECTIONS
Let’s Start!
Hello learner, please sign the learning agreement before answering the
different activities. ENJOY!
LEARNING CONTRACT
AGREEMENT: I hereby accept the responsibility to finish the activity package and
submit it to my teacher (____________________) on (____________________).

_______________________________ _________________
Name of Student over Printed Name Date

HOW TO USE THIS MATERIAL?


1. Read and understand each part of the material.
2. You can open and browse the references below to help you in doing the
activities.
3. Give more focus on the background information. Follow the instructions. Ask the
assistance of your parent/s, guardian, sibling/s or anyone who can help you
at home.
4. You are advised to do all the activities and submit it on time.
5. In case the internet connection is poor at your place, you can seek the help of
your classmate near you to get all the instructions and copies of the material.

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LEARNING ACTIVITY 1: WHO AM I?
Describe yourself by filling up the table about your actual and ideal self.
The questions are written on the left portion of the table and write your
answers on the right side.

QUESTIONS ANSWERS
ACTUAL SELF
What are your hobbies?
What are your favorites?
What is your ambition in life?
What are your characteristics?
Whom do you interact with?
IDEAL SELF
What we admire in other people?
What our parents have taught us?
What our society promotes?
What we think about our best interest?
What are the characteristics of others
that you want to possess?

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LEARNING ACTIVITY 2: MY PRECIOUS GEM! In the parts
indicated by numbers, write down your answers based on the
items below. Guide questions are provided for you.

1
.

2. 3.

4. 5.

6. 7.

8. 9.
10

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GUIDE QUESTIONS:
1. What are your hobbies?
2-3. What are your two best achievements in life?
4. What is the only thing that you can be proud of your self?
5. What is your most cheerful moment?
6. What are the positive words that your friends used to describe you?
7. What is your personal goal that you already reached?
8. What are the blessings that you are thankful to God?
9. What are the three of your positive qualities?
10. What are the difficulties, challenges, and problems that you were able to
overcome?

LEARNING ACTIVITY 3: X-Factor!


In three to five statements, answer each questions highlighting your
strengths and weaknesses. Write your answer on the space provided.

1. What are your strengths?


____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________.

2. What are your weaknesses?


____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________.

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[Link] can you improve your strengths?
_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________.

[Link] can you compensate your weaknesses?


_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________
____________.

[Link] is the so called ‘X-Factor’ which defines as ‘an outstanding extraordinary


ability and excellence that one cannot describe which makes somebody very
unique’. (Source: [Link]) How can you prove that your strength is
considered as your X-Factor?

_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________.

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1. LEARNING ACTIVITY 4: The writer!
Write an essay focusing on your life and you as the main character.
Consider the guide questions below. Write your answer on the space
provided.

1. As a student, what do you really want to achieve in your life?


2. What are your strengths that can help you achieve these dreams?
3. As you go along the way, there are problems that you may encounter, how will
you face these?
4. Do you think your weaknesses can hinder your ambitions? How can you
overcome these limitations?
5. How can you make your life beautiful?

RUBRIC FOR SCORING

Rubric for Learning Activity 1: Who Am I! and Learning Activity 2: My Precious


Gem!

SUPERIOR EXTRORDINARY CAPABLE (15) SPECIFIED NEED TO DO


(20) (18) (10) BETTER (9
and below)
If the student If the student filled If the student If the student If the student
filled out and out and answered filled out and filled out and filled out and
answered all all the activities answered all answered all answered all
the activities but got only 90% the activities the activities the activities
correctly of the correct but got only but got only but got only
answer 80% of the 70% of the 69% and
correct answer correct below
answer

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Rubric for Learning Activity 3: X-Factor and Learning Activity 4: The Writer!

Criteria 4 3 2 1 Points
Earned
Introduction The The The Thesis
statement/topic statement/topic statement/topic statement/topic
idea sentence is idea sentence is idea sentence is idea sentence is
clear, correctly either unclear or unclear and unclear and
placed, and incorrectly incorrectly incorrectly
restated in the placed, and it's placed. It's placed, and it's
closing restated in the restated in the not restated in
sentence. Your closing closing the closing
three supporting sentence. Your sentence. One sentence. Your
ideas are briefly three supporting of your supporting ideas
mentioned. ideas are briefly supporting ideas are not
mentioned. is briefly mentioned.
mentioned.
Supporting Each paragraph Each paragraph Each paragraph Paragraphs
Details has a topic has a topic has a topic have no
sentence and sentence and sentence and supporting detail
three or more two supporting one or two sentences that
supporting detail detail sentences supporting detail relate back to
sentences that that relate back sentences that the main idea.
relate back to to the main idea. relate back to Topic sentences
the main idea. Specific the main idea. are unclear. No
Specific examples are No specific examples are
examples are given. examples are given.
given. given.
Grammar No grammar Some minor Multiple Major/multiple
errors Articles grammar errors grammar errors grammar errors.
correct Verb Problems with: Problems with: Problems with:
tenses correct Articles Verb Articles Verb Articles Verb
Subject/verb tenses Subject/ tenses tenses
agreement verb agreement Subject/verb Subject/verb
correct Contractions agreement agreement
Contractions and idioms Contractions Contractions
and idioms used and idioms and idioms
when
appropriate
Spelling You have 0-1 You have 2-3 You have 4-5 Your spelling
misspellings. misspellings. spelling errors. errors are
numerous and
distract the
reader from your
message
Vocabulary/Word Vocabulary/word Vocabulary/word Vocabulary/word Vocabulary/word
Choice choice is choice is choice is choice is clearly
impressive. You impressive. All adequate, but limited, affecting
use some of the words are used could be written
target appropriately. improved. More communication.
vocabulary from adjectives, Some words are
the subunit. adverbs, and used
descriptive inappropriately.
words are
needed.
Total Points 20 points possible

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REFLECTION

1. I learned that ___________________________________________________


______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________

2. I enjoyed most on _______________________________________________


______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________

3. I want to learn more _____________________________________________


______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________

REFERENCES:

BOOK:

Dr. Barbara Wong-Fernandez, RGC, Estesa Xaris Que-Legaspi, RGC, Carolyn C.


Quiba, RGC, Mae R. Rafanan, RGC, Zisa Velasquez, Garcia, RGC, 2016, Personal
Development Reader, First Edition, Bureau of Curriculum Development , Bureau of
Learning Resources, Ground Floor Bonifacio Building, DepEd Complex Meralco
Avenue, Pasig City, Philippines 1600.

WEBSITES:

Edmund Mbiaka- [Link]

[Link]
philippines

[Link]

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ANSWER KEY:

LEARNING ACTIVITY- 1: Who Am I?


*Answers may vary
LEARNING ACTIVITY- 2: My Precious Gem!
* Answers may vary
LEARNING ACTIVITY 3: X-Factor
* Answers may vary
LEARNING ACTIVITY 4: The Scriptwriter
* Answers may vary

Prepared by:

RUBYLIN M. ORINA
Alicia National High School
Alicia East District
Writer

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Common questions

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Societal influences shape the development of one's ideal self by providing models, values, and roles that individuals aspire to emulate. Society contributes to the formulation of ideals through cultural norms, expectations, and the promotion of desirable attributes. Individuals internalize these influences as they form notions of who they want to become, often integrating traits admired in mentors, socially approved behaviors, and cultural benchmarks into their ideal self-concept. However, balancing societal influences with personal authenticity is crucial to avoid losing one's true self .

Individuals can utilize their strengths to compensate for their weaknesses by first acknowledging and understanding both aspects of themselves. They can focus on building their talents and abilities, using them to their greatest advantage, thereby overshadowing weaknesses. Additionally, leveraging strengths can act as a means to address weaknesses indirectly by dedicating effort towards areas of strength while gradually improving weaker areas through practice and learning .

Self-awareness is crucial in personal development and effectiveness as it allows individuals to recognize their strengths and weaknesses and manage themselves better. With self-awareness, one can enhance personal performance by leveraging strengths, learning new skills, and adapting behavior. This self-knowledge leads to improved personal effectiveness by enabling individuals to build on their talents and experience, ultimately facilitating personal growth and success .

Achieving greater self-knowledge leads to personal success by enabling individuals to identify and build upon their strengths, while also addressing weaknesses effectively. This self-awareness facilitates informed decision-making, strategic personal development, and effective goal-setting. By understanding oneself better, individuals are able to navigate life's challenges with confidence and create opportunities that align with their capabilities and aspirations, ultimately achieving personal goals and success .

Identifying one's ideal self while separating it from others' influence is crucial for maintaining personal identity and authenticity. The ideal self represents one's aspirations detached from external expectations or societal pressures. This distinction ensures personal goals are internally motivated and aligned with one's values and beliefs, promoting genuine self-development. It allows individuals to pursue growth that resonates with their true self, fostering internal congruence and reducing external conflicts or anxiety .

Recognizing and utilizing one's talents and experience is fundamental to personal development as it provides the foundation for improving personal effectiveness. Talents, once identified and cultivated, become a source of strength and innovation, propelling individuals towards excellence in their chosen areas. Experiences enrich understanding and skill, allowing individuals to apply these learnings in practical and meaningful ways. This conscious development and utilization of inherent abilities and accumulated knowledge lead to enhanced personal growth and effectiveness .

The metaphor of the "moviegoer," "actor," and "scriptwriter" illustrates varying levels of personal responsibility and control over one's life. A moviegoer passively observes life, commenting without taking action, symbolizing those who feel they lack control. An actor recognizes some control, actively engaging with life but within the confines of a script, representing individuals who influence their lives but are constrained by external scripts. A scriptwriter, however, takes full responsibility and control, actively shaping the narrative of their life, symbolizing individuals with high autonomy and empowerment in directing their life outcomes .

An "X-Factor" is significant in personal development as it represents an extraordinary ability or excellence that makes an individual unique. This factor can be identified through self-reflection, feedback from others, and by recognizing consistent standout traits or abilities in oneself. The "X-Factor" often lies in a person's innate strengths and is cultivated through practice, leading to personal and professional success. It encourages embracing and maximizing unique qualities to achieve one's potential .

Congruence between one's ideal and actual self significantly impacts mental well-being. If the actual self is aligned with the ideal self, individuals experience a sense of mental well-being and peace of mind. However, if there is incongruence, or a lack of alignment, it results in mental distress or anxiety. The greater the level of incongruence, the greater the mental distress experienced .

Acknowledging and addressing personal weaknesses is important in self-improvement as it prevents failings stemming from ignored deficiencies. Understanding weaknesses allows individuals to create strategies to mitigate them, thus avoiding pitfalls associated with them. It also opens avenues for learning and growth, encouraging a proactive approach to personal development. Addressing weaknesses builds resilience, enabling more comprehensive and balanced self-improvement while enhancing productivity and relationships .

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