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Challenge Your Inner Rules Worksheet

The document discusses cataloging inner rules that guide behavior and challenging rules that are unhelpful or harmful. It provides a worksheet to help identify a questionable rule, where it came from, advantages and disadvantages of the rule, and modifying or replacing the rule with a better version.

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Challenge Your Inner Rules Worksheet

The document discusses cataloging inner rules that guide behavior and challenging rules that are unhelpful or harmful. It provides a worksheet to help identify a questionable rule, where it came from, advantages and disadvantages of the rule, and modifying or replacing the rule with a better version.

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Cataloging Your Inner Rules

We all have rules that guide our behavior on a daily basis. We might not be able to clearly articulate all of
them, but they hang around in our subconscious and nudge us towards behavior that is consistent with
them. Many of these rules might be good (e.g., “Good people don’t badmouth others behind their back”)
but some of them might not be adaptive or helpful (e.g., “If you make one mistake, you are a bad person”).
Use this worksheet to help you identify a questionable or harmful rule you have and challenge it.

The Infraction

What did you do that broke one of your internal rules?

The Rule

What rule did your behavior break? Why did you feel bad after engaging in that behavior?

The Rule’s Origins

Where did it come from? What makes you think the rule is right, or a good rule?

Advantages of Keeping This Rule Disadvantages of Keeping This Rule

How does this rule help you? How does this rule hurt you?

What to Do with This Rule:


Keep It Trash It Modify It

The Rule Going Forward

What is the best possible version of this rule?

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