Understanding the Self: Perspectives & Factors
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I. OVERVIEW
The philosophy of the self defines the essential qualities that make one person
distinct from all others. There have been numerous approaches to defining these qualities.
The self is the agent responsible for the thoughts and actions of an individual to which they
are ascribed. It is a substance, which therefore endures through time; thus, the thoughts
and actions at different moments may pertain to the same self.
The philosophical framework for understanding the self was first introduced by the
ancient great Greek philosophers Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle. In particular, Socrates
suggests: "Know thyself" But what exactly does "know thyself" mean? What is self and the
qualities that define it? This lesson presents an overview of the philosophical perspective of
the self to aid students identify one's own self and eventually to gain self-knowledge and
self-awareness. It intends to give a wider perspective in understanding the self. The
different views of prominent philosophers regarding the nature of the self are discussed and
while there are disagreements in how philosophers view the self, most of them agree that
self-knowledge is a prerequisite to a happy and meaningful life.
This module will seek to understand the construct of the Self from various disciplinal
perspectives: philosophy, sociology, anthropology, and psychology. Moreover, the lessons
encourages you to express your views and analysis through a reflection paper. This
chapter covers 9 hours per week.
CLO1. Discuss the different representations and conceptualizations of the self from
various disciplinal perspectives
CLO2. Compare and contrast how the self has been represented across different
disciplines and perspectives
CLO3. Examine the different influences, factors, and forces that shape the self
CLO4. Demonstrate critical and reflective thought in analyzing the development of one‟s
self and identity by developing a theory of the self
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and perspectives
3. Examine the different influences, factors, and forces that shape the self.
4. Demonstrate critical and reflective thought in analyzing the development of one‟s
self and identity by developing a theory of the self
IV. ASSESSMENT
1. Short quiz
2. Essay Writing
V. TEACHING-LEARNING ACTIVITIES
A. ENGAGE
ASSIGNMENT:
REFLECTION QUESTIONS:
1. Who am I 2. What am I 3. Why am I existing 4. Where will I be from here?
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Direction. Write your own philosophy of “The Self” incorporating the ideas you learned from the different
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Areas of
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Assessment
Clarity of Explanation is tightly Explanation is Explanation lacks Explanation is not
Explanation focused and contains adequately focused. relevance or focus. clear.
accurate information.
Logical Sequence Ideas are presented in Ideas are in logical order Some ideas are not Ideas are not
of the Processes/ logical order with with adequate transitions presented in a proper presented in proper
Procedures effective transitions between most major order. order transition.
between major ideas. ideas.
Level of The student The student The student strives to The students do not
Understanding demonstrates deep demonstrates demonstrate understand the topic.
understanding of the understanding of the understanding of the
topic. topic. topic.
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B. EXPLORE
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Exercise No. 3:
Name: __________________________________________ Score: __________________
Course, Year, Section: _______________________ Date Submitted: _________________
Ways of greetings in different countries. Greetings around the world differ radically from culture to
culture and sometimes they are shaped by religion or superstitious beliefs. Post the pictures and identify what
country they represent. Countries are identified below and paste it on the space provided below the pictures.
a. Russia
b. Philippines
c. Japan
d. Argentina
e. New Zealand
f. Nigeria
Areas of
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Level of The student The student The student strives to The students do not
Understanding demonstrates deep demonstrates demonstrate understand the
understanding of the understanding of the understanding of the topic.
topic. topic. topic.
Clarity of Explanation is tightly Explanation is Explanation lacks Explanation is not
Explanation focused and contains adequately focused. relevance or focus. clear.
accurate information.
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C. EXPLAIN
D. ELABORATE
Create a representation, diagram, or concept map of the SELF according to where you came from,
starting from your maternal and paternal grandparents. Provide a brief explanation of places, religion and culture
where they came from in which the family used it until now.
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3. What western or eastern culture would you like to adapt in your own self?
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E. EVALUATE
UNIT TEST
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Direction: Look at the list of characteristics and behaviors given below. If you decide the statement
is more likely to apply to people living in an individualist culture, write "I" in the blank space; if you
think it is characteristic of a collectivist culture, write "C."
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how one ought to live. Instead the course of their lives is largely
it that one can hope to improve their life. One of the reasons why most do not consciously
contemplate this question is because it requires that one attain self-knowledge, or in other
words, turn their gaze inward and analyze both their true nature and the values which guide
their life. And such knowledge is perhaps the most difficult knowledge to obtain.
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“…once we know ourselves, we may learn how to care for ourselves, but otherwise
we never shall.” (First Alcibiades)
As a quick side note, it is important to mention that the Ancient Greeks lived before
the ascension of Christianity, and hence for them the notion of the „soul‟ did not have the
same religious connotations that it has for us. What Socrates actually meant when he made
the claim that our true self is our soul is not known for certain. Although many scholars have
taken a view similar to the one put forth by the famous historian of philosophy Frederick
Copelston who wrote that in calling our true self our soul Socrates was referring to “the
thinking and willing subject”.
According to Socrates it is the state of our soul, or our inner being, which determines
the quality of our life. Thus it is paramount that we devote considerable amounts of our
attention, energy, and resources to making our soul as good and beautiful as possible. Or as
he pronounces in Plato‟s dialogue the Apology: “I shall never give up philosophy or stop
exhorting you and pointing out the truth to any one of you whom I meet, saying in my most
accustomed way:
“Most excellent man, are you…not ashamed to care for the acquisition of wealth and
for reputation and honor, when you neither care nor take thought for wisdom and truth and
the perfection of your soul?” (Apology 29d)
After coming to the realization that one‟s inner self, or soul, is all important, Socrates
believed the next step in the path towards self-knowledge was to obtain knowledge of what
is good and what is evil, and in the process use what one learns to cultivate the good within
one‟s soul and purge the evil from it.
Most people dogmatically assume they know what is truly good and what is truly evil.
They regard things such as wealth, status, pleasure, and social acceptance as the greatest
of all goods in life, and think that poverty, death, pain, and social rejection are the greatest of
all evils.
However, Socrates disagreed with these answers, and also believed this view to be
extremely harmful. All human beings naturally strive after happiness, thought Socrates, for
happiness is the final end in life and everything we do we do because we think it will make
us happy. We therefore label what we think will bring us happiness as „good‟, and those
things we think will bring us suffering and pain as „evil‟. So it follows that if we have a
mistaken conception of what is good, then we will spend our lives frantically chasing after
things that will not bring us happiness even if we attain them.
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Socrates held virtue to be the greatest good in life because it alone was capable of
securing ones happiness. Even death is a trivial matter for the truly virtuous individual who
realizes that the most important thing in life is the state of his soul and the actions which
spring from it:
“Man, you don’t speak well, if you believe that a man worth anything at all would give
countervailing weight to the danger of life or death, or give consideration to anything but this
when he acts: whether his action is just or unjust, the action of a good or of an evil man.”
(Apology 28b-d).
This explains why Socrates went about conversing with his fellow Athenians, always
in search of the definition, or essence, of a specific virtue. He thought that when one arrived
at the correct definition of virtue, one would come to realize that virtue is the only things
which is intrinsically good. And since human beings naturally desire the good, as it alone
secures happiness, with this knowledge one would have no choice but to become virtuous.
If all individuals naturally desire happiness, and if it is only by becoming virtuous that
one can attain happiness, then a simple question arises: Why do so many people fail to
become virtuous and instead commit evil acts, thereby preventing themselves from attaining
that which they really want?
To put it bluntly, the answer to this question is that most people are ignorant. If one
truly knew what they were doing was evil, they would refrain from such an action. But
because all evil acts are committed out of ignorance, Socrates held that all evil acts are
committed involuntarily. Socrates did not mean that when one committed an evil act they did
so in some sort of state of complete unawareness, but rather that such an individual was
unaware that their action was evil. In Plato‟s dialogue the Protagoras Socrates says:
“My own opinion is more or less this: no wise man believes that anyone sins willingly or
willingly perpetuates any base or evil act; they know very well that every base or evil action
is committed involuntarily.” (Protagoras)
An individual who commits an evil act is one who is ignorant of the fact that virtue
alone is the one true good. Such an individual instead falsely assumes that wealth, power,
and pleasure are the greatest goods in life, and therefore if necessary will use evil means to
attain these goods. In other words, they are ignorant of the fact that by committing such evil
acts they are tarnishing their soul and thus condemning themselves to a perpetual
unhappiness.
Socrates was fully convinced that philosophy must obtain practical results for greater
wellbeing of society. And for Socrates, the very first step towards realization of this goal is
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the acquisition of wisdom through “knowing one‟s Self. As Socrates famously said, “ultimate
wisdom comes from knowing oneself.”
For Socrates, every man is composed of body and soul. This means, every person
is dualistic, that is, he is composed of 2 important aspects of personhood. For Socrates, this
means all individuals have an imperfect, impermanent aspect to him, and the body, while
maintaining that there is also a soul that is perfect and permanent.
Plato (c. 428 - 348 B.C.) Greek philosopher “Ignorance. The root and stem of every
evil.”
The rational soul (intellect) is the thinking portion within each of us, which discerns
what is real and not, judges what is true and what is false, and makes the rational decisions.
The spirited soul, is the active portion; its function is to carry out the dictates of
reason.
Finally, the appetitive soul (emotion or desire) is the portion of each of us that wants
and feels many things, most of which must be deferred if we are to achieve self-
control.
Plato emphasizes that justice in the human person can only be attained if the 3 parts
of the soul are working harmoniously with one another. This is a similar conception of good
and bad as the Buddhists have: Rather than bad being sin, it is considered a matter of
ignorance. So, someone who does something bad requires education, not punishment.
The soul is drawn to the good, the ideal, and so is drawn to God. We gradually move
closer and closer to God through reincarnation as well as in our individual lives.
DUALISM: There‟s the body, which is material, mortal, and “moved” (a victim of
causation).
Then there‟s the soul, which is ideal, immortal, and “unmoved” (enjoying free will).
The soul includes reason, of course, as well as self-awareness and moral sense. Plato
says the soul will always choose to do good, if it recognizes what is good.
Aristotle (384 - 322 B.C.) Greek Philosopher- “We are what we do repeatedly.”
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Aristotle used his concept of the soul in many of his works; the De Anima (On the
Soul) provides a good place to start to gain more understanding of his views.
St. Augustine of Hippo (A.D. 354 - 430) “Thou hast made us for thyself, O
Lord, and our heart is restless until it finds its rest in thee.”
Augustine took from Plato the view that the human self is an
immaterial soul that can think. Plato held that after death the
souls eternal truths, a sort of heaven beyond space and time.
Augustine said that these forms were ideas in the mind of the
perfect eternal God. He said that what was required was that
we love the perfect eternal God.
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Human nature, as created by God, is good, and the free will that He originally gave
us places us higher in the metaphysical ladder of beings than nonhuman animals or plants.
(The angels and, of course, God Himself are above us.)
For Aquinas, we don't encounter ourselves as isolated minds or selves, but rather always as
agents interacting with our environment. Aquinas begins his theory of self-knowledge from
the claim that all our self-knowledge is dependent on our experience of the world around us.
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based on sensation, they must be innate (that is, they must be implicit in the very act of
thinking itself). Even sensible things (e.g., a block of wax) are knowable not based on sense
experience but intellectually, insofar as we know them to be the same things even though
their sensible appearances might change dramatically.
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Since a metaphysics of the self would have to involve some sort of claim concerning
the nature of the self in itself, it would seem that Kant has ruled out the possibility of any
such doctrine‟s being legitimate.
According to Ryle, mental processes are merely intelligent acts. There are no mental
processes distinct from intelligent acts. The operations of the mind are not merely
represented by intelligent acts; they are those intelligent acts. Thus, acts of learning,
remembering, imagining, knowing, or willing are not merely clues to hidden mental
processes or complex sequences of intellectual operations; they are the way in which those
mental processes or intellectual operations are defined. Logical propositions are not merely
clues to modes of reasoning; they are those modes of reasoning
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“The mind is an iceberg, it floats with one-seventh of its bulk above water”
Freud proposed that the conscious mind (everything we are aware of) is seen as the
tip of an iceberg; the unconscious mind is the repository of primitive wishes and impulses
kept at bay and meditated by the preconscious area. Freud developed a more structural
model of the mind, comprising the: id (child in us), the unconscious level – the pleasure
principle containing the two biological instincts: Eros (love) , helps people to survive and
directs sustaining activities or the life instincts known as libido and Thanatos (death)
instincts; ego (adult)follows the reality principle both unconscious and conscious, this
satisfies the demands of the id in a safe and acceptable way; superego (parent), the
psychic apparatus, the morality principle, motivates us to behave in a socially reasonable
and acceptable manner, this can make the person feel guilty.
However, in cases where there is conflict between the id and superego, the ego has
to serve as a referee and mediate the conflict, thus this can deploy defense mechanisms to
prevent overwhelming anxiety.
Lesson 2 discusses the self from the perspectives of sociology and anthropology.
The theory of Herbert Mead on the Social Self will be explored as well
as the different socialization agents. It will also discuss the role of
culture in the development of the self, including the contemporary
culture which influence the people today.
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Agents of Socialization
a. The Family. The family is the basic unit of the society. It the first and primary venue
of sociality for children. Families introduce children to the expectations of society.
Socialization is different based on race, gender and class.
b. The Media. Media is the means where people can gain information as well as
entertainment. It may be in the form of print, radio, television and the internet. The
average young person (age 8–19) spends 6 3/4 hours per day immersed in media in
various forms, often using multiple media forms simultaneously. Television is the
dominant medium, although half of all youth use a computer daily.
c. Peers. Peers are individuals whom you share one or more characteristics with such
as age, social status, economic status, occupation, or education. Interactions with
them are usually on a level of equality and are very influential to one‟s attitudes,
emotions, and behavior. For children and adolescents, peer culture is an important
source of identity. Through interaction with peers, children learn concepts of self,
gain social skills, and form values and attitudes.
d. Religion/Church. Church is a fellowship of individuals believing in one god. It may
also refer to a structure where people gather to worship, pray and do religious
activities. It a place where people learn about God and how to live a righteous life.
Children tend to develop the same religious beliefs as their parents. Very often those
who disavow religion return to their original faith at some point in their life, especially
if they have strong ties to their family of origin and after they form families of their
own.
e. Sports. Sports are activities involving physical exertion and skill in which an
individual or team competes against another or others for entertainment (Oxford
Languages). Through sports, men and women learn concepts of self. Men learn that
being competitive in sports is considered a part of “manhood.”
f. Schools. Schools are institutions dedicated to educate individuals. In schools we
learn about essential things for us to be successful in our career, personal and social
life. In school, teachers and other students are the source of expectations that
encourage children to think and behave in particular ways. Research finds that
teachers respond differently to boys than to girls, with boys receiving more of their
attention.
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Lesson 3: THE SELF AND THE ANTHROPOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVE (2 hours)
Cultural Anthropology is the study of human culture and society. It is the study of
people – their origin, their development, and contemporary variations, wherever and
whenever those have been found (Ferraro, 2008).
Culture on the other hand refers to the major way in which human beings adapt to
their environment and give meaning to their lives. It includes human behavior and ideas
that are learned rather than genetically transmitted, as well as the material objects produced
by a group of people (Nanda and Warren, 2007).
How we see ourselves shapes our lives, and is shaped by our cultural context. Self
perceptions influence how we think about the world, our social relationships, health and
lifestyles choices, and another people‟s well-being. Culture has such a great influence on our
lives and is contributing greatly to our self-concept. The influence might either be negative
or positive depending on the type of culture we have been brought up in. Culture contributes
a great deal in shaping our individual personality or the SELF. The impact of culture on the
self is based on our cultural beliefs and values. It also depends on the kind of education we
receive or the kind of culture we are growing up into. It is sometimes argued that the
concepts of the self, the person, or the individual are culturally variable because people are
not always considered to be persons everywhere. Culture is something shared that
characterize a group collectively just like identity.
The Origins of Self explores the role that selfhood plays in defining human society,
and each human individual in that society. It considers the genetic and cultural origins of self,
the role that self plays in socialization and language, and the types of self we generate in our
individual journeys to and through adulthood.
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Culture play a vital role in the development of an individual. Haviland, et al. (2005)
defines culture as “consisting of the abstract ideas, values, and perceptions of the world that
inform and are reflected in people‟s behavior. Culture is shared by members of a society and
produces behavior that is intelligible to other members of that society. Culture are learned
rather than inherited biologically, and all the different parts of a culture function as an
integrated whole.” Anthropologist Clifford Geertz states that “…culture provides the link
between what men are intrinsically capable of becoming and what they actually, one by one,
in fact become.” This leads us to the importance of culture in understanding who we are as
human beings.
Man acquires his knowledge, beliefs, morals, customs, and other habits and
capacities from his interactions with others in the society where he belongs. We learn our
cultural practices and traditions by listening, talking, and interacting with other people. As a
child we learn appropriate behavior by observing and copying the behavior of adults. We
express our feelings and make judgements of what is right or what is wrong based on our
interpretation of adults‟ behavior. This serves to guide our own behavior and perceptions
throughout life. Thus, our shared beliefs, values, memories, and expectations bind us
together who grow up in the same culture.
Anthropology - has explored various meanings of culture, self and identity to better
understand the self. - holds a holistic view of human nature. It is considered with how
cultural and biological processes interact to shape the self.
Contemporary Anthropologist Culture and self are complementary concepts that are
to be understood in relation to one another.
Who am I?
What could be the answer to this question?
Contemporary culture refers to current, shared themes, beliefs and values of the
society. It includes present practices, trends, as well as political and social beliefs. At
present, television, print media, advertisements and internet influence the language,
traditions, beliefs, knowledge and even our personalities. We are fond of artists, loveteams
and other performers whom we appreciate and (consciously or unconsciously) imitate their
way of talking, fashion style, expressions, and even relationships and way of life. Magazines
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and other print materials tends to present and set acceptable clothing, accessories,
cosmetics, etc. Look at the picture on your right. What message does it try to convey to you?
The internet provides us with diverse entertainment, allowed us to easily connect with
others, provided latest information, etc. Whether we are aware or not, all these affect our
self-concept and our individuality as a whole. With this, Clifford Geertz seems to be right
when he said, “Culture is also not a force or causal agent in the world, but a context in which
people live out their lives.”
Two ways in which the concept of self is viewed in different societies:
1. egocentric – suggests that each person is defined as a replica of all humanity but
capable of acting independently from others.
2. Sociocentric – the self is viewed as dependent on the situation or setting.
- The identity toolbox refers to the “features of a person‟s identity that he or she
chooses to emphasize in constructing a social self”.
- Some characteristics such as kinship, gender and age are almost universally used
to differentiate people.
- Family membership could be the most significant feature to determine the person‟s
social identity.
- Another important identity determinant that is often viewed as essential for the
maintenance of a group identity is language.
- Changes in one‟s identity usually involve rites of passage that prepares individuals
for new roles from one stage of life to another.
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This lesson discusses the self from the perspective of Psychology. It will discuss the
self as a cognitive construct, the theory of William James on Me and I self, the real versus
ideal self and other dichotomy of self with emphasis on promoting alignment or congruence.
Psychology is the scientific study of behavior and mental processes and how they
are affected by an organism‟s physical state, mental state, and external environment. Its
explanation of behavior and other practices are anchored on the biological, learning,
cognitive, sociocultural, and psychodynamic perspectives. These approaches reflect
different questions about human behavior, different assumptions about how the mind works,
and, most important, different kinds of explanations of why people do what they do. (Wade
and Tavris, 2000)
The “Self”, as one of the foundations of human behavior, is one of the central subjects of
psychology. It is defined in psychology as “our sense of personal identity and of who we are
as individuals.” Psychology explains self by focusing on the individual and the cognitive
functions at the same time recognizing other factors that contributes to its development.
Self-awareness refers to the extent to which we are currently fixing our attention on
our own self-concept.
material, social, and spiritual components of the ego. The theory also details self-esteem
describing it as the ratio of an individual's actual behavior in contrast to their pretensions.
Winnicott in his book “Ego Distortion in Terms of True and False Self” published in
1960 said, “We all wear masks. Our social masks enable us to survive and to interact
appropriately in a wide variety of interpersonal contexts. We show a different side of
ourselves to different people in our lives: significant others, family members, friends,
professional colleagues, and acquaintances”. He further explains that the false self develops
through early environmental failure wherein true self-potential is unrealized and hidden. The
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idea is that infants depend on their primary caregiver not only to meet their most basic needs
for survival, but also for reliable, accurate, and empathic emotional responses.
There is a natural human tendency to protect our authentic selves from the scrutiny
of the outside world. When we protect our true selves, we are able to avoid being rejected
or hurt. There is a downside to this protection though – we may miss out on the opportunity
to have genuine connections with other people.
Some of us may relate to both ourselves and others from a dominantly false self-
position. If we have been relating to the world in this way for many years, it can feel
“normal.”
Authentic Self:
o The sense of self based on spontaneous authentic experience and feeling of
being alive, having “real self”.
o Lack of disparity between values and lived values
o Unique combination of your vast multitude of talents, skills, interests, and abilities
False Self:
o Putting on a facade with others may result in an internal sensation of being
depleted, drained, or emotionally numb
o Possible tendencies to turn to mood-altering substances in order to feel “different”
o Actions may feel forced, alienated, or detached
While there are clear distinctions between characteristics of acting from the authentic
self versus the false self, it is important to remember that the false self, or social mask,
serves many adaptive (i.e., useful) purposes. We need to be able to utilize aspects of the
false self in a variety of social contexts. The difference between utilizing the false self in an
adaptive way versus a maladaptive way has to do with both our awareness of its attributes
and sense of congruence between our social masks and our core values.
When we are aware of the many sides of ourselves we are able to gain a sense of
ownership and mastery over when and how we choose to show these sides. When we are
in control of what part of ourselves we choose to show, the false self is no longer foreign and
detached: our social masks become congruent and integrated. We are whole.
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• Perceived Self (self-worth) It is how the person sees self and others see him.
• The real self (Self-Image). It is who we actually are. It is how we think, how we feel,
look, and act. It can be seen by others, but because we have no way of truly knowing
how others view us, the real self becomes our self-image.
• The ideal self is how we want to be. It is an idealized image that we have developed
over time, based on what we have learned and experienced. May include
components of what our parents have taught us, what we admire in others, what our
society promotes, and what we think is in our best interest.
Importance of Alignment
• If the way that I am (the real self) is aligned with the way that I want to be (the ideal
self), then I will feel a sense of mental well-being or peace of mind.
• If the way that I am is not aligned with how I want to be, the incongruence, or lack
of alignment, will result in mental distress or anxiety.
The greater the level of incongruence between the ideal self and real self, the greater
the level of resulting distress
Individualism
• Individualist culture is a culture in which the goals of the individual take precedence
over the goals of the group.
• It is characterized by individual autonomy; self-oriented; personal goals; unique and
independent; individual privacy; nuclear family; individual rewards (equity);
competition
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Collectivism
• Collectivist culture is a culture in which the goals of the group take precedence over
the goals of the individual.
• It is characterized by group unity and harmony; group-oriented; group goals;
conforming and interdependent; group belongingness; extended family; equal
distribution of reward (equality); cooperation
• Examples of Countries with Generally Collectivistic Cultures
China Malaysia
Taiwan Egypt
India Cyprus
Pakistan Ghana
Bangladesh Nepal
Indonesia Argentina
Afghanistan Armenia
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Carlos Hilado Memorial State College-Talisay
College of Arts and Sciences
GECSEL: Understanding the Self
Religious Beliefs
The following religious beliefs have generally influenced the culture of different
countries as well as the self, specifically.
Confucianism
• This can be seen as a code of ethical conduct, of how one should properly act
according to their relationship with other people, thus it is also focused on having a
harmonious social life (Ho 1995, 116).
• The cultivated self in Confucianism is what some scholars call a “subdued self”
wherein personal needs are repressed for the good of many, making Confucian
society also hierarchical for the purpose of maintaining order and balance in society
(Ho 1995, 118).
Taoism
• Living in the way of the Tao or the universe. Taoism rejects having one definition of
what the Tao is, and one can only state clues of what it is as they adapt a free-
flowing, relative, unitary, as well as paradoxical view of almost everything.
• The self is not just an extension of the family or the community; it is part of the
universe, one of the forms and manifestations of the Tao (Ho 1995, 120)
Buddhism
This believes that the self is seen as an illusion, born out of ignorance, of trying to
hold and control things, or human-centered needs, thus the self is also the source of
all these suffering (Ho 1995, 121).
In general, Confucianism and Taoism still situate the self within a bigger context. The
person, in striving to a better person, does not create a self above other people or nature but
a self that is beneficial to his/her community as well as in order and in harmony within
everything else. As for Buddhism, the self, with all its connections and selfish ideas, is totally
taken, not just out of the center of the picture, but out of the whole picture as a whole.
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Socrates' belief that the self is primarily the soul and that virtue is the supreme good guides ethical behavior. By prioritizing the perfection of the soul through virtue, individuals focus on just and good actions rather than material or superficial gains . Socratic philosophy asserts that knowing what is virtuous aligns one's actions with ethical behavior because truly understanding virtue compels adherence to moral excellence . This knowledge-driven approach suggests that ethical lapses stem from ignorance rather than willful intent .
Socrates argues that the pursuit of wealth, status, and pleasure is misguided because these are not the greatest goods for a fulfilling life. According to him, such pursuits are driven by a mistaken conception of what is truly good and consequentially can lead individuals away from genuine happiness . He maintains that these material pursuits can tarnish the soul and prevent individuals from achieving the happiness that stems from a virtuous life . Socratic ethics holds that true happiness is attained through self-knowledge and the cultivation of virtue, not through external and transient gains .
Culture plays a significant role in shaping an individual's self-concept by providing a framework of shared beliefs, values, and practices that inform behavior and identity . Anthropology views the self as being influenced by both genetic inheritance ('nature') and the sociocultural environment ('nurture'). Culture adapts human beings to their environment and gives meaning to their lives, impacting their social relationships, perceptions, and self-image . Cultural practices and traditions learned through interaction shape personal and social identities .
Contemporary media and technology significantly impact personal and cultural identities by shaping societal norms, values, and self-concept. Media such as television, print, and the internet disseminate cultural themes, beliefs, and practices, influencing language, traditions, and even personality . Individuals often emulate celebrities and media representations, affecting their fashion, speech, and behavior, which shapes identity both individually and collectively within society .
Socrates argues that all evil acts are committed involuntarily due to ignorance. He believes that if individuals truly understood that their actions were evil, they would refrain from such behavior . This ignorance leads individuals to mistakenly pursue what they believe to be good, such as wealth, power, and pleasure, without realizing that these pursuits can tarnish their soul and prevent true happiness . Socrates maintains that knowing one's self and the nature of virtue is crucial for realizing that virtue alone is the supreme good that ensures happiness .
Socrates believes in a direct relationship where knowledge leads to virtue, which in turn leads to happiness. He holds that understanding the true nature of virtue is crucial since it is the only intrinsic good that guarantees happiness . People naturally desire happiness, and through knowledge of virtue, they inevitably become virtuous, thereby perfecting their souls and achieving true happiness . He encapsulates this in the formula: knowledge = virtue = happiness, implying that true knowledge compels one towards a virtuous life, leading to genuine happiness .
Socrates posits that the true self is not tied to external factors such as wealth, social status, or physical appearance, but is rather identified with the soul . According to Socrates, the soul represents the thinking and willing subject, and it is the state of our soul that determines the quality of our life. Thus, he emphasizes the importance of caring for the soul and pursuing wisdom and truth over material gains . By focusing on the perfection of the soul, individuals achieve a good and beautiful inner being, which leads to true happiness .
Socrates emphasizes that understanding one's self is crucial for achieving practical and beneficial results for society. He believed that self-knowledge leads to wisdom, which is essential for cultivating virtue and thereby improving the soul . This self-improvement not only benefits the individual but also has broader positive implications for societal well-being, as individuals acting with virtue contribute to a more just and harmonious society . Socrates posits that philosophy should aim for tangible benefits by fostering individuals who prioritize the soul's perfection over transient material concerns .
The egocentric self is viewed as an autonomous, independent individual capable of acting independently of others, equating to a replica of all humanity . In contrast, the sociocentric self is defined by situational contexts and membership in social groups, where one's identity is contingent upon group affiliations and societal roles . These concepts illustrate cultural variability in self-identity, with individualistic cultures often favoring egocentric views, while collectivist cultures emphasize sociocentric perspectives .
Schools influence gendered behavior by setting expectations that affect how children think and behave. Research indicates that teachers tend to respond differently to boys and girls, often giving more attention to boys . Educational settings serve as environments where students learn what behaviors are expected of them based on their gender, which can have lasting effects on their personal and social development .