Brit shalom (naming ceremony)

Brit shalom (Hebrew: ‫" ;ברית שלום‬Covenant of Peace"), also called alternative brit (or bris in Yiddish
and Ashkenazi Hebrew), brit ben, brit chayim or brit tikkun, is a naming ceremony for newborn Jewish
boys that does not involve circumcision.[1] It is intended to replace the traditional brit milah, and is promoted
by groups such as Beyond the Bris and Jews Against Circumcision. The term is generally not used for girls,
since their naming ceremony does not involve circumcision.

Brit shalom is recognized by organizations affiliated with Humanistic Judaism like the Society for Humanistic
Judaism, The Congress of Secular Jewish Organizations, and the International Institute for Secular Humanistic
Judaism, but not by any of the major denominations in Judaism. Reform Jewish rabbis welcome these families
in their communities, although not all of them advertise this in public since it is considered a private matter.[1]

Contents
History
Ceremony
Popularity
Recognition
See also
References

History
The first Brit shalom ceremony was celebrated by Rabbi Sherwin Wine, the founder of the Society for
Humanistic Judaism, around 1970.[2]

Ceremony
There are different forms of brit shalom ceremonies. Some of them involve the washing of the baby's feet,
called Brit rechitzah.[3] Brit shalom ceremonies are performed by a rabbi or a lay person; in this context, rabbi
does not necessarily imply belief in God, as some celebrants belong to Humanistic Judaism.[4]

Popularity
The actual number of brit shalom ceremonies performed per year is not known. Filmmaker Eli Ungar-Sargon,
who is opposed to circumcision, said regarding its current popularity that "calling it a marginal phenomenon
would be generous". This was confirmed by a survey conducted by The Jewish Journal among mohalim and
brit shalom celebrants in the Los Angeles area. However, according to The New York Times and NPR, its
popularity is increasing.[1][2]
A growing number[5][6][7][8][9][10] of contemporary Jews and Intactivist Jewish groups in the United States,
United Kingdom, and Israel, both religious and secular, choose not to circumcise their
sons.[5][6][7][8][9][10][11][12] Among the reasons for their choice, Intactivist Jewish parents state that
circumcision is a form of child abuse that involves genital mutilation forced on men and violence against
helpless infants,[11][12] a violation of children's rights,[8][11][12][6] and their opinion that circumcision is a
dangerous,[6][11] unnecessary,[6][11][12] painful,[6][11][12] traumatic and stressful event for the child,[6][11][12]
which can cause even further psychophysical complications down the road, including serious disability and
even death.[6][13] They are assisted in the celebration of brit shalom by a small number of Reform,[1] Liberal,
and Reconstructionist rabbis,[8][10][12] and also by Humanistic Jewish congregations.[14][15]

Recognition
Ritual circumcision of a male child on the eighth day of life is part of Jewish law.[16] Although one does not
need to be circumcised to be Jewish,[1][17] Orthodox Jews consider an intended failure to follow this
commandment as bringing forth the penalty of kareth, or being "cut off" from the community, as well as being
indicative of a conscious decision to cut oneself off from one's people. However, even in the most Orthodox
groups, Jewish identity is defined by matrilineal descent;[1] a child born to a Jewish mother is recognized as
Jewish, regardless of the status of the genitals.[1][6] In Progressive Judaism, intact boys are usually accepted for
religious training and bar mitzvah if they are sons of a Jewish mother and have been raised with a Jewish
identity.[16] Movements that do not see Jewish law as binding, such as Reform Judaism and Humanistic
Judaism, may allow this ceremony.[1][4][16]

See also
Bodily integrity
Children's rights
Circumcision controversies
Ethics of circumcision
Religious male circumcision

References
1.
• Silvers, Emma (6 January 2012). "Brit shalom is catching on, for parents who dont want to
circumcise their child" ([Link]
g-on-in-bay-area/). JWeekly. San Francisco. Retrieved 20 June 2020.;
• Braver Moss, Lisa (14 February 2014). "Choosing not to circumcise last frontier of Jewish
inclusion" ([Link]
sh-inclusion/). JWeekly. San Francisco. Retrieved 20 June 2020.;
• Braver Moss, Lisa (6 February 2015). "For families choosing not to circumcise, a sea change"
([Link]
JWeekly. San Francisco. Retrieved 20 June 2020.
2. Lowenfeld, Jonah (2 August 2011). "Little-known non-cutting ritual appeals to some who
oppose circumcision" ([Link] The
Jewish Journal of Greater Los Angeles. LA. Retrieved 11 March 2020.
3. Brit Shalom/Shalem/Milim: Covenant of Peace/Wholeness/Words ([Link]
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 4. "LCSHJ Resolutions: Circumcision and Jewish Identity" ([Link]
resolutions/). International Institute for Secular Humanistic Judaism. Farmington Hills,
Michigan: Society for Humanistic Judaism. April 2002. Retrieved 11 March 2020.; "Birth
Celebrations" ([Link] Society for
Humanistic Judaism. Farmington Hills, Michigan. 2016. Retrieved 11 March 2020.
5. Milos, Marilyn Fayre; Macris, Donna (March–April 1992). "Circumcision: A Medical or a Human
Rights Issue?" ([Link] Journal of Nurse-Midwifery.
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7. Chernikoff, Helen (October 3, 2007). "Jewish "intactivists" in U.S. stop circumcising" ([Link]
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13. Boyle, Gregory J.; Svoboda, J. Steven; Price, Christopher P.; Turner, J. Neville (2000).
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17. Kohler, Kaufmann; Hirsch, Emil G.; Jacobs, Joseph; Friedenwald, Aaron; Broydé, Isaac (1906).
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Encyclopedia. Kopelman Foundation. Retrieved 4 January 2020. "Unlike Christian baptism,
circumcision, however important it may be, is not a sacrament which gives the Jew his religious
character as a Jew. An uncircumcised Jew is a full Jew by birth (Ḥul. 4b; 'Ab. Zarah 27a;
Shulḥan 'Aruk, Yoreh De'ah, 264, 1). [...] In 1847 Einhorn, as chief rabbi of Mecklenburg,
became involved in a controversy with Franz Delitzsch of Rostock, who denounced him for
acting contrary to Jewish law in naming and consecrating an uncircumcised child in the
synagogue. Einhorn, in an "opinion" published a second time in his "Sinai", 1857, pp. 736 et
seq., declared, with references to ancient and modern rabbinical authorities, that a child of
Jewish parents was a Jew even if uncircumcised, and retained all the privileges, as well as all
the obligations, of a Jew. This view he also expressed in his catechism, his prayer-book, and
his sermons, emphasizing the spiritual character of the Abrahamic covenant—"the seal of
Abraham placed upon the spirit of Israel as God's covenant people.""

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