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Pros and Cons of Student Living Arrangements

The document discusses the pros and cons of college students living with their parents versus living independently. Staying at home provides emotional support and health benefits, but can lead to dependency and passivity. In contrast, living alone fosters independence and life skills, but may result in increased pressure and loneliness during difficult times.

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Pros and Cons of Student Living Arrangements

The document discusses the pros and cons of college students living with their parents versus living independently. Staying at home provides emotional support and health benefits, but can lead to dependency and passivity. In contrast, living alone fosters independence and life skills, but may result in increased pressure and loneliness during difficult times.

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These days, a lot of college students are still living with their parents,

whilst others have transferred to another site in order to live alone and
start studying in a different environment. both circumstances have
benefits and unhelpfulness, therefore, I will outline in this following
essay.

To begin with, not with standing they are old enough and eligible for not
being reliant on others, university can stay with their families because of
these two reasons. Firstly, parents will always accompany them in every
hardship. It is significant when it comes to facing troubles, sadness or
even despair, they can request for help and advice, since parents are
principally mature and have undergone countless ups and downs of life.
Secondly, mental and physical health are guaranteed as long as they are
in comfort of their home. For instance, mother is doubtlessly good at
cooking, and consequently, she will make wholesome diets and
nutritious regimen on a regular basis, which are beneficial for her
children's energy. Yet, somehow, owing to those comfortablenesses,
students gradually become passive, lazy, dependent, as well as
inconsistent in their own decisions in life. As a result, they will continue
enjoying in the comfort zone without concerning about being self-made.

By contrast, those who are currently both acquiring knowledge at a


higher education and living on their own are independent, well-
experienced and self-disciplined. In fact, they have to take care
completely of themselves, get access to self-study, as well as strive to
make a living. Accordingly, life skills such as housekeeping skill, social
skill, cognitive skill will be enhanced, which would bring them a
solidary in their upcoming future. Nevertheless, as no one is beside them
when it comes to undergoing difficulties, they easily suffer from being
collapsed by high pressure, which is likely to lead to depression.
Moreover, while filling with sorrow or broken-heartedness, all they can
do is to stand and overcome these unendurable feelings strongly, since
there is no advisor or listener near them.
In conclusion, either staying with parents in a cozy house, or going to a
strange place to study and live, have advantages and helplessness for
students.

Dịch:
Ngày nay, rất nhiều sinh viên đại học vẫn đang sống với cha mẹ của họ,
trong khi những người khác đã chuyển đến một địa điểm khác để sống
một mình và bắt đầu học tập trong một môi trường khác. cả hai hoàn
cảnh đều có lợi và không có ích, do đó, tôi sẽ trình bày sơ lược trong bài
tiểu luận sau.

Để bắt đầu, mặc dù họ đã đủ lớn và đủ điều kiện để không phải dựa dẫm
vào người khác, trường đại học vẫn có thể ở với gia đình vì hai lý do
này. Thứ nhất, cha mẹ sẽ luôn đồng hành cùng con trong mọi khó khăn.
Khi đối mặt với những rắc rối, nỗi buồn hay thậm chí là tuyệt vọng,
chúng có thể yêu cầu sự giúp đỡ và lời khuyên, vì cha mẹ về cơ bản đã
trưởng thành và đã trải qua vô số thăng trầm của cuộc đời. Thứ hai, sức
khỏe tinh thần và thể chất được đảm bảo miễn là họ được thoải mái
trong ngôi nhà của mình. Ví dụ, mẹ chắc chắn là người giỏi nấu ăn, và
do đó, mẹ sẽ thường xuyên thực hiện các chế độ ăn lành mạnh và bổ
dưỡng, có lợi cho năng lượng của con mình. Vậy mà không hiểu sao, do
những sự thoải mái đó mà học sinh dần trở nên thụ động, lười biếng, ỷ
lại, thiếu nhất quán trong các quyết định của mình trong cuộc sống. Kết
quả là, họ sẽ tiếp tục tận hưởng trong vùng thoải mái mà không cần lo
lắng về việc tự lập.

Ngược lại, những người vừa tiếp thu kiến thức ở bậc học cao hơn vừa tự
sống độc lập, có kinh nghiệm và kỷ luật tự giác. Trên thực tế, họ phải
hoàn toàn tự lo cho bản thân, tiếp cận với việc tự học, cũng như phấn
đấu kiếm sống. Theo đó, các kỹ năng sống như kỹ năng quản lý nội trợ,
kỹ năng xã hội, kỹ năng nhận thức sẽ được nâng cao, tạo hành trang
vững chắc cho các em trong tương lai sắp tới. Tuy nhiên, vì không có ai
bên cạnh khi trải qua khó khăn nên họ rất dễ bị ngã gục trước áp lực cao,
dễ dẫn đến trầm cảm. Hơn nữa, trong khi lấp đầy nỗi buồn hoặc sự tan
nát trong trái tim, tất cả những gì họ có thể làm là mạnh mẽ đứng lên và
vượt qua những cảm giác khó chịu này, vì không có cố vấn hay người
lắng nghe nào ở gần họ.

Kết luận, hoặc ở với cha mẹ trong một ngôi nhà ấm cúng, hoặc đến một
nơi xa lạ để học tập và sinh sống đều có những thuận lợi và bất lực cho
học sinh.

Các ý chính:
Introduction:
Nowadays, many university students live with their family, other of
them live away from home because their school are in the different
place.
Aventage:
- The people who live away from home:
+ they can be independent
+ they can do something they like
+ they can do the part time work to have more money whithout using
money from their parents send

- The people who live with their family:


+ they are cared for by their parents every day
+ they do not have to worry about food and shelter
+ they do not need to go to work

Disaventage:
- The people who live away from home:
+ they will not focus on learning
+ easily drawn into the path of addiction

- The people who live with their family:


+ they will not be independent
+ they will not work part-time
+ they can not integrate with society

Common questions

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Students living with their parents might become passive, lazy, and dependent, as they are often insulated from life's challenges. They may remain in their comfort zone and become inconsistent in their decisions, lacking the drive to become self-sufficient due to the ease of their home environment .

University students living away from home have the opportunity to partake in part-time work more easily, allowing them to earn money independently without relying on funds sent by their parents. This can foster a sense of financial independence and responsibility .

Parents provide valuable support to students living at home by accompanying them through hardships, offering mature advice based on their own life experiences, and ensuring their physical and mental health through good home-cooked meals .

Living with their families provides university students with consistent emotional support, especially during hardships, as parents can offer advice based on their own life experiences. Additionally, mental and physical health is often better maintained in the comfort of a home environment, where a mother may regularly cook nutritious meals .

Students living independently can encounter high pressure and stress without nearby support systems, potentially leading to depression. They must endure difficult emotions alone, like sorrow or heartache, due to the absence of immediate advisors or listeners, which can be mentally taxing .

Living at home ensures consistent support, potentially helping students maintain focus and prioritize education due to fewer external demands like part-time work. Conversely, students living independently might struggle with educational focus due to the added responsibilities of managing their livelihood and becoming easily distracted by other activities .

Living independently requires students to manage all aspects of daily life themselves, fostering independence, experience, and self-discipline. Students have to engage in self-study and manage life responsibilities, enhancing skills such as housekeeping, social interactions, and cognitive abilities, providing a more robust foundation for their future .

Living with family might hinder students' social integration as they may not develop the full range of social skills needed to navigate new environments or engage fully in university life. The reliance on family support can limit their exposure to diverse social situations and community interactions .

The document argues that students living independently must develop key life and cognitive skills, such as self-study ability, independence in managing daily tasks, and self-discipline. These skills provide a strong foundation for future challenges and opportunities .

Students living away from home might become easily distracted from their studies and may even risk falling into negative behaviors such as addiction. These are unrelated to the development of independence but are significant drawbacks that can impair academic and personal growth .

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