Group Activity
You will be given an essay to read. In groups discuss the following questions:
1. What was/were the theme(s) to the essay?
2. What positive qualities did the writer show about herself/himself?
3. What title would you give it?
4. What phrases would like to borrow and use in your essay?
A: THE NUMBER 12
12 is the number of my idol, Tom Brady. It’s the sum of all the letters in my name. It’s also
how old I was when I started high school.
In short, I skipped two grades: first and sixth. Between kindergarten and eighth grade, I
attended five schools, including two different styles of homeschooling (three years at a co-op
and one in my kitchen). Before skipping, I was perennially bored.
But when I began homeschooling, everything changed. Free to move as fast as I wanted, I
devoured tomes from Jefferson, Hamilton, and Madison to London, Kipling, and Twain. I
wrote 10-page papers on subjects from Ancient Sparta and military history to the founding of
the United States and the resounding impact of slavery. I discovered more than I ever had,
kindling a lifelong joy for learning.
While high school offered welcome academic opportunities--studying two languages and
taking early science APs chief among them--the social environment was a different beast.
Many classmates considered me more a little brother than a true friend, and my age and
laser focus on academics initially made me socially inept. I joined sports teams in spring and
built better relationships, but my lack of size (5’1”) and strength relegated me to the end of
the bench. Oftentimes, I secretly wished I was normal age.
That secret desire manifested itself in different ways. While I’ve loved football since I was a
little kid, I soon became obsessed with personal success on the gridiron--the key, I figured,
to social acceptance and the solution to my age problem. I had grown up obsessively
tracking my New England Patriots. Now, instead of armchair quarterbacking, I poured hours
into throwing mechanics and studying film after my homework each night. Itching to grow, I
adopted Brady’s diet, cutting dairy, white flour, and processed sugar. But in the rush to
change, my attitude towards academics shifted; I came to regard learning as more a job than
a joy. No matter what talents I possessed, I viewed myself as a failure because I couldn’t
play.
That view held sway until a conversation with my friend Alex, the fastest receiver on the
team. As I told him I wished we could switch places so I could succeed on the gridiron, he
stared incredulously. “Dude,” he exclaimed, “I wish I was you!” Hearing my friends voice their
confidence in my abilities prompted me to reflect: I quickly realized I was discounting my
academic talents to fit a social construct. Instead of pushing myself to be something I wasn’t,
I needed to meld my talents and my passions. Instead of playing sports, I recognized, I
should coach them.
My goal to coach professionally has already helped me embrace the academic side of the
game--my side--rather than sidelining it. I have devoured scouting tomes, analyzed NFL
game film, spoken with pros like Dante Scarnecchia, and even joined the American Football
Coaches Association. Translating that coach’s mentality into practice, I began explaining the
concepts behind different plays to my teammates, helping them see the subtleties of strategy
(despite Coach Whitcher’s complaints that I was trying to steal his job). And I discovered that
my intellectual understanding of the game is far more important in determining my success
than my athletic tools: with the discipline, adaptability, and drive I had already developed,
I’ve become a better player, student, and friend.
Physically and mentally, I’ve changed a lot since freshman year, growing 11 inches and
gaining newfound confidence in myself and my abilities. Instead of fighting for social
acceptance, I’m free to focus on the things I love. Academically, that change re-inspired me.
Able to express my full personality without social pressure, I rededicated myself in the
classroom and my community. I still secretly wish to be Tom Brady. But now, I’m happy to
settle for Bill Belichick.