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A little life supercharge?

I'm so excited to help you design the life

you have been waiting for.

The question is: What are you waiting for?

The time is now.

I'm so excited to help you on your journey.

Let's make this the best year yet.

To You,

Vanessa
 What is the Life
Design Workbook?
• A guide to help you
discover, formulate and
achieve your goals for
the next year.
• A manifesto of  YOU:
what’s your word, your
theme and your story
that you want guiding
you?
• A roadmap to success
that you can refer to all
year long.
 TABLE OF CONTENTS
PART 1: The Ultimate Bucket List

PART II: Building Connections

PART III: Goal Setting

CONCLUSION: What Story Do You Want to Tell?

 Bucket List:
A list of all the
things you want to
try, goals you want
to achieve and life
experiences you
want to have
before you die.
 Bucket Lists…
• Make you stop and think what you actually want to
experience in this lifetime.

• Remind you that life is short and we should live it to

its fullest.

• Increase our happiness because they give us both

hope and curiosity (2 essential ingredients for
happiness).
 Step 1: Dreamstorm
• This is a combination of dreaming and brainstorming.

• Set aside 15 minutes to put all of your ideas into

writing on the next page.

• Remove all limits!

* The most important part of dreamstorming is

allowing your mind to be as free as possible. Put down
every single idea that pops into your head!
 My Dreamstorm:
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 Step 2: Get Inspiration
• Getting inspiration for your bucket list makes it
more complete.

• This step is especially important if you had trouble

dreamstorming or coming up with ideas in Step #1.

• Check out my bucket list on the next page. Maybe it

will give you some ideas!

* Sometimes our brains can’t even imagine

half the fun things we could do!
 Ideas!
• Go on a cruise down the Nile River
• Hang Glide
• Go to a nude beach (and be nude)
• Go to an Olympic Event
• Go on an Alaskan cruise
• Go on a yoga retreat
• Go somewhere with zero gravity
• Go on a Safari
• Be in a flash mob
• Visit all 50 US states
My Bucket List:
(To give you even more ideas!)
• Go to a drive-in movie
• Learn to play the banjo
• Go to Harry Potter World
• Rent a House Boat with friends
• Be a redhead
• Learn to drive stick shift
• Make my own perfume
• Visit every continent
• Make homemade pasta
• Take harp lessons
 Pinterest is another great
resource for browsing,
discovering and being inspired!
 Step 3: Time List
• It’s time to break up your
bucket list by time.
• This is crucial so your list
doesn’t sit in a desk
drawer or in your
computer without ever
getting done.
• Let’s take a look at the
time categories…
• 2016 / 2017 / 2018 Bucket List: Breaking your Bucket List into
years is great to think about with other resolutions and goals.

• Summer Bucket List: Are there items you think you can get done
this upcoming summer or next? Perhaps you want to try your hand
at growing vegetables or going on a Caribbean cruise!

• 20s / 30s / 40s Bucket List: What do you want to achieve before
you hit your next birthday milestone?

• City Bucket List: Are you living in a city temporarily or new to a

place? What do you want to achieve in your location?

• College / High School / Certification Bucket List: What do you

want to get done before you are done with school? Perhaps you
are in a temporary job or certification program? What do you want
to achieve?
Step 4: Share and Compare
• The next step is to share and compare your bucket
list with the important people in your life.

• You can and should share your bucket list(s) with

your spouse, partner, parent, best friend, roommate,
siblings, teachers–anyone who might be able to help
or join you on your quests.

• Why do you need to share it?

• Teamwork: There is nothing better than being able to check-off bucket
list items together with a friend or partner! It makes it so much easier
(and fun) to have a partner in joy.

•Buy-In: Your partner or spouse needs to support (and possibly join) you

as you complete your bucket list. Sharing it and comparing notes is a great
way to do your bucket lists as a team.

• Accountability: Sometimes happiness and fun things get pushed aside

when stress and work come up. When you share your list with people in
your life, they ask you about it, they ask to hear updates and they give you
accountability. The more people you tell the more likely it is to get done.

•Interesting: I believe that having and working on your bucket list is one
of the most interesting things to talk about with new acquaintances. Use
your bucket list as the ultimate conversation starter to build fast
relationships!
 Step 5: Partner in Joy
• After sharing and comparing
(Step #4) you might want to
consider asking someone to
be your bucket list buddy,
your partner in joy or your
to-do list teammate.

• You don’t have to do your

entire list with someone, but
you can have certain items
shared with someone else
(especially the more costly
activities like traveling!)
Step 6a: Choosing Your Top Three
• I want you to pick 3 items to work on planning (yup,
just 3 right now!)

• Here’s how to pick the TOP Three:

• What excites you most? Scan your list and take

note of the items that give you a little rush or when
you think of them your blood starts to pump.

• What has a time limit? Is there anything you need

to do soon because of a time limit or a season?
 My Top Three:
1)

2)

3)
Step 6b: Planning Your Top Three
• Who: Are you flying solo or do you need a partner in joy to join?

When: When does this need to happen? What time of day?

•
Weekend or weekday? Get specific!

•Where: Where do you need to go and how do you get there? Do

you need to book transport ahead of time like a ticket or car?

•How: How do you complete this item? How much money do you
need to save up?

•What (MOST IMPORTANT): What do you need to do to make

this happen? What is your very first step? Now do it.
 My Top Three:
1)

• Who:

• When:

• Where:

• How:

• What:
 My Top Three:
2)

• Who:

• When:

• Where:

• How:

• What:
 My Top Three:
3)

• Who:

• When:

• Where:

• How:

• What:
 Step 7: Celebrate
Completion
• Once you have completed a
bucket list item, the joy is not
complete!

• The happiness and pride that

comes from completing a
massive bucket list item keeps
giving and giving–if you honor
it.

• Here are some ideas about

how to honor your
completed items…
•Create a completed bucket list journal or list: This is
great for memories and helps you catalogue the good
feelings that came from each experience.

•Start a blog, Instagram or Pinterest: With pictures

and videos of your completed bucket list items–great to
inspire your kids one day!

•Build a board, wall or photo album in your home:

See and share with people about your bucket list items.

•Collect items or keepsakes from each experience:

Display them on a shelf in your house or office–talk
about great conversation starters…
 Your Riser:
Is there someone in your life that you hope to
get closer to? In other words, you want to
deepen the relationship or rise to another
level? This could be a friend, a crush, a
colleague or even a family member! Name
your riser below:

____________________
 Your Helper
Who are you grateful for? Who has
helped you a lot in your life and you
want to thank them for all they
have done for you:

____________________
 Your VIP:
Is there someone who could help
you achieve your goals? This could
be a boss, a peer or even a role
model. Who do you need help from:

____________________
 Challenge:
I challenge you to reach out to each of these 3
people.

• Make a date with your riser—go to coffee, catch up on

the phone, start working on deepening the connection.
• Write a thank you note to your helper. Tell them how
much you care about them.
• Reach out to your VIP. The time is NOW! It’s time to
level up your game, your career and your relationships.
Not all goals are created equal…

• Merely fantasizing about your goal is de-motivating–

it actually tricks the brain into thinking you have
already achieved it.

• Goals that aren’t set properly can end up having the

opposite effect.

* I want you to throw out everything you

have heard about goals.
Step 1: Emotional Temperature
Right now, I want to take your emotional temperature. On a piece of paper or on
the Goal Wheel on the next page, rate the different areas of your life on a scale
from 1 to 5 (1 being extremely dissatisfied, 5 being extremely satisfied).

• Business: How do you feel about your work, career or business effectiveness and
success?

• Friends: How is your social life? Your friendships and support system?

• Family: How are your personal relationships? Your partner or spouse?

• Personal Passions: Do you have personal passion projects, hobbies or fun activities that
fulfill you?

• Spiritual: You can interpret this one as you like. It could be your faith, mental health,
personal journeys or mindset.

• Health: Are you happy with your physical health and wellness?
 A finished Goal Wheel will have the lines filled in so you
can see what your ’emotional temperature’ is in each area.
For example, this is mine right now:

You can quickly see

that my goals for the
upcoming year are
going to be focused
on Business, Friends
and Spirituality. This
little exercise is a
really easy to way to
check in with
yourself.
 Ninja Tip!
I save all of my Goal
Wheels and then check-
in to see if there are any
[Link] can use
these worksheets over
and over again to see
how far you have come
from previous months
or years depending on
how often you do it.
Step 2: Your Legacy

• Your legacy is what

drives you and what gets
you up in the morning.
• Step #1 was about
looking at where you
are right now. Step #2 is
about looking at where
you want to go.
• Answer the following
questions…
• In 10 years, what do I want my life to look like?

• What do I want to be remembered for?

• What does success mean for me?

Step 3: The Neurology of Ownership
Step #3 is about owning your intention. Look at your Goal Wheel and set an intention for
that area–your sections that are 4’s or 5’s might just be about maintenance. Remember,
these aren’t specific goals yet, they are just [Link] is going to help you own a
different outcome for yourself in each area. Here are some examples:

• Business: Level up my business efforts so I can reach and help more people.

• Friends: Set aside time to support and reach out to friends more regularly.

• Family: See family more often and dedicate real time to connect and catch-up.

• Personal Passions: Learn how to paint and spend more time reading.

• Spiritual: Start meditating to create mental space and slow down at the end of
a workday.

• Health: Get more toned and increase my endurance.

 Set Your Intention:
• Business:

• Friends:

• Family:

• Personal Passions:

• Spiritual:

• Health:
 Step 4: Outcome +
Process
This is the MOST important step:
This is why goals fail!
I want you to pick an outcome and
a process for each goal:
• Outcome: The ideal result,
hopeful conclusion, best end for
your goal.

• Process: The skills you need,

the method required to get
you there.
 Write the skills, process or methods you need to achieve your outcomes. For example:
• Business: Level up my business efforts so I can reach and help more people.

• Hire a marketing agency.

• Friends: Set aside time to support and reach out to friends more regularly.

• Join a class with friends. Plan a weekend getaway.

• Family: See family more often and dedicate real time to connect and catch-up.

• Plan a family reunion that happens on the same holidays each year.

• Personal Passions: Learn how to paint and spend more time reading.

• Buy a painting book. Get suggestions of 10 books from friends.

• Spiritual: Start meditating to create mental space and slow down at the end of a workday.

• Get a mediation app to remind me before bed.

• Health: Get more toned and increase my endurance.

• Buy a weight set and sign-up for a bootcamp.

 Set Your Process:
• Business:

• Friends:

• Family:

• Personal Passions:

• Spiritual:

• Health:
Step 5: MAC Daddy Goals
• Measurable:Your goals should be quantifiable. There
should be a clear ending that can be measured.

• Actionable:You have to know exactly what you want

and the process you need to get there (Step #4).

• Competent:Your goals have to align with your legacy

(Step #2) and be achievable.

* In 2011, researchers did a huge meta-analysis of 38 studies on goal

[Link] found that there are patterns between goals that work and
those that don’t. MAC goals work!
 Go through each area and set a measurable, actionable and competent goal.
In this way you incorporate your process into your outcome. For example:

• Business: Hire a marketing agency by March to add 10,000 new

subscribers and 5,000 new Twitter followers.

• Friends: Send 5 classes to friends to sign up together and get a

weekend getaway on the calendar before this summer.

• Family: Plan a family reunion over Labor Day. Set bi-weekly call dates
with sisters.

• Personal Passions: Buy a painting book. Get suggestions of 10 books

from friends.

• Spiritual: Get a meditation app and set a reminder for 9pm each night.

• Health: Order a weight set and buy a 12 class bootcamp package.

 MAC Goals:
• Business:

• Friends:

• Family:

• Personal Passions:

• Spiritual:

• Health:
Step 5: Identify Blockers
When we first set our goals
we are super optimistic and
filled with hope–and that’s
great.
One thing that happens,
however, is we fail to identify
possible blockers.
I want you to get real with
yourself for a moment and
answer these questions…
• What logistical constraints might make it difficult for you
achieve your goals?

• What behaviors might make it difficult for you to achieve

your goals?

• Who might make it difficult for you to achieve your

goals?
 Potential Blockers:
• Business:

• Friends:

• Family:

• Personal Passions:

• Spiritual:

• Health:
 Step 6: Make Your Map
• For each goal, add the first step you need to take to
achieve your goal.

• Steps that take 10-minutes (or less) are the best.

• Once you have broken your goal up into 10-minute

segments for success, schedule them into your
calendar.

* Set calendar alerts, phone alerts, put post-its up, make a big white
board to do list for the month. Schedule your steps into your life.
 First Step:
• Business:

• Friends:

• Family:

• Personal Passions:

• Spiritual:

• Health:
Step 7: Get Accountability
• Post on your social networks about your goals to get public
accountability.

• Get a goal partner and set up times to talk or text every few
weeks about your goals.

• Make an awesome club and use the power of groups to

achieve your goals and conquer blockers.

• Change your passwords to remind you of your goals. For

example, “LevelUp2016” or “20lbs2016”

* Feedback and accountability will supercharge your goals.

 Revise, Practice, Revise
• This is a new way to think about goals–they are always a
work in progress until they are achieved. Don’t be afraid
to revise your goals as you go.

• Check in with your goal wheel and this planner every

few weeks.

• As you revise you learn about yourself, you reinvigorate

your goal and set yourself up for more MAC Daddy goals
next year.
* Maybe you thought that a family reunion was possible this summer but a cousin just
planned her wedding in a far off destination. Revise the goal for a winter getaway!
 CONGRATULATIONS!
You have completed your Life Design Workbook!

Remember, your journey does not end here:

• Check items off your Bucket List as you go! Update your list as
you think of more ideas.

• Add a reminder to reach out to your Riser, Helper and VIP at

least once per month.

• Check in with your Goal Wheel frequently to evaluate your

progress and accomplishments.
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