How Proper Communication About Adoption Helps
In an a study entitled, “Adopted children’s emotion regulation: The role of
Parental Attitudes and Communication about Adoption” written by Soares, J.
(2017), she discussed that the adoptive families and their communication to
the adopted child has a big role for their relationship. The biological/adoptive
families has to be active and supportive towards the adopted child especially
when they don’t have any idea on what is adoption. School-aged adopted
children has communication with their peers, therefore, the environment can
affect the behaviour and emotion of the child. They might have difficulties of
communicating with other children if the families showed negative
understanding about adoption. Parents must be the role model or they must
show that adoption is a safe or good thing and they are treated as a
normal/biological part of the family.
The author’s data given by their participants who are the families that they
view their child’s emotional regulation as adequate or that it tolerable. Still,
they need to be aware and always monitor the emotional stability of their child
especially if its a going through adolescent stage. Emotional regulation has an
importance to the socialization of a person, especially with the communication
of families. Families expressing their emotion and opinions towards their child
biological or adopted and if they understand or respond the emotions of the
child, it provides different opportunities that significantly influence their social-
emotional competence. The negative understanding to the child and their
experiences for having a post-adoption after having a long or late adoption
can affect them.
There are adopted children who are afraid and has a fear of rejection
because of them being adopted late. There are many cases about children in
adopted center that has difficulty on getting a adoptive parent. Certain
processes are need to be made in order for a family that is willing to adopt.
They will scale if the child and the family will be a good pair and if the parents
are able to raise the child for themselves, a family has to face this challenges.
But other cases like lacking of getting a suitable parent or not enough families
are going down to the adoption center, lots of kids grow up in the center and
never experience having a their own [Link] are made if there
are shown negativity by the adoptive family towards the child, they
relationship might be ruined.
The purpose of the study is to analyze the emotion and behaviour of an
adoptive child to their adoptive family whether they acknowledge or reject
adoption’s differences and their communication that influences the emotional
regulation of the child. The authors explained that they still lack of information
about the child’s emotion and behaviour, they also did not explain the side of
the adoptive family and their daily life with the child. The triad members;
biological family, adoptive family and the adoptee impacts each other.