Adolescents Adjustment and it’s Relation to Family Communication
A study entitled, ““The Effect of Family Communication Patterns on
Adopted Adolescent Adjustment” written by Ruther, M. (2008) which tackles
about the changes of the adopted child and their growth to being an
adolescent. The authors found some risk that when the child grows up and
later realize him/her not a biological part of the family. Those risk are; being
uncomfortable and having difficulty on adjusting and communicating with the
family. The parent-child relationship might destruct when the said risk are
affecting their family.
They also concluded that parents of the child, biological or the adopted
family can influence the good or bad adjustment based on how they treat the
child throughout his/her growth. If they treat their child with approving
character and good communication, it will positively improve the child’s
adjustment and if they were treated in with conflictual interaction and angry it
is associated with poorer adjustment. They argued about how huge the
influence of parents on how they treat the child, especially those families who
have an adopted child will reflect their behaviour. A good communication is a
necessity for every family because it holds the connection and their
relationship with each other.
The authors prove the communication of the parents to child has impact
towards their adjustment to the environment by using a theory. Family
Communication Patterns Theory; they expanded the existing theory and
provided a strong explanation and its correlation towards the following
phenomenon. Shared social reality is the central to family functioning, it is
used to others to understand and being understood easier. It exists in the
family when the cognitions about an object needs agreement and accurate
understanding. Shared reality are efficient to avoid misunderstanding and
conflict within the family. It can be applied when the adoptive family explained
to the child that he/she is not biological, to avoid conflict Shared Reality is
applied. Part of shared reality is communication with one another more
accurately, avoid conflict and supporting the child’s adjustment. Adoptive
families might have a hard time applying the Shared Reality because they
don’t personally know the child or they have to still wait for its maturity to
explain the topic.