FIRO-B
Fundamental
Interpersonal
Relations
Orientation -
Behavior
Theory
• Need for Inclusion
• Need for Control
• Need for Affection
Theory
Inclusion: Control: Affection:
belonging influence rapport
attention structuring Warmth
recognition responsibility support
involvement power closeness
contact authority
participation managing
acceptance directing
Need for Inclusion
1. Under social -- introverted, withdrawn; not take risk of being
ignored.
2. Over social -- extroverted, outgoing; fear no one interested in
him, but makes them pay attention anyway.
3. Social -- successful resolution of inclusion anxiety in
childhood.
Need for Control
1. Abdicrat -- submission and abdication of power; feel incapable
of responsible adult behaviour and that others know it.
2. Autocrat -- domination, power seeking; feels same as above, but
uses every opportunity to disprove it to the self and others.
3. Democrat -- successful resolution of power and control in
childhood; comfortable in giving and taking orders; feels capable
and responsible.
Need for Affection
1. Underpersonal -- strong need for affection, strong concern about being
loved and being loveable; avoid close personal ties; fear rejection and
so avoid people.
2. Overpersonal -- same fear as above, but deal with it by becoming very
close with others.
3. Personal -- resolve affection need in childhood; comfortable with
closeness and with distance; knows dislike does not mean unlovable.
Two aspects of Inclusion,
Control and Affection
• Expressed (e)
• Wanted (w)
FIRO-B
The Six Basics:
– Expressed Inclusion (eI)
– Wanted Inclusion (wI)
– Expressed Control (eC)
– Wanted Control (wC)
– Expressed Affection (eA)
– Wanted Affection (wA)
ACTIVITY LEVEL (AL) : e ROW TOTAL
I C A
X X X
e
w - - -
Below 9 9 to 18 Above 18
Lower Average Higher
Need level for interpersonal contact (NL): w ROW Total
I C A
e
w X X X
Below 11 11 - 20 Above 20
Lower Average Higher
Importance of people (IOP): I Column Total
I C A
X
e
w X
Below 9 9 - 15 Above 15
Lower Average Higher
Assuming Responsibility (AR) : C Column total
I C A
X
e
w X
Below 5 5 - 11 Above 11
Lower Average Higher
Importance of Affection (IOA) : A Column Total
I C A
e X
w X
Below 6 6 to 12 Above 12
Lower Average Higher
Social Interaction Index (SII): Grand Total Score
I C A
X X X
e
w X X X
Below 20 20 to 38 Above 38
Lower Average Higher
RECIPROCAL COMPATIBILITY (RC)
RC = | Ae - Bw | + | Be - Aw |
for each of the Inclusion, Control & Affection areas
6 and above - INCOMPATIBILITY
ORIGINATOR COMPATIBILITY (OC)
OC = ( Ae - Aw ) + ( Be - Bw )
for each of the three areas
O - Originator compatibility
- 6 or below and +6 or above - Incompatibility