THE HURDLES

LEADER’S GUIDE [HOW DO I TEACH THE FUNDAMENTALS?]

These studies can be used as Follow-Ups in one-on-one and/or small group settings. They assume a secular, mostly unchurched
athlete or coach as their audience, but obviously, there will be variations in both the level of spiritual interest, experience and
competitive skill. These studies are designed to help the participant connect emotionally, mentally, and spiritually to biblical
concepts at a deeper level, but not act as a systematic theology on any one concept.
OUTLINE OF EVERY STUDY:
The Hurdle Puts an issue on the table LESSONS INCLUDED:
I Hear Ya Identifies Bible characters that faced the same issue PLAYBOOK FOR LIFE
Listen Up Investigates what the Bible teaches about the issue God’s Word (Is the Bible Relevant to
For the Record Summarizes God’s perspective my life?)
Your Move Bridges the gap between Bible teaching and the athlete’s current position
GET IN THE GAME
The Training Room Offers Bible passages and ideas for further study
Covenant Relationship (Am I on the
THE HURDLE Team?)
Goal: Yes, I’m familiar with this idea and have felt it myself, though I might not ever say it out loud. IN-GAME INTERVIEWS
Forges emotional connection by stating a possible situation through a fictional Engaging Others (Am I Willing to Step
athletic character into Your World?)
Offers questions for discussion that start opening the issue
Don’t want to get too deep at this point, nor do we want to offer any antidote IN-SEASON AND OUT
for the problem Evangelism (Why Should I Tell Others
Could be read aloud or silently about God?)
ALL HANDS IN
I HEAR YA
Fellowship (Do We Really Need Each
Goal: Wow! I never realized that Bible characters experienced the same thing.
Other?)
Introduces 3-5 people in the Bible who experienced the same or similar issue
Three purposes: 1) humanizes Bible through characters, 2) raises possibility of Bible’s POWER PLAY
relevance to real life, 3) offers potential talking points later Holy Spirit (How Do I Live Differently?)
Can read all of them or pick and choose the ones you think are most effective; TROPHY OF GRACE
not intended to camp here, just visit Identity (Am I Good Enough?)
LISTEN UP LEADING BY EXAMPLE
Goal: How does the Gospel speak into my life concerning this issue or situation? Leadership (What Characterizes a
Provides the biblical solution to the topic at hand; intended as core of study Good Leader?)
One primary text with four or five questions for exploration
GOT GAME FOR GOD
Not intended to be exhaustive or thorough; should be introductory but pointed
Lordship (Who Runs my Life?)
Most passages are short enough to read aloud; make adjustments depending on context
TAKING A KNEE FOR GOD
FOR THE RECORD Prayer (Can I Trust Him with Myself?)
Goal: How should I change or adjust my thinking in light of what I read about God here?
Summarizes God’s perspective on the issue, takes into consideration both the passage YOUR REAL OPPONENT
studied and other theological teaching on the idea Spiritual Warfare (Who Is Out To Get
Might be read out loud or silently, in part or the whole thing; consider pulling out Me?)
small piece to focus on SHOW ME THE MONEY!
Stewardship (What do I do with
YOUR MOVE
Money?)
Goal: In light of this study, how should I respond?
Provocative questions to clarify the issues and motivate the participants to change or LIVIN’ LARGER
get answers Social Justice (Am I Made for More
Close gap between current position and where they need to be than Sport?)
Have athlete read aloud or read silently TIME OUT
TRAINING ROOM Solitude (Is My Inner Life too Cluttered
Goal: What else can I do to grow in this area? to Live Well?)
Not intended to be part of study PERSONAL FOULS
Provides exercises for further learning and growing in topic area of study Relationships and Sex (What’s Love got
Might act as “homework” and form basis for next discussion to do with It?)
Familiarize yourself with each piece so you can selectively point participant to
BIG-TIME SPORTS!
sections most helpful based on discussion
Idolatry (What is the Place of Sport in
My Life?)
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 PLAYBOOK FOR LIFE
GOD’S WORD [IS THE BIBLE RELEVANT TO MY LIFE?]

THE HURDLE
I’ve got so many questions that beg for answers but I’m not sure where to turn. Lately I’ve been thinking a lot deeper
about life but people don’t usually talk about that kind of stuff in the locker room. I try to turn my mind off, but the
questions keep flowing. Some are directly related to my sport: Should I transfer schools? Sit this year out? Some have
to do with daily life: How should relationships work? How should I handle the party scene around me? Others are
ridiculously huge: Why am I even on the planet?
I have a team mate who keeps talking about gaining wisdom from
reading the Bible, but that sounds crazy to me. It’s like reading a foreign
language. Even if I could understand it, how could a 2000-year-old
I believe a knowledge of
book have anything to say to me today? the Bible without a college
education is more valuable
As life gets more complex, where do you usually turn for than a college education
direction? A person? A book?
without the Bible.
What has your experience been in seeking help from William Lyon Phelps
the Bible? Former professor of English Literature at Yale

The Bible records people who struggled to know, trust, and live the word of God. Some
I HEAR YA were able, some were not…

To the people of Israel: “If only you had listened to my commandments! Then your well-being would have
been a river, and your righteousness like the waves of the sea.” (Isaiah 48:18)
Paul to Timothy: “If anyone advocates a different doctrine and does not agree with sound words, those
of our Lord Jesus Christ and with the doctrine conforming to godliness, he is conceited and understands
nothing.” (I Tim. 6:3-4).
Israelites: “In those days there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in their own eyes.”
(Judges 21:25)Agur: “ Every word of God proves true; He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him. Do
not add to His words, or else He will rebuke you, and you will be found a liar.” (Proverbs 30:5-6,)
Ezra learned the word: “Ezra had set his heart to study the Law of the Lord, and to practice it, and to teach
His statutes … .” (Ezra 7:10)
The Psalmist: “Strengthen me according to Your word. Remove the false way from me, and graciously
grant me Your Law.” (Psalm 119:28,29)

While the Bible was written thousands of years ago and its cultural circumstances are
significantly different, it still speaks relevantly to the issues we face today! We can discover its
relevance by studying its contents. Whether you believe it should have any authority over your
life, however, remains to be decided.
What concerns prevent you from digging into the Bible?
What would keep you from accepting its message as authoritative in your life?
 LISTEN UP
Read II Timothy 3:16-17.

1. When this verse says, “All scripture is inspired by God” (lit.: “God-breathed”), what
does it imply about the authority of this book? How would accepting God’s authorship
change your view of the Bible and its potential influence on you?

2. Just as fundamental skills are essential in sports, learning and applying the truth in
God’s Word is key to developing the skills and habits needed to live out the Christian
life. In verse 16, identify the four benefits of scripture, then describe the practical
purpose of each category.

Benefit Purpose

3. Someone once rephrased verse 16 in a different way: “The Scripture tells you what
is right, what is wrong, tells you how to get right and how to stay right.” If this
sentence was referencing your own spiritual journey, which of these four purposes
of the Bible do you most need right now?

4. According to verse 17, what is the goal of reading and studying God’s word? What
does this mean for your life right now?

FOR THE RECORD

God wants us to be informed about how to live and actions, a place to go for counsel, a light on
a wise and fruitful life on earth. He gives us the path of our individual journey. While not
the Bible so we’ll know something of His work literally a “How To” manual for life, it is THE
in the universe and our place in it, equipping guide for right living, a collection of books
us to live wisely in this life and to understand whose human characters and spiritual lessons
something of the next. When we acknowledge continue to be as relevant as the day they
His authority in our lives, His words to us were written.
become a standard by which to judge our life
GOD’S WORD [IS THE BIBLE RELEVANT TO MY LIFE?]
YOUR MOVE
1. Since the Bible does address real issues in your life, what inhibits you from
applying that wisdom to your situations on a daily basis? Check all that apply:

___ don’t know where to start ___ don’t want it to affect my athletic pursuits

___ don’t have a Bible ___ don’t want to give up sinful habits

___ afraid it might change my life ___ afraid of what my family/friends might think

___ don’t really have time to think about it ___ other: _______________________________

2. Just for starters, try a 31-day experiment. Read one chapter of Proverbs every
day for a month. As you are reading, consider these questions as they apply to
the verses and record them in a notebook:

• What does it say about God?

• What does it say about you or others?
A Bible that is falling apart
• What does it say you should do or not do? usually belongs to someone
who isn’t.
Charles Spurgeon
Preacher/Author

3. While the Bible continues to top sales charts, it’s a book whose contents are
seldom read, less understood, and rarely applied. James 1:22 says, “But prove
yourself doers of the word and not merely hearers who delude themselves.”
Write a prayer of commitment acknowledging that you will not only be a
reader, but will commit to doing what God says (even when it’s difficult!).

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page to
learn more about the Bible and how it relates to your life.
AS YOU ENTER
“ … AND LEAN NOT ON YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING.” (PROVERBS 3:5B)

A Book About Relationships

Recognizing His Voice: John 10:27
Trusting God vs. Trusting Things: Luke 18:24-30
Choosing Friends: Proverbs 12:26; I Corinthians. 15:33
Clarifying Friendships: James 4:4-8
You Can Always Come Back: Luke 15:11-24
A Book About Real Issues
Guidance: Proverbs 4:14-15
Do not enter the path of the wicked.
Finances: Proverbs 13:11
Wealth gained by dishonesty will be diminished.
Correction: Proverbs13:13
He who despises the word will be destroyed.
Wise Counsel: Proverbs 15:1
A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Parenting: Proverbs 22:15
Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; but the rod of
A Book About Real Living correction will drive it far from him.
When Trouble Strikes
(Psalm 46:1; 121:1-2)
God Hears Our Call
(Isaiah 65:24; Jeremiah 33:3)
You Are Salt and Light
(Matthew 5:13-16)
Do What The Word Says
(James 1:22)
Don’t Live A Bitter Life
(Ephesians 4:31-32)
The Way To Real Living
(John 14:6; Romans 10:9, 13)

AS YOU LEAVE
»»PRACTICE DOING WHAT THE WORD SAYS.
»»PRESERVE TIME EACH TO READ AND MEDITATE ON THE WORD.
»»PRAY THAT GOD PROVIDES CLEAR UNDERSTANDING.

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 GET IN THE GAME
COVENANT RELATIONSHIP [AM I ON THE TEAM?]

THE HURDLE
I love playing on this team. After all the years sacrificing time, personal comfort, and the normalcy other people
experience, I’ve certainly earned my spot. I acquired it through my own effort and it’s mine for now. But I know the
deal: they’re always looking for the next person to replace me, either a current teammate or someone not yet on the
team. Whatever can be earned can also be lost, right? So when I step on the field of play today, I need to be just as
good or better than I was yesterday. I can’t let my teammates down or
give my coach a reason to bench me. I belong on this team and deserve
to play—I just have to prove it everyday. If I’m honest, sometimes I
wonder if God handles people the same way—if he’ll “cut” me if I don’t The relationship between
act right or don’t keep my commitment to him. They say He’s different; I commitment and doubt is by
hope it’s true. no means an antagonistic one.
In what ways do you struggle to prove or reprove that Commitment is healthiest
you belong on your team or on the field/court? when it’s not without doubt but
in spite of doubt.
How do you respond when your performance “earns”
you criticism from your coach or teammates? How do Dr. Rollo May
Psychologist/Author
you process the criticism? What happens inside
your head?
Have you ever felt your “position” with God is dependent
on how well you stack up against the next guy?

In the Bible, God says if you belong to Him He will never leave you, but that doesn’t keep
I HEAR YA people from struggling to believe His promise…

David cries out to God: “Do not forsake me when my strength fails.” (Psalm 71:9)

Israelites question if God still loves them: “I will not break off My lovingkindness from him, nor deal
falsely in My faithfulness.” (Psalm 89:33)

Paul reminds young Timothy of God’s faithfulness: “If we are faithless, He remains faithful; for He
cannot deny Himself.” (2 Timothy 2:13)

Israelites fear that God has left them: “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name,
you are Mine.” (Isaiah 43:1)

The writer of Hebrews talks of God’s commitment: “I will never leave you or fail you.” (Hebrews 13:5)

Photo: Getty Stock Images

 LISTEN UP
Misunderstanding God’s covenant relationship with us will inevitably produce insecurity
in us. If we think we initiated the relationship by asking Christ into our lives, we might
conclude that we can end the relationship at will. Or if we believe our status with God
depends on keeping His rules perfectly, we’ll always feel bad about ourselves because we
never measure up. We need to understand what God’s covenant with us really means if
we’re to live in confident freedom.
Peter shows us how our covenant relationship with Christ is rooted in work He already
did on our behalf, binding us to Him and giving us position and purpose on His team!
Read I Peter 2:9,10.

1. When God forgave you and called you out of darkness into His light, He made you a
new creation. Fill in the blanks below with what Peter says is true of you because of
your relationship with God.
You are a _________________ race
You are a _________________ priesthood
You are a _________________ nation
You are God’s own ____________________

Though this may be the first time you’ve read the words above,
what do they mean to you?

2. The Bible communicates ideas like being called, chosen, belonging to God, adopted
into His family. What can you discern from these words regarding who initiates the
relationship between God and people, i.e. do we choose God or does He choose us?

3. How much of your life was perfect when He initiated this relationship with you?
What do the phrases/words from #1 and #2 imply about God’s desire to know you
and His ability to “keep” you in spite of your failures and imperfections?

4. God not only places you on His team, He gives you a significant new purpose. Peter
states this purpose at the end of verse 9. How would you say it in your own words?

FOR THE RECORD

God keeps His promises. That’s His nature. and to His family secures a purposeful and
Unlike other people, He doesn’t break contracts endless adventure together, and while His
and won’t cast us aside when a new and better family sometimes wanders, He never rejects
recruit or free agent comes along. God isn’t a us or turns His back on us. Counting the
fickle coach who uses fear to compel us, nor cost to follow Christ includes forming a new
will we be cut from His “team” when we make allegiance with God, His people, and His
a mistake. He’s committed to us for the long purpose for our lives, a covenant that sets us
haul—no matter what happens—a truth both free to risk living and loving to the fullest. By
reassuring yet alarming. Who can imagine a surrendering ourselves fully to Him, we gain
love like this? Connecting to the living God ourselves and more in return!
COVENANT RELATIONSHIP [AM I ON THE TEAM?]
YOUR MOVE
1. On a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being “completely uncertain” and 10 being “completely
certain”), where would you place yourself regarding the following statement
and why:
I know that I am chosen, forgiven and loved by God for eternity.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

2. Everyone sometimes feels that they can’t hold up their end of the bargain. What
might make you feel that your relationship with God is not secure?
qq I am not spiritually committed enough
qq I will sin and not trust His forgiveness
qq My sport will take priority over my new allegiance to God
qq Peer or parental pressure
qq Other religious ideas

3. Paraphrase the verse below where Jesus speaks

about his followers. How does this truth affect The Bible is not a record of
your sense of security and desire to follow him? man’s faithfulness to God, but
of God’s faithfulness to man.
“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and We’re in the game and stay in
they follow me; and I give eternal life to them,
and no one shall snatch them out of My hand.”
the game by His grace alone.
(John 10:27,28) Bruce Dishnow,
Campus Minister, University of Michigan

4. Are you presently aware of areas in your life that you are “pledging allegiance
to” that hinder you from fully following Christ? If so, what are they and what
makes them attractive to you?

5. How could you live out God’s new purpose for you (“to proclaim the mighty acts
of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light”), through both
your words and actions today (especially in areas identified in question #4)?

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page to
understand more about God’s covenant relationship with you.
AS YOU ENTER
“FAITHFUL IS HE WHO CALLED YOU AND WILL ALSO BRING IT TO PASS.”
(1 THESSALONIANS 5:24)

God Knows His Own

Read John 10:22-30
Who are the characters in this scene?
Jesus uses the analogy of sheep to describe His
followers. What characteristics does He ascribe to
sheep in this passage?
What, if any, information does
What is a Covenant?
this passage add to the nature of a
• A binding agreement
believer’s relationship with God?
• Involves agreements between groups more than individuals
From these verses, how would you • One party initiates the agreement and the other party
summarize the security and/or responds to it
certainty of a believer’s relationship • The agreement is binding on both parties
with God? • Violating the agreement results in adverse consequences
to the violator
The Bible teaches that God is a covenant-making God. He is into
promises, agreements, and faithfulness to His agreements. He
is offended when someone backs away from a promise made to
Him, yet faithful to keep His promises. Covenants between God
and man include:
1. Noahic Covenant - Genesis 9:8-11
2. Abrahamic Covenant - Genesis 12:1-3
3. Mosaic Covenant - Exodus 24:1-8
A Marriage Contract 4. Davidic Covenant - 2 Samuel 7:8-16
5. New Covenant - Matthew 26:26-28
Read the sample wedding vows
from [Link].
“I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward,
for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish;
from this day forward until death do us part”.
“I, (name), take you, (name), to be my [opt: lawfully wedded] (husband/wife), my constant friend,
my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and
friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good
times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support
you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish
you for as long as we both shall live”.
Compare and contrast the difference between a marriage contract between a man and a woman
and a covenant relationship between God and man.

AS YOU LEAVE
»»REMEMBER: OUR SECURITY WITH GOD IS BASED ON HIS FAITHFULNESS TO US,
NOT OUR DAILY PERFORMANCE.

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 IN-GAME INTERVIEWS
ENGAGING OTHERS [AM I WILLING TO STEP INTO YOUR WORLD?]

THE HURDLE
I want to move into my teammate’s lives but it seems our worlds are so different since I committed my life to Christ.
I’m not sure how to stay connected without compromising my own faith. When we’re together and issues come up,
I’m afraid I’ll come across too harsh and judgmental or that I won’t know what to say at all. How can I stand up
for Christ and Christian values without being a jerk? How do I appropriately get around to talking about spiritual
things with my teammates and others without being seen as weird? And if I don’t say what I really think, am I just
endorsing what they’re doing? What if I get pulled into my old lifestyle? I know I’m on God’s team now, but I’m not
always sure how to relate to my “old” team…
Do you find yourself being one who is too pushy (aggressive, debating, judging) with what you
believe about Christ and Christian values or rarely sharing what you believe at all (avoiding,
paralyzed, stuck)? Why do you lean in this direction? Would your friends or family agree with
your answer?
What challenges do you experience trying to relate as a Christian when interacting with
someone who:
qq Parties?
qq Has a terminal disease?
qq Is a family member? People don’t care how much
qq Is living a sexually immoral life?
qq Is a Hindu or Muslim?
you know until they know how
qq Is an injured teammate out for the season? much you care.
Howard Hendricks
How comfortable or uncomfortable are you initiating Professor/Author
these types of conversations? Why?

The Bible shows us people struggling with their engagement of others who embrace
I HEAR YA different views and values…

James/John’s Judgment: When his disciples James and John saw this (the Samaritan’s rejection of Jesus),
they said, “Lord, do you want us to command fire to come down from heaven and consume them?” But
Jesus turned and rebuked them. (Luke 9:54,55)
Peter’s Passivity: Now Simon Peter was standing and warming himself. So they said to him, “You also are
not one of his disciples, are you?” He denied it and said, “I am not.” (John 18:25-27)
Paul’s Exhortation: “And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach,
patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness.” (II Timothy 2:24,25)
Peter’s Growth: “… but set apart Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to
everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and respect…”
(I Peter 3:15)
 LISTEN UP
Relating to others with love and respect without compromise happens as a work of
the Spirit in us. As we begin to see people as God does, we’ll grow in our ability to
meaningfully engage them. Paul describes building blocks that the Spirit uses in his letter
to the Colossians.
Read Colossians 4:2-6.

1. The apostle Paul encourages believers toward three foundational but ongoing actions
among others who have a different worldview: 1) devoted prayer v2, 2) wise conduct v5,
and 3) gracious speech v6. How would you define each of these phrases?

2. Consider: “We should always talk to God about men before talking to men about God.”
Why is prayer so critical before we hang out with others? What might we pray about?
What is Paul’s specific prayer request in v3,4?

3. What does Paul mean by wisdom in v5 and what role does it play in how we carry
ourselves with others? Explain this quote: “There is a difference between being right
and being righteous.” How might this idea flavor both our immediate interactions
with people but also the way we conduct our lives in general?

4. Paul exhorts us to season our communication with “saltiness.” Salt can create thirst,
add flavor, and slow down decay. Give an example of how “salty speech” does each of
these in real-life situations.

5. After considering each of the three, how are devoted prayer, wise conduct, and
gracious speech interrelated with one another?

FOR THE RECORD

God gives us opportunities everyday to be His happenings of life and being willing to speak
hands and feet in the world. Before others about it. Our job isn’t to condemn, nor is it to
will see Christ in us, we have to love people, passively participate. Rather, as we improve
and the best way to show our love for people our communication skills and make ourselves
is to take a genuine interest in them. By His available for the Spirit to engage through
Spirit, God puts a supernatural love for people us, God provides opportunities to move
inside us, one that manifests itself through meaningfully into uncomfortable situations
our curiosity about others, a willingness to with people, providing wisdom about when
listen before speaking, working to understand to inquire, when to proclaim, and when
how God’s truth intersects the everyday to be silent.
ENGAGING OTHERS [AM I WILLING TO STEP INTO YOUR WORLD?]
YOUR MOVE
As Christians, we need to love people enough to respect their current spiritual
status while being open to show them what God might have for them. Good
communication, comprised of both timely words and silences, forms the bridge
between these separate positions. Remember that people are not projects—they
are fellow travelers on a journey we all share in common! Becoming a Christian
should make us more human, not less!
1. How much you care for people is often reflected in how you work at
communication with others. Rate yourself on a scale of 1-5
(1 being “poor,” 5 being “excellent”) on these “good communicator” necessities:

a. Taking a genuine interest in others by asking good questions _____

b. Seeking to understand before being understood _____
c. Responding with clarity and confidence yet without judgment _____
d. Pointing out destructive habits with compassion and humility _____
e. Willingness to understand a different point of view _____
f. Listening more than talking _____
g. Celebrating and affirming other people as they are _____
What practical steps can you take to improve in your weakest areas?

2. Communication expert Tim Muehlhoff

suggests using these four questions as a mental
“understanding” grid whenever we interact Good question asking is a skill
with someone: everyone can acquire. Listening
to people’s answers with a
• What does this person believe?
• Why do these beliefs seem right to this person? genuine interest and a curiosity
• Where do we agree? to ask secondary questions
• Based on this knowledge how should I almost naturally opens doors
proceed? to explain the “mystery of
Christ,” even when that’s not
your primary objective.
Tim Muehlhoff
Communication Expert/Author

3. When you interact with non-Christ followers, are you more afraid of what
others might think if you take a stand for Christ or of falling back into your old
lifestyle because of negative influences? Pray for courage in either case.

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room for exercises
in Godly communication.
AS YOU ENTER
“LET EVERYONE BE QUICK TO HEAR, SLOW TO SPEAK AND SLOW TO ANGER…”
(JAMES 1:19)

Tips on the Tongue

Reflect on each verse in Proverbs and record what
God says to you.
10:17
10:19
11:13
12:15
12:18
13:18
15:1
16:24
17:27
27:2
27:6 Wisdom for the Wise
Read James 3:1-18 and contrast the two types of people.
Natural Tendency Wisdom from Above

Prayer for Protection

“Keep yourself in the love of God,
waiting anxiously for the mercy
of our Lord Jesus Christ to eternal
life. And have mercy on some,
who are doubting; save others,
snatching them out of the fire;
and on some have mercy with fear,
hating even the garment polluted
by the flesh. Now to Him who is
able to keep you from stumbling, and to
make you stand in the presence of His
glory blameless with great joy…”
(Jude 21-24)

AS YOU LEAVE
»»PRAY WITH A BELIEVING HEART THAT GOD WILL GIVE WISDOM FOR THE MOMENT.
»»SEE OTHERS AS GOD DOES—LOVED AND IN NEED OF HIS GRACE AND MERCY.
»»USE YOUR TONGUE AS AN INSTRUMENT TO BLESS OTHERS.

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 IN-SEASON AND OUT
EVANGELISM [WHY SHOULD I TELL OTHERS ABOUT GOD?]

THE HURDLE
My teammates are talking about God now and right here in the locker room! I never knew they even thought about
spiritual things and now they seem to be seeking out spiritual truth. Do I say something? Who am I to tell them
about God? They know my junk, and honestly, I’ve been struggling with some doubts about my own faith lately.
How do I know for sure that Christianity is the right path among so
many other faiths? And all subjects are open for discussion except for
religion and politics, right? If I did talk about my faith, I wouldn’t know
Security is mostly superstition.
what to say. I’ve only just started to read my Bible. But they keep talking
about spiritual things and they really seem interested…
Avoiding danger is no safer
in the long run than outright
Can you relate to any of the above thoughts? If so, how? exposure. Life is either a daring
Do you ever wonder if God may want to use you to help adventure or nothing.
others to come to know Him? Why or why not? Helen Keller

What barriers keep you from sharing God’s love

with others?
qq The culture’s view that faith is a private and personal matter
qq You’re not sure you really believe “this whole Jesus thing” anyway
qq Your lack of knowledge about what to tell people
qq Fear that talking about God may get you labeled as a Jesus freak and
rejected by your teammates or friends
qq Lack of love and concern for those around you
What would make you feel more qualified or ready to talk about Jesus with someone else?

Even people in the Bible had to trust God, not sure if they were competent to tell
I HEAR YA others about Him …

Jonah runs from God’s calling: “Go to the great city of Ninevah and preach.” … But Jonah ran away from
the Lord and headed to Tarshish … to flee the Lord. (Jonah1:2-3)
Moses’ insecurity: Moses said to the LORD, “O Lord, I have never been eloquent, neither in the past nor
since you have spoken to your servant. I am slow of speech and tongue … Please send someone else
to do it.” (Exodus 4:1,13)
Peter denies his association with Jesus: “This fellow was with Jesus of Nazareth.” (Peter) denied it again
with an oath: “I don’t know the man!” (Matthew 26:71-72)
Paul encourages Timothy: “Command and teach these things. Don’t let anyone look down on you because
you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.”
(I Timothy 4:11-12)
 LISTEN UP
Read II Corinthians 5:16-21.

1. In v16, the apostle Paul says that we don’t view people from a “worldly point of view” or
“according to the flesh”? What might he mean? How would one’s view of someone else
affect relaying the gospel to them?

2. Identify 3 things you see in these verses that God has done for those who know Him?
•
•
•

3. According to v18, God gives believers “the ministry of reconciliation”. After reading
the following definition of reconciliation, describe in your own words what our role in
this “ministry” between God and others might look like.

Reconciliation: To cause to be friendly or harmonious again; to settle differences; to

bring to submission or acceptance.

4. In Ephesians 2:12, Paul uses word pictures to describe why everyone needs
reconciliation with God, even if they don’t look like it. How might these phrases
demonstrate themselves in a person’s life: “separated from Christ, excluded from
citizenship among God’s people, strangers to God’s promises, no hope and without
God in the world”?

5. What does an ambassador do in the political world? What does it mean for Christ-
followers to be His ambassadors today?

FOR THE RECORD

People need God, but it doesn’t always look you as His ambassador! He’s designed the
like it. They may appear strong, confident, world in such that when we embrace this scary
full of direction, but their primary need is privilege by faith, we will grow closer to Him
spiritual, and until they address this part at the same time. The risks are real (rejection,
of life, everything else is an illusion. So God being marginalized, emotional and physical
invites ALL people on the planet to hear and persecution, sometimes even death), but the
understand His invitation for relationship rewards include fulfilling your purpose for
with Him. But instead of writing His living on earth while participating in the
message in the clouds, he chooses to use His greatest mission in the universe. So step out
broken, inconsistent, straying followers to in faith and see what God will do!
communicate His message to others—he sends
EVANGELISM [WHY SHOULD I TELL OTHERS ABOUT GOD?]
YOUR MOVE
1. Think of someone who has influenced your journey with God. Describe their
personal qualities and why their approach concerning the gospel is
attractive to you.

2. In II Corinthians 5:14, Paul tells us that the “love of Christ” motivates or compels
him to share his faith with others. If you are completely honest, what is your
level of motivation for sharing the gospel with others right now and why?
qq Very low
qq Moderate
qq Very High

3. Consider two or three people in your world who don’t know Jesus. Write their
names here and pray for them.

God, please open the hearts of and

and so that they would come to know You. Please prepare
me to be your ambassador by sharing with them something about You.

4. Get a good gospel tract. Memorize its contents

so you have a template in your mind containing Definition of successful
the basics of the gospel message. While each witnessing: taking the initiative
conversation is unique, the elements of the
gospel remain the same. Ask God for wisdom in
to share Christ in the power of
applying His truth in your conversations. the Holy Spirit and leaving the
results to God.
Bill Bright
Founder, Campus Crusade for Christ

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page to
gain more insight about becoming a minister of reconciliation.
AS YOU ENTER
“FOR I DID NOT SHRINK FROM DECLARING TO YOU THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF GOD”
(ACTS 20:27)
God’s Part
While God invites us to join Him in communicating His love to a lost
world, He certainly is not dependent upon us. If we won’t speak up,
He’ll find someone else to experience the thrill of this faith ride. Record
your role and God’s role in bringing people to Himself from:
Luke 19:39,40

II Corinthians 4:6

Acts 16:14

I Thessalonians 2:13

Isaiah 55:10-11

Evangelism Perspective from the Word

What is God telling you personally as you read these verses?
1. Colossians 4:2-6 – praying for open doors and making the most
of opportunities
Story Time
Stories are the way into people’s 2. I Peter 3:15 – being prepared to give a reason for your hope
hearts … consider these.
• Paul’s story upon being asked
by a middle-eastern King
3. Romans 10:9-15 – how one is saved and how God uses people to
(Acts 26:4-23)
get the word out
• A woman of a lowly race with
an even lower reputation who
runs into Jesus (John 4:5-26) 4. Luke 5:1-11 – Jesus’ call to his friends to become ‘fishers of men’
• Your story … check out this
resource ([Link].
com/testimony) to help you 5. Mark 16:15 – Jesus’ charge to his followers to tell the world about Him
formulate your story of
coming to know God
6. Revelation 20:15-20 – the eternal consequences of the world’s response
to the gospel

AS YOU LEAVE
»»ALWAYS BE READY TO CARE FOR OTHERS IN THEIR MOMENT OF NEED.
»»ALWAYS BE READY TO GIVE A RESPONSE FOR THE HOPE WITHIN YOU.
»»BE PRAYING FOR OPPORTUNITIES TO SHARE CHRIST.

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 ALL HANDS IN
FELLOWSHIP [DO WE REALLY NEED EACH OTHER?]

THE HURDLE
After trusting Christ, Mo felt the peace he hoped he’d feel. That’s why he was confused when his teammate
immediately suggested he get involved in a small group fellowship or start going to church. I’m not sure about that,
Mo thought to himself. I might like to go, but I don’t have time with everything going on, and it doesn’t seem all that
relevant. Honestly, I’ve always thought church a bit boring. Besides, I can grow just as well and probably better by
reading my Bible and doing what God wants me to do. All the church people I know have just as many problems as
me—some have more! And I’m not sure I’d fit in very well with the people who do small groups. I’ll think about it…
What was your experience with the local church while
growing up?
A well-known comedian once joked that “every day The Bible tells us to love our
people are straying away from the church and going neighbors, and also to love our
back to God.” What do you think he’s trying to suggest? enemies—probably because
What value might there be in spending time with they are generally the
other Christians? same people.
The mindset of our time: Attending church is irrelevant and unnecessary G.K. Chesterton
Journalist/Author
at best, harmful and stifling to spiritual growth at worst. But the
idea of “church” isn’t a human invention; rather, God Himself ties our
personal growth and our purpose on earth to a regular, committed
fellowship with other believers.

I HEAR YA The Bible endorses characters that “lock arms” in the journey of life …

Writer of Ecclesiastes: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. If they
fall, the one will lift up his friend. But woe to him that is alone when he falls, for he doesn’t have anyone to
pick him up.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9,10)
New Testament Christians: And all those who had believed (in Jesus) were together, and had all things
in common … and day by day continuing with one mind in the temple, and breaking bread from house to
house, they were taking their meals together with gladness and sincerity of heart. (Acts 2:44,46)
Jesus’ First Followers: Now after this the Lord appointed seventy others and sent them two by two ahead
of Him to every city and place where He himself was going to come. (Luke 10:1)
James: “Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” (James 5:16)
Solomon: “Iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” (Proverbs 27:17)
 LISTEN UP
Our new allegiance to Christ and His purposes also introduces new challenges to our
faith. How do you continue believing when others are faithless? How do you persevere in
the midst of trials with little or no encouragement? How do you love and serve when it is
not reciprocated? We need each other to keep going!
Read Hebrews 10:23-25.

1. In each verse, identify the positive actions believers are to do.

v23

v24

v25

2. Christian hope believes that God is faithful and will provide what He promises. How
might hope encourage perseverance in your present circumstances?

3. Verse 24 says that we live out our confession by “spurring one another on to love
others and do good works.” Who has “spurred” you on in your faith and how
did they do it?

4. While the text doesn’t give us specifics, what consequences might first century
believers experience for not staying in regular fellowship (v25)? In what ways might
these be the same for you?

5. In Philippians 2:2-3, the apostle Paul says to be “united in spirit, intent on one
purpose … regarding one another as more important than yourself”. Why is it easier
to pursue a great cause locking arms with others rather than going it alone? How
have you experienced this?

FOR THE RECORD

God values relationships! We share this supply encouragement and accountability
likeness with God, and our relationship to “do the right thing”; they help us see our
with Him can only truly be developed in areas for growth; they refresh us through
relationship with others—that’s the way He’s genuine fellowship; they add depth to our
wired the human experience! Even though vision of this life and the after-life. We don’t
relationships are challenging and messy, we grow in isolation—we grow while connecting
need each other to become what we otherwise in community, in the crucible of authentic
would not. People provide opportunities to fellowship, the sharpening of one life
practice giving and receiving forgiveness; they against another.
FELLOWSHIP [DO WE REALLY NEED EACH OTHER?]
YOUR MOVE
1. What prevents you from being in close relationship with other Christians?
qq My schedule is too demanding to make time for others.
qq We have games and travel on the weekend.
qq I can’t even keep up with good friends let alone the Christian community.
qq After practicing all week, I need a break on Sunday.
qq I don’t know anyone at church and frankly don’t want to meet anyone.
qq I feel uncomfortable letting others know the “real” me.
qq I’m not good at initiating with other people.

2. New Testament Christians were described as

“devoting themselves to fellowship.” (Acts 2:42)
What adjustments would you need to make You can impress people at
in your attitude or actions to be described a distance, but you can only
as devoted to fellowship (authentic, sincere,
vulnerable, accountable Christian connections)?
impact them up close.
Dr. Howard Hendricks
Seminary Professor/Author

3. Based on the ways people have encouraged you, what could you do for others to
encourage them in their faith? Write down their names and what you could do
to strengthen their faith.

People Who Need Encouragement What Can I Do for Them?

4. What practical ways could you get involved with Christian community now
instead of waiting for an off-season that never comes? A Bible study? Prayer
group? Church?

The solo mountain climber who reaches the summit has but himself to pat on the
back. The fighter pilot who engages the enemy without his wingman is asking for
trouble. A soprano can carefully hit every note of her song, but the richness and
beauty of harmony is unsurpassed. Progress in any field is most often the result of
incremental contributions from numerous individuals. (George McGovern, New
York NFL/MLB chaplain)

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page for
more ideas on pursuing authentic Christian community!
AS YOU ENTER
“DO NOT MERELY LOOK OUT FOR YOUR OWN INTERESTS BUT ALSO FOR THE INTERESTS
OF OTHERS.” (PHILIPPIANS 2:4)
Living in Christian Community:
Finding a Christian
The “One Another” Passages
Community: Your Local Church
Read these passages and consider what God may be saying to you.
While no official Biblical “list” exists to
determine a good church, there are several Galatians 6:2
categories to consider:
I Peter 4:8
• Belief in Jesus’ divinity and His
exclusivity for salvation I Peter 4:9
• Preach the Bible and take authority of the
Bible seriously I Peter 4:10
• Leadership accountable to board or
John 13:14
someone else
• Active prayer ministry John 13:34
• Expectation that you’ll use your spiritual
gifts to serve others Romans 12:16
• Character of people loving and forgiving
• Outreach oriented and committed to I Corinthians 1:10
discipleship
• Pursue praise and worship of God Ephesians 4:32
• Accept sinners/pursue spiritual growth
• Ideally multi-racial, multi-generational,
multi-socioeconomic

Beware of the following characteristics of unhealthy churches:

• Salvation requires baptism or membership in the church/particular denomination
• Salvation is an effect of “Jesus plus” something else
• Legalistic restrictions: what food you can eat, music you can listen to, how you dress, etc.
• Bible isn’t taken seriously; messages filled with interesting topics but no Bible explanation
• Worship or “excessive” praise of historical figures or current church leaders
• Congregation unconcerned about unity with other local
churches or reaching out to serve local community Serving in Christian Community:
Discovering Your SHAPE
While no official Biblical “list” exists to determine a good church, there are several categories to consider:
Read I Corinthians 12:12-27. Paul uses the metaphor of a “body” to describe the interdependence of each
individual Christian with all other Christians. Part of growing is learning to function well with all parts
of the body. Considering your SHAPE will help you understand how you can best serve the Christian
community. After each category, write a few words to describe how God wired you for service. Remember:
Others need your gifts as much as you need theirs!
Spiritual gifts - Gifting God gives you for specific acts of service
Heart - Your particular passions and burdens for people and causes
Abilities - Your natural born strengths
Personality - Your temperament and demeanor, how you interact with the world
Experiences - All the events of your life, both positive and negative
For more help thinking about your SHAPE, go to
[Link]

AS YOU LEAVE
»»REMEMBER: INTERDEPENDENCE IS A MUST FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO GROW SPIRITUALLY AND
KNOW THEIR GOD-GIVEN PURPOSE IN THIS LIFE!

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 POWER PLAY
HOLY SPIRIT [HOW DO I LIVE DIFFERENTLY?]

THE HURDLE
I was so excited the day I asked Christ into my life, but now I’d say it’s harder to live for God than I imagined.
Sometimes my teammates have more influence on how I act than God does. I still find myself getting angry or
worrying more about what others think than God. I read my Bible but I don’t always do what it says.
My Christian friends remind me that “I can do all things through
Christ who strengthens me,” but frankly, I don’t always feel like it. I
don’t seem to feel the same passion for Jesus that they do and sometimes
I wonder if I didn’t get the whole package when I trusted Christ. Some To deny we need and want
people get emotional when they talk about the Holy Spirit, but that’s power is to deny that we hope
not my personality. I want to learn but I just don’t know how to put the to be effective.
pieces together.
Liz Smith
In what ways can you relate? Columnist

Have you ever felt:

• Apathy about the things of God?
• Powerless to do the right thing?
• Confused about why many Christians live like non-Christians?
• Your ‘lived’ behavior doesn’t match your verbal commitment?
It’s been said that “The Christian life isn’t difficult to live—it’s impossible to live.” What do you
think about this statement?

I HEAR YA The Bible is full of people who were trying to figure out how to live in the Spirit’s power…

Paul speaking about himself: “I am not practicing what I would like to do, but I am doing the very thing I
hate … for the good that I wish, I do not do; but I practice the very evil that I do not wish.” (Romans 7:15-19
NASB)

Jesus speaking to Nicodemus: “…unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God … unless one
is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.” (John 3:3,5)

King David after sinning: “… do not take the Holy Spirit from me.” (Psalm 51:126)

Paul speaking to the believers in Corinth: “I had to talk as though you belonged to this world… for you
are still controlled by your own sinful desires… You are acting like people who don’t belong to the Lord.” (1
Corinthians 3:1-3 NLT)
 LISTEN UP
Like an encouraging teammate or coach who helps us do more than we could on our own,
the Holy Spirit enables us to live a life impossible to live on our own. The gospel according
to John has much to say about the Holy Spirit. As Jesus was preparing His disciples to live
and love in a totally different way, He knew they would need the person and power of the
Spirit to do it.
Read John 14:16,17, 26.

1. Identify the words and phrases that describe the role and relationship that the Holy
Spirit would have in our lives.

2. In some Bibles, translators use the word comforter or advocate instead of helper. The
word is taken from a Greek word meaning “to come alongside to give courage.”
What does this say about God and His commitment to you?

3. List some characteristics of an influential teacher or coach in your life.

Why would it be important to have a constant teacher and guide within you for your
new life in Christ?

4. What aspects of the Holy Spirit’s work in your life are described here? We not only
need guidance to the truth but also correction when we’re heading in the wrong
direction. How might the Holy Spirit communicate these to you?

5. Romans 8:11 tell us that the Spirit lives in all true believers. If this is so, why do you
think most believers don’t experience the life that God offers?

FOR THE RECORD

Christ forgave us, made us spiritually alive, and decision. When we ask the Spirit to control
wants to empower our lives—but we still have us, the same power that raised Jesus from the
the capacity to sin. We naturally want to do dead gives us new affections and strength to
things our way, in our time, under our control, follow through on them. Jesus wants to live in
and for our gain. If we want to experience the the world through us, but we must purposely
Spirit’s power in our lives, we must willingly allow him constant access to our lives
submit ourselves moment by moment to so He can!
God, yielding ourselves to Him as a conscious
HOLY SPIRIT [HOW DO I LIVE DIFFERENTLY?]
YOUR MOVE
The word filled in the Bible means controlled and empowered: filled with fear, filled
with rage, filled with joy. Being filled describes what takes control or dominates your
life. Ephesians 5:17,18 talks about not being drunk with wine, but instead being filled
with the Spirit. The writer is not using this occasion to speak against drunkenness;
he is using drunkenness as an illustration to help us understand the influence of the
Holy Spirit.
1. How do you describe a person under the influence of alcohol? How might being
under the influence of the Spirit be similar? Different?

2. You can know the Holy Spirit is in control of your life when you meet
3 conditions:

a. Yield to God. Relinquish control of your life­

­—step back and allow the Holy Spirit to run
the show! Are there any areas of your life you are
unwilling to yield to God? What? Why? I believe firmly that the
moment our hearts are emptied
b. Confess Sin He Reveals. Confess means to
agree with the Holy Spirit that the sin He
of pride and selfishness and
shows us is wrong (1 John 1:9). When we ambition and everything that is
ignore sin brought to our mind, we short- contrary to God’s law the Holy
circuit His power and grieve the Holy Spirit Spirit will fill every corner of
(Ephesians 4:30). Are there sins He is bringing to
your attention that you are trying to hide?
our hearts. But if we are full
of (them), there is no room for
c. Depend on God. Galatians 5:16 encourages us the Spirit of God. We must be
to walk by the Spirit, turning our attention emptied before we can
to Him with moment by moment trust. What be filled.
are you afraid God will do if you surrender these
areas to him? D. L. Moodyz
Evangelist

3. Memorize I John. 1:9. Allow the truth of His grace

to wash you of guilt and discouragement, and
ask Him to give you courage and strength to live
in the freedom His Spirit promises.

4. Spiritual breathing is an exercise you can do every moment

the Spirit prompts you.
Exhale the impurities (sin) that poison you and others through
confession. Identify the specific attitude or action that is impure,
destructive, or selfish and agree with God that it’s wrong.

Inhale the fresh air of His forgiveness by depending on the Word and
Spirit of God to give you truth and power to live as He intends.

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page for
extra exercises on living in the Spirit’s power.
AS YOU ENTER
“YOU SHALL RECEIVE POWER WHEN THE HOLY SPIRIT HAS COME UPON YOU AND YOU
SHALL BE MY WITNESSES.” (ACTS 1:8)

Compare the different aspects the purpose of the Holy Spirit.

Aspect of Work Primary Passages Purpose Explanation

Empowerment to live for We are filled when we meet His conditions; a

Filling of the Spirit Ephesians 5:18
Christ repeated experience.

Identifies us with the Body True of all believers; a one-time event at salvation;
Baptism of the Spirit 1 Corinthians 12:13
of Christ a non-experiential truth; greatly misused term today.

Character building; the production of godly

Galatians 5:22-23
Fruit of the Spirit Makes us more Christ-like qualities into our everyday life; grows over time and
John 15
dependence.

Every believer is given one or more (never all)

1 Corinthians 12-14
Gifts of the Spirit Equips us for ministry spiritual gifts to serve. None are more spiritual
Ephesians 4:7-16
than others.

Ministries of the
John 16:7-15 Convict, lead, teach, assure, Everyday involvement in our lives to help us know
Spirit
Romans 8:14-16, 26-27 pray for us and follow Christ.

Abiding in Christ Produces Fruit

Read John 15:1-11 and answer the following questions:

1. What is necessary in order for the branch to bear fruit?

2. Look up the word “abide” or “remain”. How is this related to
your spiritual life?
3. What happens to the branches that FYI about “Being Filled with the Spirit”
are not connected to the vine?
4. Ways to stay connected to the • Though all Christians are indwelt by the Spirit, not all
vine: Study God’s Word, Pray, and Christians are filled with the Spirit.
Fellowship with other Christians. • This is a command, meaning we have to act on it. God put the
Which ones do you need to spend Holy Spirit in us, but we have to allow Him to work.
more time doing? • The Holy Spirit came in once to stay. Being filled is a repeated
action. When we take charge of our lives and walk under our
own power, we are not filled with the Spirit.
• Filled does not mean we get more of the Spirit, it means He gets
more of us.

AS YOU LEAVE
»»TELL GOD EACH MORNING THAT YOU WANT TO LIVE FOR HIM.
»»PRACTICE YOUR SPIRITUAL BREATHING EXERCISES EVERY DAY.
»»BE THANKFUL FOR THE FRUIT HE IS PRODUCING IN YOUR LIFE.

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 TROPHY OF GRACE
IDENTITY [AM I GOOD ENOUGH?]

THE HURDLE
Why does this happen to me? Two nights ago after our semifinal win I felt great, helping lead our team to the
championship­—I was on top of the world! Tonight I feel worthless. I had to watch the last two minutes of my senior
year from the sideline because I fouled out on a stupid play committed out of frustration. Everyone was sure we’d
win this year—I feel like I let my team, community, and self down. I hate that my self-image swings on how I play
the game.
In what ways does your attitude toward yourself
change based on your performance as an athlete?
Student? In relationships? I am nothing but a sports slave.
Dennis Rodman
What kinds of personal goals have you set? How will
accomplishing those goals cause you to feel different
about yourself?
How does the stress of trying to measure up to others’ (coaches/peers/parents/media)
expectations affect you?
Our culture tells us we have to DO something to be important, to be valuable and wanted by others. But
the relentless pursuit of performance to measure our worth is a deceitful trap: we’re always just one
mistake away (one bad game, one slump, one bad season) from falling short of our ideal. At some level,
everyone strives for a secure identity that lasts beyond each performance.

I HEAR YA Here are a few people from the Bible who also wrestled with the issue of identity…
The Rich Young Ruler – his identity was built around his good works and his wealth and he
couldn’t give it up to follow Jesus (Matthew19:16-26).
The Rich Fool – his identity was built around his material possessions (Luke 12:13-21).
The Woman at the Well – her identity was built around her current lover (John 4:7-26).
Zacchaeus – his identity was built around being a wealthy tax collector (Luke 19: 1-10).
Paul – his identity was built around being a religious zealot (Philippians 3:4-10).

As athletes we must understand the importance of finding our identity in Christ alone and not in our
athletic performance.
 LISTEN UP
While there’s certainly nothing wrong with wanting respect from others, seeking
human approval becomes a roller-coaster ride that never ultimately satisfies. On
the other hand, understanding God’s constant acceptance of us offers a security
that can set us free. When God becomes our chief audience, we find ourselves less
concerned about others’ opinions and judgments.

Read Ephesians 2:8-10.

1. What do these verses say about how you are saved from your sins?

You are saved by through NOT .

Grace: unmerited favor toward us
Faith: what you trust in
Works: efforts to gain approval

2. Verse 2:8 says that your salvation by grace through faith is a gift of God. What does
the word gift imply? How might the giver of the gift feel if you tried to pay him back
for the gift?

3. Ephesians 1 describes “gifts” you are freely given based on God’s unconditional love
for you. Look at the list below and identify what “gift” you most appreciate. Why?

God chose you (1:4)

God adopted you (1:5)
God calls you Beloved (1:6)
God totally forgives you (1:7)
God lavished grace on you (1:8)
God gives you an inheritance (1:11)
God sealed His promise forever (1:14)

4. What does 2:10 tell us should be a result of God’s grace toward us? What is the
difference between working for acceptance versus working from acceptance?

FOR THE RECORD

God accepts us because we are His beloved with others without chasing their approval
children through Jesus’ work on the cross not or considering ourselves a failure when our
our talent level or game performance. God’s performance or circumstances take a turn
grace gives us a new life in Christ, a whole for the worst. When we see ourselves through
new way of thinking, freeing us from the Jesus’ eyes, we develop the foundation for a
addictive, dead end pursuit of worldly success. secure identity. Over time, being truly loved,
If God accepts us just as we are and He is our accepted, and forgiven by God supplies
primary audience, we are free to be ourselves confidence to play and live in freedom.
IDENTITY [AM I GOOD ENOUGH?]
YOUR MOVE
Competitive sports make intense performance demands on us. “Love”
and “grace” aren’t usually words associated with sports, so as athletes
we shouldn’t be surprised at struggling with the practical implications
of God’s love for us. But Christ’s forgiveness sets us free from both His
condemnation (spiritual) and the slavery produced by other’s opinions
(performance). When God accepts you, all other opinions about you
become secondary.
1. Which is true about you and why?
I love sports (I am free to give and express
myself) and experience the joy it brings.
I need sports (I am dependent upon sports) The trophy that matters is not
because of what sports can give me. on our shelves or resumes. It is
What is the difference between loving sports the soul that we become. That
and needing sports? is the crown that we will one
2. What role does approval from others play in how day cast before God.
you feel about yourself when you win? Lose? When John Ortberg
you play all the time? When you don’t play at all? Pastor/Author

3. In religious circles, what are “works” people do to pursue God’s love and
approval? What kinds of “works” do you do as an athlete or coach in hopes of
gaining approval?

4. Which of the truths listed in Ephesians 1:4-14 is most meaningful to you? Why?
Claim that truth for yourself and use it against the temptation to ride the
“performance rollercoaster.” For example, after a poor performance you can
choose to deny inner condemnation and replace it with faith that God’s love is
sufficient even when you feel rejected by others.

5. Sports can feed your need for approval without you ever realizing it, and
before your acceptance from God will have practical benefit in your life you
have to acknowledge your desire to get your approval from your performance.
Understanding your identity in Christ is a process of renewing your mind and
learning to think differently from the way the world tells you to think. Ask God
to help you build your identity in Him and not your performance.

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page for
more exercises in discovering what God says is really true about you.
AS YOU ENTER
“THERE IS THEREFORE NOW NO CONDEMNATION TO THOSE WHO ARE IN CHRIST JESUS.”
(ROMANS 8:1)
Who are You in Christ?
Meditate on one passage each day and thank God
for how He has made you special!
New creation: II Corinthians 5:17; Galatians 2:20
Child of God: John 1:12; Ephesians 1:4-6
Friend of Jesus: John 15:15 Slave or Free?
Justified through faith: Romans 5:1-2
Read Romans 6.
Complete in Christ: Colossians 2:9-10
1. What does it mean to be a slave?
Able to honor God with your body: I
Corinthians 6:19-20, 9:24-27
2. What does it mean to be free?

3. What did Jesus do to free us from our sins? ( vs. 6-7)

When You Know Christ… 4. Wages are something that you earn, gifts are something that
you receive. What does verse 23 say we’ve earned?
Your sins are forgiven by God’s grace.
(Colossians 1:13-14)
What gift have we been given?
You are to continue to grow in your
faith. (Colossians 2:6)

You have great worth because Jesus paid a great price to redeem you. (I Corinthians 6:20)

You can overcome bad habits and develop new ones. (Matthew 19:26)

You can use your talents to bring glory to God. (Colossians 3:17,23)

You have great power available to you through the Holy Spirit. (II Timothy 1:7)

God will finish the good work that He started in you. (Philippians 1:6)

AS YOU LEAVE
»»ASK GOD TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR WORTH COMES FROM YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH JESUS CHRIST.
»»REMIND YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN WHO HAPPENS TO BE AN ATHLETE, NOT AN ATH-
LETE WHO HAPPENS TO BE A CHRISTIAN.

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 BIG-TIME SPORTS
IDOLATRY [WHAT IS PLACE OF SPORT IN MY LIFE?]

THE HURDLE
I don’t suppose there’s hardly anything in my life that gets more of my time and attention than sports. It’s been
that way as long as I can remember and I don’t apologize for it. I love to compete, to challenge myself against the
best, and if I’m honest, I think I even love the practice it takes to get there! I’ve heard athletes say after winning
championships that they wonder if there’s more to life, but I’m pretty convinced if I won the ultimate prize in my
sport, that would be enough for me.

Do you ever wonder if sport is worth the time and attention you
give it? Why or why not? The gods we worship write
their names on our faces… a
man will worship something…
Do you think it is possible to be fully committed to God and fully (so we should) be careful what
committed to your sport at the same time? Explain. we worship.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
American Poet/Essayest, 1803-1882

Would a championship be your ultimate satisfaction? Explain.

Put the Emerson quote in your own words. What do you think about his idea?

There are people in the Bible who struggled between worshipping God or something
I HEAR YA made from man.

God requires exclusive allegiance: “I am the Lord your God…you shall have no other gods before me.”
(Exodus 20:1)

Elijah draws a line: “How long will you hesitate between two opinions? If the Lord is God, follow Him; but
if Baal, follow him.” (1Kings 18:21)

The people of Israel served self-made images: “They served idols…they did not listen but stiffened their
neck like their fathers, who did not believe in the Lord their God.” (2 Kings 17:12, 14)

Disciples are called to seek God first: “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness; and all these things
will be added to you … ” (Matthew 6:33)
 LISTEN UP
Idolatry is an excessive or blind adoration, reverence, or devotion to people, things, or ideas. While
it may seem harmless to offer complete devotion to people or things alongside God, doing
so will eventually catch up with you. In Romans 1:18-20, Paul argues that all humans are
born with an intuitive sense that God exists, but instead of worshipping Him, they bow
down to created “things,” devoting themselves to systems of their own making. In the
rest of the passage He explains the unavoidable consequences when we make this “divine
exchange.”
Read Romans 1:18-25

1. Verses 23 and 25 show us this “divine exchange” which amounts to idolatry. How do the
people in these verses demonstrate idolatry?

2. Idolatry involves exchanging the truth for a lie: worshipping a “false idol” that
promises to give you something if you serve it. What does sport as an idol promise to
give you in return for your devotion/allegiance (worship)?

How does this differ from what God promises through the “good news” of Jesus?

3. Verses 21 and 22 reveal that when the created order gets reversed (serving sport
instead of serving God), the consequences lead to dishonoring God, ingratitude,
futile thinking, a darkened heart, and foolishness. Even though we see the negative
results and the reality of what any idol delivers, why is sport still such a seductive
idol?

4. If God promises to deliver what the idol won’t or can’t, what might keep you from
trusting and serving Him above all else?

FOR THE RECORD

God makes it clear that He is jealous for His benefits other gods promise but only One can
own place in our lives. He won’t share the provide: inner peace, personal security, real
podium with anyone or anything else. All love, lasting purpose, future hope, forgiveness,
other idols are imposters; they promise glory and more. God deserves our worship whether
for us but deliver death in the end. God we benefit or not, but in His love for us, giving
promises Life in exchange for our devotion and Him the glory due His name gives us access to
allegiance. The irony: when we surrender our life as it is meant to be lived on earth as it is
man-made gods and allow Him to have first in heaven.
place in our hearts and minds, we receive the
IDOLATRY [WHAT IS PLACE OF SPORT IN MY LIFE?]
YOUR MOVE
1. C.S. Lewis says, “Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth
and you get neither.” Sport takes the place of an idol in our lives when the
natural desires of satisfaction, accomplishment and glory turn into self-serving
pursuits. If you are honest, what do you sometimes want more than God? After
this study, in what ways might this pursuit have become idolatrous in your life?

2. Read 1 Thessalonians 1:8,9. Faith becomes evident

in your life when you repent or turn away from
idols and replace them with the person of Christ. Our Lord finds our desires not
What do you need to repent of now? What do you too strong, but too weak. We
need specifically from Jesus to fill the void? are half-hearted creatures,
fooling about with drink
and sex and ambition when
infinite joy is offered us, like an
ignorant child who wants to go
on making mud pies in a slum
because he cannot imagine
what is meant by the offer of a
holiday at the sea. We are far
too easily pleased.
3. What is Lewis trying to communicate in the
quote to the right? If what he suggests is true, CS Lewis
Author / Professor
then how might it change the way you approach
personal idols in the future?

“God, I give You in my life. I confess that I trust in this

more than You sometimes. I believe by faith that You will give me exactly what I need
and I will seek to honor You above all else. Thank You for being a God who is worthy of
my trust. “

Visit The Training Room to continue to learn how to worship and serve God
above all else.
AS YOU ENTER
“YOU TURNED TO GOD FROM IDOLS TO SERVE A LIVING AND TRUE GOD.”
(I THESSALONIANS 1:9B)
Idolatry Examined
Read the following verses below and begin to reflect on what God
might be teaching you. Record your thoughts following each verse.
Acts 3:19 Who Gets the Glory?
Many Christian athletes say that they want to
Acts 14:11-18 bring glory to God but instead primarily serve
their own egos, reputations, and thirst for
affirmation. God wants first place in your life!
Romans 12:1-2 That means all desires, pursuits and choices are
submissive to His leadership in your life. Identify
a few areas that you are seeking your will and
2 Corinthians 10:3-5
desires above God’s will, confess it as idolatrous,
and then offer yourself again as a “living and holy
Ephesians 5:6-11 sacrifice to God.” (Romans 12:1,2)
1)

2)

Idolatry in Sport
Using the chart below, identify what it might look like 3)
when a positive, natural desire gets misdirected away
from God. Recognize and repent of your participation
in idolatry and replace it with Jesus Christ.

Statement Positive Natural Desires Misdirected

Only winning can make me feel important and worth something.

Brings value, accomplishment I will win … I have to!

I am regularly jealous of other’s successes. High standards are good Beating others is better than improving

Sport rescues me from my life’s circumstances. Hope for the future Success covers my personal pain

I do whatever it takes to win, even if I compromise my character. Determination and drive Scoreboard or honor?

I experience tremendous frustration when my goals are blocked. Goals are motivating Anger helps me compete better

I desperately want to please my coach and/or parents. Love for others I am happy when they are happy

AS YOU LEAVE
»»MEMORIZE ROMANS 12:1-2 AND COMMIT YOURSELF TO GOD DAILY.
»»ENJOY SPORT INSTEAD OF NEED IT FOR YOUR OWN SIGNIFICANCE.
»»RECOGNIZE WHEN THE “DIVINE ORDER” IS UPSIDE DOWN AND KEEP GOD FIRST IN EVERYTHING.

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 LEADING BY EXAMPLE
LEADERSHIP [WHAT CHARACTERIZES A GOOD LEADER?]

THE HURDLE
Being on the team gives me opportunity to influence people, but I wonder if I’m really making the kind of difference
I want to make. I guess I’m still not exactly sure what it means to be a leader. If I’m not a high scorer, the captain,
the most popular, the most vocal, or the one getting media attention, can I still be a leader on the team? In my years
on the team, I’ve seen some of my teammates play a ton and others not play at all, so playing time doesn’t seem like
it’s the key issue when it comes to impact. But even if I play all the time, I’m still not clear what it means to be an
effective leader.

If someone asked you, “What is leadership?”,

what would you say?
It’s easy to make a buck.
It’s a lot tougher to make a
difference.
Tom Brokaw,
Former news anchor
In what ways do you see yourself as a leader?

The Bible records an assortment of different leaders, some who were ultimately
I HEAR YA commended, others who were rebuked…

David: And David shepherded them (God’s people, Israel) with integrity of heart; with skillful hands he led
them. (Psalms 78:72)

Solomon: “I undertook great projects; I built houses for myself and planted vineyards. I made gardens
and parks and planted all kinds of fruit trees in them … I became great and surpassed all who were before
me in Jerusalem … and again, all was vanity and chasing after wind.” (Ecclesiastes 2:4-11)

Pharisees: (Jesus speaking) “Let them alone; they are blind guides. And if the blind lead the blind, both
will fall into a pit.” (Matthew 15:14)

Joshua: (Moses speaking) “Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the
land I swore to their forefathers to give them.” (Joshua 1:6)

King Baasha: (God speaking) “I lifted you up from the dust and made you a leader of my people Israel, but
you … caused my people Israel to sin and to provoke me to anger by their sins.” (I Kings 16:2)

Gideon: “Watch me. Follow my lead. When I get to the edge of camp, do exactly as I do.” (Judges 7:17)
 LISTEN UP
Jesus explains how His followers should lead in Mark 10:35-45. Note: The probable context
of this passage finds Jesus and the disciples heading toward Jerusalem in the final days of Jesus’
earthly life.
1. Thinking that Jesus might be ready to set up his earthly kingdom, James and John, two
of Jesus’ twelve disciples, ask Jesus to grant them positions of power, influence, and
prestige in his kingdom hierarchy. Do you think this is an appropriate request? Why or
why not?

2. How did Jesus respond to the request? Are you surprised that Jesus answered James
and John in this way? Explain.

3. When the other ten disciples heard the request that James and John made, how did
they respond? Why would they be indignant (angry, offended, resentful)? Do you
think they were justified in feeling this way? Why or why not?

4. Jesus used the request to teach the twelve about his model for leadership. Using
the chart below, identify the different characteristics of leadership for each model
according to this passage.

Model of the “Rulers of the Gentiles.” Model of Those who Follow Jesus

5. Jesus’ model is contrary to our typical notions of leadership. Do you think His
approach works in general? In the sports world? Why or why not?

FOR THE RECORD

“Not so with you.” With these four words, own, an inside-out renovation that enables a
Jesus exhorts his followers to distinguish completely different approach to life. When
themselves from those embracing the world’s Jesus marks our character in this way, we
system of leadership. While others clamor for can leave a legacy that lasts long after the
titles, position, and power, Jesus teaches (and scoreboard is forgotten. Leadership marked
models with his own life) that true leadership by service always leaves a distinct impression
is about service—pouring out one’s life on on those who are served—and God gets the
behalf of others. As we follow Christ, he glory! Christ-followers lead by serving others!
transforms our character to be more like His
LEADERSHIP [WHAT CHARACTERIZES A GOOD LEADER?]
YOUR MOVE
1. “If the high road of leadership doesn’t take you across the low road of
servanthood, you need to get some new directions.” (Anonymous)

a. Are you on the road serving others or on the road seeking to be served
by others?

b. What would it look like for you to live more consistently on the low road
of servanthood?

We are never more like Jesus

c. Identify what might be keeping you from than when we serve others.
that road.
Duane Elmer
Author/Teacher

2. While leadership is taking responsibility to

influence others, the most difficult person to lead is yourself. What immediate
adjustments would make you more effective in leading your own life? Check all
that apply.
qq Making more purposeful decisions with my time
qq Not wasting as much time on the television, games, computer, etc.
qq Being more concerned about others’ needs than my own accomplishments
qq Growing in confidence in my own strengths and working on my weaknesses
qq Learning about what godly leadership really looks like
qq Spending more time with people who are having a positive influence on others

3. Many times in his life, Jesus assumed the role of servant. In John 13:1-17, Jesus
chooses the towel (symbol of humility, others-centeredness, help) rather than
the robe (symbol of power, authority, status). Among your teammates and
opponents, how could you compete with God-honoring intensity and still reflect
the servant qualities of Christ?

4. “Lord, I give you my that keeps me from really serving others.

Help me to be more like Christ, even in sports.”

For additional work, on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page to
learn more about effective servant leadership.
AS YOU ENTER
“HE LEADS THE HUMBLE IN JUSTICE, AND HE TEACHES THE HUMBLE HIS WAY.”
(PSALM 25:9)

Leadership Training Session 1

Read Philippians 2:1-11.
a. How does the author contrast self-centered leadership with servant leadership?

b. What choices did Jesus make while living out his role as servant?

c. What is most challenging to you in this passage?

Leadership Training Session 2
Read Hebrews12:1-3.
a. What character traits are listed in this passage?

b. Servant leadership is marked by challenge.

What challenges might you encounter in your
Qualities of a Leader leadership journey?

In his book The Seven Habits of Highly Effective c. In what ways does Jesus give us encouragement
People, Stephen Covey teaches about ways to to keep going in the servant leadership process?
develop as a leader. Look over the list below and
see where you are doing well and consider ways to
improve yourself as a leader.
Habit 1. Be proactive. Take personal responsibility for yourself vs. reactive by blaming others.

Habit 2. Begin with the end in mind. Set long-term goals and a vision for your life.

Habit 3. Put first things first. Set short-term goals that support your priorities in life.

Habit 4. Think Win/Win. Have an attitude where others can benefit as much as you.

Habit 5. Seek first to understand, then be understood. Listen and empathize before giving advice.

Habit 6. Synergize. Work in teams to solve problems, make decisions, and share strengths.

Habit 7. Sharpen the saw. Take care of yourself with a balanced life in all areas of development.

AS YOU LEAVE
»»CONSISTENTLY SEEK OUT WAYS TO SERVE OTHERS.
»»SERVE IN YOUR STRENGTHS AND GROW IN YOUR AREAS OF WEAKNESS.
»»BE AROUND OTHER PEOPLE WHO MODEL CHRIST-LIKE LEADERSHIP.

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 GOT GAME FOR GOD
LORDSHIP [WHO RUNS MY LIFE?]

THE HURDLE
People want so much from me. My coach expects me to give 110%. My academics call for total dedication. My family
and friends—including the people I date—have their own expectations of me. When I hear that Jesus is calling for
more commitment from me, I’m not certain how that is possible. If I give God100%, will I have anything left over for
my sport, academics, friends, or family? How am I to make sense of all these commitments?
What do you find most difficult about establishing
priorities in your life?
The terrible thing, the almost
Where does Jesus fit into the equation for you right now? impossible thing, is to hand
over your whole self — all your
A star basketball player in his second year of college wishes and precautions
began a relationship with God. During a bus ride one – to Christ.
of his coaches said, “If you spent less energy on this
Jesus stuff, you’d be scoring more points on the court.” C. S. Lewis
It’s worth asking: If you listen to Jesus’ call to “love the Author/Professor
Lord our God with all your heart” will you become a less
effective athlete? Why or why not?

I HEAR YA Even people in the Bible faced the challenge of being fully-devoted followers of God…

Israelites Turn Away: “The eyes of the Lord move to and fro throughout the earth that He may strongly
support those whose heart is completely His.” (2 Chronicles 16:9)

About King Josiah: “And before him there was no king like him who turned to the Lord with all his heart,
and with all his soul and with all his might.” (2 Kings 23:25)

John to Laodiceans: “Because you are lukewarm and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.”
(Revelation 3:16)

Paul in Athens: Now when they heard of the resurrection of the dead, some mocked. But others said, “We
will hear you again about this” … but some men joined him and believed. (Acts 17:32, 34)

Jesus to disciples: “No one can serve two masters … you can’t serve God and money.” (Matthew 6:24)
 LISTEN UP
Read Luke 14:25-32, where Jesus issues a challenge to the multitudes to become true
disciples, putting God first in their lives.

1. What do you find most shocking about Jesus’ words in this passage? Why?

2. In verse 26, Jesus uses the extreme to demonstrate the degree of allegiance He
requires. Why do you think He would choose these particular relationships as a test of
discipleship?

3. Jesus uses the word hate as an expression that means one must love everything else,
even those relationships closest to us, comparatively far less. On a scale of 1-10, where
would you place the importance of Jesus in your life right now? Explain.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
Not at all Average Supreme value

How does your commitment to Jesus stack up against your commitment

to your sport?

4. Jesus describes two scenarios to help disciples understand the cost involved in
following him:

1) A person who wants to build a tower and 2) a king who wants to fight a war.

What are the consequences of not giving adequate consideration before

moving forward with these two projects? What is the consequence of a
Christian athlete proclaiming the name of Christ but not following
through on his/her commitment to Him?

FOR THE RECORD

Jesus promises that when we surrender to Him with wild confidence, to deeply love others
as our highest priority, we’ll experience life in without reservation, to fully embrace moments
a way simply not possible when he is second. in the day that we might otherwise miss,
Discipleship (following Jesus) doesn’t mean to take healthy risks without fear of failure,
we’re shackled to endless misery­—it means to control our passions instead of them
opening ourselves to the surprises of God’s consuming us. He knows that we struggle,
astonishing goodness! In placing Him first, but His riches await us as we turn to Him
Christ enables us to experience everything else over and over again! Are you convinced He is
in life more freely and purposefully: to play worthy of your complete allegiance?
LORDSHIP [WHO RUNS MY LIFE?]
YOUR MOVE
1. If you examine your life closely (your use of your time and money, your
affections, your commitments), what relationships or areas of life currently
demand the most allegiance?

Friends Job

God
Family or Self? Sports

Ministry School

2. Look back over the chart above. What area of life

are you most afraid to surrender to God? What
do you fear losing if you place God in the center The real problem of the
of your life? Christian life comes where
people do not usually look for
it. It comes the very moment
you wake up each morning.
All your wishes and hopes
for the day rush at you like
3. God does not necessarily take things out of wild animals. And the first job
your life­—He wants them in the proper order. each morning consists simply
If Jesus were really your highest priority, what
adjustment would you have to make? Consider
of shoving them all back; in
these questions to help you think through areas: listening to that other voice,
taking that other point of
• Are there any attitudes or actions that are view, letting that other larger,
wrong or sinful? stronger, quieter life come
• Are there any areas that may not be wrong flowing in.
but are not wise (wasting time)?
C.S. Lewis
• Are you demonstrating your love for God by Author/Professor
getting to know Him? How?
• How are you going out of your way to
encourage and serve other people?
• Does your sport show that you are living for
Christ on and off the field of play?

A prayer of commitment
Lord Jesus, thank you for loving me and dying for me so that I might have life,
hope and forgiveness. You deserve my total allegiance. Even though it is scary,
I give you my dreams as well as my fears and ask You to take them and do with
them as you please. You are the ruler of the Universe and of my life. Please give me
grace and faith to live that out today and always. Amen.

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page for
more exercises to keep Christ as your highest priority.
AS YOU ENTER
“SEEK FIRST HIS KINGDOM AND HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS, AND ALL THESE THINGS WILL
BE ADDED TO YOU.” (MATTHEW 6:33)

Increase Your View of Jesus

It is easier to follow someone you trust. Read the
passages and note what makes Jesus worthy of my life.
Colossians 1:15-20

John 1:1-17

Isaiah 40:10-31

Luke 5:1-11

Matthew 11:28-29

Decrease your Dependence

on the Approval of Others
Don’t allow your life to be shaped by the same fears that motivate
the unbeliever’s life.
Increase the Areas What masters call for your allegiance? (Luke 16:13)
of Life That You are
Submitting to Jesus What fears keep you from living and competing freely? (1 Peter
3:14-15)
As you grow in your devotion
to God, you will want to obey
His Great Commission to What would it look like if you learned to play for the audience of
make disciples and His Great One? (Galatians 1:10)
Commandment to love others.
Evaluate the use of your time,
money and talents for one week
and ask yourself:
Did it serve a higher purpose?
Did it help build up myself, others or God’s kingdom?
Could I have done something more effectively or efficiently?
Do I compete in a way that reflects godliness or promotes self?

AS YOU LEAVE
ASK GOD FOR GRACE EACH MORNING TO…
»»DO EVERYTHING FOR THE GLORY OF JESUS. (COLOSSIANS 3:17)
»»YIELD MY LIFE AS A LIVING SACRAFICE. (ROMANS 12:1-2)
»»HONOR GOD BY HONORING OTHERS IN EVERYTHING. (JOHN 13:5-17)

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 TAKING A KNEE
PRAYER [CAN I TRUST HIM WITH MYSELF?]

THE HURDLE
I asked God for one thing. I felt a little guilty talking to Him just because I needed something, but I did it anyway. I
prayed my heart out that this time my knee would hold up, but here I sit on the sideline again during what should be
the biggest game of my senior season. Does He care about what I want? Did I use the wrong words? What’s the point
of praying if God can’t hear me or help me? Maybe He just doesn’t care. Or maybe I’m just afraid God will let me
down when I need Him most…
When (if ever) do you pray to God? About what?
Have you ever wondered if God really cares about you
or the things that matter to you? What makes you think
Basically, I’m for anything that
this way? gets you through the night—be
it prayer, tranquilizers, or a
Do you sometimes think that you have to say just the
right words or that you shouldn’t tell God how you really
bottle of Jack Daniels.
feel? Explain. Frank Sinatra
Entertainer
Do you ever feel guilty for talking to God only in
moments of crisis and seldom at other times?

Living in a fast paced, independent society will always work against cultivating an honest and consistent
prayer life, but our lives desperately need connection with God. It can be difficult to honestly pray to Him
if you’re hindered by guilty thoughts or incorrect teaching.

The Bible is full of people who pray to God in all different circumstances, hoping He cares
I HEAR YA about what matters to them and will do something about it…

Jeremiah: “Why do you (God) forget us forever, why do you forsake us for so many days? … Renew our
days as of old—unless you have utterly rejected us, and you remain exceedingly angry with us.”
(Lamentations 5:20-22)

The Early Church: “So Peter was kept in prison, but the Church was earnestly praying to God for him.”
(Acts 12:5)

David: “How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?”
(Psalm 13:1)

Paul: “ … there was given to me a thorn in the flesh … three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away
from me.” (2 Corinthians 12:7b-8)
 LISTEN UP
Read Philippians 4:4-7.

1. As you read through the passage a second time, write down the actions we are to do or
not do.

2. Do you ever think some of your requests are too insignificant or too big for God to
answer? Why?

3. How might rejoicing in the Lord with a thankful heart instead of dwelling on your
circumstances help you to approach God?

4. What is the result when we communicate with God as described in these verses (see
verse 7)?

5. The “peace that will guard your heart” is contrasted with what in verse 6? What
difference could this make in your prayer life?

FOR THE RECORD

God knows about your situation better than things together for His glory and our good—
you do; nothing comes into your life that He even in the dark days when hope seems lost.
hasn’t allowed, including the desires of your We’ll know and understand His ways better as
heart. He cares for you the way a perfect father we fully open our hearts and minds to Him,
cares for his child, though sometimes it may bringing our real hopes, fears, desires, and
not feel that way in the moment. He wants us sins to His feet. While He may not always give
to trust Him so we can discover that He had you what you want, He can be trusted to do
our best interests in mind all along, even when what’s best for you and He will always give
He seemed silent or far away. He is working all you what you need most: Himself.
PRAYER [CAN I TRUST HIM WITH MYSELF?]
YOUR MOVE
1. The following are common hindrances to communicating freely with God.
Which of these false thoughts can you most identify with? Why?
qq He won’t do anything for me.
qq He will respond like my earthly father.
qq He doesn’t care about what matters to me.
qq He won’t hear me because I’m not living the way I should.
qq He already knows what I feel, so why say it?
qq He wouldn’t like what I really think about this situation.
To some degree, we all think these things at one time or another—it’s
human nature. Yet despite how may think/feel the fact remains: God
cares deeply for us and everything we’re going through! Though he
already knows our every thought, he wants us to communicate with him.

2. To what degree are you motivated (hardly,

somewhat, extremely) to move past the hurdles
that keep you from talking to God and trusting To pray is to listen to the One
that He wants to hear from you—anytime, who calls you “my beloved
anyplace, about anything? daughter,” “my beloved son,”
“my beloved child.” To pray is
to let that voice speak to the
3. Think of a person or situation that is difficult
center of your being, to your
to bring before God. Make a list of at least ten guts, and let that voice resound
things for which you are (or could be) thankful in your whole being.
related to this person or situation. Remember: Henri Nouwen
peace and perspective come from God when we Teacher/Author
choose thanksgiving over complaining.

4. Take five minutes each morning or evening. Bring your requests to God and see
what happens to you in the process. Consider writing in a journal and including
the ACTS of prayer when you talk to God.

Adoration: Lifting God up and praising Him for who He is.

Confession: Acknowledging your sin and desire to change.
Thanksgiving: Gratitude for every bit of your life.
Supplication: Praying on behalf of other people.

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page to
develop your honest relationship with the Living God.
AS YOU ENTER
“NOT MY WILL BUT YOURS BE DONE.” (MATTHEW 26:39)

Different Areas of Prayer

Praises: Psalm 145; Philippians 4:4
Corporate confession: Nehemiah 1:3-11
Personal confession: Psalm 51; I John 1:9
Desperation: Matthew 15:21-28; 26:38-44
Intercession: Genesis 18:20-32; Romans 8:26-28
Unanswered prayer: 2 Corinthians 12:7-10
The Model Prayer
Matthew 6:9-13
Read Jesus’ model prayer and then talk to God in your own words.

“Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name”

(Let God know how great He is.)

“Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven”

(Trust God for His will to be done amid the darkness in and around you.)

“Give us today our daily bread”

(Tell God your needs and ask Him to meet them today.)
Your Heavenly Father “Forgive us our debts”
Knows all about you and loves you (Tell God all your sins of thought, word and action.)
just the same (Psalm 139)
“As we also have forgiven our debtors”
Will always be with you to give you (Forgive those who have offended you and offer them grace.)
strength and power (Isaiah 41:10)

Is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abundant in lovingkindness (Jonah 4:2)

Has forgiven you all of your sins (Colossians 1:13,14)

Will finish the work in you that He started (Philippians 1:6)

Delights in His unchanging love for you (Micah 7:18)

Has a mansion in heaven prepared for you (John 14:2)

AS YOU LEAVE
»»MAKE TIME IN YOUR DAILY SCHEDULE TO COMMUNICATE WITH GOD.
»»START A PRAYER JOURNAL TO SEE HOW GOD WORKS IN AND THROUGH YOU.
»»PRAY HONESTLY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND TRUST THE LIVING GOD!

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 PERSONAL FOUL
RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX [WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO IT?]

THE HURDLE
You would think having a successful relationship, whether sexual or not, would be an easy thing these days. People
have been hooking up for thousands of years, and today we’ve got books, magazines, and endless talk shows
that discuss how to be happy in a relationship. So why are broken relationships the norm? Seems like marriage
ceremonies are really only a first stage of the divorce. I sometimes wonder whether a genuinely loving relationship
with the same person is possible. But I’m still holding out hope that it is—but I’m not sure where to look for help. The
crazy thing is, Christian’s don’t seem to be much better at maintaining relationships than non-Christians.
If you have seen or could imagine a loving relationship
with the opposite sex, what would it look like?
Describe it. Whenever I date a guy, I
think, “Is this the man I want
my children to spend their
Even if deep down you wanted meaningful, loving weekends with?”
relationships, given the current divorce rate and culture,
do you think it is possible? Why or why not? Rita Rudner
Writer and Comedian

What unique relational challenges or temptations do athletes face in light of popularity, power,
money, and the sport itself? Are men different than women in these areas?

I HEAR YA The Bible has much to say about relationships and sexual expression.

God created relationships: “It is not good for man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.”
(Genesis 2:18)

Relationships express sexual intimacy: “I am my beloved’s, and his desire is for me.”
(Song of Solomon 7:10)

Uncontrolled lust turns to lies and murder: “David…saw a woman bathing; and the woman was beautiful
in appearance … so David sent and inquired about the woman.” (2 Samuel 11:2-3)

God owns your body: “The body is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord.”
(I Corinthians 6:13, 19-20)

Our culture sends plenty of messages about relationships and sex, but it’s easy to forget that God
created them both. He offers a plan to experience life at its fullest, even in the sexual area.
 LISTEN UP
Read I Thessalonians 4:3-8.

1. What is your initial reaction to God’s command to “abstain from fornication”

(sexual immorality)?

Definition of sexual immorality: The word fornication (sexual immorality) comes

from the Greek work, porneia which means sexual practice that lies outside the circle
of God’s revealed will, namely adultery, premarital and extramarital intercourse, and
homosexuality. - The Bible Knowledge Commentary

2. What criteria do you use about whether or not sex will be a part of your relationship?
How might men and women differ in their approach to sex?

3. The apostle Paul challenges the Thessalonians in this text to live out God’s will by
being different (sanctified), set apart from the world’s standards and way of living.
According to these verses, how and why are we to be different?

4. God’s negative commands (“Don’t do this…”) exist to protect us and provide for
us. How might God’s admonition to us about sexual immorality both protect and
provide?

5. The New International Version in verse 4 says that we are to control our own
bodies in a way that is holy and honorable (pure, different). In a culture where we
are constantly encouraged to participate in sexual pleasures, what is wrong about
lustful passion and what are the consequences to you or others?

6. What does it communicate to another person when you are self-controlled and
other-centered? How would this contribute to a meaningful, loving relationship?

FOR THE RECORD

God created relationships and sexual ourselves, we honor God and ultimately get
expression for human fulfillment, but when we what we’re after in the first place—real love.
don’t follow His plan, it results in brokenness To rid ourselves of the world’s view of sex
and confusion. When you introduce sex into takes a lot of work and courage to follow God
a relationship outside of marriage, it’s self- against the norm. Our attempts to fulfill
serving and destructive, even if it doesn’t legitimate needs illegitimately always end in
immediately feel that way. Sex outside of ruin for us and for others, but God promises
marriage unites you another person in a the possibility of a different ending for those
way that is irreversible. Ironically, when we who listen to His leading.
care more about the welfare of others than
RELATIONSHIPS AND SEX [WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?]
YOUR MOVE
1. List three ideas from this study that you have never heard previously or
something that just challenges your thinking or behavior.

2. In your own sexual experience, whether limited or extreme, what has been your
primary motivation?
qq It makes me feel loved or valued
qq It makes me feel powerful or respected
qq It just plain feels good To love at all is to be
qq I don’t want to miss out vulnerable. Love anything, and
qq I have to test it before getting married
qq Just another trophy on my shelf/ just your heart will certainly be
wanted to see if I could get him/her wrung and possibly broken.
qq I love this person and wanted to show it If you want to make sure of
qq Pressure from partner keeping it intact, you must
give your heart to no one, not
While the above motivations are legitimate human even to an animal. Wrap it
needs or longings, if we pursue them illegitimately carefully round with hobbies
(sex outside of marriage), we won’t get what
we really want in the end (loving, meaningful and little luxuries; avoid all
relationships). entanglements; lock it up
3. Why is it important to be dating someone who safe in the casket or coffin of
shares the same Christian values? your selfishness. But in that
casket—safe, dark, motionless,
airless—it will change . It will
not be broken; it will become
unbreakable, impenetrable,
4. What boundaries do you need to set now and for irredeemable.
your future relationships in order to have other- C.S. Lewis
centered relationships and to remain sexually Author, The Four Loves
pure? Who can you share this information
with who will encourage you and hold you
accountable?

Visit The Training Room on the next page so that you can continue to grow in
godly, fulfilling relationships.
AS YOU ENTER
“WE HAVE INSTRUCTED YOU HOW TO LIVE IN ORDER TO PLEASE GOD.”
(I THESSALONIANS 4:1)

Becoming the Right Person

A good relationship is more about becoming the right person than finding the right
person. What do these verses say about the person God wants you to become?
Romans 12:1, 2
Micah 6:8
Colossians 3:1-10
Philippians 2:3, 4 30 Day Challenge!
I Corinthians 15:33
For 30 days, “sensitize yourself” to all of the messages
you see and hear about sex and relationships (friends,
television, computer, magazines, etc.) and identify the
messages being sent. Are they godly or self-centered?
Do they invite self-control or unrestrained passion?
Codependency
Codependency is not just about same-sex relationships. In many ways, we are all codependent since we are
trying to meet our needs through other people. Look at the list below to see if you may be codependent to
the degree that it affects your daily life.
Melody Beattie, author of Codependent No More, developed this check list:
qq Do you feel responsible for other people--their feelings, thoughts, actions, choices, wants, needs,
well-being and destiny?
qq Do you feel compelled to help people solve their problems or by trying to take care of their feelings?
qq Do you find it easier to feel and express anger about injustices done to others than about injustices done
to you?
qq Do you feel safest and most comfortable when you are giving to others?
qq Do you feel insecure and guilty when someone gives to you?
qq Do you feel empty, bored and worthless if you don’t have someone else to take care of, a problem to
solve, or a crisis to deal with?
qq Are you often unable to stop talking, thinking and worrying about other people and their problems?
qq Do you lose interest in your own life when you are in love?
qq Do you stay in relationships that don’t work and tolerate abuse in order to keep people loving you?
qq Do you leave bad relationships only to form new ones that don’t work either?

AS YOU LEAVE
»»ASK GOD TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT HEALTHY, GOD-HONORING RELATIONSHIPS LOOK
LIKE AND TO PROVIDE YOU WITH EXAMPLES TO FOLLOW.
»» PRAY FOR STRENGTH AND SELF-CONTROL AS YOU FACE THE SEXUAL TEMPTATIONS OFFERED BY
THIS WORLD.
»» MEMORIZE A FEW VERSES THAT WOULD REMIND YOU OF THE TRUTH AND FORTIFY YOUR SOUL
IN TIMES OF STRUGGLE.

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 LIVIN’ LARGER
SOCIAL JUSTICE [AM I MADE FOR MORE THAN SPORT?]

THE HURDLE
At every level of competition, I’ve always thought of my participation in sports as fun for me and entertainment for
others. But after recently hearing a sermon on social justice, I wonder: As a Christian athlete, should I be concerned
with using my sport and the influence it provides to somehow lessen other peoples’ suffering? I suppose that seems
pretty dramatic, but now I can’t get the question out of my head: What does being a Christian athlete have to do
with caring for marginalized or hurting people? I’ve been focusing on being a good person myself by working hard,
not cheating, respecting competitors, having a positive attitude, but now I’m wondering if that’s enough.
My Christian friends seem to be at one extreme or another when it
comes to this issue. One says we should work on separating ourselves
from the “world” and its cares, emphasizing only the spiritual Science may have found a cure
dimension. Another friend involves herself with lots of community for most evils, but it has found
service but never seems to speak directly about Christ with anyone. no remedy for the worst of
them all­—the apathy of human
Why is it difficult to think of the words “sport” and “compassion” beings.
in the same sentence?
Helen Keller
Blind and Deaf Educator
Can you think of a situation recently where your heart was
moved to compassion for others?

Can you relate to either of the scenarios described in the second paragraph above? How?

The Bible is full of people who struggled to understand the harmony between being good
I HEAR YA and doing good, between loving God and loving their neighbor.

Jesus questions the religious: “If you love those who love you, what reward have you?.…and if you greet
your brothers only, what do you do more than others?” (Matthew 5:46,47)

Moses challenges those who are blessed: “If there is a poor man among your brothers in any of the towns
of the land that the Lord your God is giving you, do not be hard-hearted or tight-fisted toward your poor
brother. Rather be open-handed and freely lend him whatever he needs.” (Deuteronomy 15:7,8)

John explains real love for God: “If someone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one
who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.” (I John 4:20)

James encourages a faith in action: “If a brother or sister is without clothing and in need of daily food,
and one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace, be warmed and be filled,’ and yet you do not give them what is
necessary for their body, what use is that?” (James 2:15,16)
 LISTEN UP
A religious man in Jesus’ time tried to prove he was righteous without being caring or
compassionate. Jesus uses a story to illustrate that “true righteousness” is evidenced by
how well we love and care for others, especially those who cannot care for themselves.
He challenges the man to rethink what it means for God’s love to be demonstrated in the
world through His people.
Read Luke 10:25-37

1. Describe what happened to this ‘No Name’ man going to Jericho.

2. When you read about these types of situations in the news, how do you tend to
respond initially? Do you lean toward compassion or toward judgment? Why?

3. Identify the three people who saw this hurting man and their initial response
to the situation.
Person Response Possible Reason
a.
b.
c.
Luke mentions that each person “saw” this man in the same situation. What
might they have “seen” from their perspective and why do they observe it
so differently?

4. Describe in detail what the Samaritan did for this man.

What were the possible risks involved personally, socially, and economically?

5. Which person in the story can you most identify with and why?

FOR THE RECORD

True religion demands seeing the world as relationships, redeeming material creation.
God sees it, broken beyond human repair A personal ethical cleansing is only part of
and in need of both spiritual and physical our commission—touching the world around
transformation. While the “kingdom of God” us with the compassion of Christ fills it out.
will not be fully experienced until Christ Jesus uses the unique shape of our lives—
returns, His followers bring a taste of heaven personality, talents, experiences, spiritual
to earth every time they act contrary to its gifts, even athletic influence—to bless the
brokenness in His name. God’s spiritual dark corners of the world with life-giving
renewal in our lives is not solely for our involvement. Ministering to those in need
benefit, but so He can live through us: around us is not a community-service box to
healing broken hearts, restoring damaged check; it IS the Christ-following life lived out.
SOCIAL JUSTICE [AM I MADE FOR MORE THAN SPORT?]
YOUR MOVE
1. Describe when you have “been on a journey” Those whose names are
and passed by someone hurting in need of help, written in gold letters in
either on your team or elsewhere. How did you the honour roll of humanity
feel and what are possible reasons you passed by? are not those who looked
at their fellow-men with a
You were in too big of a hurry conscious and a contemptuous
You didn’t really know how to help
You didn’t really want to be superiority, nor are they those
inconvenienced who regarded the struggles
You already have enough concerns of mankind with a cool
of your own detachment; they are those
Your help really is nothing compared to
the needs in the world who cared so much, and who
sorrowed so much, that the
2. After learning about the Samaritan’s response
sorrow of their hearts drove
in this study, does your view of what it means them to spend their lives in the
to live out the gospel of Jesus need to change? service of mankind.
Would you do anything different above? William Barclay,
German Theologian, 1907-1978

3. In the parable of the Good Samaritan, Jesus is trying to bridge the gap between
loving God and loving neighbor, between an individual spirituality (vertical)
and a social concern for others (horizontal). American churches historically
tend to organize themselves around one of these two extremes below. Which
side do you tend toward?
Individual Spirituality Social Concern
Word oriented Action oriented
Tract evangelism Feed the poor
Spiritual need focused Physical need focused
Separate from the culture Engage and restore the culture
Systematic theology Practical theology
Conservative politics Liberal politics

4. If the gospel of Jesus demands caring for both the spiritual and physical
conditions of people, how might leaning too hard on one column or another
hinder you from living out the entirety of the gospel? If you see yourself solely
in one of these camps, what adjustments in your perspective need to be made?

5. Write the names of two people on your team or in your work setting that
you avoid simply because they are insignificant or different (racially, socially,
economically, physically, etc.)? In what ways (if any) are these people viewed
differently by those who have money, power and influence? What steps could
you take now toward being a Good Samaritan to them?

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page for more
exercises to challenge your heart and increase your capacity to care for others.
AS YOU ENTER
“WHAT DOES THE LORD REQUIRE OF YOU BUT TO DO JUSTICE, TO LOVE KINDNESS, AND
TO WALK HUMBLY WITH YOUR GOD?” (MICAH 6:8)
Are You Prejudice?
Being prejudice means that you ‘prejudge’ or are impartial to someone for
particular reasons: social or economic status, religious background, color
of skin, popularity, etc. Most people would not admit to being prejudice
but everyone is to some degree for we cannot escape our own worldview
shaped by our culture, family background, and experiences. Reflect on
the passages below to see what God might be saying to you about your
own prejudices.
James 2:1-13 Are there certain types of people you applaud or honor?

Isaiah 58:1-12 Does your ‘religion’ embrace social needs?

Matthew 25:31-46 Do you care for the hurting or marginalized?

Community Service
or Relief Work
While seeing and meeting needs as you journey is ideal, it
may help your heart and confidence to get involved with
Sports and Social Justice community service or relief work in your town. Not only will
it help others, but will also unify your team around a higher
Sports, like music, plays a powerful role in culture, purpose for existing together.
transcending language, social and economic
barriers. Can you imagine what could happen if Here are some ideas:
there was racial unity and generosity embraced
• Organize prison sporting events or visitation (Angel Tree)
and modeled in sports? If athletes and coaches
• Serve in soup kitchens or clothes closets (Social Service or
were willing to stand up and lock arms for social
churches)
justice, the world might take notice that people who
• Help to repair homes (Habitat for Humanity or churches)
are often considered in a high position can go low
• After school programs or tutoring
enough to be kind and compassionate toward those
• Big Brother Big Sister Program
who are hurting. Reflect on the book of Esther in
the Old Testament, especially chapters 1-4, and make
observations about Esther.

Heritage and family background:2:1-7

Character and courage:4:1-17

Esther realized that an opportunity was knocking for her to stand up for the marginalized even though it
might cost her. Esther 4:14b could read “who knows whether you have not attained ‘this position’ for such a
time as this?” If not now, then when? If not you, then who?

AS YOU LEAVE
»» MEDITATE ON JAMES 2 AND ASK THE LORD TO GIVE YOU COMPASSION TO SEE OTHERS AS HE DOES.
»» WAKE UP EACH DAY INTENDING TO SERVE OTHERS NO MATTER THEIR SOCIAL STATUS OR
COLOR OF SKIN.
»» PRAY FOR COURAGE TO STAND UP FOR THOSE WHO CAN’T STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES.

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 TIME OUT
SOLITUDE [IS MY INNER LIFE FOO CLUTTERED TO “LIVE WELL”?]

THE HURDLE
In my sociology class a professor said, “We’ve become a society with an aversion to quiet and an uneasiness with
being alone.” I didn’t agree with her at first, but the more I’ve thought about it I’m not exactly sure where “quiet”
can even be found anymore (even if we did want it!). TVs hang in the fitness rooms, cell phone messages and texts
flood in constantly, coaches and teammates and other relationship expectations come from every direction. I never
thought of headphones, billboard advertisements and social media updates as forms of negative “noise,” but I
suppose it all adds to the constant cluttering of my mind. I never thought about all the mental busyness that makes
up my day as being something bad—is it?
Are you more of a “being” person (introspective, reflective, person-centered) or a “doing” person (task-
oriented, busy, product over people)? Explain.

Do you believe one approach to life is better than the other?

Why?
The sole cause of man’s
unhappiness is that he does
Which is valued more in our society? What makes you say this? not know how to stay quietly in
his room.
Blaise Pascal
Philosopher (1623-1662)
What do you think Pascal means by his quote? (to the right)

I HEAR YA There are people in the Bible who tried to balance quiet trust with zealous activity.
People of God wait in silence: “My soul, wait in silence for God only, for my hope is from Him.”
(Psalm 62:5)
God calls out His people: “In repentance and rest you will be saved; in quietness and trust is your
strength, but you were not willing (to listen).” (Isaiah 30:15)
More isn’t always better: “Better is a handful, with quietness, than two handfuls with labor and
chasing after the wind.” (Ecclesiastes 4:6)
A challenge to slow down: “Be still and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10)
 LISTEN UP
Throughout the gospels, crowds pressure Jesus everywhere he goes. They want his time.
They want his teaching. They want his power. Ironically, while Jesus certainly wants to
help people, he knows his effectiveness with them depends on the quality of his time
away from them.
Mark 1:35-39

1. In verse 35, Jesus got up early and literally went to an “uninhabited” place. What do you
think prompted him to go to a place with no one around first thing in the morning?

2. How might someone in the crowd have felt if they had a real need and Jesus was
unavailable to meet it because of His time in the “uninhabited place”? Do you think
he’s justified/right in His choice to separate? Why or why not?

3. How might Jesus’ time in the “uninhabited place” affect his own relationship with
God, himself, and other people?

4. What might Jesus lose by obliging the crowds all the time? What might He lose by
staying in solitude all the time?

5. How is this snapshot of Jesus’ life potentially applicable to your own?

FOR THE RECORD

Like Jesus, separating ourselves from the with others, and with creation around us.
sensory onslaught of daily life is a choice Regularly stepping away from the relational
with a cost, but it’s an option that pays and sensory demands of daily life enabled
immeasurable returns. Moving away from Jesus to remain focused on His purpose for
the constant noise of life enables us to fully being on earth, producing a clarity and peace
experience God and all that He has for us so of mind and spirit now made available to all
that when we interact again with others, we who follow His pattern. There are no short
are anchored by a steadied soul and an ability cuts: doing God’s will on the outside requires
to interact more fully with all that surrounds first carving out time toward being a different
us. Purposeful solitude empowers us to be in person on the inside.
right relationship with God, with ourselves,
SOLITUDE [IS MY INNER LIFE FOO CLUTTERED TO “LIVE WELL”?]
YOUR MOVE
1. Knowing your own temperament, how difficult is it to separate yourself from
the constant sensory stimulation of daily life? Are you able to create space in
the midst of daily life to work on your “inner” life and fully experience all God
has for you? Explain.

2. Using the list below, identify the top three obstacles that keep you from creating
space for solitude.

I have never thought about it or

felt the need
The intentional stripping of our
I am undisciplined creature comforts, creating
Facebook keeps me connected to people a context where we are
What else would I do? miserable without our iPods,
I cannot stay focused very long vehicles, laptops, kitchens,
Everyone else’s demands of me debit cards and friends, is a
The silence makes me uncomfortable gift to our souls. It reminds
I am scared of my own thoughts or of me of what matters, who
being alone
matters, and the person I long
I am afraid of what God might tell me
to become.
Donald Whitney
Why are these obstacles for you? Teacher/Author

3. How would the following relationships benefit if you created space in your life?

• relationship with God

• relationship with yourself
• relationship with others

4. Consider the following quote:

In solitude I get rid of my scaffolding: no friends to talk with, no telephone

calls to make, no meetings to attend, no music to entertain, no books to
distract, just me—naked, vulnerable, weak, sinful, deprived, broken—
nothing. It is this nothingness that I have to face in my solitude, a
nothingness so dreadful that everything in me wants to run to my friends,
my work, and my distractions so that I can forget my nothingness and make
myself believe that I am worth something. (Henri Nouwen, teacher/author)

What will it take to move from good intentions to actually creating space
in your soul?

For more help in creating space in your life to renew your mind and soul, visit
The Training Room on the next page.
AS YOU ENTER
“JESUS DEPARTED OFTEN AND WENT TO A LONELY PLACE; AND THE MULTITUDES WERE
SEARCHING FOR HIM, AND CAME TO HIM, AND TRIED TO KEEP HIM FROM GOING AWAY
FROM THEM.” (LUKE 4:42)
Mountaintop Experience
Climbing mountains is hard work, but the effort brings both peace and perspective. From
the mountains you can see clearly—getting a birds-eye view of both what dwells beneath
and what lies on high. In the same way, silence and solitude are means of experiencing
those same benefits. Read the passages below and record what happens on the mountains
with these particular people, then place yourself in their story.
Moses in Exodus 19:1-6 Get away to hear from God (What is God telling you?)
Peter, James and John in Matthew 17:1-5 Get away to gain vision (Where is your place?)
Elijah in I Kings 18:17-39 Get away to intercede (What are you begging God to do?)
Jesus in Matthew 5:1-16 Get away to teach (Who can you bring with you?)

Desert Experience
Intentionally restrict yourself from electronics or some other modern conveniences for three days (iPod, cell phone,
stereo, texting, radio, television, computer, etc.) and record how you feel. Consider these questions: Was it hard for
you? Did you have extra time? How did you fill the time? What did more quiet or space feel like? Did you have any
compulsive needs? Were you able to experience any personal benefits?

I will restrict:______________________________________________for _____________ days

I felt:

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Sharpen Your Saw!

Sharpening your saw when cutting wood may take some time but the results are worth it…greater capacity,
productivity and enjoyment. The same is true in your own life. Stephen Covey in Seven Habits of Highly
Successful People writes that “sharpening your saw” means preserving and enhancing the greatest assest you
have—you. It means having a balanced program for self-renewal in the four areas of your life: physical, social/
emotional, mental and spiritual. Feeling good just doesn’t happen. Living a life in balance means taking the
necessary time to renew yourself. Creating space in your life where you can withdraw from your compulsions
and clutter will give you freedom to think, feel, reflect, and pray. If the Son of God needed to withdraw, how
much more do we finite creatures need it?

AS YOU LEAVE
»»REMEMBER: SOLITUDE IS NOT A LUXURY—IT’S A NECESSITY!
»»SAY NO TO COMPULSIVE “CLUTTERING” AND SAY YES TO REAL LIFE.
»»CHOOSE TO MAKE TIME ON A DAILY BASIS TO GET AWAY SO YOU CAN THINK, FEEL AND PRAY.

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 YOUR REAL OPPONENT
SPIRITUAL WARFARE [WHO IS OUT TO GET ME?]

THE HURDLE
I’ve always been a competitive athlete and now I’m a Christian, but lately I’ve become more unsettled with how
I’ve been influenced to think and act as an athlete. If I’m honest, a lot of my thoughts are layered with stress, anger,
bitterness—toward my coaches, the other team, the refs, sometimes even myself. The relentless pressure to perform
leaves me wondering if I’m measuring up, consuming me with what others think of me. I know I’m supposed to love
God and others, but that’s probably impossible in sports. Sometimes I think, “Don’t just play hard. Kill ‘em!” or
“You’re an idiot for missing that play” or “We lose this game and our season is nothing.” Something just doesn’t seem
right with all of it. I want to do right by God and sports but there sure seems to be a lot of negative stuff that just
passes for ‘normal’ in the athletic world. Where does all that junk come from?
Do you ever experience thoughts or feelings of
discouragement, an inner “voice” that says “You’re not
good enough as a player or person so you might as well Warfare is one thing: it is a
give up?” When or why?
philosophy of deception.
Can you describe a situation where you or your Sun Tzu
teammates griped about others or each other, causing Chinese Military General
division, distrust and factions?
Do anger and revenge fuel your life more than love and
gratitude? Explain.

As crazy as it may sound, there is a spiritual world where battles are currently being fought. The
situations discussed above are settings for what the Bible calls “spiritual warfare.” You may be surprised
to learn that you have spiritual enemies who are committed to ruining your life.

I HEAR YA The bible is full of people who experienced the challenge of this warfare …
Adam and Eve: Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the LORD
God had made. And he said to the woman, “Indeed, has God said, You shall not eat from any of
the trees in the garden?” (Genesis 3:1-2)
David: Then Satan stood up against Israel and moved David to number Israel. (1 Chronicles 21:1)
Jesus: Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil.
(Matthew 4:1)
The Early Church: “Satan, the god of this world, has blinded the minds of those who don’t
believe, so that they are unable to see the glorious light of the good news that is shining upon
them.” (2 Corinthians 4:4)

Satan wants you to despise yourself so that you don’t experience God’s love for you. He divides
and conquers, creating division so that God’s people are not unified. He deceives people into
thinking that his way (the world’s way) is the best.
These are subtle but specific strategies of Satan, an invisible spiritual opponent of God and his
followers. Failure to see or believe in him does not hinder him from messing with your life.
 LISTEN UP
Read Ephesians 6:10-13.

1. In verse 12, what words are used to describe our spiritual enemy?

2. God commands us to put on the full armor of God, to suit up and be prepared to face
our opponent. What is the purpose of armor in battle? What happens if you fail
to suit up?

3. Ephesians 6:14-17 describes the “armor of God” provided for every Christian. Look at
the chart below. Write a simple definition or synonym for each piece of armor, then
consider its opposite under “Strategies of Satan”.

Armor of God Definition Strategies of Satan

Truth

Righteousness

Peace

Faith

Salvation

Word of God

4. Equipped with the “Armor of God,” what does it mean for you to “stand” (v. 11, 13, 14)
against Satan?

5. The nature of competitive sports today provides tremendous opportunities for

Satan and his army to attack. Can you identify situations in your sport experience
where this true?

FOR THE RECORD

God is not surprised that at times we gravitate currently controlled by Satan, surrounded by
back to our old habits of thinking and acting, people in rebellion to the things of God—but
especially since Satan tempts us to do so. But he does not leave us alone! He gives us a
when Jesus died on the cross, he broke the salvation that sets us free; a true righteousness
power of Satan and opened a door for us to live we don’t have to earn; a peace that knows
free of his control—not free of his influence He is in control, His Word which tells us the
or temptations, but free to choose Life instead truth, and faith to stand strong against doubt.
of Death. God leaves us in a world system So suit up!
SPIRITUAL WARFARE [WHO IS OUT TO GET ME?]
YOUR MOVE
1. If you were Satan, how would you attack you? There is no neutral ground in
What areas in your life would you target: the universe; every square inch,
negative thoughts about self, doubting God, every second, is claimed by
lack of discipline with your body, anger toward God and counter-claimed
others, destructive habits, apathy, etc?
by Satan.
C.S. Lewis
Author/Professor

2. As you understand your vulnerabilities, identify one or two pieces of armor that
would directly combat those areas. For example, if you are taking advice from
a teammate that perpetuates retaliation toward others, begin to trust God’s
Word as the highest standard for living, and instead offer compassion and
forgiveness.

Weakness: Armor:

Weakness: Armor:

3. Begin to pray Warfare Prayers. You might pray something like this: “God, You
are Lord of my life and Satan can no longer use to maintain
dominance over me. I will put on my armor each day and trust You to fight my
battles. I take my stand with You and accept the authority you’ve given to me.
Thank you for the power to resist the schemes of Satan in my life!” Consider
writing your own and keep it with you.

Prayer is the communication with headquarters by which the weapons of

warfare are deployed according to the will of God … It is for those on active duty.
John Piper
Pastor/Author

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page to
grow stronger in battle against the enemy of your soul.
AS YOU ENTER
“WE DON’T WANT SATAN TO WIN ANY VICTORY HERE, AND WELL WE KNOW HIS
METHODS!” (2 CORINTHIANS 2:11).

Know Your Enemy

Deception- Satan is called a liar, the father of lies (John 8:44), clouding
people from the truth (2 Corinthians 4:4). He is also called the deceiver of
the whole world (Revelation 12:9) and an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14),
looks good but evil on the inside.
Division- Divide and conquer is an old military strategy because a unified
front is much more difficult to defeat. Anger, slander, and unforgiveness
break relationships. (Ephesians 4:25-31)
Fear- of the unknown, fear of failure or a fear of engagement with the
enemy, Satan uses to his advantage. Christ has stripped him and his
demonic hoard of their power. (Colossians 2:15; Hebrews 2:14-15)
Temptation and Enslavement- Satan wants to enslave us to sin or
destructive thoughts (2 Peter 2:18-19). Temptation leads to sin which leads
to shame which leads to cover up.
Guilt & Shame- Satan will address sin by accusations (called “the accuser”,
see Zechariah 3:1). He says, “You are such a hypocrite, such a loser. You call
yourself a Christian?” The cross has freed us from guilt and shame so that
we have forgiveness and hope.
Fight in God’s Strength
Power Source: Word and Prayer - Ephesians 6:13-18 remind us
that the Word and prayer are what’s needed to constantly sustain
our life in order to be clear-headed and prepared for Satanic
Sample Warfare Prayers attacks. The simplest way to explain those two commands is to
so saturate yourself in the Bible so that your thoughts and your
Read a passage and pray back to prayers begin to take on the perspective and desires of God.
God in your own words. “Prayer is foundational for the deployment of all the
2 Thessalonians 3:3-5 other weapons.”
James 4:3-8 Power Realized: Authority of Jesus - The primary aim of the cross
I Peter 5:6-10 was not only to save us but also to defeat Satan. We see Jesus
driving out the cosmic murderer (John 8:44; 12:31), destroying the
I Peter 2:9-12 works of the devil (1 John 3:8), disarming “rulers and authorities”
2 Corinthians 10:3-5 (Colossians 2:15) and rendering powerless the devil (Hebrews
2:14). He gives us that authority and outfits us with power to
continue expanding His kingdom and engaging the brokenness
of this world.

AS YOU LEAVE
»»REMEMBER CHRIST’S DEATH AND RESURRECTION DEFEATED SATAN ONCE AND FOR ALL.
»»STAND FIRM IN THE SPIRITUAL ARMOR THAT GOD PROVIDES.

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 SHOW ME THE MONEY!
STEWARDSHIP [WHAT DO I DO WITH MONEY?]

THE HURDLE
It’d be nice to have a multi-million dollar contract for playing sports and promoting products, but that’s not my
reality right now. Money is always on my mind. I often talk to myself about how much I’m going to need, how I’m
going to get it, the things I will own, the places I will go. If I’m honest, I probably think more about money and
“stuff” than just about anything else. But what’s wrong with that? Taking care of me and my family is an important
pursuit, isn’t it?
How much time and energy do you spend thinking
about money? Why is/isn’t this an issue for you?
I’m tired of hearing about
Do you consider money more of a burdensome money, money, money, money.
responsibility or a pleasurable pursuit? I just want to play the game,
drink Pepsi, and wear Reebok.
When you think about God and money at the same time, Shaquille O’Neal
what comes to mind? Professional Basketball Player

Particularly in the American culture, money plays a huge role in our thinking about education, lifestyle,
access to pleasure, etc. Every day books are published, TV and radio shows broadcast, and seminars
taught on how to increase our wealth.

I HEAR YA The Bible includes examples of people and their approach to money…

Solomon: …God said, “Ask for whatever you want me to give you. “ … Solomon answered, ”So give your
servant a discerning heart to govern your people.” … The Lord was pleased … so God said to him, “Since
you have asked for this­—not long life or wealth for yourself … I will do what you have asked. Moreover, I
will give you what you have not asked for – both riches and honor…” (I Kings 3:5-13)

Haggai: “The silver is mine and the gold is mine declares the Lord of Hosts.” (Haggai 2:8)

A Poor Widow: “But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a fraction
of a penny. Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, ‘I tell you the truth, this poor widow has put more
in the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth, but she, out of her poverty, put in
everything—all she had to live on.’” (Mark 12: 42-44)

Jesus: “So do not worry, saying, what shall we eat? Or what shall we drink? Or what shall we wear? For the
pagans run after all these things, and your Heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his
kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:31-33)
 LISTEN UP
Read Matthew 25: 14-19.

1. How does the master treat each servant the same? Differently?

2. While the servants have differing amounts at their disposal, they each have to decide
what they will do with it. Make a general list describing how they might use the money.

3. In summarizing verses 20-30, we discover the master labeled the first two servants
“good and faithful” for investing his money and getting a return on their investment.
The last servant, who buried his money and gave it back to him unchanged upon his
return, is deemed “wicked and lazy”. What do you think about the master’s response?
Do you think he is justified in casting judgment on his servants for what happened
with the money? Why or why not?

4. According to vs. 24-25, why did the last servant hide the master’s money? What role
does fear play in your handling of money?

5. How might the first two servant’s attitudes toward the master affect what they did
with the money?

FOR THE RECORD

God owns it all! Though the resources and we close our hands we short-circuit the flow
amounts He gives vary from person to person, of trust in both directions. We must embrace
we’re each responsible to boldly invest “our” His ultimate ownership of “my stuff” and
resources in what God deems important. The allow Him to trust us with more or less as He
key idea in both directions is trust: He wants sees fit. Investing resources with a kingdom
to entrust us with His resources and we trust mindset in this life pays dividends both here
Him by seeking ways to bless others with what and in the one to follow, guaranteeing a “well
He gives us, keeping our hands open so He done, good and faithful servant” for all who
can give and take away as He pleases. When take His promises seriously!
STEWARDSHIP [WHAT DO I DO WITH MONEY?]
YOUR MOVE
1. Do you really believe that “your” money is actually His money? What has shaped
your current belief?

2. As you consider your thinking and use of money to this point in your life, are
you mostly a spender, giver, saver, worrier, hoarder, or something else? Why?
If you viewed money the way God does, how would you manage your money
differently?

3. Sometimes we use money in an attempt to satisfy a deeper need. Look at the

examples below and see if you are trying to meet deeper needs through money.

• Money gives me power to rule over others

• Money lets others know I am smart
and/or successful Money and possessions are a
• Money keeps me from being under someone
very effective tool God uses
else’s control to grow us up. Therefore, we
• Money gives me freedom to do what I want shouldn’t ask, ‘God, why are
• Other
you doing this to me?’ but ‘God,
what do you want me to learn’?
What is wrong with this belief?
Ron Blue
Financial Counselor/Author

4. How is your view of money challenged after doing this study? Be honest about
what you’re still struggling with when it comes to stewarding money. Ask God
to help you surrender your thoughts to His will for you in this area.

A Wise Prayer: “Give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my
daily bread. Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say,
‘Who is the LORD?’ Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonor the
name of my God (Proverbs 30:8b-9)”

For additional work on your own, visit The Training Room on the next page for
practical exercises in managing the Master’s money.
AS YOU ENTER
“IF WE HAVE FOOD AND COVERING, WITH THESE WE SHALL BE CONTENT.”
(I TIMOTHY 6:8)
Meditation about Money
Pick 3 days to read and meditate upon these 3 passages. We are
in a growth process where God uses money as a…
• Tool to teach us contentment, balance and interdependence
(Philippians 4:10-14)
• Test of our faithfulness and trustworthiness (Luke 16:10-12)
• Testimony of Jesus living through us producing good works
and leaving a “good taste” in the mouths of others (Matthew
5:13-16)
Money is a major topic in the Bible! Sixteen out
My Personal Budget
of 38 of Jesus’ parables deal with money. The New
Put together a simple personal budget. Record for 2 months…
Testament speaks more about money than heaven
and hell combined. Money is written about five qq what you earn as wages
times more than prayer, and while there are 500 qq what you receive as gifts
plus verses on prayer/faith, over 2,000 verses deal qq what you give back to God and others
with money and possessions. qq what you spend on needs and wants
qq what you save for the future
God wants to guide our hearts and minds toward
a proper perspective about money. While His What changes do you need to make to become more
instruction is challenging, it is also the gateway to responsible and generous with what God gives you to manage?
fully enjoy the riches He entrusts to us!

Your Heart Is With

Your Money! (Luke 12:34)
Read these statements and verses then write down what God is saying to you through them.

• If you attend to your financial plans and dreams, your investment strategies, your clothes closet, and your salary
package more than knowing and serving God, than your heart isn’t really with God. (See Matthew 6:19-24)

• Don’t try to fool God with “appearances” for how giving and generous you are! (See Acts 5:1-4)

• Loving and longing for money leads to all sorts of evil and sinful actions (see I Timothy 6: 7-10)
A Wealthy Landowner: Speaking to the people, he (Jesus) went on, “Take care! Protect yourself against the least bit of
greed. Life is not defined by what you have, even when you have a lot.” Then he told them this story: “The farm of a
certain rich man produced a terrific crop… Then he said, ‘Here’s what I’ll do: I’ll tear down my barns and build bigger
ones. Then I’ll gather in all my grain and goods, and I’ll say to myself, Self, you’ve done well! You’ve got it made and
can now retire. Take it easy and have the time of your life!’ “Just then God showed up and said, ‘Fool! Tonight you die.
And your barn full of goods—who gets it?’ “That’s what happens when you fill your barn with self and not with God.”
(Luke 12:16-21)

How do these truths stir your thinking?

What specific challenges do you think they provide accomplished athletes and coaches?

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»»OFFER YOUR HEART TO GOD DAILY
»»CONFESS GREED, FEAR, COVETING
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