First 5 Steps towards meeting

the Korean Women YOU

choose to meet

BlueM
Introduction.................................................................................................................... 3
1.0. The First Step: Know what you want...................................................................... 4
2.0. Map out your route.................................................................................................. 9
2.1. Where would you meet her?............................................................................... 9
2.3. The Love Nest................................................................................................... 11
3.0. Polish your conversation skills.............................................................................. 14
3.1. Develop the social vibe and mindset................................................................ 14
3.2. Start with a plain “hi.”........................................................................................ 17
4.0. Get a magic wand................................................................................................. 25
5.0. Can you help me, please?.................................................................................... 26
5.1. Ask for directions............................................................................................... 26
5.2. Propose a date.................................................................................................. 28
6.0. In the club............................................................................................................. 31
Introduction
Have you ever seen how a huge skyscraper
gets built?

The first steps aren't even about building the

skycraper. When builders decide on building
one, they check the logistics (where, when
and how the building will be built), set an
estimated 'date of completion', have a
blueprint ready, and set up the foundations.

Finally, when the skyscraper starts getting

built, the bricks are laid one by one, the
floors then follow one on top of the other,
and slowly but gradually, the structure rises
and gets completed.

Likewise, before we go about building that

skyscraper laden with gorgeous Korean
women and all the kimchi you can eat - we
need to go about setting up the foundations.

In this book, we we'll also spend some time

on what to say, but for more in-depth
knowledge, we both know that you can find
many books or sources on that subject, and
you can choose your own system from the
list of Pickup-Gurus out there (Mystery,
Juggler, etc...).

But again don’t worry; we will definitely

spend some time on the topic later in one of
the FIVE steps.

What I would suggest is that you need to

focus on improving yourself in any way
possible.
1.0. The First Step: Know what you
want

For those of you who are actually starting to

get nervous at the thought of going out and
meeting a woman in person, I would say:
RELAX!

The first few steps don’t even require you to

go out and meet women, but you know what
– these beginning steps will give you that
rocket boost you need when you finally
decide to go out and meet the women of
your desires.

1.1. Visualize and Feel Empowered

The first step is to know what you want and

be able to see it in you mind. You want to
picture/hear and feel what it is you want, to
the point where you start feeling an
empowering emotion inside...the kind of
emotion that you get when you watch you
favorite sports team with a tournament, or
when won something yourself. The next
step is either being able to draw it (which I
couldn't do lol) or find pictures of what it is
you want.

So, you need to find at least three to four

pictures of women, who look the way you
want them to be – in line with your emotional
and sexual preferences. These pictures
should be able to create in you that longing
and stimulate your senses.

One good source to locate such pictures is:

[Link] where you don’t
even have to pay for the pictures you
download.

Alternately, you can simply go to ‘Google’

and get search for all the pictures that you
want.

Now, once you are ready with your pictures,

you need to create a folder on your
computer, in which you will them.

You can do something even better – print

out those stimulating pictures and keep
them ready in a real life folder, so that you
can have a look at them whenever you want
to.

If pictures don't do the trick, look into finding

songs that will give you the same feeling
and create a folder with them. If songs don't
do the trick, then I'd recommend looking into
finding objects that give you that fire in your
belly that makes you want to take on the
world, and store them somewhere. An
example of an object would be an imaginary
note from a hot girl, saying “thank you for
the amazing sex” that you've written out.

The key is being able to trigger those

emotions at anytime, and knowing what it is
you want.

Of course, I would recommend keeping

those items in a safe and secret place.
Remember, the key is that these things
should evoke a stirring emotion within you.

Once you have a folder with at least 4

pictures/songs or a box of 4 items that
represent what you want out of meeting and
talking to women, you’re ready for the next
part of the first step.

1.2. Find a reward

Meeting and building relationships with the
women you want is a long and arduous
process.

You need to find a way of rewarding yourself

regularly for putting the effort of going out
and talking to women.

You see, as you start talking to women and

putting yourself out there, you most probably
won’t get much of a material reward
immediately.

Therefore it’s important to keep yourself

motivated with some other form of reward
that is directly under your control.

You very well know by this time that going

out and meeting women, in spite of the
small successes is quite a tough game at
times, and is also frustrating!

So, to offset all those frustrations and

disappointments and to ensure that you
continue being motivated enough to venture
out and meet women, it is essential that you
find a way to directly reward yourself for
those efforts.

Personally, when I go out and finish a

session of meeting women, I reward myself
with a small yet delicious Caramel Macciatto
at a coffee shop.

However, at one point in my life I didn’t have

the money for such a reward on a consistent
basis.

In that case, enjoying ONE hour of my

favorite activity, which at the time was
gaming, for every TWO hours of meeting
women was a good trade-off, and helped me
to continue to put in effort in meeting more
and more women, in spite of the
disappointments.

Ok, the ratio need not be the same.

What is more important was that it kept me

motivated in working on myself and my skills
of meeting women.

So, please be sure to find a ratio of work /

reward that genuinely suits you.

If it means spending more time with the

reward than the work you’re putting in
towards meeting women, so be it.

I would suggest that you genuinely start

from there, and gradually work towards
shifting the balance to favor your ‘meeting-
women’ time.

1.3. Find a hobby

As we have discussed before, the game of

meeting and dating women can be a tough
and frustrating one.
The worst thing you might want to do is to
depend completely on the results you get
from this endeavor.

It’s an irony, as we know, that in some

cases, the harder you want something to
happen, the further away you’ll be from
getting what you want – this is applicable to
getting women as well!

Remember your school days, what used to

happen when you were trying to make
friends?

The harder you tried to be part of the group

and make friends, the more likely it was to
be pushed away by that group and labeled a
“try-hard.”

Yes, I have experienced the same when

approaching beautiful women, and I reckon
that you did too!

So, you need to find some other interesting

activity that will be your pursuit, apart from
meeting women – this activity should be
able to keep your mind fresh, relaxed, and
more important – it should keep you off-the-
edge.

If possible, you should find a hobby that will

make you more attractive to women, but of
course, it should also involve your focus and
interest in women.

Some such hobbies include: working out

(with weights), latin dancing, and martial
arts.
If you don’t have money to spend for any of
these hobbies, there is still a way out, there
are other hobbies that don’t need any
money – for example: learning a new
language, exercising, learning an instrument
on your own (your voice, a guitar, etc...),
doing improv comedy and anything else that
you enjoy and that would get your mind off
of women.

And hey, masturbating doesn’t fall into this

category – remember, I said that the hobby
mustn’t involve you thinking about women.

2.0. Map out your route

Okay, we’re almost ready with getting you

talking to women.

Before we get you talking to them, we want

to get you ready to lead them.

As a man, it’s your responsibility to take the

date towards where you both want it to go:
to a location where you will have sex.

So, let’s start planning out for it – get a pad

and a pen ready, this needs some written
activity!

2.1. Where would you meet her?

Know where you’ll meet her on the second

day you are both meeting.

Will it be at a coffee shop?

Will it be in front of a subway exit?

How about at your place?

Wherever it is, be sure to be able to spot her

quickly, and this holds true for Asia women
as they tend to have similar features, such
as black hair and eyes (you’d think they’re
all sisters ;-) ).

If it’s at your place, invite her in real fast as

you make some last minute preparations,
and then take her out of there really fast.

What this will do is get her comfortable with

your place, and genuinely feel that you’re
not after the quick ‘hump and dump’
strategy.

2.2. Decide on the right place

Know what spots you’d want to take them to

such as a coffee shop, hookah bar, and ice
skating rink.

It could be any place that allows you both to

enjoy fun time together.

This is very important because she needs to

experience her emotions, and be able to link
them to you.

Some places I would pick on are: Salsa

classes, ice skating rinks, hookah bars, etc.

Not-so-good places are: movie theaters,

expensive restaurants, etc... because they
make it so explicit that you are “dating” and
thus she will be much more conservative,
and also the fun experiences are linked to
either the movie, or the restaurant and not
our ‘man-of-the-hour’ (ahem: you!).

The key is to find places where you can talk

to her about where to go next (hence:
‘seeding the time bridge’), so that when she
is really positive about going somewhere,
you can say “hey, why don’t we go to a
hookah bar, you’ll love it! What day is better
for you, wednesday or sunday?”

Remember NOT to schedule a first meet-up

on Friday or Saturday because you need to
show yourself as a cool popular guy, and
cool popular guys have social engagements
on Fridays / saturdays.

Fake it till you make it!

2.3. The Love Nest

This is the most important part of the

logistics process.

You see, women love sex more than men,

but they aren’t allowed to show that side to
just ‘anyone’, nor can they show it
‘anywhere.’

You need to take them to a place where they

are no longer seen by society or by
judgmental eyes.

She needs to genuinely feel that when she

has sex with you, it will be in a private place,
and will remain a secret.

Examples would be: Your place, her place, if

you’re in Korea: a DVD room, a Singing
room, or a love motel.

It’s been my experience, however that your

place as the place to bring women to is the
best choice by far, mainly because the girl
still has plausible deniability (”I went there
because I thought he wanted to show me
his pictures!”) and you control the
environment there (which is very important).

For example, you can set up where the

pictures will be, what lighting the place will
have, what smell (I recommend investing in
incense, as it will morph your place into
another world altogether!).

When talking about the seduction location,

you want to seed a few thoughts about it
that give her plausible deniability.

For example, you want to seed thoughts

about your guitar at your place, or the
pictures of your travels at your place, etc.

So, now that we have done the discussion,

it’s time for you to put it all down.

Yes, go get a pad and pen and go around,

drawing maps of where you’ll be taking
women.

Also write down what’s good about the

place(s) where you’ll be taking them.

This will give you the foundation you need to

make sure that the interaction takes place
smoothly and will lead to where it needs to,
and puts you far ahead of the average guy
who simply does ‘whatever feels good at the
moment’.

Always have a plan.

2.4. Get good at 'reverse engineering'

'Reverse-engineering' is an NLP (Neuro-

linguistic programming) term that refers to
visualizing yourself at your desired outcome
(whether it means having passionate sex, or
a great date) and going backwards in the
interaction.

This is something you can do while taking

the shower before meeting her (which I
highly recommend taking) as it would take
just a few minutes, usually less than 5.

A friend of mine from PickupAsia who is one

of the best naturals I've ever known, has a
visualization technique that he does every
time he goes on a date.

He takes 4 minutes and sees himself with

his target with whom he's going to go on a
date with, and pictures both of them having
wonderful sex.

The visuals get his whole body going and

sets up for him the mission of making that
visualization happen.

Always overestimate the power of

visualization followed with action.

3.0. Polish your conversation skills

Ok, now to the meat of the work.

The first thing you want to work on is, of

course, training yourself to start
conversations with women.

3.1. Develop the social vibe and mindset.

This is the most important aspect of pick-up

when you’re starting out.

One important aspect of dating Korean

women, or women in general, it’s not just
about what you say but mostly about how
you say it.

What you need to do is when you go out

and try these exercises, do them with a view
to being social and bringing social value to
people (cute little anecdotes, fun stories,
interesting facts, etc.).

When talking to these people, focus on

talking to them as if they were long lost
friends, or your fun little sister, “How to do
that?’

For instance, you can as well imagine you’re

talking to a friend and just chill.

Play a chill song in your head, such as "All-

star" by Smashmouth (that's what I use).

See that person as a friend for whom you

want to genuinely bring value to, feel
comfortable in your skin and in your
situation, and allow yourself to enjoy the
interaction.

If you've started a conversation with a

woman and she doesn’t speak English, or
your language, and you don’t speak hers,
then work with what you have and
determine if you can enjoy and deal with it.

If you can, then great. Keep going!

If you can't, then excuse yourself and move

on. Life's too short to be spent with people
you don't want to spend your time with.
If you make a mistake, such as a socially
un-calibrated one, let it go, and move on
with the interaction.

Remember, everyone makes social slip-ups

and you're human too.

When the woman is speaking, just listen.

Don't think of what to say next.

Don't focus on how good it would feel to be

banging her (hehe, you're forgiven for that
one ;-). You can think these thoughts when
you're nearing the sexual escalation that I
talk about it my e-book.)

Focus on the vibe and how you're enjoying

yourself in that moment.

Agreed, it is easier said than done!

With experience and regular interactions,

you and your body will start getting used to it
and will know what to do.

Trust me on this one.

In order to learn what to say, including how

to say it AND to be sure that how you're
acting with women the way a man who's
successful with women would, I seriously
recommend investing in a “Boot Camp”.
When you're ready to take one, I
recommend spending time on finding a
company that feels right for you.

For me, PickupAsia does a FANTASTIC job

with training you what to say and how to
lead the interaction to where you want to
take it.

That's what I did when I came to Korea and

I've appreciated that I've taken it ever since.

Now let's talk to them!

3.2. Start with a plain “hi.”

The first real-life exercise you need to do is

to simply say “hi” to women that are around
you as you go about your business.

If you want, you can even say it in Korean

“annyong haseyo.”

Walk by the women you want to talk to, and

wave just say “hi.”

DON’T put your face or hand or anything in

front of her face, or too close to her.

Simply say “hi” to her as if you knew them

already.

Say "hi" to pretty women, ugly women, old

women, young women, younger women,
women who are too young to be said "hi" to,
and of course to the men.

3.3. Train yourself to be social.

It will really make you stand out in a positive

light.

A small note of caution: If you're in Korea,

where the culture is very much introverted,
you have to be sure to keep your eye on the
reactions of the people you're talking to.

Let’s now discuss an exercise.

You’ll notice a tingling sensation occur

before even doing this exercise, which is
called “approach anxiety.”

Simply accept it, and continue with the

exercise.

Think of it as the same 'tingling feeling' that

you experience before jumping in cold pool
(credit Kid44).

Its purpose isn’t to hold you back from

swimming, but rather to let you know to be
careful while you swim, and to get ready for
a cold one! ;-)

That being said, once you start doing the

exercise, you’ll experience the tingling
turning in to adrenaline.

That’s when the “pickup rush” kicks in.

Enjoy it, for it will be your best friend as you

continue with these exercises.

Of course, you might find that you are now

at a loss for words and do not know what to
say next.

That’s where these next exercises will help

you tremendously.
3.4. Build your improvisation skills

Alone or with a friend, practice pointing to

things around you, while using a word or
building a sentence based on it.

Better yet, work on telling a story that comes

from the word in question.

The BEST yet, work on telling a story that

conveys an emotion from the word in
question (more advanced, but MUCH
MORE powerful!).

For example:
Word: Chopsticks
”Story: When I was younger, I went to China
with my family, and we went to a Chinese
restaurant and I was scared because I
thought that we were going to eat dogs, and
I love dogs!

When our food came it was chicken, so I

relaxed but they didn’t have any forks or
knives because it was in the middle of
nowhere.

So my father taught me how to use

chopsticks, and I was so excited and so
hungry that I learned how to use them that
night, (okay, so I stabbed the food
sometimes).

It’s amazing what you’ll learn when you

need to.”

Next, you want to be able to tell the same

story, in as few words and as basic as
possible.

Basic Story: (point to yourself) me, (Pull

your hand out, and extend the thumb to
shape Korea and China).

In China (point to China), I learned (point to

your head) chopsticks (show Chopsticks, or
use your fingers as chopsticks) but I wasn't
good (frown).

So I did like this! (Poke at the food) but after

(roll your fingers around), I get good, like
this (use it well) and so I was happy!
(Smile!)

Do one story like this a day, and write the

story down.

For more about story-telling, you can check

out Frank Kermit's e-book Everything out of
her mouth is a test which goes into what to
mention in your stories.

If you really want to work on your

Storytelling skills for talking to women, I
recommend investing in PickupAsia’s
Storytelling Seminar, which goes into how to
build your identity, set up vulnerability stories
that make women feel various emotions
linked to you, and get a better
understanding of the structure of your
stories.

I have taken it myself and now I can create

stories for myself based on my life
experiences, that make me feel genuine and
honest and that makes the women
genuinely attracted to me for being me.
Here's a small example, and get an idea of
how much the stories are saying about you.

Eg #1:
You: I ate dog yesterday! I didn't want too
but my friends forced me to. When I did, I
swallowed it because otherwise I would've
spat it on my jacket, and it would've made a
mess.

Let's look at what's being communicated in

that story:

I ate dog yesterday! (okay, that's cool. Good

for you...)

I didn't want to but my friends forced me to

(uhh, so you are always made to do things
by your friends, eh? You're not a leader of
men!)

When I did, I swallowed it because

otherwise I would've spat it on my jacket,
and it would've made a mess. (umm, gross
and I don't care!)

Let's write the same story from a different

point of view and look at the difference.

Have you ever eaten something you never

thought you would? Well, for me, I ate dog
yesterday! I went with my friends and once I
put it in my mouth, and although I was
nervous at first, I felt adventurous so I
swallowed it. It felt good after it was in my
mouth.

Okay, let's take a look:

- Have you ever eaten something you never

thought you would? (okay, so I'm engaged
in conversation. Yes, in fact I did! Why?
What happened to you?)

- I ate dog yesterday! (okay, that's cool! No,

I've never done that before)

- I went with my friends (okay, he's social).

- once I put it in my mouth, and although I

was nervous at first, I felt adventurous so I
swallowed it. (okay, emotions. I can relate to
emotions! I've gone from 'nervous' to
'adventurous' before)

- It felt good after it was in my mouth. (okay,

so there's a happy ending after feeling
adventurous)
This isn't even looking into the pattern of the
story. Can you find it? It has to do with you
(whom she's relating to at that moment
because you engaged her) going from
nervous to adventurous and having a good
ending.

This, my friends, is an embedded emotional

theme that gets her linking the experience of
going from nervous to adventurous with you
as a good thing. For me, a guy who likes
adventurous girls, I want this kind of theme
in my stories.

At this point, developing emotional themes

is an advanced technique, but I want to
show you how we can all make our stories
and conversational tidbits more captivating
and effective.

Anyways, you should be writing stories

regularly.
You have to get good at telling stories about
yourself, and connecting with people
(especially women) through it.

When telling the stories, look at the woman's

feedback she's giving you: if she seems
hooked and looked like she was paying
attention, then it is good.

If she is drifting away, then it either means

that your story didn't strike a chord in her or
that you didn't keep her involved (get her
involved as much as possible by pausing
during your stories, and checking on her by
saying, "you're with me, right? You
understand, right?" and wait for her to nod
or show attention again).

3.5 Create an emotional roller-coaster for

her.

When you’re ready, begin injecting emotions

into your stories.

Have you been able to identify the emotions

in the previous story?

Let’s go over it again.

Story: When I was younger, I went to China

with my family, and we went to a Chinese
restaurant and I was scared (emotion)
because I thought that we were going to eat
dogs, and I love dogs (emotion)!

When our food came it was chicken, so I

relaxed (emotion) BUT they didn’t have any
forks or knives because it was in the middle
of nowhere.

So my father taught me how to use

chopsticks, and I was so excited (emotion)
and so hungry that I learnt how to use them
that night, (okay, so I stabbed the food
sometimes) (emotion)!

It’s amazing what you’ll learn when you

need to.

What am I doing?

I’m taking a woman on an emotional roller-

coaster through my stories.

Learn to take women through emotional

journeys.

This is a skill that will serve you from when

you meet them until the day you end your
relationship with them.

That being said, also train yourself to

express how you genuinely feel about
things, yet at the same time not being
controlled by how you feel about things.

3.6. Socialize & Talk in Korean

The next step is to go to the venues you

wish to get good at (where the women you
want to meet are).
And, every day, write a word in Korean in
your cell phone or using pen and paper.

On ‘Youtube’ there are videos about how to

learn some Korean every day.

Take a few words, and go talk to women and

practice them as much as you can.

4.0. Get a magic wand

Go get a map, pocketbook dictionary or

anything else that might help you.

The best one definitely, is to get a text in

Korean on your cell phone, saying
something good about you, and having it
been sent by a girl (or someone with a girl’s
name).

A small note: Get to love your cell phone.

I use it to store information such as names,
anything I noticed about the girl I was talking
to (because honestly, Korean names are
difficult for me to remember, and as you get
good at this, you’ll be getting numbers
quickly, and you want to have something to
remember them by) and the date that we’ve
just set up.

A pocket-size ‘translation guide’ is great as

well because you’re using it not only as a
prop to talk to girls, but also to learn some
Korean.

You should have one that will fit into your

pocket so that you can use it at anytime and
then put it away.
I’ve had fun with translation guides.

I would go up to a Korean woman and ask

her if she spoke Korean.

If she replied with “yes,” I would then test

her knowledge of the language.

Usually she does well ;-).

Once I did that, she would usually ask me

where I’m from, and the conversation would
start from there (you can check out the
original stack I worked with when I first
came to Korea).

5.0. Can you help me, please?

5.1. Ask for directions

Now if you’re daring enough go out into the

field, whether it is the mall, coffee shop,
street, or subway and ask women for
directions to a certain place.

At this point once you see a girl you’re into

you should:
Simply go up to her side, as if you’re looking
for where to go, or what the word means,
tap them on the shoulder with the back of
your palm and talk to them as follows:

You: Do you speak Korean? (this always

gets them by surprise, especially if you tell
them right after that they look like
foreigners).
Follow it up with

You: (gesture with your hand for them to

come over) What does this mean? OR
Where is this place? OR Where am I?

You preferably should pick a word, location

or picture of a place that you can use for an
immediate date (hence checking out your
logistics) such as a famous tea shop, coffee
shop, restaurant, etc.

For words, you can look for the word of a

sport or something you can do on an instant
date such as “Salsa dancing, ice skating,
arcades, etc.”

The reason being is that you want to take

her to that place as you keep on talking, or
set up a date to meet at that place some
other time.

Anyways, once they start answering, you

have to quickly change the topic, so as to
keep them engaged and leave an open loop
for conversation.

Usually, this is how I proceed:

You: Have you been overseas? OR Can you

cook? OR Do you speak any foreign
languages?

And what such a conversation does is that it

changes the topic to something else that
you can expand on, and then you are both
having a real conversation!

Another note: The skeleton of my 'game' is

the M3 model (Mystery’s M3 model. google
“mystery method” or “pickupasia” to learn
more about it). I've taken a BootCamp that
covers both 'Natural' and 'Routine' game,
and find that they both served me at
different times. The best option is to have a
system that gives you room for both, and
that's why I recommend PickupAsia's.

5.2. Propose a date

If she asks you why you are asking her for
directions, or why you are talking to her, tell
her because you think she’s very pretty and
that you wanted to talk to her. Be genuine
with her in this case, because if she asks
this, she knows why you're talking with her,
and wants to know if you're being real with
her.

When admitting your intentions, put yourself

out there and dare to risk making a fool of
yourself.

Like Robert Kennedy said “Only those who

dare to fail greatly achieve greatly.”

Once you tell her how you feel about her,

you should switch topics as soon as
possible.

This is important so that you allow her to

grasp how powerful a man you are, without
thinking too much about it. Women admire
men who are in touch with (and NOT
controlled by) their emotions. Women abhor
men who straight-out lie for sex.

If she goes back to giving you directions,

and tells you, it either means that she’s not
keen on the current conversation (switch
topic) or she wants to talk about something
else (switch topic).

If this happens and she closes the loop,

simply thank her and talk about something
else.

You need to be quick on this one, because

otherwise she will own the conversation and
thus will lead it to a dead end, which is not
where you want the conversation to go.

Now, as the next step, you should practice

asking them to take you there (an instant
date!).

If they say that they can’t, don’t push the

date.

Simply agree, and talk about something

else.

At this point, two things will happen: She’ll

either have to go (I’ll talk about this a little
later) or she’ll stick around and still talk to
you.

If she’s still there, simply walk in the

direction of the location, and she’ll follow.

If she says she has to go, set up a date with

her for that place.

Once you set the date and time, don’t ask

for her number.

Instead, simply tell her to give you her

phone.

Once you have her phone, call your phone

with it and you’ll have her number!
Tell her to write your name in her phone.

If she did it, check it anyways.

If not, tell her how to spell your name.

Make sure you write her name in your

phone, and then talk about something else.

Once you part, be sure to put in the meeting

time on your phone as well as something to
remind you of her by (there’s a memo
section in the phone).

Later during the day, send a text telling her

how it was nice to meet her, and that you’ll
see her on the date!

If you get a reply, you’re Golden.

If you don’t then most probably she won’t

show up at the date, so don’t waste your
time by going there.

Another way to confirm if she’ll be at the

date, is on the day of the date, send her a
text telling her that you’re sorry because
you’ll be 10 minutes late.

If she replies with “ok”, then it’s on.

Anything else or no reply means that she

isn’t planning on meeting you.

These are the basic steps to get you started

and on your journey.
I’ve supplied you with a mindset to adopt,
basic skills to develop (these 5 steps,
storytelling and improvisation), a support
group ([Link]) and
[Link] and mentors.

Like Morpheus said in ‘The Matrix,’ “I can

only show you the door, but you’re the one
who has to walk through it.”

Well, walk through it.

6.0. In the club

One word about clubs: Personally, I don’t

enjoy clubs very much and although you can
use a lot of the information in the clubs,
reading a book on meeting girls in clubs is
not the best alternative.

Again, I personally believe in taking a Boot

Camp for this option (heh, I've said this
enough haven't I? ;-) ) or hanging out with
naturals who go clubbing, mainly because
clubs have their own pace, culture, volume
and social rules that are hard to catch at
first, and club game is much quicker than
anything else.

Going there as a wallflower who doesn't

have a clue, only to watch other guys score
and see yourself go back home to jerk off all
the sexual frustration is NOT a good option.

Getting the education needed or making the

contacts needed to score regularly from
clubs is a much better option, even if it'll cost
you in time or money, or both.

Remember the quote "find the prize, find the

price, pay it?"

This is where you decide.

Thank you for reading these supplements.

Now good luck and make your love life

happen!

BlueMystery.

PS: Here's a routine stack that I've used for

a long time. Enjoy it!

Sample routine stack designed for Korea

that has helped me

PUA: (in English) Do you guys know Baek

Yon-Woon? (A Korean actor; the name
doesn’t matter because you're going to
follow it up with some DHV and grounding
the opener).

HB: huh? or no?

Ground the opener.

PUA: (in English): He's a Korean actor, and
my Japanese friends (DHV) know him but
my Korean friends (major Display of Value
because it shows that you have Korean
friends) don't. Have you heard of him?

HB: no

As you're grounding the opener with that

second part (making it more solid) you work
your body so that you lock in any way you
can.

Slight tease: Not always necessary but

it's fun and guarantees attraction.

PUA: (in Korean) onhe nahra saram I ey

oh? (Where are you from?
HB: (usually looking shocked) I'm Korean!
PUA: (in Korean, and acting surprised)
Chincha?! (Seriously)
HB: giggles
PUA: (in Korean, checking her out)
Girende, Aprika / Wayguk saram Katayo
(you look like an African / Foreign person)
HB: She will be shocked lol. (Has
happened every time, it's funny).
PUA: (pull her in): Nongdamn ee ey oh!!
(I'm kidding!)
HB: Laughs a little. (She might even ask
about you and where you're from).

Qualification: I recommend finding what you

genuinely like in women and then qualifying
her IN KOREAN (Take the time to ask
friends or look in books how to translate)

PUA: Waygukmal haseyo? (Do you speak a

foreign language?)
Wayguk Kaboassoyo? (Have you been
overseas?)
Yuri halsu issoyo? (Can you cook?)

She will either qualify or not.

If she does, pull her in, talking about how

you like it, but then push her back as you
like it too much.

If she doesn't push her away saying silly

man, hey so are you - I'm disappointed.

Comfort: Again, I'd say ask questions that

you like.
If you don't know what to ask, then focus on
getting them to feel.
How to do this?

Some NLP and common sense

Example:
PUA: If you had free time, what would you
want to do? (Sigan issomiun, bo halkoyo?)
Her: Blah blah
PUA: Creeyo? (really?) eego ha miun,
kibunee ottey yo? (if you did this, how would
you feel?
Her: Good (or whatever she feels).
PUA: (Anchor somewhere on her and say
"good")

Here are some regular questions you'll get:

• Where are you from?

• What is your job?
• How old are you?
• How long have you been in Korea?

For these kinds of questions, it's a good idea

to come up with answers that will take you
where you want to go.

For me, I like teasing and showing

personality, so I have some Cocky and
Funny answers to these.

Ex:
Where are you from? “ I'm Korea, but I had
eye surgery.

What is your job? I'm a spy. See that

ajumma over there? We're spies but
shhhhh……!

How old are you? I'm 50 years old but I

workout (act like you're doing exercises).

So I'm Obba (older brother).

Then, correct their Korean where they have

to be extra polite to you.

How long have you been in Korea? North or

South?! South? I've been here 8 months, 5
days, 3 hours, 6 minutes and 19 seconds or
so.
(This has been getting a laugh).

You can use this stack, or modify it as you

please, but I recommend making your own
based on modeling this, and the information
you've learned above.