Humility
The Key to Learning, Growing and
Being
Presented by Mark Brainard for the Lifebook Membership Community
21 April 2022
Humility is a First Virtue…..for Other People
~ Oliver Wendall Holmes
The Humble Mindset
The First Virtue
• Opposite of arrogance
• Grounded
• Connected – everyone is your peer
• Selfless
• Growth oriented
• Self-reinforcing - societal values
Self Knowledge
Rooted in Reality
• Accurate Inner Perception
• Emotional Intelligence
• Catalyst for Self Discipline
Identity Shift
Make Humility Your Anchor
• Moderate Outward
Expression
• “Other” and “Higher”
Focused
• Lifelong Learner
Launchpad to Mastery
Humility to Fall in Love with Process
• Foundational mindset
• Focuses energy
• Accelerates
To be Humble is Not to Think Less of Oneself
But to Think of Oneself Less
~ C.S. Lewis
The Gift
Lowering the Protective Walls
• Holding Space
• Connect with ‘human-ness”
• Listen without judgement
• Seek first to understand
Humility in the Work Space
• Be a humble leader
• Give away power
• Deflect credit
• Have the courage to be wrong
• Be a learner and a teacher
• Guide, don’t control
• Prioritize team success – elevate
others
Helpful Additional Tips
• Practice mindfulness. Accept what is
• Practice gratitude. Appreciate what is
• Situational awareness – scale your approach
• Seek unfiltered feedback (no defensiveness)
• Perspective on time
• Reverence for nature, the universe
• Detach from outcomes
• Detach from other peoples’ opinions
• Cultivate an abundance mentality
Helpful Additional Tips
• Never connect failure to your identity
• Ask questions
• Admit when you are wrong
• Manage urge for ‘more’. Minimalist mindset
• Drop the need to impress; just be impressive
• Be the least important person in the room
• Treat everyone with dignity and respect
• Silence