When it comes to celebrating, the number 18, particularly when it comes to gifts of flowers, often
plays an important part in gifting. In a "debut," a Philippine coming of age ceremony, 18 roses
are given to signify the 18 most important people in your life. These can be family members,
friends, teachers, or mentors.
ROSES
In a Philippine debut, 18 roses symbolize the debutante's readiness for
romance and her most important people in her life. The roses are given to the
debutante by 18 men who are close to her.
Explanation
The roses: The roses represent the debutante's readiness for romance
and affection.
The men: The men who give the roses are usually the debutante's
closest male relatives and friends, such as her father, uncles, cousins,
or a significant other.
The dance: Each man gives the debutante a rose and then dances with
her. The first dance is usually with the father, and the last dance is often
with a romantic partner or best friend.
Candles
In a Filipino debut, 18 candles symbolize the debutante's life and her journey
into the future. The candles are lit by the debutante's closest friends and
family, who share stories and well-wishes for her.
Explanation
Each candle represents a year: The 18 candles represent each year
of the debutante's life.
A reminder of resilience: The candles serve as a reminder of the
debutante's resilience and strength.
A guiding light: The candles light the way for the debutante as she
enters adulthood.
A bright future: The candles symbolize the debutante's hope for a
bright future.
A relationship with her friends: The candles represent the debutante's
relationship with her closest female friends.
TREASURES
In a Philippine debut, the "18 treasures" tradition symbolizes the debutante
receiving gifts from 18 different people.
Explanation
The 18 treasures tradition is a recent addition to the debut ceremony.
In this tradition, 18 people, either male or female, give the debutante a
gift.
The debutante's parents may choose the people who give the gifts,
such as family members or godparents.
The 18 treasures tradition may also include speeches from the people
giving the gifts.
Other traditions in a debut include the 18 roses and 18 candles. The 18 roses
represent the debutante's readiness for romance, and the 18 candles
represent each year of her life.
BILLS
In a Filipina debut, 18 blue bills symbolize stability and independence. The
bills are cash gifts of the Philippine one thousand peso note, which is
blue. Godparents and grandparents often give the debutante 18 blue bills,
along with a well-wishing explanation.
Other traditions in a debut include:
18 treasures: A group of 18 people, of any gender, give the debutante
a gift and usually give a speech.
18 roses: The debutante gives 18 roses to the 18 most important
people in her life, such as family, friends, teachers, or mentors.
18 candles: The debutante has 18 candles for wishes.
18 songs: Family and friends dedicate a song to the debutante.
A debut is a coming-of-age ceremony in the Philippines that celebrates with
family and friends.