Seven Keys To Getting Motivated
—A Worksheet
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D ifferent people get motivated in different ways. What works for a friend may fail dismally for you. In these pages, you’ll learn
seven basic keys to getting motivated. Each one has helped a number of people reach their goals. Which one will help you
unlock your potential? Try them all to find out!
Turn The Key
You’ll notice that each of the following seven keys has questions for you to answer. Some also suggest drawing a picture or writing
a poem or essay. These exercises will bring out both your logical and creative sides. You may find that one side works better than
the other for you. Try doing all of the exercises so you can find out.
As a first step, write down something that you are trying to motivate yourself to do:
Key #1: Make It Wonderful Key #2: Love and Respect Yourself
Think about the project or lifestyle change you want to take This key helps you focus on your positive qualities and free
on. Imagine how much better your life will be after you’ve yourself from negative thinking.
completed it. What are the benefits you will be working
toward? Close your eyes and actually visualize yourself Complete the following statements:
gaining these benefits. Now write a few sentences about your
I have personal strengths that will help me reach my goal.
successful completion of the project or behavior:
These strengths include:
Next, fill in the blank: I allow myself to fully feel how much
Past successes and failures have taught me skills that will help
I want .
me reach this goal. These skills include:
Do you know anyone who has successfully completed a
similar project or lifestyle change? Write down any names
here:
I, (fill in your name) ,
deserve to succeed at what I’m trying to do. I forgive myself
What benefits do these people seem to be enjoying that you for my past mistakes, making up for them wherever I can. I
would like to have for yourself? focus on the good in me.
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Key #3: Consider the Costs Would joining a support group help you reach this goal? If
Some people find it helps to focus on the costs of not reaching so, how could you find or start one? (Good resources might
their goals. Other people are discouraged by this approach. include the Internet, a health professional and your local
Decide for yourself whether this key will help you or harm phonebook or library.)
you. If you think it will help, complete the following
statements that focus on the negative effects of not achieving
your goal. You should only fill in the statements that apply to
you.
Would it help to have others check in with you about your
I am tired of . progress? If so, who could do this for you?
I believe the following will happen if I allow things to stay the
way they are now.
Does it help you to have other people notice or praise your
accomplishments? If so, whom could you ask for this praise or
recognition?
I feel when I
think about things staying the same.
Key #4: Involve Other People Does it help you to compete with others who have the same
Support from others often helps people achieve goals. goal or join some type of charitable or team activity? If so,
Companionship, praise, advice, gentle nudges, and what’s one step you could take towards this option?
competition are all examples of support.
Answer the following questions:
Would it help you to talk with someone as you work toward Key #5: Make A Plan and Break It Down
this goal? If so, with whom could you talk? “A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.”
–Lao Tzu
Committing to a project and making it manageable are equally
important. First, make your goal a high priority so that you
Would it help you to do any activities, such as exercise, with
set aside time to work on it every week. Then break it down
someone else? If so, with whom might you do them? (A
into manageable chunks—a step-by-step list of what tasks you
reliable friend who shares your interest is especially helpful
need to do and what skills or information you might need—
here.)
and set up a time line for accomplishing each step. If you get
off track, adjust your plan or expand the time line.
Are you ready to make your project high priority? Are you
ready to take the first step? Yes No
Would it help you to have fun while working toward your
goal? If so, how could other people help you make this project If you answered “yes” please continue with this key. If you
fun? (Getting together for a “bake healthy desserts” day could answered “no,” please continue to use the other keys until you
be one example.) feel a stronger commitment.
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On the lines below, please describe your overall plan:
Key #6: Make Sure Your Environment
Supports Your Goal
List the places where you spend a lot of time (for example,
home, work, car, business travel by air or car, and so on):
What, if anything, do you need to learn?
What skills, if any, do you need to develop? Think about your physical surroundings in these places. Do
they support the project you plan to undertake? (If you want
to quit smoking, for example, a smoke-free environment will
be helpful.)
What is the first step you need to take?
Now take a minute to think about how you can change
How long will it take you to complete your first step?
your environment to help support your goals. (Can you,
for
example, remove all cigarettes, ash trays, matches and lighters
from the environment and put packages of gum where you
Do you need to overcome any major obstacles to accomplish usually keep cigarettes?)
the first step? If so, how will you overcome them?
Answer these questions as many times as necessary, as you Sometimes making changes in your environment requires
continue to take small steps toward your goal. agreement with someone else. Do you need to talk to anyone
about making changes? If so, to whom?
For Key #5, keep in mind:
“Inch by inch,
life’s a cinch. What’s the best way to approach this person?
Yard by yard,
life is hard.”
– anonymous
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In the spaces below, draw two pictures. First draw a picture of one of your environments as it is now. Then draw it as you would like it
to be (if you’re not comfortable drawing, take the time to close your eyes and imagine the two environments).
Key #7: Pay Attention to Your Feelings Anxiety, for example, may encourage you to carefully
Change stirs up positive and negative feelings for most of us. consider what skills you need to achieve your goal.
Your positive feelings may include excitement, anticipation,
Just thinking or writing about your feelings may help you
happiness, hope, and pride. Your negative feelings may
understand the purpose of a negative emotion and move
include resentment, fear of failing, self-doubt, anger, sorrow,
beyond it. At other times, you may need to talk with a trusted
being overwhelmed—even fear of succeeding.
friend or a professional counselor, such as an Employee
What positive feelings do you have about the change you want Assistance Counselor, to do so.
to make? Try to state them in single words (happy, excited,
Write down a positive purpose that your negative feelings
and so on).
about your goal might serve.
Focus on these positive feelings as much as you can. Let them
Is there some action you need to take?
wash over you.
What negative feelings do you have about the change you
want to make?
Do you need to talk with someone about your feelings? If so,
to whom?
Sometimes negative feelings can serve a positive purpose.
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