Chapter 10
Chapter 10
CHAPTER 10
THE SELF
During the elementary school years, children show major advances in how they understand
themselves and others. Their self-descriptions become more abstract and socially grounded,
while beliefs about their abilities and self-worth increasingly influence motivation, behavior,
and achievement. Self-efficacy and self-regulation are especially important during this stage.
Development of Self-Understanding
Self-understanding becomes more complex in middle and late childhood, especially between
the ages of 8 and 11. Children begin to describe themselves less in terms of concrete actions
or physical traits and more in terms of psychological characteristics, such as personality
traits and internal qualities. This reflects cognitive growth and increased self-reflection.
Social self – the aspect of the self that is defined by relationships, group
memberships, and social roles.
Children increasingly include social roles and group memberships in their self-descriptions,
showing awareness that identity is shaped by social relationships. They also rely more on
social comparison, judging how well they perform relative to peers rather than in absolute
terms. Research shows that children older than 7 are more likely to use information about
others’ performance when evaluating themselves.
Understanding Others
Children’s understanding of others improves greatly during middle and late childhood
through advances in perspective taking. This ability allows children to recognize that others
may think, feel, and perceive situations differently from themselves.
Perspective taking – the ability to assume another person’s point of view and
understand their thoughts and feelings.
Cognitive flexibility – the ability to think about situations in multiple ways and adapt
to different viewpoints.
Children also become more skeptical of others’ claims during this stage, showing improved
ability to evaluate the reliability of information.
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Self-esteem and self-concept are important aspects of children’s emotional well-being, but
they refer to different evaluations of the self. These evaluations are influenced by early
parent-child interactions and continue to develop during the elementary school years.
Self-esteem – the global evaluative dimension of the self; overall feelings of self-
worth or self-image.
Children with high self-esteem are more likely to have experienced sensitive caregiving and
secure attachment early in life. However, self-esteem does not always reflect reality. It may
be accurate, inflated, or distorted. Research links low self-esteem to negative outcomes such
as anxiety, depression, and delinquency, though most findings are correlational rather than
causal.
Self-Efficacy
Self-efficacy plays a central role in motivation and achievement during middle and late
childhood. It influences how children approach tasks, challenges, and learning situations.
Self-efficacy – the belief that one can master a situation and produce favorable
outcomes.
Helplessness – the belief that one cannot succeed, even with effort.
Children with high self-efficacy are more likely to choose challenging tasks, persist longer,
and exert greater effort. In contrast, children with low self-efficacy tend to avoid difficult
tasks and give up easily.
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Self-Regulation
Self-regulation becomes increasingly important during middle and late childhood as children
gain greater control over their behavior, emotions, and thinking.
Cognitive control – the ability to focus attention, plan, and regulate thinking
processes.
Higher levels of self-regulation are linked to better academic achievement, improved social
competence, and fewer emotional and behavioral problems. Self-regulation also acts as a
protective factor for children growing up in low socioeconomic conditions.
Industry – a sense of competence and productivity that develops when children are
encouraged to master skills and complete tasks successfully.
Children develop a sense of industry when parents and teachers support their efforts to
build, create, and learn. Conversely, repeated academic failure or criticism can lead to
feelings of inferiority. School plays a major role in shaping this stage, and supportive
teachers can help restore children’s confidence and motivation.
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Emotional Development
Emotional development during middle and late childhood is marked by increased emotional
understanding and improved regulation of emotions. Children become better at recognizing
emotions in themselves and others and at understanding that people can experience
multiple emotions at the same time. They also develop a greater awareness of emotions
such as pride, shame, and guilt.
Emotional regulation improves as children learn to manage and express their emotions in
socially appropriate ways. They become more capable of using coping strategies to deal with
stress, frustration, and disappointment. These strategies may include problem-solving,
seeking social support, or cognitive reframing. Parents, peers, and teachers play important
roles in shaping children’s emotional competence.
MORAL DEVELOPMENT
Moral development refers to changes in how children reason about right and wrong, how
they behave in moral situations, and how moral values become part of their identity. During
middle and late childhood, children move beyond simple rule-following and begin to
consider intentions, fairness, social rules, and ethical principles. Several major theories
explain how moral reasoning develops.
Jean Piaget proposed that children’s moral reasoning develops in stages. Younger children
are characterized by heteronomous morality, but by around 10 years of age, most children
move into autonomous morality.
According to Piaget, older children consider the intentions behind actions rather than
focusing only on outcomes. They also understand that rules are created by people and can
be changed through agreement, reflecting more mature moral reasoning.
Perspective taking
Moral conflict
He developed his theory using moral dilemmas, the most famous being the Heinz dilemma,
which examines whether stealing a drug to save a life is morally justified. Kohlberg was less
concerned with what decision children made and more interested in why they made it.
Preconventional reasoning is the lowest level of moral reasoning. At this level, morality is
externally controlled.
Children at this level judge actions as right or wrong depending on whether they lead to
punishment or personal gain. This level is often summarized as “What’s in it for me?” Most
children under the age of 9 reason at this level.
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At this level, individuals internalize society’s standards but follow them mainly to gain
approval or maintain social order. Moral decisions are guided by parents, teachers, laws, and
social norms. This level becomes more common in early adolescence.
Postconventional reasoning is the highest and most advanced level of moral reasoning.
Individuals at this level recognize that laws are social agreements that can be changed when
they conflict with ethical principles such as justice and human rights. Only a small number of
adults reach this level.
Kohlberg argued that cognitive development alone does not guarantee moral development.
Moral reasoning also depends on children’s experiences with moral issues and conflict.
Important influences:
Peer interaction
Perspective taking
Democratic rule-making
Unlike adults, peers provide opportunities for equal give-and-take, encouraging children to
understand others’ viewpoints and negotiate rules cooperatively.
One criticism is that Kohlberg focused too much on moral reasoning and not enough on
moral behavior.
People may:
Jonathan Haidt argued that moral reasoning is often intuitive and automatic, not deliberate.
Key terms:
Intuitive moral judgment – rapid, emotional reactions that occur before conscious
reasoning.
According to Haidt, moral reasoning often serves as an after-the-fact justification for gut
reactions rather than the cause of moral decisions.
Kohlberg believed emotion interfered with moral reasoning, but research now shows that
emotion plays a crucial role.
Damage to these areas impairs moral judgment, showing that emotion and reasoning are
deeply connected in moral decision-making.
Kohlberg claimed his stages were universal, but critics argue that his theory is culturally
biased.
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Research shows:
Kohlberg minimized the role of parents, arguing that peers are more important for moral
development. However, most researchers now agree that:
Justice perspective – a moral view emphasizing rights, rules, fairness, and individual
decision-making.
Gilligan argued that females are more likely to emphasize care and relationships. However,
later research suggests that both males and females can use both perspectives depending
on context.
Domain theory proposes that moral reasoning is not a single system but consists of different
domains of social knowledge.
Moral domain – reasoning about ethical issues such as justice, harm, and rights.
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Moral rules are obligatory and universal, while social conventions are arbitrary and
changeable. Personal issues are not governed by moral rules or social conventions.
Children begin showing prosocial behavior early, but their understanding of fairness
becomes more complex during middle and late childhood. Younger children view fairness as
equality, while older children recognize equity, meaning people with special needs or merit
may deserve special treatment.
Moral Personality
Beyond reasoning and behavior, children also develop a moral personality, which reflects
enduring moral characteristics.
Moral identity
Moral character
Moral exemplars
Studying moral exemplars helps researchers understand the ideal outcomes of moral
development and how moral excellence is achieved.
Gender
Gender development during middle and late childhood involves increased awareness of
gender roles and stereotypes. Children often show strong gender typing, preferring
activities, toys, and peers that are consistent with culturally defined gender roles. Same-sex
peer groups become especially important, reinforcing gender norms and behaviors.
Santrock notes that differences between boys and girls appear in areas such as aggression
and emotional expression. Boys are more likely to engage in physical aggression, while girls
are more likely to show relational aggression. However, these differences are influenced by
social context and cultural expectations rather than biology alone.
As children enter middle and late childhood, the amount of time parents spend directly
caring for and interacting with them decreases. Studies show that parents spend less than
half as much time on activities such as caregiving, talking, reading, and playing with children
aged 5 to 12 compared with earlier years. Despite this reduction in direct interaction,
parents remain highly influential figures in their children’s lives.
Disciplinary strategies also change during this stage. Physical discipline becomes less
common, while parents increasingly rely on reasoning, withdrawal of privileges, appeals to
self-esteem, and encouraging children to take responsibility for their actions. Control is
gradually shared between parent and child through a process known as coregulation, in
which parents supervise broadly while children practice moment-to-moment self-regulation.
Full autonomy usually does not emerge until early adolescence.
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A key developmental task during this period is learning how to interact regularly with adults
outside the family, such as teachers, who relate to children differently than parents do.
PARENTS AS MANAGERS
Parents increasingly function as managers of their children’s lives rather than direct
controllers. This managerial role includes organizing opportunities, monitoring behavior, and
arranging social and academic experiences. Research suggests that mothers are more likely
than fathers to take on this role.
Parents as managers
Parents’ role in organizing, monitoring, and guiding children’s activities and
opportunities rather than directly controlling every behavior.
Coregulation
A shared process in which parents provide guidance and oversight while children
increasingly regulate their own behavior.
ATTACHMENT IN FAMILIES
Research consistently shows that secure attachment to parents is associated with fewer
internalizing problems such as anxiety and depression. Children who feel securely attached
demonstrate better emotion regulation and greater ability to identify and understand
emotions. In contrast, insecure attachment has been linked to higher levels of anxiety and
emotional difficulty.
Secure attachment
An emotional bond characterized by trust, emotional availability, and a sense of
safety, which supports healthy emotional and social development.
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Internalized symptoms
Emotional difficulties that are directed inward, such as anxiety, depression, and
withdrawal.
Emotion regulation
The ability to manage and respond to emotional experiences in appropriate and
adaptive ways.
STEPFAMILIES
Stepfamilies have become increasingly common due to rising divorce and remarriage rates.
Because remarriage often occurs years after children are born, stepfamilies are more likely
to include school-age children and adolescents than infants.
Remarried parents face complex challenges, including redefining marital roles, renegotiating
parent–child relationships, and establishing stepparent–stepchild and stepsibling bonds.
Adjustment is often difficult, and remarriages involving children have higher divorce rates
than first marriages.
There are three common types of stepfamilies: stepfather families, stepmother families, and
blended or complex stepfamilies. Research indicates that children in long-established simple
stepfamilies (stepfather or stepmother) tend to adjust better over time than those in newly
formed or complex stepfamilies. Many adolescents eventually describe close relationships
with their stepparents.
Although children often feel closer to their biological custodial parent than to a stepparent,
positive emotional relationships with stepparents are associated with fewer behavioral and
emotional problems. While children in stepfamilies show slightly higher rates of adjustment
difficulties compared with children in intact families, most do not experience serious long-
term problems. Adolescence can be a particularly challenging time for stepfamily formation
due to identity, autonomy, and emotional changes.
Stepfamily
A family formed when at least one parent remarries and brings children from a
previous relationship.
Stepfather family
A family in which the mother has custody of the children and remarries.
Stepmother family
A family in which the father has custody of the children and remarries.
Peer relationships become increasingly important during middle and late childhood. Children
spend more time interacting with peers, often in settings that are less supervised by adults.
Reciprocity, cooperation, and mutual understanding become central features of peer
interactions, and children increasingly prefer same-sex peer groups until around age 12.
Positive peer relationships are linked to long-term benefits, including better mental health,
stronger adult relationships, and improved occupational outcomes later in life.
PEER STATUS
Researchers study peer relationships using sociometric status, which reflects how much
children are liked or disliked by their peers. This is typically measured through peer
nominations or ratings.
Sociometric status
A measure of children’s social standing based on peer acceptance or rejection.
Popular children
Well-liked children who receive many positive and few negative nominations.
Average children
Children who receive moderate levels of both positive and negative nominations.
Neglected children
Children who are rarely noticed by peers but not actively disliked.
Rejected children
Children who are actively disliked and receive many negative nominations.
Controversial children
Children who are both liked and disliked by many peers.
Popular children typically show strong social skills, emotional regulation, and empathy.
Rejected children, especially those who are aggressive, are at higher risk for adjustment
problems. However, some rejected children are shy rather than aggressive.
SOCIAL COGNITION
Social cognition refers to how children think about and interpret social situations. Children’s
interpretations of others’ intentions strongly influence their behavior. Aggressive children
are more likely to misinterpret ambiguous actions as hostile, leading to conflict.
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Kenneth Dodge proposed that children process social information through several steps,
including attending to cues, interpreting intent, generating responses, and evaluating
outcomes. Deficits at any step can contribute to social difficulties and aggression.
Social cognition
Thoughts and mental processes related to understanding social interactions,
relationships, and intentions of others.
BULLYING
Bullying is a widespread problem in middle and late childhood and includes repeated verbal,
physical, or social aggression directed at less powerful peers. Victims of bullying often
experience loneliness, depression, anxiety, and academic difficulties, while bullies may show
short-term social advantages but long-term adjustment problems.
Cyberbullying has become an increasing concern and is linked to stress, low self-esteem, and
suicidal ideation. Research suggests that whole-school interventions, such as the Olweus
Bullying Prevention Program, are among the most effective approaches for reducing
bullying.
Bullying
Repeated aggressive behavior intended to harm or intimidate a less powerful
individual.
Cyberbullying
Bullying that occurs through digital platforms such as social media, messaging, or
online games.
FRIENDSHIP
Friendship plays a crucial role in children’s emotional, social, and academic development.
Friends are often similar in age, gender, interests, and attitudes. High-quality friendships
provide companionship, emotional support, stimulation, and opportunities for self-
disclosure.
There is continuing debate about the most effective ways to teach children and how schools
and teachers should be held accountable for student learning. These debates focus on
instructional approaches, standardized testing, and how social and cultural factors influence
children’s educational experiences.
There is continuing debate about the most effective ways to teach children and how schools
and teachers should be held accountable for student learning. These debates focus on
instructional approaches, standardized testing, and how social and cultural factors influence
children’s educational experiences.
Constructivist Approach
Constructivist teachers do not simply transmit facts but instead design learning experiences
that allow students to make meaning from information. Children are encouraged to ask
questions, collaborate with peers, and connect new information to prior knowledge.
Constructivists criticize traditional education for requiring children to sit still, memorize
information by rote, and remain passive learners for too long.
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Learning time – the amount of time students spend actively engaged in academic
tasks.
Many experts believe that effective teachers often use both constructivist and direct
instruction approaches depending on the situation. Some learning contexts may benefit
from exploration and collaboration, while others require explicit instruction and structure.
For example, students with reading or writing disabilities are often more successful when
taught through an explicit, intellectually engaging direct instruction approach.
Accountability in Education
Since the 1990s, public demand for accountability in education has increased significantly.
Governments have required schools to demonstrate that students are learning, leading to
widespread use of standardized testing.
No Child Left Behind became national policy in 2002 and emphasized statewide standardized
testing to evaluate student achievement. States created learning objectives and tests to
measure whether students met those goals.
Supporters argued that NCLB would improve student performance, raise expectations,
identify poorly performing schools, and increase public confidence in education. Critics,
however, contended that relying on a single test provides a narrow view of student
competence and ignores important skills such as creativity, motivation, and social abilities.
Teachers under NCLB often felt pressure to “teach to the test,” focusing on memorization
rather than higher-order thinking. Concerns were also raised that gifted students might be
neglected and that states lowered passing standards to avoid penalties.
No Child Left Behind (NCLB) – a U.S. federal law emphasizing standardized testing
and accountability in education.
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The Common Core State Standards Initiative was introduced in 2009 to provide more
rigorous and consistent educational guidelines across states. The standards specify what
students should know and be able to do at each grade level.
Supporters believe Common Core provides clear expectations and meaningful benchmarks,
while critics argue it promotes a “one size fits all” approach and excessive federal
involvement in education.
Common Core State Standards – a set of guidelines outlining academic skills and
knowledge students should achieve at each grade level.
The Every Student Succeeds Act replaced NCLB and was fully implemented during the 2017–
2018 school year. ESSA retained annual testing but gave states greater flexibility in how test
results are used for accountability.
Under ESSA, schools must include at least one nonacademic factor, such as student
engagement, when evaluating success. The law also continues to focus on improving low-
performing schools and supporting historically underperforming student groups.
Every Student Succeeds Act (ESSA) – a federal education law that replaced NCLB and
provides states more flexibility while maintaining standardized testing.
Children from low-income and ethnic minority backgrounds often face greater challenges in
school than their middle-SES, White peers. These challenges are linked to poverty, limited
resources, school quality, and broader social inequalities.
Schools in low-income areas are more likely to have inexperienced teachers, lower
achievement scores, poorer facilities, and an emphasis on rote learning. Improving family
income and targeted school interventions have been shown to improve academic outcomes.
Programs such as City Connects and Teach for America aim to address these barriers by
providing coordinated support services and placing teachers in high-poverty schools.
Ethnicity in Schools
Ethnic minority students are more likely to attend underfunded, racially segregated schools
and to be placed in remedial programs. However, wide diversity exists within every ethnic
group, and academic success varies by cultural background.
International assessments show that U.S. students generally perform lower in math and
science than students in many East Asian countries. Research suggests that instructional
time, parental expectations, beliefs about effort versus ability, and school culture contribute
to these differences.
Carol Dweck’s research emphasizes the role of mindset in academic achievement. Students
with a growth mindset believe their abilities can improve through effort, while those with a
fixed mindset believe abilities are unchangeable. Growth mindset interventions have been
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shown to improve motivation and academic performance, particularly for students from
low-income backgrounds.
Fixed mindset – the belief that intelligence and abilities are static and cannot change.
Growth mindset – the belief that abilities can improve through effort, learning, and
persistence.
Brain plasticity – the brain’s ability to change and form new connections through
learning.
Constructivist Approach
Constructivist teachers do not simply transmit facts but instead design learning experiences
that allow students to make meaning from information. Children are encouraged to ask
questions, collaborate with peers, and connect new information to prior knowledge.
Constructivists criticize traditional education for requiring children to sit still, memorize
information by rote, and remain passive learners for too long.
Learning time – the amount of time students spend actively engaged in academic
tasks.
Many experts believe that effective teachers often use both constructivist and direct
instruction approaches depending on the situation. Some learning contexts may benefit
from exploration and collaboration, while others require explicit instruction and structure.
For example, students with reading or writing disabilities are often more successful when
taught through an explicit, intellectually engaging direct instruction approach.
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Accountability in Education
Since the 1990s, public demand for accountability in education has increased significantly.
Governments have required schools to demonstrate that students are learning, leading to
widespread use of standardized testing.
No Child Left Behind became national policy in 2002 and emphasized statewide standardized
testing to evaluate student achievement. States created learning objectives and tests to
measure whether students met those goals.
Supporters argued that NCLB would improve student performance, raise expectations,
identify poorly performing schools, and increase public confidence in education. Critics,
however, contended that relying on a single test provides a narrow view of student
competence and ignores important skills such as creativity, motivation, and social abilities.
Teachers under NCLB often felt pressure to “teach to the test,” focusing on memorization
rather than higher-order thinking. Concerns were also raised that gifted students might be
neglected and that states lowered passing standards to avoid penalties.
No Child Left Behind (NCLB) – a U.S. federal law emphasizing standardized testing
and accountability in education.
The Common Core State Standards Initiative was introduced in 2009 to provide more
rigorous and consistent educational guidelines across states. The standards specify what
students should know and be able to do at each grade level.
Supporters believe Common Core provides clear expectations and meaningful benchmarks,
while critics argue it promotes a “one size fits all” approach and excessive federal
involvement in education.
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Common Core State Standards – a set of guidelines outlining academic skills and
knowledge students should achieve at each grade level.
The Every Student Succeeds Act replaced NCLB and was fully implemented during the 2017–
2018 school year. ESSA retained annual testing but gave states greater flexibility in how test
results are used for accountability.
Under ESSA, schools must include at least one nonacademic factor, such as student
engagement, when evaluating success. The law also continues to focus on improving low-
performing schools and supporting historically underperforming student groups.
Every Student Succeeds Act (ESSA) – a federal education law that replaced NCLB and
provides states more flexibility while maintaining standardized testing.
Children from low-income and ethnic minority backgrounds often face greater challenges in
school than their middle-SES, White peers. These challenges are linked to poverty, limited
resources, school quality, and broader social inequalities.
Schools in low-income areas are more likely to have inexperienced teachers, lower
achievement scores, poorer facilities, and an emphasis on rote learning. Improving family
income and targeted school interventions have been shown to improve academic outcomes.
Programs such as City Connects and Teach for America aim to address these barriers by
providing coordinated support services and placing teachers in high-poverty schools.
Ethnicity in Schools
Ethnic minority students are more likely to attend underfunded, racially segregated schools
and to be placed in remedial programs. However, wide diversity exists within every ethnic
group, and academic success varies by cultural background.
International assessments show that U.S. students generally perform lower in math and
science than students in many East Asian countries. Research suggests that instructional
time, parental expectations, beliefs about effort versus ability, and school culture contribute
to these differences.
Carol Dweck’s research emphasizes the role of mindset in academic achievement. Students
with a growth mindset believe their abilities can improve through effort, while those with a
fixed mindset believe abilities are unchangeable. Growth mindset interventions have been
shown to improve motivation and academic performance, particularly for students from
low-income backgrounds.
Fixed mindset – the belief that intelligence and abilities are static and cannot change.
Growth mindset – the belief that abilities can improve through effort, learning, and
persistence.
Brain plasticity – the brain’s ability to change and form new connections through
learning.