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Health coaching is part of a larger shift in preventive medicine and person-centered care,
as noted in Chapter 1. It is an approach that truly listens to and takes into account the
needs and aspirations of the individual (Epstein & Street, 2011). Health coaches support
clients in making meaningful changes, with the ultimate goal that clients become self-
managers and maintain ongoing healthy lifestyle habits (Smith et al., 2013).
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The coach’s role is to help clients realize their goals through a collaborative process that
encourages creativity, curiosity, and experimentation, respecting the wisdom and knowledge
of clients in exploring and devising their own solutions. The coach supports each client in
unearthing his or her ”why” with regards to personal values, reasons, and motivations for
change. The coach then assists clients in finding the “how,” supporting them in creating self-
determined goals and appropriate plans of action to cultivate sustainable behavior change.
Having a SMART goal is important, but it needs to be paired with a plan to achieve that goal. How will
Susan keep track of what she eats, and what might get in the way? Her SMART goal includes writing
down what and when she eats, and in working with the health coach she visualizes how she will record
her food during the week. She shares that she often goes out to lunch with coworkers or business clients
and realizes she will not want to stop to write down what she eats during those meals. She decides that
with coworkers she can take a picture of her meal with her phone and when going out with business
clients she can write down the meal as soon as she is alone after lunch. Identifying obstacles and
building in flexibility makes Susan more likely to successfully achieve her SMART goal, and to take a
meaningful step toward meeting her larger health goal.
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Î Establishing Trust & Intimacy with the Client: Creating a safe, supportive
environment that produces ongoing mutual respect and trust
Î Coaching Presence: Being fully conscious and creating spontaneous
relationships with clients, employing a style that is open, flexible, and confident
Communicating Effectively
Î Active Listening: Focusing completely on what the client is saying and is not
saying, understanding the meaning of what is said in the context of the client’s
desires, and supporting client self-expression
Î Powerful Questioning: Asking questions that reveal the information needed for
maximum benefit to the coaching relationship and the client
Î Direct Communication: Communicating effectively during coaching sessions,
and using language that has the greatest positive impact on the client
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Î Openness to experience involves, among other traits, creativity, curiosity, and imagination.
Î Conscientiousness involves persistence, self-discipline, and consistency.
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These personality traits align with the four different personality types reflected in the DISC model:
dominant, inspiring, supportive, and cautious.
Î Dominant personality types tend to be direct, outgoing, and results-oriented; they thrive on
accomplishing tasks and making things happen.
Î Inspiring personality types tend to be people-oriented; they enjoy having fun, interacting with
others, and receiving positive feedback.
Î Supportive personality types tend to place value on relationships and helping others; it is
important to them to feel genuinely appreciated and assured.
Î Cautious personality types tend to be reserved and prefer to receive clear, accurate, and trust-
worthy information in order to inform their decisions.
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DOMINANT INSPIRING understanding
Driving Interesting personality types
Doer Interactive
TASK-ORIENTED PEOPLE-ORIENTED
CAUTIOUS
Competent
Careful
C S SUPPORTIVE
Steady
Stable
RESERVED
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defined EI as “the ability to monitor one’s may include correct identification of emotion
own and others’ feelings and emotions, to in a client based on subtle body language.
discriminate among them, and to use this
information to guide one’s thinking and Self-management
actions.” Daniel Goleman’s book Emotional Self-management, or self-control, is the “ability
Intelligence helped the concept gain to use emotions to facilitate thinking” (Mayer
widespread recognition in 1995 (Goleman, & Salovey, 1997). Goleman describes it as
1995). This book’s popularity and the cottage “putting one’s attention where one wants it
industry that grew from it may have come and keeping it there in the face of temptation
too soon for EI as a scientific construct, as to wander” (Goleman, 2013). A person who
a clear definition and understanding of EI scores high in this area may have a high degree
continues to be debated despite a growing of willpower and self-discipline. A high degree
body of literature on the topic spanning over of self-management also helps one to hone
25 years. While the evidence to date is not focus and attention. Goleman (2013) describes
adequate to prove a relationship between the focus, or the ability to concentrate on the task
EI of a coach and health behavior change, at hand and ignore distractions, as a powerful
the concept is included in this text to help driver of performance and goal attainment.
coaches increase awareness of, and skill in, While improving focus may initially be a self-
effective communication. In the broadest management strategy—after all, managing
sense, EI is a marker of how well a person distractions is a huge feat of willpower for
is able to navigate the “softer” side of the many—a sharp focus can also boost higher-
human experience, including emotions, level EI.
communication, and relationships.
Social Awareness
The Four Domains of Emotional
Intelligence Social awareness is described as the ability
to “understand emotions, emotional language,
EI is divided into four domains, discussed in and the signals conveyed by emotions” (Mayer
hierarchical order from the most fundamental & Salovey, 1997). A key attribute that is
to the most complex: self-awareness, strongly tied to social awareness is empathy,
self-management, social awareness, and which is broadly defined as being attuned to
relationship management. Within each the needs and feelings of others and acting in
domain, skills range from easy to complex a way that is sensitive to those needs. There
(Mayer & Salovey, 1997). are at least three types of empathy: cognitive
empathy (understanding what the client knows
Self-awareness
and understands), emotional empathy (being
Self-awareness, or the “ability to perceive attuned to understanding what the client is
emotions in oneself and others accurately,” is feeling), and empathic concern (the ability
the most foundational of the EI skills (Mayer & to sense what another person needs from
Salovey, 1997). Individuals with a high degree you) (Goleman, 2013). As a coach develops
of self-awareness are able to identify their own and strengthens skills in EI over time and
emotions and feelings, as well as the emotions with practice, he or she gains increasing
and feelings of others. The simplest task of effectiveness in communicating with empathic
self-awareness is to correctly identify one’s concern, which can be a potent facilitator of
own emotions, while a more complicated task behavioral change.
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A powerful aspect of health coaching is the true curiosity and support health coaches
provide. When clients first work with a health coach, they may expect to be told what
to do. Instead, health coaching puts the client in the driver’s seat. All of the tools and
approaches that health coaches use are meant to empower clients, not direct them.
Health coaches enter the client–coach relationship trusting that the client has the
capacity and wherewithal to change. People get stuck for many reasons. Health coaching
assists clients in reassessing what is important, what has changed, and what is getting
in the way. The coach partners with the client to conceive and create a path forward,
honoring the client’s values, strengths, and vision for the future.
NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
Active listening, which is essential to the development of rapport, requires turning off
inner chatter and truly paying attention to what the other person is saying. This requires
the focus to be on what the client is conveying: to truly hear not only the client’s actual
words, but the meaning behind them. To ensure clients feel comfortable, valued, and
understood, health coaches must be aware of their physical presence when meeting with
clients. Skilled coaches utilize body language that is open and inviting (e.g., sitting with
arms unfolded and leaning slightly forward while intently listening to the client speak),
while avoiding authoritative posturing (e.g., standing while the client sits). Eye contact,
facial expressions, and tone of voice are also important considerations, as the coach’s
demeanor should be professional yet calm, confident, and receptive. Additionally, health
coaches should be mindful to keep their attention on the client and to remain present in
the coaching experience, minimizing the potential for becoming distracted (e.g., texting,
shuffling papers, or looking at the clock). See Chapter 5 for additional considerations and
cues related to nonverbal communication in establishing the client–coach relationship.
VERBAL COMMUNICATION
In alignment with the spirit of motivational interviewing, which is further discussed in
Chapter 4, the premise of coaching is that the client is the expert and the health coach
and client will collaborate as a team. The style of communication is non-confrontational
and uses a positive approach, helping clients find what is intrinsically motivating and
subsequently empowers them to choose to change rather than stay the same. Reflections
and open-ended questions are used to explore what is important, valuable, and possible,
helping clients to shift their perspectives and explore multiple avenues of action.
Open-ended questions, which invite the client to talk in detail about a topic, encourage
more thought and discussion than closed questions, which can be answered with a
simple “yes,” “no,” or another single-word answer. These types of powerful, curious
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Simple reflections: Repeating or rephrasing what the client has said in a brief and concise way:
Î Client: I really enjoy smoking; it helps me relax.
Î Coach: You like smoking.
Amplified reflections: Providing a direct and more exaggerated form of what the client
has stated:
Î Client: I’m here because my doctor says I need to make some changes.
Î Coach: That’s the only reason you are here.
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important to the client taps into his or her driving “why.” It helps the client begin to develop
discrepancy between current behavior and what he or she ideally wants (Miller & Rollnick,
2013). By using effective verbal communication skills such as open-ended questions and
reflections, health coaches highlight values that promote change to help clients move
forward. See Chapter 6 for practical approaches for discovering clients’ values and vision.
Before diving into co-creating SMART goals and action plans, however, the health coach needs
to assess where the client currently is in the change process. As noted in the previous section,
health coaches should explore value and the benefits of change with every client. However, this
is particularly important when working with clients who are ambivalent about change. Coaches
support clients in creating forward momentum, but encouraging a client to act before he or
she is ready means the plan will likely fail (Prochaska, Norcross, & DiClemente, 2007). Health
coaching is truly client-centered, meaning that the health coach honors the client’s autonomy,
which is his or her right as an individual to self-direct. This recognizes and respects that the
client is an autonomous individual capable of acting in his or her own interests.
To be successful, a client needs to be confident that he or she can achieve success. Self-
efficacy is a person’s belief in his or her own capabilities and, as further explored in Chapter
3, it plays a critical role in the behavior-change journey. A health coach should not push
a client into doing something that the client might feel is out of reach or not in alignment
with the client’s values or vision for the future. The health coach also should not presume to
know when a client is ready to act or what the best way might be to go about taking action.
Instead, health coaches facilitate self-discovery, helping their clients create awareness
of what might be possible and of what might be preventing them from moving forward.
Achieving success and building new skills and knowledge helps clients build greater
confidence and self-efficacy.
As clients determine they are ready to make a change, they often will have several ideas
about what to do and may even have several different goals in mind. The health coach
needs to be careful not to pick just one and run with it, but instead check in on each. For
example, consider a client who wants to begin an exercise routine, eat a healthier diet, and
reduce stress at work. These are all big topics. The coach should take time to explore each
and see where the client wants to go while also keeping an open mind, as the topics may
overlap. The coach should then empower the client “set the agenda” by choosing an area of
focus (see Chapter 5).
With a clear focus established by the client, health coaches support the client in
establishing self-directed SMART goals and designing actions that reflect what is important
to the client and have a high probability of success. Taking time to explore the different
paths the client can take to reach his or her goal can be a valuable exercise. This helps the client
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break big goals into “bite-sized” pieces by looking at what is possible now. The coach can help
the client define the plan when the client is ready. What will the client do this week or month?
Does there need to be a contingency plan or more flexibility? What might get in the way? What
will make the plan stronger? The action plan needs to be framed in positive terms, such as “I will
walk around the block every evening when I get home from work,” rather than “I won’t lie on the
couch and watch TV as soon as I get home from work.”
Effective planning and goal setting also takes into account possible obstacles, adding flexibility
as needed and including some form of accountability to someone else or to one’s self, which
can help anchor the plan (see Chapter 6). Remember, the coach can act as an accountability
partner, but ultimately the coach wants the client to be accountable to him- or herself. Coaches
do, however, help manage progress, supporting clients in adjusting goals and plans to create
forward momentum and success. Friends, family, or other forms of social support can provide
further structure and motivation for the client. Batch cooking on the weekend with a family
member, joining a meditation class, walking with a colleague during lunch, attending a diabetes
support group, or simply emailing or calling a “buddy” can be helpful.
While there are many different real and perceived barriers to change, some commonly identified
obstacles clients may share with health coaches include time, other people, and travel.
Time
Change can feel like trying to squeeze one more thing into an already busy day. Patterns
are set and adding one more thing can seem impossible. Coaching challenges assumptions,
but it also assumes change is possible. Questions like, “When might you add some activity
into your day?” or “What else could exercise look like?” open up possibilities. The client
may view exercising at the gym as the only real option, but there are other possibilities for
increasing physical activity and engaging in regular exercise. Ultimately, what creates time
in a person’s schedule is the perception of value.
Routines are comfortable, even when they do not serve a person’s best interest. Changing
routines and habits requires thought. Essentially, the change has to be important enough that
the client is willing to push something else out of his or her routine (for example, walking instead
of watching TV, or taking 10 minutes to meditate instead of surfing the web). When a client
says he or she is too busy or too lazy, the goal is not yet a priority. Exploring what is important
about this change and the positive benefits it will provide makes prioritizing more likely.
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On the other hand, if the client sees the value but the action is too big, breaking down the
goal into something actionable is key. For example, consider a client who wants to eat less
fast food and more meals cooked from scratch. Cooking on weeknights will not fit in her
schedule, but cooking on the weekend, and then eating leftovers one or two nights during
the week, will work. Another night, the client decides she can pick up a roasted chicken and
add a salad. She realizes that she knows a cafe where she can get some healthy options to
pick up on her way home from work. “I don’t have time” is the coach’s cue to explore value
and whether there needs to be more flexibility in the action plan.
Other People
Many times, other people are perceived as obstacles in moving forward with health-
behavior change. A client might say, “I want to eat more vegetables, but no one else in the
family wants to eat the way I do.” What can the client do when other people’s interests get
in the way? Often, the key is to look at where the client does have control.
The health coach might say, “Pleasing everyone at dinner is difficult, but you want to add more
vegetables to your diet. What does food during the rest of the day look like?” The client mentioned
dinner, but that is not the only meal of the day—there may be other opportunities to add
vegetables. The client might also decide that he or she can prepare an extra vegetable for him- or
herself at dinner. Creating the context for more opportunity encourages the client to be creative.
Travel
Travel presents its own set of challenges, as health-related goals can be quickly derailed
given the change in schedule and environment. Vacation travel can pose challenges, but
they are temporary. However, work travel can make it especially difficult to stick to a plan.
Eating out, keeping irregular schedules, and staying in hotels can make it even more difficult
to meet nutrition and exercise goals.
Again, health coaches can hold space for clients to creatively strategize. Specifically, where
does the client have control? How can the plan allow for more flexibility? A client may not
have access to fresh fruits and vegetables while traveling for work, but a more flexible plan
might be to choose more vegetarian options and order extra vegetables when available to
accompany a dish.
THINK IT THROUGH
As a health coach, you will explore with clients the potential obstacles that could interfere with success.
Clients who have considered strategies to meet challenges will more likely circumvent roadblocks, rather
than be surprised and stalled by them. What open-ended questions could you use to help a client evaluate
real or perceived barriers to change?
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Health coaches can support clients in reassessing what is possible. By empowering clients to
become aware of what they are thinking and how they feel, health coaches may enable clients
to begin to notice patterns that would otherwise get lost in their day-to-day routines. Cognitive
behavioral theory posits that how people react to events is based on their beliefs about the event.
Belief or expectation helps define the experience. What people believe is not always true. If a
person believes driving in traffic to be a stressful event, the expectation is set before the event. The
person is already anticipating that the event will be stressful. If that expectation can shift so that the
person instead thinks, “driving is a challenge, but also a nice break to be alone and listen to music,”
the experience can change. Noticing how belief and expectation affect experience (or feelings) is an
essential step toward overcoming perceived barriers and making behavioral changes (Burns, 1980;
Beck, 1976). See Chapter 4 for more information on cognitive behavioral coaching.
Knowledge, skills, and resources can also be barriers, and not all can be resolved. For example,
without health insurance a client might not be able to get the medial care he or she needs.
Transportation, neighborhood safety, financial restraints, and lack of access to fresh food are
challenges for many, but whatever the barrier there is a way to get closer to the goal. Finding
resources or information might be one powerful step forward. For example, a common barrier
to cooking meals at home is knowledge and skill. However, a health coach can support the
client in increasing his or her culinary literacy, as further discussed in Chapter 8.
Health coaches can guide clients in finding relevant sources of quality information. These should
come from trusted, reputable organizations and evidence-based resources. The Centers for
Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), National Institutes of Health (NIH), American Diabetes
Association (ADA), National Academy of Medicine (NAM), and American Heart Association
(AHA) are examples of national agencies and organizations that provide valuable information
and resources. Local resources such as 2-1-1 are also helpful in providing clients with direct
access to community, health, and referral services in their immediate area. For specific areas of
lifestyle medicine, such as food and nutrition, health coaches can share the Dietary Guidelines for
Americans and MyPlate (see Chapter 8). For physical activity and exercise, health coaches can
share the Physical Activity Guidelines (see Chapter 9). Additionally, evidence-based programs
that have been scientifically evaluated for effectiveness can be great resources for health coaches
and clients alike, including the Diabetes Prevention Program, mindfulness-based stress reduction,
and the Stanford Chronic Disease Self-Management Programs. It is important for health coaches
to familiarize themselves with a variety of credible resources to match the different needs and
learning styles of their clients.
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Coaching Application of the Six Principles of Adult Learning
Adults need to know why Assist a client in identifying the The client completes a worksheet
they need to learn something gap between current reality and with goals and prompts to identify learning
before learning it. information that is needed to achieve gaps.
a goal.
The self-concept of adults Engage a client in the process of The client implements a learning contract.
is heavily dependent identifying a plan for closing learning
upon autonomy and self- gaps, with reliance on the client to
directedness of learning. implement the plan.
Prior experiences of the Elicit a client’s prior experiences Use the elicit-provide-elicit model to adapt the
learner provide a rich resource and knowledge before providing session to the client’s needs (see Chapter 4).
for learning. “education.”
Adults are most likely to retain Link learning to successful pursuit of Query a client’s interest in exploring a given
and act upon new information a client’s vision, goals, and/or action topic using powerful open-ended questions
when they are in a stage of plans; acknowledge when a client may before asking permission to provide information.
readiness to learn. not be ready to learn a given piece of
information.
Adults typically become ready Apply all or nearly all pieces of Role play several possible experiences as a
to learn when they experience information, education, or insight client pursues change and troubleshoot areas
a need to cope with a life shared to relevant problem-centered where increased learning is needed.
situation or perform a task. scenarios.
The motivation of adult Create and identify learning Together with the client, plan experiential-
learners is internal rather than opportunities that may serve based learning activities that serve to increase
external. to provide increased personal a client’s self-efficacy and confidence to make a
satisfaction, well-being, change. For instance, a client trying to improve
and happiness. nutrition behaviors may value a grocery store
tour or pantry makeover.
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If your study program includes the ACE University, visit [Link]/MyACE and log
in to your My ACE Account to take full advantage of the ACE Health Coach Study Program
and online guided study experience, which includes presentations in a variety of media
to facilitate learning and best prepare you for the ACE Health Coach Certification exam
and a career as a health coach. There, you will find an interactive learning experience that
features video lectures, ACE in Action coaching sessions, as well as knowledge checks and
quizzes to help you gauge your progress.
In the online learning activities related to Chapter 2, you will learn more about how to build
rapport and effectively use verbal and nonverbal communication strategies with clients.
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