Phyy Rashin Notes
Phyy Rashin Notes
Meaning:
Primary prevention means stopping mental health problems before they even start.
👉 Think of it like:
Eating healthy to prevent disease
Wearing a helmet to prevent injury
Similarly, supporting people early to prevent mental illness
Examples:
Safe childbirth
→ Doctors prevent injury to the baby during delivery
😞
Identifying a child who is:
Always sad
Not focusing in class
Helping early or referring to a counselor
Examples:
Teaching parents how to discipline properly (not harsh punishment)
Encouraging open communication at home
Helping parents handle stress (like financial or parenting stress)
Teaching families how to support each other during difficult times
👉
Someone behaving unusually (confused, withdrawn)
Action: Refer them to a doctor or counselor early
🧪 2. Screening Programs
Simple questionnaires/tests used in schools or communities
Example:
Mental health survey in a college to identify stressed students
🏥 4. Early Referral
Sending patients to hospitals quickly when symptoms appear
Example:
A teacher notices a child is very withdrawn → refers to clinic
💊 5. Prompt Treatment
Start treatment early (medication + counseling)
Example:
Early therapy for anxiety prevents severe depression
🤝 6. Consultation Services
Nurses help other doctors manage patients with mental issues
Example:
A patient with asthma also has anxiety → nurse guides care
🚨 7. Crisis Intervention
Helping during sudden stressful situations
Examples:
Suicide risk
Sudden loss of a loved one
👉
Severe emotional breakdown
Quick support prevents worsening
👉
This is for people who already have mental illness.
Goal: Reduce complications and help them live better life
👉
Playing games or group activities
Prevents boredom and improves mood
🏠 3. Community-Based Programs
Help patients adjust after leaving hospital
Examples:
Follow-up visits at home
Support groups in community
🟡 Secondary
Early detection & treatment
🟢
Finding depression early in students
Tertiary
Reduce severity & disability
Rehab and support for long-term patients
Examples:
Patient stays in:
Day care centers
Halfway homes
Aftercare clinics
👉
Nurses follow up at home
Example:
A person treated for schizophrenia goes home but visits a clinic regularly and gets support.
🔗 Coordination (Teamwork)
Nurses, hospitals, and community services must stay connected
Example:
👉
Doctor treats patient → nurse follows up at home → social worker helps with job
This helps the patient return to normal life
😔
Problem:
People feel ashamed
Families hide illness
Patient feels guilty and anxious
Example:
Family says: “Mental illness = weakness”
👉
Patient feels worse and avoids treatment
Nurses help change this attitude
👉
Family blames patient → anxiety and low confidence increase
Nurses teach families to be supportive
🏛️ Government Services
Government hospitals and mental health centers
🤲
Example: Free treatment in public hospital
NGOs (Non-Governmental Organizations)
Private groups helping people
Example: संस्था providing counseling or rehab
👥 Self-Help Groups
People with similar problems support each other
Example: Depression support group
🏠 Halfway Homes
Temporary homes for patients recovering
Example: Patient lives here before going fully home
🚨 Suicide Prevention Centers
Help people in crisis
Example: Helpline for someone thinking about suicide
🏥 Partial Hospitalization
Patient comes for treatment during day, goes home at night
♿ Rehabilitation Centers
Help patients learn skills and become independent
Examples:
Organizing suicide prevention programs
Creating self-help groups
Running day-care centers for patients
Teaching life skills to people
👉 Example:
An NGO starts a support group for people with depression in a village.
🏥 Partial Hospitalization
👉 Patient does not stay full-time in hospital
Simple Meaning:
Treatment during the day
Go home at night
❤️
Advantages:
Less separation from family
More involvement in normal life
Examples:
A patient attends therapy in the morning and returns home in evening
Day-care centers for mental health
👉
Managing daily routine
🏡
Helps build independence
Halfway Homes
🤝
Same type of problem (e.g., addiction, depression)
Mutual support
Examples:
Alcohol addiction recovery group
👉
Depression support group
Members:
Share feelings
Give advice
Motivate each other
🧠 One-Line Summary:
NGOs = Help from community
Partial hospitalization = Day treatment
Quarter way home = Start independence
Halfway home = Transition to normal life
Self-help group = People helping each other
🚨 Suicide Prevention Centers
👉 These are places that help people who are thinking about suicide.
Simple Meaning:
Provide emotional support, counseling, and help in crisis
Examples:
Helplines where people can call when feeling hopeless
👉
Centers like Sneha (Chennai), Sahara (Mumbai)
Example:
A person feeling suicidal calls a helpline and talks to a counselor → gets support and feels
better.
We feel stress 😰
Example:
Failed exam → studies more and tries again
👉
2. Compromise / Changing Goals
Adjust goals to reduce stress
Examples:
Wanted to become IAS → chooses another government job
Couldn’t become doctor → becomes nurse
👉
3. Withdrawal / Submissiveness
Accept situation and step back
Example:
Student stops competing after repeated failure
🟣 Indirect Methods (Unconscious)
👉 You are not aware of these
Simple Meaning:
Mind uses imagination or mental tricks to reduce stress
Example:
A person imagines success even when failing (daydreaming)
🎯 Purpose
Reduce stress
Protect confidence
Maintain mental balance
⚠️ Important Point
✔️ Helpful in small amounts
❌ Harmful if overused
🧠 Defense Mechanisms (Simple Meaning)
👉 These are mental tricks used by our mind to reduce stress, anxiety, or guilt
🔑 Common Defense Mechanisms (Easy + Examples)
1. 😶 Repression (Forgetting pain)
👉 You unconsciously forget painful things
Example:
Forgetting a fight with a close friend
Not remembering a bad childhood event
Example:
A mother refuses to accept her child’s serious illness
Example:
Scolded by boss → shout at family
Example:
Hate someone but act extra nice
🧠 Rationalization (Giving excuses)
👉 You give logical excuses for failure
5.
Example:
“Exam was unfair” instead of accepting poor preparation
Example:
Anger → playing sports
Stress → doing art
Example:
Weak in studies → becomes good in sports
Example:
A person who lies says “others are dishonest”
Example:
Talking scientifically about an accident without showing emotion
Example:
Fight with someone → give them a gift
Example:
Adult throwing tantrum when upset
Example:
Not remembering a traumatic event
⚠️ Important Point:
✔️ Normal in small amounts
❌ Too much → can cause problems
🧠 One-Line Summary:
👉 Defense mechanisms = ways our mind protects us from stress
⚡ Conversion (Stress → Physical symptoms)
👉 Emotional stress shows as physical problem
1.
Example:
👉
Student gets headache before exam due to stress
Body expresses what mind cannot handle
Example:
Cannot succeed in clinical skills → chooses teaching job
Example:
Acting cold and indifferent towards someone you dislike
👉
Compensation → improving skills
Helps in growth and adjustment
❌ Maladaptive (Unhealthy)
👉 These can cause problems if overused
Examples:
Denial → ignoring reality
Projection → blaming others
👉
Regression → childish behavior
Can affect relationships and mental health
❌
Using humor or sports to deal with stress
Problems (if overused):
Avoid reality
Increase stress later
Affect personality development
Example:
Always blaming others → poor relationships
😣 Frustration
👉 Frustration = When you can’t achieve what you want
📖 Definition
Anger 😡
When a goal is blocked, you feel:
Stress 😰
Anxiety 😟
👉 This feeling is called frustration
🧠 Examples:
Want to pass exam but fail → frustration
Want to go out but parents refuse → frustration
Want a job but don’t get it → frustration
⚠️ Characteristics of Frustration
👉 It causes:
Unpleasant emotions
Mental tension
Irritation
Example:
Small problem → irritation
Big failure → intense anger
🔍 Causes of Frustration
🌍 1. External Factors (Outside reasons)
👉
a) Physical Factors
Things beyond control
Examples:
Illness
Natural disaster
Death of a loved one
👉
b) Social Factors
Society rules or conflicts
Examples:
Family restrictions
Cultural rules
Conflict with others
👉
c) Economic Factors
Money-related problems
Examples:
Poverty
Job loss
⚡ Reactions to Frustration
✅ Direct Ways (Healthy)
👉 Face the problem
Examples:
Study harder after failure
Change goal to something achievable
Adjust expectations
😶
Shouting at others when frustrated
👉
Apathy
Lose interest
Example:
💭
“I don’t care anymore” attitude
👉
Fantasy
Escape into imagination
Example:
🔁
Dreaming of success instead of working
👉
Stereotyped Behavior
Repeating same action
Example:
👶
Trying same wrong method again and again
👉
Regression
Acting childish
Example:
Crying or throwing tantrums
🔹 Conflict (Definition)
Conflict is when you feel mentally stressed or confused because you have to choose
between opposite or difficult options.
🔹 Types of Conflict
👉
1. Approach–Approach Conflict
You have to choose between two good options.
Both choices are attractive
You want both, but can pick only one
Usually easy to solve
Examples:
Choosing between two favorite subjects at the same time
🍕 🍔
Getting admission into two good colleges
Choosing between pizza or burger
👉
2. Avoidance–Avoidance Conflict
You have to choose between two bad/unpleasant options.
Both choices are undesirable
You don’t want either
Usually hard and stressful
Examples:
Doing homework or getting punished
Working at a boring job or having no money
Choosing between two difficult tasks
3. Approach–Avoidance Conflict
💰 🏙️
Examples:
🍟
A high-paying job (good) but in a faraway city (bad)
😊 😓
Eating junk food (tasty) but unhealthy (bad)
👉
Marriage (companionship ) but responsibilities (stress )
You feel pulled and pushed at the same time
💰 😐
Examples:
😊 💸
Job A: good salary but boring
Job B: interesting but low salary
🏠
🚆
College A: near home but average quality
👉
College B: far away but better education
You keep thinking: “This is good… but also not good…”
🔹 5. Internal Conflict
👉 Conflict that happens inside your own mind
Between your thoughts, feelings, desires, or values
You may not even fully understand why you feel confused
📚 📺
Examples:
Wanting to study but also wanting to watch TV
Wanting to tell the truth but afraid of consequences
Feeling angry at someone but also loving them
🧠 Easy Summary
⚖️
🔄
Approach–Avoidance = One choice (good + bad)
🧠
Multiple Approach–Avoidance = Many choices (each good + bad)
Internal Conflict = Fight inside your mind
👉
2. Set achievable goals
Break big problems into small, doable steps.
Example:
Instead of “I want to be fully healthy,” → “I will walk 5 minutes today.”
👉
3. Teach problem-solving
Help patients think about options and choose the best one.
Example:
A patient refuses medicine → discuss pros (recovery) and cons (side effects) → patient
decides wisely.
👉
4. Keep an open mind
Encourage flexible thinking.
Example:
👩⚕️
Patient afraid of a treatment → nurse explains benefits → patient becomes more willing.
What nurses should do during conflict
👉
5. Stay calm & listen
Don’t react emotionally. Let the patient speak.
Example:
An angry patient complains → nurse listens without interrupting.
👉
6. Avoid arguing or judging
Don’t say “You’re wrong.”
Example:
Instead of arguing, say: “I understand your concern.”
👉
7. Focus on behavior, not personality
Talk about actions, not the person.
Example:
❌
Say: “Missing medication can delay recovery”
Not: “You are careless”
👉
8. Involve family & team
Work together to solve problems.
Example:
Family helps convince patient to follow diet plan.
👉
10. Active listening
Show you’re paying attention (nodding, eye contact).
Example:
Repeat: “So you’re worried about the pain, right?”
👉
11. Be respectful & calm
Respect patient’s feelings and choices.
Example:
Even if patient refuses treatment, respond politely.
⚠️ Preventing conflict
👉
12. Understand patient needs & feelings
Know what is bothering them.
Example:
Patient is angry because of pain, not the nurse.
👉
13. Plan ahead
Identify problems early and prevent them.
Example:
Give pain medicine before pain becomes severe.
👉
14. Work as a team
Nurses + doctors + staff work together.
Example:
Discuss patient care plan in team meetings.
👉
15. Maintain professionalism
Be respectful with colleagues.
Example:
No gossip or rude behavior at work.
👉
16. Manage personal stress
Stress can affect behavior.
Example:
A tired nurse may become impatient → needs rest or stress management
Chapter 4
📈 Physical changes
Learns to sit, stand, walk
Weight becomes 3 times the birth weight
Height increases about 50%
Example:
A baby who cannot sit at birth → sits by 6 months → walks near 1 year.
👉
A baby cries → mother hugs → baby feels safe and stops crying.
If these needs are met → baby grows healthy emotionally.
😢
A child admitted in hospital without mother:
😶
First cries loudly
Then becomes silent and doesn’t respond
👶 Infant Care
🧠 1. How infants communicate
👉 Babies cannot talk, so they express needs by:
Crying
Body movements (restless, kicking, etc.)
Example:
Baby crying → may mean hungry, wet diaper, or pain.
✔️
Baby stops crying after feeding → cause was hunger.
👉
Monitor growth & development
Check if baby is growing normally.
Example:
✔️
If baby is not gaining weight → needs attention.
👉
Respect individuality
Every baby is different.
Example:
✔️
Some babies cry more, some less.
👉
Involve parents
Parents should help in care.
Example:
✔️
Mother holding baby reduces stress.
👉
Provide comfort
🤗
Use soothing methods:
Hugging
Talking softly
Pacifier
Example:
✔️
Nurse gently rocking baby → baby calms down.
👉
Provide good environment
Clean, cheerful surroundings.
Example:
✔️
Bright room with toys.
👉
Give toys
Helps development and happiness.
Example:
❌
Rattle toy improves hand movement.
👉
Avoid force or harsh behavior
Never shout or handle roughly.
❤️ 3. Psychological needs
Children need:
Love & affection
Security
Encouragement
Protection
Discipline
Example:
Praising a child → builds confidence.
👉
A toilet-trained child starts bed-wetting in hospital.
Important: Do NOT punish them.
✔️
Talking kindly to child reduces fear.
👉
Maintain routine
Keep normal schedule (play, food, sleep).
Example:
✔️
Story time before sleep in hospital.
👉
Observe problems
✔️
Identify emotional or physical issues.
👉
Build friendly relationship
Talk at child’s level.
Example:
✔️
Ask: “What is your favorite toy?”
👉
Be patient
✔️
Children take time to cooperate.
👉
Encourage independence
Let child do small tasks.
Example:
Child holds cup while taking medicine.
✔️ Explain procedures simply
👉 Use easy language.
Example:
“This injection will help you get better.”
✔️
“Do you want the red toy or blue toy?” → child feels control.
👉
Praise the child
Appreciate cooperation.
😊
Example:
✔️
“Good job taking your medicine!”
👉
Maintain privacy
Don’t expose child unnecessarily.
Example:
✔️
Cover child during procedures.
👉
Encourage independence
Let child do small tasks.
Example:
✔️
Child eats food by themselves.
👉
Reduce fear & stress
Avoid sudden changes or separation.
Example:
✔️
Let parent stay with child in hospital.
👉
Provide play opportunities
Play helps emotional expression.
Example:
✔️
Drawing or toys help child express anger or fear.
👉
Use play as therapy
Play can reduce stress.
Example:
Storytelling distracts child from pain.
🧠 Important point:
👉 Small children don’t understand illness
They may think:
Illness = punishment
Nurse/doctor caused pain
Example:
Child says: “Nurse hurt me” after injection.
Better coordination
Example:
Child can ride a bicycle, play sports.
🧠 2. Mental development
Can read, write ✍️
Better thinking & problem-solving
Understand instructions
Example:
Child solves simple math problems.
🎯 3. Skills developed
Running, swimming, playing games
Writing and reading
Handling language
❤️ 4. Psychological needs
Love & affection ❤️
Children need:
Security
Belonging (friends, family)
Attention
Encouragement
Discipline
Example:
Teacher praising a child improves confidence.
✔️
Talking kindly to reduce fear.
👉
Guide behavior
Teach what is right in hospital.
Example:
✔️
“Don’t touch this equipment, it’s not safe.”
👉
Explain procedures simply
Use easy language.
Example:
✔️
“This bandage will help your wound heal.”
👉
Encourage independence
Let child participate in care.
Example:
Child holds dressing or drinks medicine.
✔️
“This medicine helps you get better.”
👉
Teach good habits
Teach hygiene and health.
Example:
✔️
Encourage handwashing before eating.
👉
Observe behavior
Watch for emotional problems.
😢
Signs:
Sadness
Withdrawal
Lack of control
Example:
✔️
Child sitting alone and not talking → may be upset.
👉
Check intellectual development
See if child can:
Talk
Read
Solve problems
Example:
✔️
Child solving simple math → normal development.
👉
Encourage participation
Let child help in care.
Example:
✔️
Holding a cup while taking medicine.
👉
Allow play
Play improves learning and happiness.
Example:
✔️
Puzzle games improve thinking.
👉
Be fair and give attention
Every child needs equal care.
🧠 2. Mental development
Better thinking (abstract thinking)
Intelligence reaches peak
Example:
Teen can understand complex ideas (like future planning).
❤️ 3. Emotional changes
Mood swings 😄😡😢
Wants independence
Sensitive and self-conscious
Example:
Teen gets upset quickly or wants privacy.
⚠️ 5. Common behaviors
Confusion and stress
Sometimes lazy, sometimes very active
❤️
Wants to be independent
Psychological needs of adolescents
They need:
Independence
Respect
Identity (who they are)
Guidance in career
Understanding
Example:
Teen wants to choose their own career path.
✔️
Teen asks about body changes → nurse explains calmly.
👉
Explain procedures
Tell how treatment affects them.
Example:
✔️
Explain side effects of medicine.
👉
Involve in decisions
Let them choose when possible.
Example:
✔️
Choosing time for procedure.
👉
Accept emotional behavior
Mood swings are normal.
Example:
Teen crying or getting angry → handle patiently.
🎯 3. Life priorities
👉 Important decisions happen:
Career 💼
Marriage 💍
Children 👶
Example:
Choosing a job or starting a family.
🧠 4. Behavior
👉 More mature and logical thinking
Less emotional, more practical
Adjusts to society
Makes independent decisions
Example:
Handling problems calmly instead of reacting emotionally.
❤️ Psychological needs
Love & relationships ❤️
Adults need:
Independence
Commitment
Recognition (respect)
Example:
A person wants a stable relationship and respect at work.
✔️
Comforting a mother during delivery.
👉
Teach healthy habits
Good nutrition
Sleep
Exercise
Disease prevention
Example:
✔️
Advising about diet and exercise.
👉
Respect individuality
Every adult is different.
Example:
✔️
Some patients want detailed explanations, others don’t.
👉
Explain procedures clearly
Reduces anxiety.
Example:
✔️
Explaining surgery steps.
👉
Help solve problems
✔️
Support decision-making.
👉
Encourage independence
Let patient care for themselves when possible.
Example:
Patient managing their own medication.
❤️
A 50-year-old notices wrinkles and reduced strength.
👉
2. Body system changes
Heart becomes less efficient.
Example:
🧠
Gets tired faster during physical activity.
👉
3. General idea
Aging changes start slowly and become noticeable.
📉 1. Physical changes
Arteries become narrow → heart problems ❤️
Cholesterol increases
Blood pressure increases
Example:
A 45-year-old develops high BP or cholesterol.
🔥
Symptoms:
Hot flashes
Sweating
Mood changes
Headache
Example:
A woman feels sudden heat and sweating at night.
👨 In men:
Gradual decrease in testosterone
Reduced energy or strength
🧠 3. Psychological needs
Need for respect/status in society
Adjusting to children becoming independent
Managing family responsibilities
Example:
Parents guiding children’s career or marriage.
✔️
Cancer
👉
Reduce anxiety
Explain hospital procedures clearly.
Example:
✔️
Explaining surgery reduces fear.
👉
Support family-related stress
✔️
Help with worries about job, family, etc.
👉
Promote independence
Encourage self-care.
👴👵 Old Age / Late Adulthood (60+ years)
📉 1. Physical changes
Weak eyesight 👓
Hearing problems 👂
Slow movement
Weak muscles
Example:
An elderly person walks slowly and needs glasses.
🧠 2. Mental changes
Memory decreases
Slower thinking
Difficulty learning new things
Example:
Forgetting names or instructions.
❤️ 3. Health problems
Common issues:
Heart disease
Arthritis
Cancer
Vision/hearing loss
💬 4. Special needs
Need more light to see
Need instructions repeated
Prefer written instructions
Example:
Doctor writes instructions because patient forgets easily.
⚠️ 5. Emotional issues
Stress
Depression
Loneliness
Signs:
Irritability
Insomnia
👩⚕️
Sadness
✔️
Role of Nurse (Old age)
👉
Observe health carefully
✔️
Identify early problems.
👉
Provide clear communication
Speak slowly, repeat if needed.
Example:
✔️
Repeat medicine instructions.
👉
Teach disease prevention
Early diagnosis is important.
✔️ Encourage independence
👉 Let them do what they can.
Example:
Walking with support instead of complete bed rest.
⚠️
.
👉
3. End-of-life care
Some elderly may be terminally ill.
Allow them to express feelings
Provide comfort and support
Example:
Patient talks about fear of death → nurse listens calmly.
🦴 5. Prevent complications
Bedsores can develop quickly
Need movement/exercise
Example:
Changing position of bedridden patient regularly.
🛡️ 9. Ensure safety
👉 Protect from:
Falls
Injuries
Example:
Using side rails on bed to prevent falling.
👨👩👧
Help children develop properly
👉
Example:
A child crying excessively → psychologist finds cause (fear, anxiety, etc.)
✔️
Keeping child comfortable in hospital.
👉 ❤️
Meet physical & emotional needs
✔️
Food, care + love
👉
Observe development
✔️
Identify delays or problems
👉
Support parents
Guide them in child care
Example:
✔️
Keep harmful objects away from children.
👉
Educate about development
✔️
Help parents understand growth stages.
👉
Train teachers
✔️
Identify problems early in school.
Teach good parenting
❤️
Good parenting includes:
⏰
Showing love
Having routines
Ensuring safety
Using discipline without harshness
Example:
✔️
Instead of shouting, explain calmly.
👉
Community education
Spread awareness using:
Posters
Videos
Programs
Example:
Campaign on child mental health.
Example:
Parents of a child with disability feel sad → nurse explains how to care and support the child.
👉
2. Promote parent–child bonding
Encourage love and closeness.
Example:
Mother spending time and hugging the child.
👉
3. Guide discipline
Teach correct way to manage child behavior.
Example:
Instead of beating, explain calmly.
👉
4. Provide crisis support
Help during stressful situations.
Example:
Parents shocked after diagnosis → nurse comforts them.
👉
5. Improve family communication
Encourage open talking.
Example:
Family discussing problems instead of fighting.
🤝 Nurse as Coordinator
👉 Works with healthcare team:
Doctor
Psychologist
Social worker
Physiotherapist
Example:
Coordinating treatment plan for a disabled child.
⚠️ Psychology of Challenged (Disabled) Individuals
🧠 1. Emotional reactions
Feels angry 😡
When a person becomes disabled:
💔 2. Behavior changes
Blames others
Withdraws from social life
Feels embarrassed
Example:
Patient avoids going outside due to disability.
⚠️ 3. Loss of interest
Stops taking care of self
Ignores treatment
Example:
Not eating properly or not taking medicine.
🎵
Example:
A blind person learning music and excelling.
🧠 6. Special problems
Blind → needs guidance
Deaf → needs special communication
Example:
Using gestures or writing to communicate with a deaf patient.
✔️
Teaching blind person to use touch and hearing.
👉
Provide communication support
Use:
Gestures
Writing
Demonstration
💬 1. Assertiveness
👉 Many women are taught to put others first and ignore their own needs.
This can cause stress, anxiety, depression
Example:
👉
A mother always cares for family but ignores her own health → feels tired and unhappy.
Nurse helps:
Build confidence
Encourage expressing needs
🪞 2. Body Image
👉 Media (TV, social media) creates unrealistic body standards
Can lead to:
Low self-esteem
Eating disorders
Example:
👉
A girl feels “not good enough” because she compares herself to models.
Nurse helps:
Develop positive body image
😢 3. Depression
👉 Women experience depression more often.
Causes:
Stress
Hormonal changes
Life events (pregnancy, childbirth)
Example:
A woman feels sad and withdrawn after childbirth (postpartum depression).
🤰 4. Teen Pregnancy
👉 Unexpected pregnancy causes:
Emotional stress
Fear about future
Example:
👉
Teen girl worried about studies and family reaction.
Nurse helps:
Explain options
Provide emotional support
⚠️ 5. Infertility
👉 Not being able to have children causes:
Emotional pain
Feeling of loss
Example:
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Woman feels sad because she cannot conceive.
Nurse helps:
Provide counseling and support
🚫 6. Domestic Violence
👉 Includes:
Verbal abuse
Emotional abuse
Physical harm
Effects:
Low self-esteem
Fear
Feeling worthless
Example:
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A woman being insulted or beaten by her partner.
Nurse helps:
Support her emotionally
Guide her to safety
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A victim feeling guilty or ashamed after assault.
Important:
Needs professional psychological help
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People may feel anxiety, fear, anger, denial, or depression when they are sick.
Example:
A patient diagnosed with diabetes may feel scared about lifelong treatment or deny the
diagnosis at first.
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Unhealthy habits
Example:
A factory worker may feel angry thinking their job caused their lung problem.
3. Communication problems
Problems can happen between patients, family, and healthcare staff if:
They don’t understand the illness
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Doctors/nurses don’t explain clearly
Example:
A family gets confused and anxious because no one clearly explains the patient’s condition.
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Patients should be updated about current events and visitors should share news.
Example:
A visitor tells the patient about family updates or local news to keep them mentally active.
5. Maintaining relationships
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Keeping family and friends close is important, especially for children.
Example:
A hospitalized child feels better when parents and friends visit regularly.
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Children feel very anxious if separated from parents.
Example:
A child cries in the hospital when the mother is not around; feels calm when she stays
nearby.
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Ignore advice
Example:
A patient at home may skip medicines because they feel “fine.”
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Long-term illness at home can make families feel isolated and stressed.
Example:
A family caring for a bedridden patient may stop social activities and feel lonely.
When someone is very sick and close to death, different people (the patient, family,
caregivers) may know or not know the truth, and this affects how they behave and
communicate.
1. Closed awareness
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2. Mutual pretense
Everyone knows the truth, but no one talks about it.
Simple meaning:
Patient, family, and caregivers all know death is near.
They pretend everything is normal to avoid sadness.
Example:
A patient knows they are dying.
The family also knows.
But instead of discussing it, they talk about everyday things like food or TV.
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No one says, “I’m scared” or “I might die soon.”
This can feel lonely, because no one shares their true feelings.
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3. Open awareness
Everyone knows and talks openly about the situation.
Simple meaning:
The truth is shared honestly.
People can express feelings and prepare emotionally.
Example:
The doctor tells the patient and family clearly.
The patient says goodbye, shares wishes, and talks about fears.
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The family supports them openly.
This often leads to better emotional support and less confusion.
💡 Quick summary
Closed awareness → Someone doesn’t know
Mutual pretense → Everyone knows but pretends
Open awareness → Everyone knows and talks openly
👉 Everyone knows the patient is dying and talks openly about it.
Simple meaning:
Patient + family + caregivers all know the truth
They discuss feelings, wishes, and plans
Example:
A patient says: “I want to spend my last days at home.”
Family listens and supports them.
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They talk honestly about death and say goodbye.
This helps the patient feel included, understood, and less alone (though it can still be
emotionally hard).
💔 Kübler-Ross: 5 Stages of Grief (very important)
When people face loss (death, illness, etc.), they often go through 5 emotional stages:
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1. Denial
“This can’t be happening.”
Simple meaning:
Shock and disbelief
Mind protects itself from pain
Example:
A person says: “The doctor must be wrong.”
They act like nothing is happening.
😠
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2. Anger
“Why me?”
Simple meaning:
Feeling frustrated, unfairness
Anger at self, others, or even God
Example:
A patient shouts at family or doctors
Says: “This is not fair!”
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3. Bargaining
“If this changes, I will…”
Simple meaning:
Trying to make deals to avoid loss
Hoping to reverse the situation
Example:
“If I get better, I’ll help others every day.”
“God, please save me and I’ll change my life.”
😞
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4. Depression
“I feel very sad and hopeless.”
Simple meaning:
Deep sadness
Realization that loss is real
Example:
Person becomes quiet, cries often
Feels: “Nothing matters anymore.”
🙂
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5. Acceptance
“I understand and accept it.”
Simple meaning:
Peaceful acceptance
Ready to move forward or face reality
Example:
A patient calmly talks about their wishes
Family starts adjusting and supporting each other
💡 Quick Summary
Denial → Not believing
Anger → Feeling unfair/angry
Bargaining → Making deals
Depression → Feeling sad
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Acceptance → Peacefully accepting
Important note:
Not everyone goes through all stages in order.
People may move back and forth between stages.
🙂 Stage V: Acceptance
👉 The person accepts the reality and starts adjusting.
Simple meaning:
They feel calmer
Begin planning life again
Understand the loss cannot be changed
Common thoughts:
“It will be okay”
“I will move forward”
Example:
A widow starts managing life independently
Slowly reconnects with friends and routines
🧠 Important point
👉 People do not go through stages in order
👉 They may move back and forth between stages
⚰️ Mourning
👉 Mourning = how people express grief after death
Simple meaning:
After someone dies, family and friends feel sadness and loss
People may hide feelings or try to stay strong
Example:
A family acts calm in public but cries in private
Some avoid talking about the person who died
😔 Effects of grief
👉 Sometimes grief can become serious
Examples:
A person becomes very isolated and depressed
Feels anger toward others
Cannot return to normal life
💡 Quick Summary
Depression → Deep sadness
Acceptance → Peace and adjustment
Mourning → Expressing grief
Healthy coping → Accept, feel, adjust, move on