COURSE: VAL01– UNDERSTANDING THE SELF

THE PHYSICAL AND SEXUAL SELF

A. Explain why it is essential to understand the self .

B. Discuss the different notions of the self from the points of view of the
various philosophers across time and place .
C. Compare and contrast how the self has been represented in
different philosophical schools .

Guide Questions:
1. Which changes during puberty have you noticed in
yourself or others?
2. Why is understanding sexual health important during
Introduction adolescence?

As human beings, one of the first things we notice about ourselves is our physical body—how we look,
how we grow, and how our bodies change across time. These changes are natural, expected, and deeply
connected to who we are becoming. Alongside these physical transformations is the unfolding of our
sexual self, which includes how we understand our sexuality, our reproductive health, and how we
experience attraction and intimacy.

In this module, we'll explore the physical and sexual aspects of the self in a way that is respectful,
informative, and grounded in science. Think of this chapter as a gentle conversation—like sitting down
with a teacher who guides you through understanding your own development and identity with clarity
and confidence.

Understanding Physical Development

Why Do I Look the Way I Do?

Our physical features—our height, facial structure, skin tone, and even
the way we smile—are shaped largely by genetics. Simply put, we look
the way we do because of the biological traits passed down from our
parents.

But beyond appearance, our bodies also undergo major biological

changes during adolescence, especially during puberty.

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Puberty: A Time of Rapid Change

Puberty is the stage when your body begins to mature sexually and prepares for adulthood. It involves
physical, emotional, and hormonal changes.

Key points about puberty:

It marks the start of sexual maturation and fertility.

For girls, puberty usually occurs between 10–14 years old.

For boys, puberty commonly occurs around 12–16 years old.

Both environmental and genetic factors influence when puberty begins.

Body composition, especially body fat, may affect puberty’s timing.

Emotional changes—mood swings, increased sensitivity—are common and normal.

Girls usually show the first sign of puberty through breast development.

Some medical conditions may appear or become noticeable during puberty.

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Health of the Reproductive System

Our reproductive system can be affected by various health conditions. These may come from hormonal
problems, infections, congenital issues, or unknown causes.

Genetic and Congenital Conditions

In Males

• Some males may be born with underdeveloped reproductive organs or cysts in the
prostate or seminal vesicles.

• Conditions such as hypospadias (a urethral defect) or pseudo-hermaphroditism may

appear.

• Cysts may cause urinary problems if they press on the bladder.

In Females

• The female external genitalia may also have congenital variations.

• In some cases, the clitoris may be absent or enlarged.

• The labia minora may fuse, which can cause difficulty in urination and increase
infection risk.

Pleasure, Attraction, and Human Sexuality

Understanding sexuality includes recognizing how our bodies respond to touch, attraction, and intimacy.

Erogenous Zones

These are areas of the body that respond strongly to touch due to a high concentration of nerve endings.
While the genitals are the most well-known, other areas (neck, ears, lips, etc.) can also trigger pleasure.

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Human Sexuality

“Human sexuality” refers to how individuals experience and express themselves as sexual beings. It
involves:

Attraction
Sometimes, when we talk about the Physical and Sexual
Self, it helps to understand how certain experiences shape
Pleasure
the way we connect with others. Let’s talk through these
ideas in a simple, relatable way.
Intimacy
You know that feeling when someone just naturally draws
Gender identity your attention? Maybe it’s the way they smile, how they talk,
or simply the energy they give off. That’s attraction — a kind
Sexual orientation of pull that your mind or heart recognizes even before you
fully understand why.
Emotional connection And then there’s pleasure, which is all about the moments
that make you feel good, comforted, or at ease. It can be
something as simple as a warm hug from someone you trust, laughing with a friend, or feeling calm when
someone holds your hand. These small, positive moments shape how we understand our bodies and
our emotions.

As we grow closer to certain people, we start experiencing intimacy. This isn’t just about physical
closeness — it can be the quiet trust that builds when you share your fears, your secrets, or your dreams
with someone who truly listens. Intimacy is that deep sense of “I’m safe here,” whether it’s with a friend,
a family member, or a partner.

Now, let’s talk about gender identity. This is something personal — it’s the way you understand yourself
deep inside. It’s that inner sense of being male, female, both, neither, or somewhere else entirely. And
what’s important is that only you can define that feeling. For example, some people grow up knowing
that the gender assigned to them at birth doesn’t match how they really feel inside — and that realization
is part of understanding their true self.

Along with this is sexual orientation, which is all about who you’re drawn to emotionally, romantically,
or physically. Some people find themselves developing feelings for the opposite sex, others for the same
sex, and some for more than one gender. It’s simply the pattern of who your heart tends to lean toward.

And finally, think about those rare connections where someone just “gets” you — where you don’t have
to pretend, and you feel understood without saying much. That’s emotional connection. It forms through
shared experiences, trust, and genuine care. Maybe it’s your best friend who comforts you when you’re
stressed, or someone who celebrates your small victories with real excitement.
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All of these — attraction, pleasure, intimacy, gender identity, sexual orientation, and emotional
connection — help shape how we relate to ourselves and others. They make our relationships richer,
more meaningful, and more human.

Sexuality is different from biological sex, which refers to anatomical and genetic traits (male, female,
intersex), and from gender identity, which is how one sees themselves.

The Human Sexual Response

Understanding how the body responds to sexual stimulation helps us better understand intimacy,
relationships, and reproductive health.

Masters and Johnson’s Model (1966)

When Masters and Johnson described how human
sexual response works, they broke it down into
1. Excitement – beginnings of arousal
stages that flow naturally from one to the next —
almost like a storyline of how the body reacts
2. Plateau – heightened arousal during moments of intimacy.

3. Orgasm – peak of sexual pleasure It all begins with the excitement phase.
This is the moment when arousal starts to build
4. Resolution – return to a relaxed state — maybe from touch, closeness, or simply
emotional connection. You might think of it as the
“something is happening” stage, where the body begins to prepare for deeper sexual response.

Then things move into the plateau stage.

Here, arousal doesn’t just start — it intensifies. Everything happening in the body becomes heightened.
It’s the point where sensations become stronger, breathing changes, and the body is gearing up toward
its peak.

Next comes the orgasm stage.

This is the climax of sexual pleasure — the release of all the built-up tension and arousal. It’s quick,
powerful, and often described as the most intense part of the experience.

Finally, there’s the resolution stage.

After everything peaks, the body slowly settles back into relaxation. Muscles loosen, breathing calms,
and the body returns to its normal state. It’s the “winding down” after an intense experience.

Imagine your sexual response like a story with three

Kaplan’s Three-Stage Model (1979)
chapters. Helen Kaplan, a researcher in human
sexuality, proposed a model in 1979 that simplifies the 1. Desire – wanting and readiness
complex process into three main stages: Desire,
Excitement, and Orgasm. Here’s how it works in 2. Excitement – physical arousal
everyday terms:
3. Orgasm – release of sexual tension

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1. Desire – Wanting and Readiness

Think of this as the “spark” stage. Desire is when someone feels interest or attraction, both physically
and emotionally. It’s about wanting to be intimate or connect with a partner—or even exploring your own
body in self-awareness.

Example:
Maria notices she feels close and emotionally connected to her partner after a romantic evening. She
starts thinking about being intimate and feels emotionally ready. That feeling of wanting and being
ready is the desire stage.

Key point: Desire isn’t just physical—it also involves your thoughts, feelings, and emotional readiness.

2. Excitement – Physical Arousal

Once desire is present, the body starts responding. This stage involves physical changes like a faster
heartbeat, increased blood flow to sexual organs, flushed skin, and other signs of arousal. It’s the body
physically gearing up for intimacy.

Example:
During a romantic hug or kiss, Maria feels her heart racing, her palms getting sweaty, and a tingling
sensation in her body. Her body is reacting and becoming physically aroused, even before any sexual
activity happens.

Key point: Excitement is the body’s natural response to sexual desire. It’s normal and varies for everyone.

3. Orgasm – Release of Sexual Tension

The final stage is orgasm. This is when sexual tension that has been building up is released, and the
body experiences pleasure. Orgasms can involve rhythmic muscle contractions, intense sensations, and
emotional release.

Example:
If Maria and her partner continue their intimate activity, eventually she reaches a peak of pleasure where
her body releases the tension that has built up. Afterward, she feels a sense of relief, satisfaction, and
relaxation.

Key point: Orgasm is not the only goal of intimacy—it’s a natural part of the process, but emotional
connection and mutual consent are just as important.

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Sexual Problems and Sexual Dysfunction

Sexual dysfunction involves difficulties during any stage of the sexual response cycle.

Categories of Sexual Dysfunction

Desire disorders – low interest in sex

Arousal disorders – difficulty becoming physically aroused

Orgasm disorders – delayed or absent climax

Pain disorders – pain during intercourse

Common Symptoms

In Men:

Difficulty getting or maintaining an erection

Delayed, absent, or premature ejaculation

In Women:
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Difficulty achieving orgasm

Low lubrication

Vaginal muscle tightness

In Both:

Low sexual desire

Inability to become aroused

Pain during sex

Doctors’ Circle World’s Largest Health Platform. (2021, July 31). Sexual Dysfunction & Disorders in Women |
Causes, symptoms & treatment - Dr. Regina Joseph [Video].
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Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs/STIs) Guide Questions:

STDs are infections passed primarily through sexual contact, 1. What are common misconceptions
about STDs that you think students
though some can also spread through needles, from mother to should be aware of?
child, or skin-to-skin contact.

Common Symptoms

In Men

Pain during urination or sex

Sores and rashes on genital areas

Unusual penile discharge

Swollen testicles

In Women

Itching or discomfort

Pain during sex or urination

Unusual vaginal discharge

Sores or rashes

Types of STDs

Below are the most common STDs and key facts about them:

1. Chlamydia

Caused by bacteria
Often symptomless
Can lead to infertility if untreated
Easily treated with antibiotics
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2. HPV (Human Papillomavirus)

Spread through sexual or skin-to-skin contact

Can cause genital warts
Some strains cause cancer
Vaccine available

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should-know

Caused by bacteria
Begins with a painless sore
Can be fatal if untreated
Treatable with antibiotics

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4. HIV

Attacks the immune system

May show flu-like symptoms
No cure, but treatment allows long life
Early testing is important

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5. Gonorrhea

Bacterial infection
May cause discharge and pain
Can lead to infertility if untreated

What Gonorrhea Looks Like (Pictured) - Public Health

6. Pubic Lice (“Crabs”)

Tiny insects living in pubic hair

Cause itching and small bumps
Spread by close contact or shared items

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treatment

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7. Trichomoniasis

Caused by a protozoan parasite

Can cause itching, discharge, and discomfort
Treatable with medication

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The Sexual Self and Identity

Understanding the sexual self also means understanding the Guide Questions:
terms we use when we talk about identity and attraction. 1. How do biological sex and gender
identity differ?
Sex
2. How does society influence the way
we see our physical selves?
Biological characteristics that categorize people as male,
female, or intersex.

Gender

Social or cultural roles connected to being masculine, feminine, both, or neither.

Sexual Orientation

Describes who someone is romantically or sexually attracted to.

Types include:
1. Heterosexual (attracted to the opposite sex)
2. Homosexual (gay or lesbian)
3. Bisexual (attracted to both sexes)
4. Pansexual (attracted regardless of gender)
5. Asexual (little or no sexual attraction)

Gender Identity

How a person personally experiences their gender.

Types include:
1. Cisgender – identity matches assigned sex at birth

2. Transgender – identity differs from assigned sex

3. Agender – identifies with no gender

4. Non-binary – does not identify strictly as male or female

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Summarize

As we grow up, one of the first things we learn to understand is our own body—how it looks, how it
changes, and how those changes shape who we are becoming. Puberty brings a whirlwind of physical
and emotional shifts, and alongside that, we start discovering our sexual self: what attracts us, what
brings us comfort or pleasure, how we build trust and intimacy, and how we understand our identity and
who we’re drawn to. Learning about sexuality also means getting to know how the body responds during
moments of closeness, why some people experience challenges like low desire or difficulty with arousal,
and how to protect ourselves from infections that can affect our reproductive health. And throughout all
these experiences, we slowly piece together important parts of ourselves—our biological sex, our gender
identity, our sexual orientation, and the kinds of emotional connections that make us feel seen and
understood. All of these layers work together to help us know ourselves more deeply and build healthier,
more meaningful relationships with others.

REFLECT

Think about your own physical and sexual development.

How has understanding these changes helped you feel more confident or comfortable with
yourself?

Write a brief reflection (5–7 sentences) describing what you’ve learned about your physical
or sexual self.

REAL-LIFE SCENARIO

Ana is 14 years old and recently started experiencing rapid physical and emotional changes.
She feels confused about her mood swings and is embarrassed to ask questions about
puberty. Meanwhile, her friend Mark noticed early signs of puberty at age 10 and worries
something might be wrong with him because he developed earlier than others.

If you were their friend, how would you help them understand that their experiences are
normal?
Write your answer in 5–10 sentences.

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WRAP-UP QUESTIONS

1. What are the major stages of sexual response according to Masters and Johnson?

2. What makes STDs dangerous even when they show no symptoms?

3. How are sexual orientation and gender identity different?

4. Why is it important to learn correct information about reproductive health?

5. What can you do to protect and take care of your physical and sexual self?

Activity: Exploring the Physical and Sexual Self

Objective: Students will reflect on their physical and sexual development and demonstrate
understanding through self-reflection and scenario analysis.

Instructions:

1. Complete Part A (Self-Reflection) and Part B (Scenario Analysis).

2. Be honest, thoughtful, and thorough in your answers.

3. Submit neatly, either handwritten or typed.

Part A: Self-Reflection

Answer the following (10 points):

1. Describe three physical changes you have experienced as you grew older.

2. How have these changes affected your self-confidence or self-image?

3. What does being aware of your sexual self mean to you?

Part B: Scenario Analysis

Scenario: Maria noticed that her body was changing faster than her peers. She felt awkward and
unsure about how to deal with her new emotions and attractions.

Questions (10 points):

1. What advice would you give Maria about understanding her physical and sexual self?

2. How can she maintain healthy relationships while respecting her boundaries?

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Criteria Excellent (5 Good (4 pts) Satisfactory (3 Needs Poor (1 pt) Points

pts) pts) Improvem
ent (2 pts)

Depth of Provides deep, Reflection is Reflection is Reflection Reflection is 5

Reflection insightful, and clear and basic; some is missing,
(Part A, 5 pts) thorough mostly understanding incomplete irrelevant, or
reflection on thorough; but lacks depth. or incorrect.
physical and minor missing superficial;
sexual self. details. limited
understand
ing.

Clarity & Answers are Mostly clear Somewhat clear; Unclear or Very unclear 5
Organization very clear, and ideas may be poorly or
(Part A, 5 pts) organized, and organized; disorganized. organized; disorganized;
easy to follow. minor lapses hard to incoherent.
in flow. follow.

Scenario Provides Mostly logical Basic advice; Advice is Advice 5

Application thoughtful, and partially applies incomplete, missing,
(Part B, 5 pts) realistic, and reasonable understanding. unclear, or irrelevant, or
well-justified advice; minor superficial. incorrect.
advice. gaps.

Understandin Demonstrates Shows good Shows basic Limited Little or no 5

g & Insight deep understandin understanding; understand understanding
(Part B, 5 pts) understanding g with minor limited ing; weak ; no
of gaps; applied application. application. application.
physical/sexua well.
l self concepts;
applies to
scenario
effectively.

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