Confronting Privilege: A Willamette Anthology
Confronting Privilege: A Willamette Anthology
Celebrating the life and spirit of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther
King Jr.
Willamette University
January 21, 2008
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Introduction
How do we confront privilege? If we do not see it, are not presented with it
on a daily basis, how do we begin to recognize it and dismantle it? On
January 21, 2008, seven Willamette University students took on the task of
discussing these issues on a “privilege panel.” Each devoted time to
discussing six different types of privilege: able-bodied, class, heterosexual,
white, male and Christian. This collection of transcripts, interviews and
reflections were the result of the work and time put forth, by the authors, for
social justice.
Each year, Willamette University spends the last week in January celebrating
and honoring the life and spirit of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Among
the many events on campus, this year featured time devoted to
concentrated group discussions on issues of social justice and diversity.
Gordy Toyama, Office of Multicultural Affairs director and organizer of
Willamette’s Dr. King celebration, gave Willamette Senior and American
Ethnic Studies major Jenne Schmidt the opportunity to put together the
panel.
This anthology hopes to answer the questions posed above, much as the
panel did in January. By understanding and knowing the privilege in our
everyday lives, we are better equipped to not only engage issues of social
justice, but also become active in working for an equitable and just society. It
is important to realize that no one lives outside the systems of privilege and
oppression in our society. Nor do these six identities exist isolated or
separate from one another. As Patricia Hill Collins notes, our various
identities collide and intersect to create a matrix where privilege and/or
oppression operate simultaneously. This privilege can be received in multiple
ways and on multiple levels—individually, culturally, institutionally and
systematically.
My hope is that this anthology will inspire further research. I hope that it will
be marked, annotated and commented on. I hope that it will be photo
copied, emailed, and forwarded to friends, family, coworkers, naysayers,
passersby, and loved ones. I hope that it will be reflected upon, shared and
discussed. I hope that it will be read with an engaging heart and an open
mind. I hope that after reading through, this will inspire action. Knowledge is
worth little if we fail to apply it. To achieve a just society, we must become
activists where knowledge, love and compassion are the foundation of our
inspiration and motivation to achieve progressive and equitable change.
Read, grow, love, act.
-Tristan Knutson-Lombardo
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How can someone take this privilege, or the knowledge of it, and
turn it into activism?
Be aware of the fact that our campus is not accessible and there needs to be
change. If you don't believe it just look at how wheelchair accessible our
campus is. How many automatic doors are there? How many elevators are
there? Ramps into buildings? If you don't see it then…well, I don't know what
to tell people besides to just look at our campus and imagine if you were
disabled in some form or fashion.
inaccessibility. After having surgery on my shoulder and knees and not being
able to open doors or needing a ramp to get into places it made it painfully
obvious how inaccessible a majority of places are.
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That conversation took place over our family room table but it was part of
something much larger and was actually a function of social class. The
changes that my mother made were about knowing how to use the right
language, which is in many ways almost like a code. Social class is more
intricate than the money one has in his or her pocket. Just like other aspects
of privilege, systems of class power and privilege need to be made visible
and individuals must strive to interrogate their own identities for a more
complete understanding of their own personal privilege.
I am not making a profound observation here. Articles and news stories have
long been written about social class mobility (or lack thereof) and its
tendency to repeat itself but the ratio of the incoming class is certainly not
representative of a cross-section of the general public. However, this reality
is (perhaps) uniquely amplified at Willamette and maybe it is to be expected.
Willamette sends a large amount of students to grad school and the tuition
(even with financial aid) is quite high. Many of these students are probably
continuing on the same track as their parents. Regardless, it raises important
issues when considering what kind of community exists at Willamette.
students typically fall into but it also shapes the connections families have,
the neighborhoods they grew up in, and their own goals or their families’
expectations. The notion that one should explore, grow, and search out true
passion is seldom a reality for most. First generation college students often
see college as more of a route to a carrier. They are frequently not allowed
the enjoyment of exploration, as many in our liberal arts bubble do.
America is premised on the “American Dream,” but social class inequality will
continue to reproduce itself if never confronted; in this way it makes it one of
the hardest systems of privilege to confront. Understanding class privilege as
a set of unearned advantages is in direct conflict with the American notion of
a “meritocracy.” My parents both worked hard to provide me with wonderful
opportunities (one being my Willamette education) and that is not a bad
thing.
I had a dream…
Growing up, I used to have a dream, one where I would meet a beautiful,
young woman. We would start to date, maybe walk down the street holding
hands or show affection when we felt appropriate. And when the relationship
became seriousness enough, we would make it official on Facebook. My
relationship status would no longer say “single” and my profile picture would
feature us embracing or affectionate. We would probably end up getting
married, perhaps have a couple of kids, maybe adopt. In case of a life-
threatening emergency, I know I’ll not only be able to have full say in the
decisions that will affect whether my partner lives or not, but I will also be
given full access to information as legally recognized family.
But I have come to realize that this dream is really a privilege, one that
many, myself included, take for granted. Heterosexual privilege, like so many
of the others we have discussed today, is something that I have never been
challenged to reflect upon, act against, or work to change. Considering that I
never have to reflect upon this privilege, however, is significant because it is
manifested in my daily interactions with people.
In addition, I’ve come to realize that it hasn’t just been privilege that I’ve
received because of my sexuality. I’ve also lost some good friends and seen
others suffer. One of my favorite high school teachers is a lesbian. I had
gotten to know her pretty well and during my senior year discovered that she
was going to get married. While I new that I would miss her, since she and
her partner would have to move to Massachusetts in order to get married, I
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was extremely excited for her as well. Her relationship, however, fell apart
for reasons I still don’t know to this day. But what really stuck with me was
how something that I have always assumed as the normal trajectory of life,
getting married, did not quite mean the same thing for my high school
teacher as it did for me. While we both recognized the life-long commitment
that marriage denotes, it had always been something I would eventually just
check off my “to do” list of life. For my teacher, however, it was a significant
change in life. She was going to have to literally move across an entire
continent, leave everything and everyone she has known in Juneau, Alaska,
to get the same access to citizenship that I had taken for granted. For me, I
could be drunk in Las Vegas and accidentally get hitched, or walk down to
city hall, pay my fee, sign my paper, and I would never have to worry about
being denied medical information about my significant other, trying to adopt
a child, or the myriad of other benefits granted to heterosexual, married
couples.
So why does this all matter? Why bother sharing fantasies or telling personal
anecdotes? Because for me, knowledge has been empowering. If I want to
continue to struggle for social justice, be in relation with those who fight the
same battle, I have to understand how I fit into the picture. I am not outside
of the structures and systems that work to shape society. Yes, I do receive a
lot of privilege in my life, privilege that is unwarranted yet a birthright at the
same time. But my knowledge of this privilege has begun a life-long process
of reflection, and this reflection has lead to action. Just like when we were
kids, and someone cheats during a game of Shoots and Ladders, we didn’t
stand for it. So why do we stand for privilege that is unearned? When
someone cheats in a board game, everyone hurts. The points are unmerited
and it’s an unfair advantage.
My heterosexual privilege is unearned. I didn’t ask for it, yet I still receive it,
and it hurts my friends, it hurts myself, and it hurts my relationship with
others. But using my knowledge to actively work for social justice is re-
humanizing. It’s important work and it allows me to communicate with others
as to why I stay at the table—to engage and actively work to dismantle
injustice in a community that should value the worth of each member.
Perhaps I should take a step back. I’m Larkin, I’m white, and I think that
makes me a racist. I’m not a racist by choice. I didn’t know I was racist until
a little over a year ago. I’m not a member of the Klan, I avoid racial slurs, I
don’t consciously hate on People of Color, and I grew up being taught to be
colorblind. But at the same time I leaned colorblindness, I learned every
stereotype and racial profile in the books. I learned to be a modern racist,
hiding under the cover of a colorblind society. I’m here today to talk about
white privilege, how I discovered it, how it affects my life, how it feeds me
into a racist system and potentially takes over my identity. And finally, how I
have a choice to use it as an anti-oppression tool, or to ignore it and
perpetuate injustice.
So let’s start from square one. I believe that as a white race, we don’t think
about the fact that we have a race, that we have a people, that we have a
culture. We don’t think about how our race affects others, how this part of
our identity that has become so invisible and perhaps hasn’t caused more
than a moment’s thought is perhaps what determines or guides most of our
lives. The white race is something that people in the United States,
historically, have wanted to become or fought to be members of because of
the power and status it births. It is an exclusive category, mistaken to be
biological and has been and is used as a tool to oppress others and establish
rank.
I just threw a lot of information in the room, and I know that all of us may not
be on the same page. So without giving us a three day lecture on the history
of race in this country and in the world, I’ll bring it back to specific ways that
I see white privilege, white dominance, in the U.S. I don’t have statistics
because I think many of us are wary of statistical information used as truth,
but I’ll pose a few ideas as to what examples we have of areas in which white
people are overrepresented or hold power, the ways we have privilege: the
media, politics, pop culture, Willamette. I don’t want to create a list for you,
because that’s already been done and that is something for each individual
to discover. Check out the Peggy Macintosh article in the pamphlet which
Jenne provided—it goes through things like having no trouble finding white
friends, finding bandaids of my skin color in the store, seeing white faces all
over the media and in children’s books, and I think the most important kernel
I’ve discovered on my own is that I never have to think about it. Our systems
and institutions are racially discriminating in this country, in my favor, and I
never have to claim that. And this system only works if white people
continue to be colorblind, continue to ignore the significance of race,
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So, I’m Larkin, I’m white, I’m racist by a process of identity making that
begins at birth in our country, but I’m anti-racist by choice and self-
identification. And, my dream is that that part is becoming more powerful.
Thanks.
So when I told a good friend of mine that I was asked to be the “male
privilege specialist” for this panel, he laughed a little and said something
like, “Ha, that’s kind of funny, since you’re hardly the picture of stereotypical
masculinity.” Which is funny because it’s absolutely true. I am not the most
butch, masculine man I know, and I quit trying to be a long time ago. And I
felt kind of the same way for a long time – I mean, I’m gay, so I don’t have
male privilege, right?
For a long time, if I had thought about male privilege at all – which I wouldn’t
have thought about in those terms, but if I had – I would have related it to a
very personal level: power dynamics in relationships between men and
women. And so I felt like I was exempt from that since, you know, I have
relationships with other men. Additionally, I thought, our society is so
heterosexist, that I face a lot of kinds of oppression that straight men don’t.
And in some ways that is true – to prepare for this panel I was reading
through the “male privilege checklist” that’s in your packets, and there are
several things listed that don’t resonate with me, because of my experiences
living in a heterosexist world.
But as Jenne was saying, privilege operates on a lot of levels, in really subtle
ways. The fact still remains that I have been socialized my whole life as a
man, and people relate to me in society as a man, so therefore I have male
privilege. I have been raised and treated in ways my whole life that are
designed to make me feel more confident and comfortable and powerful in
all kinds of situations. My male privilege makes my living and being in the
world easier than that of people who aren’t “men.”
One of the most telling examples I’ve ever experienced of male privilege
was, somewhat ironically, in a class I took on feminism. There were 3 men in
the class and probably 10 or 12 women. So men were definitely in the
minority, but the three of us still dominated the conversations in class to a
considerable extent, sharing our opinions all of the time and steering the
discussions in directions that we were interested in. That class made it really
clear to me how men are socialized to believe that our opinions matter and
our voices deserve to be heard, even in a setting where we should be able to
see that we have more to learn than to say. I’m positive that none of us
meant to be overbearing or control the discussion, but that sort of privilege
was so ingrained in how we were used to relating to the world that it seemed
perfectly natural.
where I’m forced to confront my privilege, and then using that perspective of
privilege to look at what’s happening. For example, I live with three amazing
women, and being able to get close to them has really helped me see how
my male privilege has made me relate to the world differently. Like for
example, I have a very different sense of safety and danger than they do,
which I think is in very large part the result of being a man who has been told
all my life that I’ll be safe if I walk alone at night. For me, confronting
privilege involves trying, in a respectful and humble way, to become aware
of how others experience the world, and then being open to seeing how and
why others’ experiences are different from my own. And as I said, that
involves a lot of thinking and even more listening.
I wish I could say that I’ve figured out my male privilege and I have it all
under control, but that would be a total lie. I haven’t, and I doubt I ever will,
which is exactly the way it should be. So my process of dealing with my
privilege and working on how to integrate that into my understanding of my
life and the work that I want to do in the world is very much an on-going
process. One aspect of my privilege is the ability to point out incidences of
sexism with much less risk of being labeled a radical or a feminazi, which is
one of the few good ways I’ve been able to “use” my privilege for social
justice. At the same time, though, part of being a good ally and working
against my privilege requires me to think much more critically about
situations where it isn’t appropriate for my voice to be the one pointing out
oppression, which is something I continue to work on. To me, being a good
ally first and foremost means being humble, recognizing that I still have a lot
to learn and a lot to grow on. Which for me means acknowledging that my
gay identity doesn’t mean I automatically get it. And being a strong ally
means really committing myself to that learning and growth, to working on
being a strong ally every day, all of the time, and not only when it is
convenient for me or when I feel up to it. It’s difficult and it’s tiring and
sometimes, more often than I’d like to admit, I want to quit. Which, you
know, I could – that’s part of my privilege. But this work is also really
empowering. It’s improved my relationships with people I care about, and
made me feel like I really understand the world better, and can make it
better. And it’s important work to be done. So it’s worth it.
I think I also talked about how another piece of the puzzle is that Christian
privilege is really institutionalized. I mean we can see how white privilege is
institutionalized but there is not an institution of whiteness itself, but since
the church is really an institution, it adds an element of invisibility to what's
going on.
How else do you see Christian privilege operating in your life? The
greater society?
I think that if you look around it's not that hard to see that the church has
basically jumped into bed with the American government (and many other
countries as well, I'm not trying to make the American church the only
culprit) which has led to the myriad of ways in which the government works
to act in the best interest of the church. And while the Christian church
certainly has a diverse body of membership (and actually statistically getting
more diverse), those in charge are still almost always straight white men,
especially at that level. Think of the spiritual leaders who get invited to
Washington - there's not exactly a plethora of women of color who have the
president's ear about this stuff. And when People of Color do get national
attention for leading the church, it's usually a critique of how radical they
are... just look at what happened with Obama's pastor Rev. Wright. He
acknowledges racism in the church and all of a sudden everyone connected
him to being anti-American.
I'm still not at a place where I really have good feelings toward the church
and I honestly don't foresee ever really feeling like that again (although I
want to believe it's possible). But, thinking through issues like Christian
privilege at least allows me or forces me to acknowledge where I am
struggling with the church, and creates space for me to do some "freedom
dreaming" about what I want to see happen in the church or what kind of
faith community I would feel good about.
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Postscript
Thank you for taking the time to read through this anthology. I hope that it
was introspective, inspiring, and worthwhile. I hope that this will inspire more
research and discovery, within and with others. As the next engaging heart
and open mind is getting ready to read through, I’ll end with several
questions that might further a commitment to social justice:
How do we take this knowledge and turn it into compassion and action?
What role does love and community have when discovering privilege?
What does your dream for liberation and social justice look like?